Can Anyone Verify That Drew did die?

[NjbiGuy01]

For whatever the reason the flames are counter productive to the discussion. Perhaps you should start a NJBI and POLE insult war thread for all of us to follow. Might be entertaining, or not.
Anyway never conversed with Drew and sad to hear of his or anyone s passing. The real value here is the domain itself. There can only be one bisexual. Com and it is registered until Jan 2018. That domain can be purchased and turned into anything the new owner wants. This Web site is only stored on a server or two and whoever purchases the domain can pull the plug. Then we will all try to sign on one day and all that we are enjoying will be gone forever.
Enjoy it while you can.

Honestly, it's a pretty sad suggestion that we actually need a thread to start bashing particular people. I was a member here long before ass-pole and I minded my own business like many. I started as well as participated with people here in threads and even met some nice people here in person ! I don't think at any point I fought with anyone here in any capacity. I have straight, bi and gay friends and am hardly "homophobic" which I've been accused of by this idiot. I'm an open-minded person, I own a business which works within in the entertainment business. I have no issue dealing with LGBT people or anyone else. I've enjoyed the site for over 7 years before this blight showed up.

I spoke with Drew a few times about helping with the site, but he seemed to want to do it all himself and frankly I think he was overwhelmed. Despite being in touch with his brother, sister in law and Drew, ass-Pole insists on questioning the veracity of my posts about Drew being dead ! What would I gain from fabricating something like this anyway ? Seriously.

I certainly resent (like many of us) that this "super member" found it necessary to litter the forum with his useless and disgusting poles, finds it necessary to bump his own threads (in his mind, to punish us I'm sure) and his constant reaction to anyone who questions him is him calling them "diseased trolls". He acts like he owns the forum and unless and until a new moderator kicks him out, my guess is it will likely continue.

If you look at his post counts, they are through the roof. He posted 8 times as many posts as me, in one year vs eight years...Talk about dominating the forum ! If you look at what those posts are, 99% are trash that he argues that "there are people want to see these pictures and discuss these subjects". A look at the type and number of responses would show you that's hardly true.

Just the fact he posts these "gloat posts" (see his Charlie Sheen posts) where (like a child) he posts these threads purely for attention or his own sad amusement. Yeah, he's got HIV. Yes, it was his own fault. Whether he was bi, gay, an IV drug user, it is what it is and most of the world knows it already so what's the point ? It's bizzarro-world at best. He's either retarded or a pre-pubescent kid who managed to sign up here.

FWIW: I've spoken to Drew's brother who said the site is being marketed for sale. Any e-mails about becoming a moderator (which I discussed with Drew before he passed) were ignored. I suspect he simply wants to sell the sites and have no interest in being involved with these sites at all. Yes, there can only be one bisexual.com. Hope it gets the attention and management it deserves.

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FWIW: I've spoken to Drew's brother who said the site is being marketed for sale. Any e-mails about becoming a moderator (which I discussed with Drew before he passed) were ignored. I suspect he simply wants to sell the sites and have no interest in being involved with these sites at all. Yes, there can only be one bisexual.com. Hope it gets the attention and management it deserves.

Can understand a desire to sell and be done. Agree with you though, the site and what I sense as a vision behind it, ought to be sustained and well. Some ideas, others and I have put forward already. Will not harp as it is up to users I think. Also, I'm in no place financially to drop $100 or more. Ask Darkeyes, I've done some crude maths to suess out a break even. Think I possibly bloggged as much here. So, I agree it'd be a shame to see it gone. Would do if could, not even blinking. Maybe I can get a percent on the firewood sells, hopefully soon enough.

[pepperjack]

im not the type to kiss and tell. i can be as discrete as the next girl. but you all need to know.
ive met him. and his lover.
not the most sophisticated man in the big apple. or the best looking ( looks like Dudley Moore. with adult acne).
rough around the edges. doesn't say please or thank you. doesn't hold doors open for a lady.
but he is intelligent. and makes nice conversation when it isn't all about him.
there are issues there. its in his eyes. and his lover pays him very little attention. very cold between them.
its sad.

For some reason, this doesn't surprise me. I actually feel somewhat vindicated, knowing once again I can trust my intuition. Sometimes respect begets respect; sometimes it begets disrespect, regardless. But quite often, disrespect will beget disrespect.

