Is this still a bisexual site?

[tenni]

Hello Tenni,

With your forgiveness I would remind you that the site started as a foil for Drew's more potentially profitable Three Pillows enterprise. Even so, as we all may be rats scurrying though a normal life' experimental habit trail, I am having a hard time understanding how that message actually translates into a coherent argument for all of us. Three pillows by definition are really two partners inviting a third for play. It's Play_Sexual. If its late enough, if you've had enough, Game is on.
I'm not that tangled up but I don't have a real problem with the three dogs on a bun argument.

Even better, I am still thinking about it.

Open
Good points.

As far as three pillows and bi.com as a foil for Drew to earn money, it has not worked with me. Have you become a paying member of Three Pillows? How often do you go in to the Three Pillow site?

My understanding is that bi.com was established as a forum, a space to read members profiles and contact them, a place to "chat" but I'm not sure if chat was there at the start? Various members are here for various reasons.

Drew even created an option to voluntary be a paid member of bi.com to support the site financially. The concrete benefits were not why I was a paying member. I was one for a couple of years. Like a few others have mentioned the direction is no longer something that I wanted to support. Bisexual.com was not set up for one purpose but with its revisions a few years back Drew was setting it up for diversity. The blog section was set up for members who requested a spot where they could write their thoughts, feelings and was kept very open. There was no compulsory criteria other than a place for people who wanted to write more than a few lines like on the threads. It was place for every poster to blog.

Similarly, the group sections were created for people who had a certain interest whether geographical, subject based could gather and have their discussions all in one spot.

I have to wonder why charlie and pole do not create a group for their sexual interests? The group section is for geographical or interest in common can go to to post/ discuss the topic of the group. All posters who want to talk about circumcision or cheating can have their own spot. Hell, pole could create a group just for people in New York who want to "talk" about cheating..lol

The fact that you are still thinking shows that is what the threads are about.

[open2joy]

Hi again Tenni,
Yes, I was a paying subscriber for Three Pillows. I thought the content was tastefully presented while keeping the hot factor a click away but also a click too far, depending on your preferences. (I also really liked the cartoons) My former companion didn't share my warm and fuzzy feelings and I awkwardly cancelled my subscription with Drew,who was more available then but not particularly sorry to see me go. Haven't felt the need to go back lately but would in a heartbeat should I stumble upon lonely times.

But I keep coming back to the site here and now, Is it still a bisexual site? I think so. And even allowing for the fact that I am not a major contributor, I am still feeling the same vibe I was feeling before when herd of cats was the mental image I was seeing. It would be nice, but this is not an adult hook up site. It's not amateur porn. It's not a "How To BLANK" instructional manual.

Guys/Gals, it is just us here so why don't we just remake it in our own image. Whatever that might be....

[pole_smoker]

Hi again Tenni,
Yes, I was a paying subscriber for Three Pillows. I thought the content was tastefully presented while keeping the hot factor a click away but also a click too far, depending on your preferences. (I also really liked the cartoons) My former companion didn't share my warm and fuzzy feelings and I awkwardly cancelled my subscription with Drew,who was more available then but not particularly sorry to see me go. Haven't felt the need to go back lately but would in a heartbeat should I stumble upon lonely times.

But I keep coming back to the site here and now, Is it still a bisexual site? I think so. And even allowing for the fact that I am not a major contributor, I am still feeling the same vibe I was feeling before when herd of cats was the mental image I was seeing. It would be nice, but this is not an adult hook up site. It's not amateur porn. It's not a "How To BLANK" instructional manual.

Guys/Gals, it is just us here so why don't we just remake it in our own image. Whatever that might be....

Um, yeah it is an amateur porn/hook up, adult bisexual site, and it always has been even if you go back and read old threads you'll see how this is true.

If new people who haven't eaten a cunt or sucked a cock want to ask questions about this I'm OK with it but they're not going to really know what it's actually like until they actually do it.

[tenni]

Hi again Tenni,
Yes, I was a paying subscriber for Three Pillows. I thought the content was tastefully presented while keeping the hot factor a click away but also a click too far, depending on your preferences. (I also really liked the cartoons) My former companion didn't share my warm and fuzzy feelings and I awkwardly cancelled my subscription with Drew,who was more available then but not particularly sorry to see me go. Haven't felt the need to go back lately but would in a heartbeat should I stumble upon lonely times.

