So, I kind of have a dilemma. Well I'm not sure whats going on with me. Anyways, I've kinda decided to stop "labeling" myself as bi-curious and just stick with / admit to being Bi. Seems like such a little thing but it's kinda giving me grief. Anybody have input on why or what (if any) difference this would have? It seems like it's just different terminology.
So, some background info...
I'm 28 year old man married to a woman with 2 little kids. She knows that I have an interest in men. She says she doesn't care as long as nothing physical happens. Now, I kinda don't think that she understands the scope of my interest.
I've never played around with a guy. Although I've kinda always wanted to. This is part of why I went with curious for so long, since I've actually never experienced anything. However, I've kinda come to terms with that is more than that. (i.e. you don't have to actually have sex to be attracted to and be straight/gay.)
I also kind of have decided to tell her about going officially Bi. However, I'm not 100% sure how she's gonna take it. But since it's not really that big of a difference, why does it seem like it is? I'm just overthinking things maybe. So I can see 1~ She accepts it and doesn't care. Everything is "normal". 2~ Freaks out and bad stuff happens with my family. or 3~ (my favorite prospect) She embraces it and maybe opens up to letting me play a bit.
Anyways, sorry for the long story. Just a little confused and stressed about this. Even if I don't think I should be. Bi vs Bi-curious just is mostly the same in ways. UGH...
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