[pole_smoker]

Honestly, it's a pretty sad suggestion that we actually need a thread to start bashing particular people. I was a member here long before ass-pole and I minded my own business like many. I started as well as participated with people here in threads and even met some nice people here in person ! I don't think at any point I fought with anyone here in any capacity. I have straight, bi and gay friends and am hardly "homophobic" which I've been accused of by this idiot. I'm an open-minded person, I own a business which works within in the entertainment business. I have no issue dealing with LGBT people or anyone else. I've enjoyed the site for over 7 years before this blight showed up.

I spoke with Drew a few times about helping with the site, but he seemed to want to do it all himself and frankly I think he was overwhelmed. Despite being in touch with his brother, sister in law and Drew, ass-Pole insists on questioning the veracity of my posts about Drew being dead ! What would I gain from fabricating something like this anyway ? Seriously.

I certainly resent (like many of us) that this "super member" found it necessary to litter the forum with his useless and disgusting poles, finds it necessary to bump his own threads (in his mind, to punish us I'm sure) and his constant reaction to anyone who questions him is him calling them "diseased trolls". He acts like he owns the forum and unless and until a new moderator kicks him out, my guess is it will likely continue.

If you look at his post counts, they are through the roof. He posted 8 times as many posts as me, in one year vs eight years...Talk about dominating the forum ! If you look at what those posts are, 99% are trash that he argues that "there are people want to see these pictures and discuss these subjects". A look at the type and number of responses would show you that's hardly true.

Just the fact he posts these "gloat posts" (see his Charlie Sheen posts) where (like a child) he posts these threads purely for attention or his own sad amusement. Yeah, he's got HIV. Yes, it was his own fault. Whether he was bi, gay, an IV drug user, it is what it is and most of the world knows it already so what's the point ? It's bizzarro-world at best. He's either retarded or a pre-pubescent kid who managed to sign up here.

FWIW: I've spoken to Drew's brother who said the site is being marketed for sale. Any e-mails about becoming a moderator (which I discussed with Drew before he passed) were ignored. I suspect he simply wants to sell the sites and have no interest in being involved with these sites at all. Yes, there can only be one bisexual.com. Hope it gets the attention and management it deserves.

LMAO!!!!!! More of the usual lies and bullshit from you. You are homophobic and biphobic, and what's all this BS about having friends? You have no friends, and not even your LMAO "wife" who you cheat on and do not love is not your "friend". You also have STDs but lie about it.


Nope, I'm an adult, and I'm extremely intelligent...unlike you.


Posting about Charlie Sheen being bisexual, having HIV, and being addicted to crack are not "gloating" but a fool like you does not even know what that term really means. :rollyes: They're simply facts that anyone who knows anything about him have known for decades.


"Drew" did not give a shit about this site, or about you and your power hungry control freak games where you want to control this site and censor anyone who you do not like. It means fuck all that you joined this site in 2007 or that you do not post as much as myself and others do. Get over yourself chickenshit closet queen.

[pole_smoker]

For some reason, this doesn't surprise me. I actually feel somewhat vindicated, knowing once again I can trust my intuition. Sometimes respect begets respect; sometimes it begets disrespect, regardless. But quite often, disrespect will beget disrespect.

What intuition? Now you're claiming to be a mind reader, and know it all like usual.

"Drew" did nothing to earn respect but did do things that are disrespectful such as not paying an employee of his who he said he would pay, he allowed trolls like BiBedBud and Tenni to keep posting here since they paid for memberships, "Drew" never deleted people's profiles when they requested this or never took the time to simply code in or add in a feature where people who wanted to delete their profile easily could, he ranted on about how his silly Atheism is superior to all religions and spiritualities-which in his foolish mind are responsible for all evil, death, and destruction in the world which is not true- yet failed to learn from world history and the past, and "Drew" also stole money from lots of people here who were foolish enough to pay for memberships to an amateur porn/sex/hook up site for bisexual adults like this one; but then we have people like you who know nothing at all about respect who are extremely disrespectful calling out others as being disrespectful.

Nothing that Fresia or myself have posted about Drew that's truthful and valid is "disrespectful" as he was extremely self-absorbed, as it was obvious to anyone that encountered him.

[pepperjack]

LMAO!!!!!! More of the usual lies and bullshit from you. You are homophobic and biphobic, and what's all this BS about having friends? You have no friends, and not even your LMAO "wife" who you cheat on and do not love is not your "friend". You also have STDs but lie about it.