But I keep coming back to the site here and now, Is it still a bisexual site? I think so. And even allowing for the fact that I am not a major contributor, I am still feeling the same vibe I was feeling before when herd of cats was the mental image I was seeing. It would be nice, but this is not an adult hook up site. It's not amateur porn. It's not a "How To BLANK" instructional manual.

Guys/Gals, it is just us here so why don't we just remake it in our own image. Whatever that might be....

Hi open
Interesting perspective and good to read from a long time (first year ?) member. Since you have so few posts, would I be correct to believe that you mostly used chat? Or were you inclined to be a quiet observer without comment? Either way, I hold your view as important.

I definitely agree that the primary purpose is not a hook up site.

However, when I started on this site in 2006 I did look at the site as a bisexual hook up opportunity. That did not really work for me though but I became keenly interested in bisexual peeps.

Previously, I found information and community spirit on a gay site that also was not primarily a hook up site. I enjoyed the camaraderie and frank honest opinions on sex, humour and politics. Me being me..I would get into discourse on politics. It was fun and stimulating. It did educate me on how viewpoints differ between bisexual men and gay men. ..especially their gay view of women and vaginas...lol They knew that I and a few others were bi. We were attacked but also defended and respected by most of the main posters. There was far more acceptance of biguys by these gaymen than rejection. That site was the first place where a long time out gay man posted that he was having feelings of curiosity about being with a woman sexually. He discussed his boundaries and said that he could not be comfortable without a man present with him and a woman. Fascinating, honest, non judgmental dialogues. The site went under. I transitioned to this site but I am also on a biguy site where there is moderation and very intelligent, honest, open discussion between men. Non sexual issue of even male grooming are discussed. I don't think that these issues have been discussed on this site..in part because of the categories on the other site.

I think that any bisexual site needs to create a place of feeling safe to write from yourself your fears etc. without having to fear rejection. Rejection on a bisite is a killer..except this excessive gratuitous sex porn. Such behaviour lowers the value of site except to jerk off..lol

I also agree with you that it is not amateur porn as a primary purpose. Hell, you can see same sex amateur porn on sites like Squirt. There is no special category on this site specifically for amateur porn like there is on Squirt.

I do think that there is a place for more information sex practices on this site. Gratuitous mindless dribble with unintelligent threads like have you ever.... do not add to the site. They degrade the site and discourse on bisexuality.

[open2joy]

Hello Tenni and Pole,

I apologize for this briefest of responses but it is a school day. More no doubt later. I can't agree that this site has ever been a hookup site. TP shoots and artwork were cast towards a amateur perspective but only advertised on .com and delivered on TP. I do remember one or two brief forays into the then lively forum boards but I suspect my perspective wasn't exactly on center at the time. Not sure it is ever on center.

Pole says I should read the threads from the old days and I don't mind doing that but I still know that the personal ads are dying on the vine. If you're to take a look at the real world and the way that BT people hook up, It is definitely not happening on .com.

Happily, I don't have to ask anyone's advice about "eating a cunt" or "sucking a cock"... as there is a wealth of photo/video evidence online in addition to the alleged occasional slip and fall I may have made personally in pursuit of my own sexuality.

You know, It may seem silly now but the time for all of us to have a voice, to make a difference and secure our rights as human beings is now.

I am not really sure that gratuitous, mindless drivel with unintelligent threads is necessarily a bad thing. We are not recruiting but if we were then that platform would bring in a lot of lambs that would otherwise to the slaughter go.

I'm just not certain that you aren't already doing what you are meant to be doing.

Regards,
M

[pole_smoker]

Hello Tenni and Pole,

I apologize for this briefest of responses but it is a school day. More no doubt later. I can't agree that this site has ever been a hookup site. TP shoots and artwork were cast towards a amateur perspective but only advertised on .com and delivered on TP. I do remember one or two brief forays into the then lively forum boards but I suspect my perspective wasn't exactly on center at the time. Not sure it is ever on center.

Pole says I should read the threads from the old days and I don't mind doing that but I still know that the personal ads are dying on the vine. If you're to take a look at the real world and the way that BT people hook up, It is definitely not happening on .com.

