Would you ever let a she male fuck you, or suck off a she male?
Would you ever let a she male fuck you, or suck off a she male?
I love shemales. I would definitely let one fuck me and suck her hot cock.
Would you let him cum in your ass?Originally Posted by chyx&dyx
It's on my bucket list. Unfortunately my bucket seems to have a hole in it... 😩
Absolutely!!!
Ass and mouth
Id enjoy sucking her off all night long and she could do whatever she wants to me. I'd be all hers!
Would you ever let a she male fuck you, or suck off a she male?
Its a fantasy that I hope will cum true
i have fucked and have been fucked by a shemale had a 3some with 2 shemales a year or so back
…I’d suck a she/male…even a black one…
Would you ever let a she male fuck you, or suck off a she male?
As I understand it, transexuals in transition do not
a/ want their penis touched or sucked
b/ get hard as they take blockers.
So all of your fantasies will not probably happen.
Someone who is MTF may decide that she (it’s always respectful to refer to someone using the pronouns they prefer, and for someone who identifies as female that is often female pronouns, such as she or her) would like to take hormones to help alter her body. Obtaining hormones from a medical provider is often a step that people take because hormone treatments can help make the physical body look more like how that person feels internally. For instance, someone who is MTF may receive hormone treatments of both estrogen and some type of androgen (testosterone) blocker, and both of those will help feminize their bodies.
There are different ways to go about administering hormones to someone who is transgender, and that is definitely an important topic to discuss with your doctor. It can be, at times, difficult to find a doctor who is sensitive to and knowledgeable about transgender issues, but working with a doctor is the safest way to help assure that you are receiving the right treatments and also taking care of your overall health. Some major cities have health centers that are particularly geared towards lesbian, gay, bisexual, and/or transgender people, and those health centers are often good places to find medical providers who have experience working with trans folks and cross-gender hormone administration. If you do not live locally to such a health center, some internet research for local transgender support groups may help you also locate referrals to which doctors have worked with trans folks, and who other people see.
As I mentioned above, if someone is transitioning from male to female they may receive estrogen, an androgen blocker, or both. Estrogens and androgen blockers work in different ways, and have some different effects in terms of sexual functioning (see, I told you I would get to the actual questions at hand!).
Androgen blockers, such as spironolactone, work to lower the body’s level of androgens, particularly testosterone. Testosterone is largely responsible for what we see as “male” secondary sex characteristics, including facial and body hair and low voices. Testosterone, as a sex hormone, also impacts sex drive and libido, and is a part of the systems and reactions that allow for a penis to become erect, and to ejaculate. Androgen blockers alone generally do not feminize a person who is taking them, but they will lower the person’s testosterone level, which, for some transwomen, makes a huge emotional difference.
Depending on the dosing and how your body reacts, generally within the first 1-3 months of taking an androgen blocker—even in the absence of estrogen administration—transwomen will start to notice fewer of what we call “spontaneous erections” (think waking up with an erection), and also may start to have more difficulty getting an erection even when aroused. Some transwomen who take androgen blockers will lose the ability to gain an erection completely. Aside from impacting ability to have an erection, androgen blockers will generally also decrease one’s sex drive, decrease production of sperm and ejaculatory fluid, and eventually can start to slow facial and body hair growth. Some people also believe that androgen blockers contribute in a small way to the possibility of breast growth in transgender women.
While androgen blockers will not do a lot of physical feminizing by themselves, adding estrogen to that hormone treatment will result in further feminization. This can include: redistribution of body fat into a more typically female pattern, softening skin, decrease of muscle mass and increase of body fat, nipple and breast growth, slowing of body hair growth, and slowed or stopped male pattern baldness. When looking at sexual effects of estrogen, adding that hormone to the treatment of someone who is transitioning from male to female can often result in further decreased production of sperm and ejaculatory fluid (up to and including sterility in some people), decreased testicle size, further decrease in sex drive, fewer spontaneous erections and loss of ability to achieve erection even when aroused. For those women who are still able to achieve erection even with hormone treatments, many find that their erections are more difficult to achieve, not as stiff, or do not last as long as they did prior to hormone treatment.
So that is a little bit about hormone treatments for transwomen and how they impact the ability to get an erection. The most concise answer is, ultimately, “it depends”. It depends on the person and on the treatments they are being given.