Nope, I'm an adult, and I'm extremely intelligent...unlike you.


Posting about Charlie Sheen being bisexual, having HIV, and being addicted to crack are not "gloating" but a fool like you does not even know what that term really means. :rollyes: They're simply facts that anyone who knows anything about him have known for decades.


"Drew" did not give a shit about this site, or about you and your power hungry control freak games where you want to control this site and censor anyone who you do not like. It means fuck all that you joined this site in 2007 or that you do not post as much as myself and others do. Get over yourself chickenshit closet queen.

This is hilarious! Someone hit a raw nerve? Feeling the need to be excessively loud, like you're being tuned out, not heard?

[pepperjack]

What intuition? Now you're claiming to be a mind reader, and know it all like usual.

"Drew" did nothing to earn respect but did do things that are disrespectful such as not paying an employee of his who he said he would pay, he allowed trolls like BiBedBud and Tenni to keep posting here since they paid for memberships, "Drew" never deleted people's profiles when they requested this or never took the time to simply code in or add in a feature where people who wanted to delete their profile easily could, he ranted on about how his silly Atheism is superior to all religions and spiritualities-which in his foolish mind are responsible for all evil, death, and destruction in the world which is not true- yet failed to learn from world history and the past, and "Drew" also stole money from lots of people here who were foolish enough to pay for memberships to an amateur porn/sex/hook up site for bisexual adults like this one; but then we have people like you who know nothing at all about respect who are extremely disrespectful calling out others as being disrespectful.

Nothing that Fresia or myself have posted about Drew that's truthful and valid is "disrespectful" as he was extremely self-absorbed, as it was obvious to anyone that encountered him.

Who allowed you out of your strait-jacket you lunatic? And yes, it's the full moon tonite, so that explains it somewhat. It's obvious you can't read with comprehension; you don't have a clue about where I was coming from, you absolutely stupid overreacting sob!

[pole_smoker]

Who allowed you out of your strait-jacket you lunatic? And yes, it's the full moon tonite, so that explains it somewhat. It's obvious you can't read with comprehension; you don't have a clue about where I was coming from, you absolutely stupid overreacting sob!

LMAO!!! You really thought that was overreacting? Fresia and I simply have posted the truth about "Drew" even if people who lick his asshole here want to pretend otherwise. If you really want to see someone that's severely mentally ill and who has rage issuses, and who is a drama queen look at yourself in the mirror pepperjack.

[void()]

Nothing that Fresia or myself have posted
about Drew that's truthful and valid is "disrespectful" as he was
extremely self-absorbed, as it was obvious to anyone that encountered
him.

Truthful or not, it is a long held social grace to not speak ill of the
deceased. This is so much of an ingrained behavior, I at times avoid
saying much if anything regarding someone deserving of much ill talk. My
step father for the prick he was did provide a roof over head, clothes
on backs, food in bellies, doctors when needed.

Is it truthful he knocked me across a large country kitchen when I was
only six years old? Yes. Truthful he raped my mother numerous times?
Yes. Truthful he took any and every opportunity to degrade me, mom, even
to the point of gas lighting and creating such opportunities? Yes.

All that negative truth exists. Positive truth in it exists as well. I
have since grown to manhood and am quite capable of surviving. Part of
that is his responsibility, I faced him and made it through. For all the
hatred that he dealt out to me, mom, his racism, I grew to learn what
unconditional love truly is and means.

People, the same as life itself, change all come as positive and
negative. None of us may choose to accept or take only what we desire.
We need to take it all no matter how it presents to us. The dead have no
reason to care either way. It takes as much energy to lift them up as
to drag them down. Why do either? Fact is fact and people see that for
themselves, people can see the same regarding you, regarding me.

It is a shame you lack maturity enough to comprehend all this. I have
faith in hope and my hope for you is that you will learn in due time. I
have seen many learn, grow, change. Sometimes this is for the better.
Sometimes it's worse. Change, flux like hope remains immortal and
eternal. there never exists a Now, because by the time Now registers
itself, it is Past. All things pass. Even any sting of your words pass.
And excuse me but a goodly amount of gas did pass. That may be my final
opinion of your words, it all passes. It all works out in the end.

[pepperjack]

LMAO!!! You really thought that was overreacting? Fresia and I simply have posted the truth about "Drew" even if people who lick his asshole here want to pretend otherwise. If you really want to see someone that's severely mentally ill and who has rage issuses, and who is a drama queen look at yourself in the mirror pepperjack.