Happily, I don't have to ask anyone's advice about "eating a cunt" or "sucking a cock"... as there is a wealth of photo/video evidence online in addition to the alleged occasional slip and fall I may have made personally in pursuit of my own sexuality.

You know, It may seem silly now but the time for all of us to have a voice, to make a difference and secure our rights as human beings is now.

I am not really sure that gratuitous, mindless drivel with unintelligent threads is necessarily a bad thing. We are not recruiting but if we were then that platform would bring in a lot of lambs that would otherwise to the slaughter go.

I'm just not certain that you aren't already doing what you are meant to be doing.

Regards,
M

People post personal ads or hook up/sex ads and hook up for sex via this site, therefore it's a hook up site.

[tenni]

It seems to me that post 126 is circular logic /reasoning in an attempt to state that posting hook up posts makes this a bisexual website. Hook up posts are on a multitude of sex sites and not specifically bisexual. Too add to this is the false logic of the poster to justify their point.

1. Circular reasoning (Latin: circulus in probando, "circle in proving"; also known as circular logic) is a logical fallacy in which the reasoner begins with what they are trying to end with. The components of a circular argument are often logically valid because if the premises are true, the conclusion must be true.

Open
"You know, It may seem silly now but the time for all of us to have a voice, to make a difference and secure our rights as human beings is now.
I am not really sure that gratuitous, mindless drivel with unintelligent threads is necessarily a bad thing. We are not recruiting but if we were then that platform would bring in a lot of lambs that would otherwise to the slaughter go.
I'm just not certain that you aren't already doing what you are meant to be doing."

Well stated sir. Bisexuals are human beings deserving of human rights. Rather than post mindless drivel with unintelligent threads, would it not be better to be discussing what constitutes bisexual rights and how the need for these rights differ from monosexuals?

[pole_smoker]

It seems to me that post 126 is circular logic /reasoning in an attempt to state that posting hook up posts makes this a bisexual website. Hook up posts are on a multitude of sex sites and not specifically bisexual. Too add to this is the false logic of the poster to justify their point.

1. Circular reasoning (Latin: circulus in probando, "circle in proving"; also known as circular logic) is a logical fallacy in which the reasoner begins with what they are trying to end with. The components of a circular argument are often logically valid because if the premises are true, the conclusion must be true.

Nope. It's common sense, anyone can read posts here and see how it's a hook up site, amateur porn site, and bisexual sex site for adults, and you even have the owner/admins "Drew" or whoever he/she/they are saying how to write a good hook up personal ad, and how they like to swallow cum when they hook up with random guys.

[elmwood7]

If it was a hookup site I don't think these forum threads would be on here. They would serve no purpose. And if it is a hookup site Pole and as you've said numerous times you don't hookup, Why are you here?

[pole_smoker]

If it was a hookup site I don't think these forum threads would be on here. They would serve no purpose. And if it is a hookup site Pole and as you've said numerous times you don't hookup, Why are you here?

A lot of people are on this site just to hook up.

They don't post on the forums and just hook up with people.

I'm here to discuss bisexuality since my partner and I are bisexual and this is a better bisexual site than other ones I have belonged to over the years some of which are no longer around.

[tenni]

good point elmwood.
confusing contradictory reply?
behaviour on site does not match words.

However the thread questions whether this is a bisexual site and not one person's behaviour nor whether it is a hook up site or not. Hooking up is not a characteristic of just a bisexual site.

[pole_smoker]

good point elmwood.
confusing contradictory reply?
behaviour on site does not match words.

However the thread questions whether this is a bisexual site and not one person's behaviour nor whether it is a hook up site or not. Hooking up is not a characteristic of just a bisexual site.

Yeah the behaviour on this site does match words as people do hook up. Elian hooked up and was fuck buddies with void, and I'm sure other people have hooked up on here or post hook up ads as posts but they're just not that open about it. I saw another post where a man wrote how he hooked up with some random guy he met on here.

Tenni please, this is a hook up and sex site as pretty much all LGBT sites, or sites geared towards bisexual and gay men are, or even if people want to pretend they're not they become this way. Don't be naive...oh wait it's you and you love to live in a world of theory and not actual reality.

[elian]

I'm sorry. Your view of what it means to be bisexual seems to be very limited.