Some transwomen will also have various genital surgeries to help their bodies more accurately reflect their inner conception of themselves and their gender. Surgery is often what people mean when they talk about “sex change”, but it’s important to note that not everyone even wants surgery, and certainly even those who want it cannot always afford it. Sex reassignment surgery (sometimes called SRS, or GRS for gender reassignment surgery) is expensive, and even if you have insurance, insurance often does not cover it.
There are many types of surgery that a transwoman could have, not all of which have anything to do with genitals. Some people may have or want facial feminization surgery. Some people may have or want a tracheal shave, which can lessen the appearance of an Adam’s apple. Some people may have or want breast augmentation to supplement the growth that they had from hormone treatments. And some people may have or want genital surgery.
Different types of genital surgery, from orchiectomy (removal of the testicles), to vaginoplasty (creation of a vagina), labiaplasty (creation of labia), and clitoroplasty (creation of a clitoris) both utilize and leave intact different parts of the person’s original anatomy, and have varying impacts on someone’s sexual functioning. Removal of the testicles but leaving the penis intact would render a person unable to achieve an erection. Construction of a vagina, vulva, and clitoris would, in most cases, use the penis to create the new genitalia, so “erection” would probably not be the term someone would use to describe arousal from her new vagina, vulva, and clitoris (though certainly the clitoris is capable of a sort of erection of its own).
So while this starts to answer your question with regard to mechanics and erection potential, it does not really get into the all-important emotional and psychological piece. I think that any time our bodies and our minds are not quite in alignment that there can be an emotional toll. This is in no way to say that all transgender people have emotional problems, but I just want to recognize that our bodies, our gender, and our sexuality can be confusing even when everything lines up. Having the added challenge of feeling uncomfortable with one’s physical sex can add some complications.
As I mentioned earlier, there are many ways to be transgender. Not all MTFs will abhor their penises, and not all of them will be disturbed by erections, or necessarily want erections to stop. Some people will strongly feel that their penises need to go, or that they are very uncomfortable with the ways in which they function. Others may not feel that strong dysphoria about their genitalia, and neither scenario makes someone “more” transgender than another person. There is such diversity, even within people who identify as MTF.
Logically, the way one feels about one’s genitals can impact the way one feels about relating with oneself or someone else sexually.
In your question I am not sure whether you are asking whether an erection and intercourse will feel the same to the person who is transitioning, or to that person’s partner. I will try to touch on both of those scenarios.
Even if a transwoman is not on hormones and has not had any surgery, sex may potentially feel complicated. Hormones and physical makeup notwithstanding, the brain is the largest sex organ that any person has. This becomes important because, for some trans people, the ways in which they choose to think about their body parts—no matter what is physically there—can make a huge difference in how comfortable they feel in sexual situations. While it may seem like a weird conversation to have with someone—only because most of us don’t have a lot of practice talking about this—even a short conversation about what someone calls their body parts or how they want them referred to can help some trans people feel more comfortable or respected. Even if a transwoman has something that looks like a penis, she might think of it as her clit, and want her partner to also call it that, or to touch it as if it were a clitoris.
People, of course, also have different definitions of what “sex” means. Some trans people—heck, this goes for all people—have particular activities they enjoy or dislike, or have particular body parts or spaces that are enjoyable to use or are off limits. Honestly, sex is whatever the people having it decide to make of it, so it’s sort of difficult to give a blanket answer to whether one kind of sex under one set of circumstances would be different than another. My inclination is to say that there are a lot of factors that influence the way sex feels or is experienced, and someone’s gender identity, hormone status, or surgical status could totally impact that.
If you are having sex with someone who is transitioning, or has transitioned, from male to female, it’s probably going to be a bit different than having sex with a cisgender male (meaning someone who was assigned male at birth and still identifies as such). First of all, their body parts could potentially be different. Second of all, even if the body parts look the same, they might work a bit differently. Finally, the person does not identify as male and so that may impact the way she sees herself sexually or wants to interact sexually. The possibilities are really limitless.
And so this leaves us with one important message: we need to talk about this stuff because there is no way of knowing for sure how someone feels or what they want. Positive and healthy sexual interactions usually require good communication, and for all partners to feel understood and respected. Particularly if we might feel uncomfortable in some way with our bodies, sexual or intimate encounters could present challenges if we do not feel safe or able to talk openly with our potential partners about what we like and how we conceptualize our own selves.