I know it was because my post had nothing to do with you. In your paranoid crazed mind you immediately assumed I was referring to you & even drew Fresnia into it. Did I not say I felt vindicated by her comments ? Now you go look into the mirror you out-of-control nut case!

[pole_smoker]

I know it was because my post had nothing to do with you. In your paranoid crazed mind you immediately assumed I was referring to you & even drew Fresnia into it. Did I not say I felt vindicated by her comments ? Now you go look into the mirror you out-of-control nut case!

LMAO, as usual you're flaming/attacking me and claiming that I'm being paranoid and crazed when you're the one that started it ,and you have rage issues and do get paranoid...but you're a troll.

[allanscott]

Just Sad... rest in pace Drew

[NjbiGuy01]

If this thread hasn't proven the level of madness (and stupidity, see below) that deeply pervades Ass_pole smoker's brain, none ever will. Jesus, this guy is certifiably bat-shit crazy...and once again he makes it "all about him" like he's always done and will continue to do. RIP Drew.

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  contemplate or dwell on one's own success or another's misfortune with smugness or malignant pleasure.
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  synonyms:

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[Fresia]

i didn't mean drew.
i meant pole.
we met in nyc about 6 months ago.
we had emailed and messaged each other til we felt it was time to meet.
like I said in my post, he's intelligent but conversations are all about him and j.
he is the same inperson as he is here.

he could be a twin to melvin udall. (they don't look alike. just personalities are alike)
sorry people but That's As Good As It Gets!

[pole_smoker]

i didn't mean drew.
i meant pole.
we met in nyc about 6 months ago.
we had emailed and messaged each other til we felt it was time to meet.
like I said in my post, he's intelligent but conversations are all about him and j.
he is the same inperson as he is here.

he could be a twin to melvin udall. (they don't look alike. just personalities are alike)
sorry people but That's As Good As It Gets!

I really hope you did not have sex with either him or J. The fact he's so self-absorbed and selfish should not surprise anyone.

[pepperjack]

I really hope you did not have sex with either him or J. The fact he's so self-absorbed and selfish should not surprise anyone.

Exactly u piece of shit! Eat said shit & die u lo-life!

[pepperjack]

i didn't mean drew.
i meant pole.
we met in nyc about 6 months ago.
we had emailed and messaged each other til we felt it was time to meet.
like I said in my post, he's intelligent but conversations are all about him and j.
he is the same inperson as he is here.

he could be a twin to melvin udall. (they don't look alike. just personalities are alike)
sorry people but That's As Good As It Gets!

He comes across as very unintelligent on several levels here but thanks for the clarification anyway.

[Fresia]

pole, you make me giggle.
you know we didn't have sex.
your man wasn't interested in the offer.
you said if 'j' wasn't part of it then there wouldn't be any sex.
we talked about this before.
you say he's bi.
he's the gayest bisexual man i've ever met.

[pepperjack]

I really hope you did not have sex with either him or J. The fact he's so self-absorbed and selfish should not surprise anyone.

So, is J your so-called-wife u phony , despicable piece-of shit? !

[pepperjack]

pole, you make me giggle.
you know we didn't have sex.
your man wasn't interested in the offer.
you said if 'j' wasn't part of it then there wouldn't be any sex.
we talked about this before.
you say he's bi.
he's the gayest bisexual man i've ever met.

eye-opening! Thank u Fresnia

[12voltyV2.0]

Guys---why even spend one more second of your time and energy talking to PS---he is obviously a very disturbed individual---there is a very simple way of dealing with him---put him on ignore status, so his pots are blocked from your view.

Based on the way things are on here as long as the site limps on, that is about the only thing you can do with such people---just ignore him!! He clearly loves the attention.

I do have a question----what is the asking price for this website? $100 or is it more than that?? I am sure the price is more than $100. I saw something talking about $100, but I felt that had to be a mistake.

[pepperjack]

Guys---why even spend one more second of your time and energy talking to PS---he is obviously a very disturbed individual---there is a very simple way of dealing with him---put him on ignore status, so his pots are blocked from your view.

Based on the way things are on here as long as the site limps on, that is about the only thing you can do with such people---just ignore him!! He clearly loves the attention.

I do have a question----what is the asking price for this website? $100 or is it more than that?? I am sure the price is more than $100. I saw something talking about $100, but I felt that had to be a mistake.

