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**PusandCkWorshipper** · Mar 31, 2015, 6:17 AM

I've been Bi Curious for as long as I can remember and after many years of denying it and after many internal battles. I finally admitted to myself I get turned on by cock, nice cock. My turn-on is the idea of Big Fat Uncut Cock worship. I love the veins the girth etc... They are powerful looking and excite the hell out of me. I attempted to hook-up with guys on craigslist but never got the replies I wanted, or I bulked. I hope to someday find a hung uncut mentor who will show me the ropes. Don't get me wrong I love pussy. I've been married 25 years to a little nymph who squirts does anal and likes to be fisted, but I never shared my desire to have sex with men and taste their cum and I plan to keep it my secret. So now I'm actively seeking out my first well endowed uncut stud who I can meetup with when she's away or at work.

**pole_smoker** · Mar 31, 2015, 6:19 AM

Instead of cheating on your wife who you claim to love, tell her how you're bisexual.

**bi4asplay** · Mar 31, 2015, 9:36 AM

Originally Posted by PusandCkWorshipper

I've been Bi Curious for as long as I can remember and after many years of denying it and after many internal battles. I finally admitted to myself I get turned on by cock, nice cock. My turn-on is the idea of Big Fat Uncut Cock worship. I love the veins the girth etc... They are powerful looking and excite the hell out of me. I attempted to hook-up with guys on craigslist but never got the replies I wanted, or I bulked. I hope to someday find a hung uncut mentor who will show me the ropes. Don't get me wrong I love pussy. I've been married 25 years to a little nymph who squirts does anal and likes to be fisted, but I never shared my desire to have sex with men and taste their cum and I plan to keep it my secret. So now I'm actively seeking out my first well endowed uncut stud who I can meetup with when she's away or at work.

I do agree with smoker on this. Do not just come out and say I want to suck a man. Introduce Bi sex and the thought into your world. If the two of you do porn bring one home where the wrong disc is in the box. Any way but cheating. It will most likely come to light. Men are not very good at cheating She will smell the aroma of man sex on you, or that you have taken a shower at a weird time or when away from home. She will sense a difference in you. You do not go out and suck your first dick and remain unchanged. Honest is the only way to go in any relationship.
Good luck on your quest. Who knows she may be good with it or bringing another man into your play time. After 25 years you should know her well enough to breach the subject.

**pole_smoker** · Mar 31, 2015, 11:34 AM

Originally Posted by bi4asplay

I do agree with smoker on this. Do not just come out and say I want to suck a man. Introduce Bi sex and the thought into your world. If the two of you do porn bring one home where the wrong disc is in the box. Any way but cheating. It will most likely come to light. Men are not very good at cheating She will smell the aroma of man sex on you, or that you have taken a shower at a weird time or when away from home. She will sense a difference in you. You do not go out and suck your first dick and remain unchanged. Honest is the only way to go in any relationship.
Good luck on your quest. Who knows she may be good with it or bringing another man into your play time. After 25 years you should know her well enough to breach the subject.

Exactly, Pusandcockworshiper you've put your hand and arm up her coochie. Telling her you're bisexual should be no big deal.

**tenni** · Mar 31, 2015, 11:57 AM

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You give him a good approach to let his wife know. Make sure Puss that you are ready inside yourself. You have made a good first major step of self acknowledging. When you are ready let a few comments slip or go for the big sit down chat with her. The delimna for some guys is they are not sure if they are bi. Your description of cock sound like it is pretty strong though. The porn approach may work well for you..if only talking to her about her interest in cock. ..if she is not conservative in her views and expressions.

It would be interesting for Pole to share how he told his wife a detailed disclosure for the first time.(or has he never disclosed to a woman that he was married to for 25 years) The empathy that pole is capable of seems rather low.

**pole_smoker** · Mar 31, 2015, 4:23 PM

Originally Posted by tenni

It would be interesting for Pole to share how he told his wife a detailed disclosure for the first time.(or has he never disclosed to a woman that he was married to for 25 years) The empathy that pole is capable of seems rather low.

There you go with assumptions about someone who you know nothing about, and who you can't stop obsessing over, and love to stalk/flame.

Dream on Tenni, I'm married and sex between us will never happen despite how you love to obsess over me, and my husband who you're jealous of.

I have a husband who is also bisexual and long before we were married we knew about each other. But when I was involved with women as girlfriends in long term relationships they knew I was bisexual since I told them when we first met, or when we were dating and getting to know each other since that's what you should do no matter who you date or get into a partnership with, or their sex. The women who I dated or had as girlfriends were all fine with me being bisexual.

**charles-smythe** · Mar 31, 2015, 6:49 PM

Originally Posted by pole_smoker

Instead of cheating on your wife who you claim to love, tell her how you're bisexual.

...normally I agree with 'pole' about most stuff...BUT...the chances of he being OK with his bisexuality are exceedingly low...not worth the risk...

**tenni** · Mar 31, 2015, 7:26 PM

Being married to a heterosexual woman for 25 years is quite different from being married to a bisexual man. Apples and oranges. Advice is quite different under these circumstances when discussing a man discovering his sexuality has changed. Walk the talk. Don't talk what you have not walked. Even if a bisexual man decides that he doesn't want to be married to a man and wants to be married to a heterosexual woman, the advice would be different and probably different issues. If you can not empathize with a man discovering a change in his sexuality while married to a woman...a wise man would not comment.

**charles-smythe** · Mar 31, 2015, 8:41 PM

Originally Posted by tenni

Being married to a heterosexual woman for 25 years is quite different from being married to a bisexual man. Apples and oranges. Advice is quite different under these circumstances when discussing a man discovering his sexuality has changed. Walk the talk. Don't talk what you have not walked. Even if a bisexual man decides that he doesn't want to be married to a man and wants to be married to a heterosexual woman, the advice would be different and probably different issues. If you can not empathize with a man discovering a change in his sexuality while married to a woman...a wise man would not comment.

...if a man wanted to be married to another man...he's not bi...he's gay...bi men prefer women for romance & marriage...bi guy only wants men for sex...just my opinion...

**pole_smoker** · Mar 31, 2015, 8:46 PM

Originally Posted by charles-smythe

...if a man wanted to be married to another man...he's not bi...he's gay...bi men prefer women for romance & marriage...bi guy only wants men for sex...just my opinion...

Bisexuality doesn't work that way-even with bisexual men.

There are lots of bisexual men like myself and my husband who wind up partnering with the same-sex or even marrying them, and yet we're still bisexual.

**pole_smoker** · Mar 31, 2015, 8:47 PM

Originally Posted by tenni

Being married to a heterosexual woman for 25 years is quite different from being married to a bisexual man. Apples and oranges. Advice is quite different under these circumstances when discussing a man discovering his sexuality has changed. Walk the talk. Don't talk what you have not walked. Even if a bisexual man decides that he doesn't want to be married to a man and wants to be married to a heterosexual woman, the advice would be different and probably different issues. If you can not empathize with a man discovering a change in his sexuality while married to a woman...a wise man would not comment.

Then why are you commenting?

You were married to a woman very briefly, she told you how you needed major psychological help for your issues with women since you hate women, and then ran for the hills like pretty much all women and lots of men have all done once they get to know you and see you have psychological issues and hate people.