Have you been caught going at it by your wife? Where were you and what was going on? How did your same sex partner react?
Have you been caught going at it by your wife? Where were you and what was going on? How did your same sex partner react?
You are not really giving enough information to get a more detailed response. Sadly, there will be posts condemnation on you by monogamous zealots. Remember that is not everyone here.
Most will advise you to disclose your interest in same sex activity and your attraction to other men to your wife. If she has caught you in a sexual act with another man, you will have a difficult time. Open and honest communication is the common suggestion. Reinforcing that you do love her. This is something about who you are. She may think that you are gay. Try to explain the difference.
Your same sex partner will understand unless you have been deceitful about your status.
Last edited by tenni; Mar 29, 2015 at 1:38 PM.
I have. She walked in and saw us. Walked by went to our room and got her strap on came back and told me to get on all fours and keep sucking that dick. what had happened was that he got there early and she got there late. It was the first time I had ever played with another guy when she was not there at the start of things. We had been playing with him for years. I would never put myself or her in the situation you were asking about.Originally Posted by rodman2005
No, and if I did get caught with another man I'd be single. She would not tolerate being married to a man that loves to suck dick as much as she does. It will never happen....she's not into that type of guy. She does not think they are "real" men.
My wife has walked in while I was having sex with another guy and also another woman. It doesn't present a problem because my wife is also bisexual. One guy I was sucking went immediately limp when she walked in the room. Once he became aware she wasn't upset things went back to normal. He feared there was going to be a big fight or something when she walked in. He actually got turned on when she sat on the floor next to me to watch. It became a weekly event as the three of us watched the NASCAR races.
Why would you even stay married to a bigot like this? You might as well just get a divorce and have sex with all the men you want and find a male or female partner instead who accepts you for who you are...instead of being totally closeted and cheating on your wife.
She's not a bigot and she also understands that homosexuality exists and has no problem with that. It's just that she would not want to be married to a man that likes to suck men's cocks.
That's biphobia/homophobia on her part. With someone like that you're better off just getting a divorce, and getting them out of your life since you are bisexual.
hmm I think that it is a fine line as to whether she is a bigot and biphobic. (give up on the label homophobic in this situation as it involes a man and a woman..not homosexuals). Biphobia is an aversion towards bisexuality and bisexual people as a social group or as individual. Biphobia is a source of discrimination against bisexuals and may be based on negative bisexual stereotypes or irrational fear.
In this case, there seems to be insufficient information to determine whether your wife is biphobic. You write that she is ok with homosexuals and understand that they exist. Fair enough but she is not ok being in a relationship/marriage with a bisexual man?
Is she rejecting the bisexual man just because he is bisexual and she considers him and all bisexual men as bad marriage material? If so, she is biphobic.
Is she rejecting a bisexual man because he may want to have sex with other men? If so, she is biphobic and unwilling to address her real fears...justified or unjustified. This would take a lot of communication. A willingness on her part to set boundary guidelines for any bisexual man that she might marry. A willingness to examine her fears and attempt to overcome them.
If she is rejecting a bisexual man because she has tried to set boundaries with him and he still breaks those rules, she is not unreasonably fearful and is not biphobic.
my $5 view..
Last edited by tenni; Mar 30, 2015 at 10:10 PM.
hmm I think that it is a fine line as to whether she is a bigot and biphobic. (give up on the label homophobic in this situation as it involes a man and a woman..not homosexuals). Biphobia is an aversion towards bisexuality and bisexual people as a social group or as individual. Biphobia is a source of discrimination against bisexuals and may be based on negative bisexual stereotypes or irrational fear.
In this case, there seems to be insufficient information to determine whether your wife is biphobic. You write that she is ok with homosexuals and understand that they exist. Fair enough but she is not ok being in a relationship/marriage with a bisexual man?
Is she rejecting the bisexual man just because he is bisexual and she considers him and all bisexual men as bad marriage material? If so, she is biphobic.