For those who may be considering hormone treatment or some kind of surgery to help bring their bodies into alignment with their gender, it’s also important to open up conversations with your doctor about sex and sexuality. We know that sex and sexuality are important parts of who we are as human beings, and so we have the right to talk about this with our providers and also learn, to the best of our doctors’ knowledge, the potential risks and benefits of choosing any one treatment over another. Regardless of our gender identity, we all have the right to a fulfilling and healthy life as a sexual being, whatever that may look like to the individual.
Last edited by tenni; Jun 17, 2015 at 6:41 PM.
Nonsense tenni. There are plenty of she males, MTF, etc. who don't get a full sex change operation, and they still use their penis, and do want it touched.
Are shemales different from transwomen in transition?
I'm certainly no experts on this but I know some guys get fooled.
What make some an expert on all things...including transexuals is usually just bravado.
I know that there were transgendered women on this site who would "educate" poor smucks.
My understanding is what posted two above...if the dick gets hard they are probably not on treatment to block testosterone. They might have plastic breasts like the asian above.
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xkh...e-terms_webcam
Last edited by tenni; Jun 17, 2015 at 9:28 PM.
Talking with trans people is like thermonuclear war. The only way to win is not to play. Whatever you say, no matter what it is and what your intentions are, it will offend them. Because they thrive on being offended. It gives them permission to externalize their rage. And they enjoy the power that comes with being a moral judge over others. So they will look for any opportunity to be offended. If you don’t provide it, they will invent it. If you abide by all of their “trans etiquette” rules, they will invent new rules or change the old rules.
If you find yourself caught in a trans attack, whatever you do, don’t apologize. Listening to you grovel will only add to their pleasure and mark you as an attractive target for more abuse. LGBs are already their preferred victims, so don’t add to it by satisfying their sadistic drive.
I would seriously let her eat my ass and suck me off...would even suck her off, shes very attractive !
I would love to suck her cock and have her suck my cock.
No but I would let her suck me off and I would fuck her.
why not? cock is cock and tits to boot....
OhHell yesI would
Ongoing fantasy of mine. Hope to fulfill one of these days.
I actually saw a study (and I hate mentioning it because I could never re-find the source to quote) that only a small minority of transgendered people have a problem with their genitals. Would they be happier reassigned? Maybe. I'd like a 10" cock but I'm happy with what I have and so aren't most transgendered folks.
Yes, shemales are different from transwomen. In general, the main difference is that shemales identify as males, but want (for reasons I don't get) to live as women, or at least to be able to pass as women.
Pole_smoker is right that there are MtF transsexuals, who transition to live as women, but don't seek or get surgery, and some are ok with using their genitals sexually. As I hear it, shemales have no trouble or hesitation at all with using their penis. In fact, they specifically leave it intact for sexual purposes (shemales don't seek surgery, since they identify as men, and definitely want to keep their penis).
But you are also correct that in a non-op MtF transsexual, if their penis gets fully erect, they are either not on testosterone blockers, or haven't been for long. Speaking from experience (although I'm sure experience can vary some), once you're on estrogen and testosterone blockers, erections are not full and can be painful (although orgasms were interesting). When I reached that point, surgery became more of an option to restore sexual functionality than anything else.
Shemales do not generally do the estrogen and testosterone blocking thing. First, they don't want that effect on their sexuality. But also, if they did, it would likely make them a bit crazy, since male-structured brains need testosterone to function correctly, and would experience dysphoria from that amount of estrogen. I'm sure some do it, out of ignorance. I wouldn't think it would go well.
I hope that helps.
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That's heaven!
Never been fucked by one because I don't do that. Have sucked many and many have sucked me. And I have pics to prove it.
i'm not saying i never will but i'm not curious at all about shemale's.
Absolutely
I have ALWAYS had a fantasy of being with a She-male!!!!!!!!!!!! I would suck and be fucked by her yes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
always been one of my fantasies...
Been there done that.
I love shemales! She could have her way with me anytime and I would hope she would let me fuck her too
Would you ever let a she male fuck you, or suck off a she male?
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