Younger Guy With A Crush On An Older Guy - Did It Happen To You?

[man4girlgirl4man]

This could have been a crush on a real man who was in your life or on a famous men you never actually met.

I'm curious to know how common this was for guys when they were hormonally crazed horny teenagers. I wish there was an older man in my life back then who rang my sexual bell but unfortunately there wasn't even one who was even close to hot - for me, anyway. I had a full on crush on a very cute black guy (who was somewhere around 25 years old and also 13 years older than I was back then) who I saw in a hardcore gay porn magazine. Not just very cute but he also had a huger than huge black monster dick. He was with a white guy who took that huge black dick down to his throat and all the way in his ass, and if I found a bottle with a genie in it and he granted me only one and not three wishes, my wish definitely would have been for that hot black dude with the big ass black dick and me to be naked and alone so he could put that thing in my mouth and fuck my ass until I became his white girly boy bitch for life.

I was a naughty teenager and if I lived in a racially mixed town instead of the all white suburb we actually lived in I would have been that white girly boy bitch to every black boy and man who had a dick that was bigger than my own 8 inch cock. That's how deep my crush on that guy in that interracial gay porn magazine really was.

How about all of you who read this post? Tell us all about your younger on older gay crushes and if your crush turned into real sex - whether it was just a flirtation or anything more going all the way to total fucking. That is something that my personal life path didn't come across even though I really wanted it to.

[a2smith09]

Oh man I was such a horny, slutty twink in junior High and High School. Had a huge crush on my Junior High Math teacher. Very handsome manly man if I say so myself.

[jackbirdjay]

I was 16 my married neighbor was in his 50's. I was all ready bisexual. He friended me, and it wasn't long before I was giving him blow jobs. He was the first one to fuck me. In bed I was submissive to him. Did many firsts with him.

[a2smith09]

I was 16 my married neighbor was in his 50's. I was all ready bisexual. He friended me, and it wasn't long before I was giving him blow jobs. He was the first one to fuck me. In bed I was submissive to him. Did many firsts with him.

Yeah I as really into older men when I was young. Had so many great experiences.

[jem_is_bi]

When I was 58, a young man, 18 years old wanted to get together with me. I was somewhat surprised and baffled why he was so ardent in his desire for a relationship with me. I felt bad about not accepting his proposals to get together. But, I just did not see a good outcome for him or me in such an affair. A few years later, a 14 year old girl, confused about sex contacted me. No way was I going to do more than pm with her my advice on not making a bad mistake that might get her pregnant. Both seem to be very nice young people. I sometimes wonder about them and hope they are doing well.

[TerrorTwilight]

I've always been into older men - much older men. Not really sure what sparked the flame, but I've always had a thing for mature guys. Maybe it has something to do with the first naked man I ever saw. I was probably 11 or 12 and I was at a bathroom pavilion at the beach taking a shower before going home and there was just a whole row of wide-open showers. Everyone had their bathing suits on except one guy, probably early 60's, just washing himself, completely naked. I was so fascinated by how his penis looked. I think I discovered jerking off not too long after that.

I've never had a male sexual partner who wasn't at least 25 years older than me. And what's even stranger is that I'm not even physically attracted to men, so it really shouldn't matter what the age is. I mean, I'm not afraid to admit someone is handsome, but I don't have any desire to be intimate with men... kissing, cuddling... doesn't do anything for me. I just love to give oral.

[palmharbordiver]

Hey everyone, mine is a little late in life, but for some reason, my infatuation has been fairly recent. I'm a 40yo married guy, and for the past few years, my thoughts/desires to catch up or meet other older married guys has really taken off. I'm new to this site, and new to all of this in general, but it really has been driving me nuts. I jump on chat lines, etc. and don't care to talk with younger gay guys, etc., but if there is an older married guy (the 'normal?') everyday down the road type, I'm driven crazy.

I just moved to the Tampa Bay area, and have just started poking around some of these sites, and am looking to make a local friend, another married guy, preferably an older married guy, and see where it goes.

[TerrorTwilight]

I just moved to the Tampa Bay area, and have just started poking around some of these sites, and am looking to make a local friend, another married guy, preferably an older married guy, and see where it goes.

I'd give www.silverdaddies.com a try. More than likely you'll find what you're looking for. Good luck!

[pole_smoker]

Hey everyone, mine is a little late in life, but for some reason, my infatuation has been fairly recent. I'm a 40yo married guy, and for the past few years, my thoughts/desires to catch up or meet other older married guys has really taken off. I'm new to this site, and new to all of this in general, but it really has been driving me nuts. I jump on chat lines, etc. and don't care to talk with younger gay guys, etc., but if there is an older married guy (the 'normal?') everyday down the road type, I'm driven crazy.

I just moved to the Tampa Bay area, and have just started poking around some of these sites, and am looking to make a local friend, another married guy, preferably an older married guy, and see where it goes.

Before you go out and cheat on your "wife" talk to her and come out to her as bisexual, and don't go for other married men since you would then be a homewrecker, and would you be cool with your wife going out and getting dicked in her mouth, cunt, and ass by a married guy.

[12voltyV2.0]

In the course of talking to guys at sites like this and others over the years--it is amazing to me that so many guys had some older man make a move on them when they were a kid and that they liked it that some man had done so and they started getting with those older men on a regular basis.

For some reason, I did not get so lucky or unlucky as it might have turned out that I had no older such man try to seduce me---which is what those men did with those guys when they were young.