Is she rejecting a bisexual man because he may want to have sex with other men? If so, she is biphobic and unwilling to address her real fears...justified or unjustified. This would take a lot of communication. A willingness on her part to set boundary guidelines for any bisexual man that she might marry. A willingness to examine her fears and attempt to overcome them.
If she is rejecting a bisexual man because she has tried to set boundaries with him and he still breaks those rules, she is not unreasonably fearful and is not biphobic.
my $5 view..
Biphobia? A new antihomo term I guess. Does it really matter? Bottom line is she does not want to be married to a bi, fag, or effeminate guy. She likes a "man" and in her opinon real men don't have sex with other men. I'll take my chances and deal with what comes. I have to admit that she's a real woman and give her credit for not wanting to be associated with faggy guys. There are many women out there that don't mind the homos, they just don't want to be married to one.
So you're gay then? Or at least your bigoted like her since you call gay men slurs "fags", "homos", and "faggy".
As I posted earlier you might as well just get a divorce since eventually she'll know you've cheated on her and divorce you.
Last edited by pole_smoker; Mar 31, 2015 at 12:06 AM.
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Ok...I see that you are not familiar with the term biphobia. I also see that you state that you are a 1 on the Kinsey scale. You seem to enjoy fem dressing at the same time time. Are you grappling with the concept of masculinity and femininity? Your references to "real man" etc. makes me wonder. You seem to have more self discovery to work on. Good luck.
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Thanks for all the psychobabble you guys...LOL. It's a good thing I don't take you guys seriously.
That's nice. LOL I don't take bigoted homophobic men who lie and cheat on their wives who they claim to "love", and yet put on women's clothing in secret seriously.
Last edited by pole_smoker; Mar 31, 2015 at 11:33 AM.
Rodman Why do you ask this question? Is this happening to you?
I once was caught by mi wife having sex chat with a dude on http://www.latestrip.com and she was preety excited about this. She joined and we all had a nice time. After that we started to have more online fun.
Guys wife walked in as her hubby as sucking me. She stopped shocked, then she left, i started to go limp. Then she came back watched and usex and egg vibrator, and put ber finger to mouth telling me nkt to say a word. He had no idea and i became real vocal, she came and i stood and came all over his face.She snuck out. Weeks later her and I fucked as he was gone, she said it made her hkt and he still doesnt know
Use the word " fag" around me and you might get punched in the face.
I guess I shouldn't have said that, but that word is really offensive. Especially to people who put up with being called a faggot every day
yes...i was in the garage with a very large erect penis in my mouth. that was my first wife
Early in our marriage my wife was out on the town with her friends, I was buck naked stroking my cock wihile pumping my ass with a 12" dildo, looking at gay porn and never heard her come in the room, needless to say I was involved and when she asked what I was doing, I shoved the dildo deep hoping she wouldnt see it . I had a raging hard on and she like what she saw and then reached down and found it buried deep inside,did't know what to say other than it feels good, I always remember that night!!!
I have to laugh because me and my wife were watching some stupid tv show tonight where two guys were kissing each other and she made a gagging sound along with "gross." I have to admit that seeing two guys kiss is not very attractive. Now, two hot chicks is a different story.
What would your bigoted "wife" do if she knew you put on women's clothing and sucked cocks with the mouth you kiss her with? Cut off your balls?
LOL...probably yell, "Pack your shit and get out, fag!" And I would reply, "I'm not a fag, I just like to suck cock."
Does living with her cause you a lot of stress? Or is it not fun at times?
Has she ever found women's clothing you put on? Or any gay porn or sex toys you happen to have?
No stress and I don't have clothes (Thigh high stockings on occasion, wife's thong) and I don't watch/like gay porn or have sex toys. We both watch straight porn on occasion.
…I’m really disappointed…no one had an really good ‘caught by wife’ stories….
Evidently a good number of us are doing a good job at keeping the wife in the dark. I, hope to keep it that way.
thing is just watch where you do it at
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