Actually, that's been Obama's strategy w/ ISIS & you can see where that led us!

[pole_smoker]

pole, you make me giggle.
you know we didn't have sex.
your man wasn't interested in the offer.
you said if 'j' wasn't part of it then there wouldn't be any sex.
we talked about this before.
you say he's bi.
he's the gayest bisexual man i've ever met.

You are someone that myself, and my husband have never met or considered meeting and we have never exchanged private meaasages, or personal information.

You have my husband confused with "Drew", and his ex

At least you did not have sex with Drew, and his wannabe partner.

[pole_smoker]

So, is J your so-called-wife u phony , despicable piece-of shit? !

LMAO she's posting about Drew, not me. I am married to a man, and my husband's name does not begin with the letter J, and we are monogamous and do not "play" with other women or men, or have sex with anyone else.

If you want to see someone who is phony, and a dispicable piece of shit, look at yourself in the mirror pepperjack aND 12volty. It's no wonder why neither of you are capable of having an actual relationship with anyone.

[pepperjack]

LMAO she's posting about Drew, not me. I am married to a man, and my husband's name does not begin with the letter J.

If you want to see someone who is phony loom at yourself in the mirror pepperjack.

"loom?" u ignorant, nyc gd sewer-rat?

[pole_smoker]

eye-opening! Thank u Fresnia

It's only eye opening if you consider that she's writing about Drew, and his ex...but if you know anything about Drew nothing either of what we wrote should be surprising. Drew had issues with being narcissistic and other types of mental illnesses.

[pole_smoker]

"loom?" u ignorant, nyc gd sewer-rat?

That's a typo for "look" that my tablet wrote by mistake. LMAO At least I am not an uneducated mentally ill closet queen from flyover country with rage issues, and no friends like you.

[pepperjack]

That's a typo for "look" that my tablet wrote by mistake. LMAO At least I am not an uneducated mentally ill closet queen from flyover country with rage issues, and no friends like you.

Like hell u're not. U're an illiterate piece-of- shit! u don't have the guts to visit so-called flyover country 'cause u know u'd get the ass 'whuppin u so richly deserve, nyc sewer rat !

[pole_smoker]

Like hell u're not. U're an illiterate piece-of- shit! u don't have the guts to visit so-called flyover country 'cause u know u'd get the ass 'whuppin u so richly deserve, nyc sewer rat !

LMAO the silly, and utterly phony tough guy shtick and bullshit act is not fooling anyone... but that's your mental illness speaking for you.

I have traveled and lived in different cities and regions all over the United States, and been to, and lived in more foreign countries than you ever will.

I have been to flyover country but would never live there as compared to NYC and other large cities on the East and West coast, and even in the midwest like Chicago there is nothing to do in small towns in flyover country where you live that are full of uneducated ignorant white trash closet queens like you, like Salina Kansas where you live and are from.

LMAO I am certainly not illiterate. I hold multiple degrees and have a PhD. from an excellent university here in NYC where I teach, and I have taught at other universities in the USA and in other countries, and have worked various other legal high paying jobs... but you can't even write coherently, and did not even graduate high school.

[IllinoisGuy]

I know his brother is working towards finding a buyer for the site. I don't know much about what a domain might be worth but the numbers we discussed are way out of my range, especially for a site that does not generate any outright revenue. I imagine with banners, click through's and perhaps a small membership fee it might make some money. He does have plans to attempt a sale through Sedo soon, which is a website sales site .

In any case, the site certainly needs moderation and someone to "take out the garbage" here (as witnessed by Pole_smokers insistence on lying and his inability to play well with others ever). Even in a thread about someone passing away, you find it necessary to be a vitriolic asshole. You need help buddy. I hope you get it before someone caves your face in with their fist.

Ok. If this helps to bring things into perspective, if his brother decides to sell the domain "www.bisexual.com", it does NOT mean that the new owner will keep ANYTHING we see currently with the site. The new owner may decide that they want to make this a full pay site with only bisexual videos or pictures on it, not like we see it today. Hence, the reason that Drew's brother is selling it to the highest bidder is that he is looking at what other domain names have sold for and thinks that this domain is worth alot of money. Just think about the person that bought www.sex.com when domains first became available to us to buy. They bought it cheap and sold the domain name for probably enough money to either retire on or put their kids through a decent college. Unfortunately, without knowing what kind of number Drew's brother has in mind, it will be hard to say what it will sell for.