I kind of wished I had such a thing happen. I don't know what my response would have been, but I suspect that I would have been open to it and would have gotten with them.

I was like 12 or 13 and my grandparents had retired to Florida, buying a nice condo down in Boca Raton, Florida. Nearly all of the other people in the place were of Italian descent from the New York area, some might have been in the mob.

There would always be a contingent of true Italian men around---always older--probably in their 50s and 60s---and being from Europe---they liked to wear their Speedos, something the New York guys didn't do---but man---nearly all of those older guys who did wear those things--they had nice bods and oh yes--they had some nice packages that made for some huge bulges in those Speedos and it did get me horny.

By the same token, there was this one family with a girl of about my same age and I had a major crush on her and wanted to at least ask her out for a Coke, Milk Shake or something----but one of the men told me: "Sorry kid, that ain't gonna happen. You are a nice kid, but no way her family will ever let her go out with someone that ain't Italian!"

She was a beauty for sure, at least to the eyes of a horny teenaged boy.

It probably would not have happened with that crowd---but had one of those older guys with their big bulges made a move on me----at least from my view now---I sure would not have minded that and would have loved to accepted!!

It was some years later--also in Florida--this time up in Vero Beach. I was living in the area at the time and had joined a work out club called The Jungle Club that allowed members to go nude in the open area of the club that had a nice pool, hot tub, sauna and steam room---because they had alternate days for men and women. The place was very cool and the name was appropriate, because they had the grounds planted with lots of tropical plants and palms that included the pool/spa area, which even though under roof, was open to the outside on warm days. Sadly, that place went away years ago.

There was this one older man--he was in perfect shape, probably into his mid to late 60s--I was in my early 30s then. He had a nice tight cropped beard, was tall, long and lean and oh man---he had a spectacular cock--long, thick and tanned like his body. I also would go to hang out at some area beaches--which at the time you could go nude in Florida in public as long as no one else complained and it wasn't automatically a criminal charge for just being nude in public in those days. Now if you are--it is at least a misdemeanor charge and you get labeled a "Sex Offender" just for doing so.

I would see him out at those beach spots too quite often---I never saw him with anyone, female or male, and he was not at all friendly to anyone it seemed. Even though I saw the guy quite often for at least a year, he would not even acknowledge me by responding to a simple "Hello, how ya doing?" or "Good morning" or "Fine Day, isn't it?" So there was no getting to the point to find out anything more about him. He actually gave you the "evil eye" if you dared to be so nice as to offer such a greeting, so I stopped even saying anything to him.

I do admit though--even though at that time---I was not yet wanting to get with guys then---I sort of did have a "man crush" on him and had he been at least basically friendly and more--and expressed an interest in me---I would have surely liked to get with him---he was one FINE looking man!!!

[sysper]

i have 0 interest in older guys maybe 10 years older but that's it

[cuttin2dachase]

I was 32 when I discovered my attraction to men and their cocks. I had been strictly hetero up to that point, so naturally I never had a crush on an older man when I was younger. In fact, as a boy, when my father gave me the "birds and bees" speech, he also told me about pedophiles and older men who preyed on boys and teens. He drilled into me that I should run away and tell him or Mom or a teacher, cop, etc. if an adult man ever exposed himself to me, touched my privates, asked me touch his privates etc. There were school friends I was forbidden to visit to play with or sleep over with because our small town gossip had it that their fathers liked young boys and teens. I wasn't told that at the time, but many years later my Dad told the me the reason for those restrictions. Even if I had had homosexual or bisexual desires then, this stigma would have made me eschew older men and be with guys near my age.

That stigma evaporated when I was 32 and sucked my 1st cock. I would have been with men of any age 21 and over. The great majority of men I have played with were married men within 5 years of my age and that is still the case at age 62. I now consider men who are age 21 to 40 as "young men" and men over 70 as "old men". Even though the legal age here is 16 I have no desire to meet a kid who is under 21. If he's not old enough to legally have a drink with me, he's not old enough to take to bed. Although I don't actively seek young men, I do get quite a few emails and chats from younger men who see my profile on various mm sites. They all say they have a "thing" for older married men. if you're an older man and run into such guys, be wary and use caution. There are any number of younger men lurking on websites to prey on older men (especially married bi men) in order to rob them (or worse) or to blackmail them etc. They know it probably won't be reported. They are easily detectable because of their impatience, rudeness, crudeness and lack of respect. Still, I occasionally chat with young men who exude maturity and a sincere sexual desire for older men. I would meet them in a New York minute. I am currently chatting with a great looking, buff 32 year old divorced guy (with an 8" cock). We have been mutually seducing each other online for several weeks. I've got the superhots for him as I believe he has for me. I am quite flattered that a stud like him would have an interest in me. If his pics are real and he is real and as hot to meet and play as I am, we are going to have one helluva time in bed

[Loki1]

I was the older, he the younger, but only by 5 years, though at the time.......huge gap, since we were so young, me 12 ish, and he 7 ish, AND...the aggressor, go figure. Knew his sexuality, bi, at such a young age. He offered, I accepted, and the relationship lasted on and off for over 35 years.

Always there for each other, we did and will do anything for each other. Been apart for 12 years, different countries. Hope to get together before we crap out.

[Dunmor]

Yes, first lover was older, by 12 yrs....experience is a plus....great teacher