If by "hooking up" and "fuck buddies" you mean that I met and dated Void for three years, met his wife and family and they were some of the most hospitable, accepting and loving folks I ever knew - then yes, I suppose that is true.

Yeah the behaviour on this site does match words as people do hook up. Elian hooked up and was fuck buddies with void, and I'm sure other people have hooked up on here or post hook up ads as posts but they're just not that open about it. I saw another post where a man wrote how he hooked up with some random guy he met on here.

[tenni]

I'm sorry. Your view of what it means to be bisexual seems to be very limited..

Could it be due to not actually being a bisexual?

[pole_smoker]

Could it be due to not actually being a bisexual?

There goes Tenni with his whole biphobia song and dance, and hatred yet again.

Yet again Tenni opens up his mouth and spews biphobia and bigtory, uses the passive-aggressive tactic claiming that anyone he doesn't like is simply mistaken and they're not bisexual but are gay; but all this shows is that the bigot Tenni doesn't understand bisexuality or human sexuality at all.

[pole_smoker]

I'm sorry. Your view of what it means to be bisexual seems to be very limited.

If by "hooking up" and "fuck buddies" you mean that I met and dated Void for three years, met his wife and family and they were some of the most hospitable, accepting and loving folks I ever knew - then yes, I suppose that is true.

Nope my view of bisexuality is not limited. You may have eventually dated void; but at first you hooked up for sex.

If you were so close to void, and wound up dating then why aren't you both together anymore? Or why didn't you wind up moving in with him?

[charles-smythe]

Could it be due to not actually being a bisexual?

..lets end this thread...yes its still a bi site...BUT...not the bi site you want...nothing else needs to be said...

[elian]

Unfortunately most of the folks on the site are not within my state or several hours away so it was a long distance relationship. He ended up moving six hours away. That was more than I was willing to drive and thought it better that I try to find someone local. I still have feelings for him because I think he may have been one of the first men who actually DID genuinely care and was not interested in simply hooking up. I learned a lot from spending time with him, his family was amazingly accepting..I still think of them as well but at this point I just don't have the energy to keep up a long distance relationship.

I would like to think we taught each other what it feels like to be loved and respected simply for being who you are. I don't know if I will ever find someone who is as kind and loving.

I don't really expect you to offer a compassionate response since at least as far as this site is concerned, you seem to want to use it to fulfil your fetishes. I am posting this reply to let void know that he is still loved, and for the benefit of others who might like to know that there is such a thing as loving, committed bisexual relationship.

Do you still want to insult my relationship now? Your friend Mr. smythe seems to be stretched kind of thin. If this type of thread bothers you, why don't you stick to posting on the fetish threads instead? There are plenty of folks who are willing to fantasize with you there.

If you were so close to void, and wound up dating then why aren't you both together anymore? Or why didn't you wind up moving in with him?

[pole_smoker]

Unfortunately most of the folks on the site are not within my state or several hours away so it was a long distance relationship. He ended up moving six hours away. That was more than I was willing to drive and thought it better that I try to find someone local. I still have feelings for him because I think he may have been one of the first men who actually DID genuinely care and was not interested in simply hooking up. I learned a lot from spending time with him, his family was amazingly accepting..I still think of them as well but at this point I just don't have the energy to keep up a long distance relationship.

I would like to think we taught each other what it feels like to be loved and respected simply for being who you are. I don't know if I will ever find someone who is as kind and loving.

I don't really expect you to offer a compassionate response since at least as far as this site is concerned, you seem to want to use it to fulfil your fetishes. I am posting this reply to let void know that he is still loved, and for the benefit of others who might like to know that there is such a thing as loving, committed bisexual relationship.

Do you still want to insult my relationship now? Your friend Mr. smythe seems to be stretched kind of thin. If this type of thread bothers you, why don't you stick to posting on the fetish threads instead? There are plenty of folks who are willing to fantasize with you there.

It sounds as though neither of you took the "relationship" seriously at all or wanted it to work out, and that's why it ended.

But void is severely mentally ill, is already married to some chick, and you can do a lot better than him...so I can see just why you both did end it even though a six hour drive is do-able (no pun), and it's not as though he moved across the country or to another country and I know many people who have had very long distance relationships where someone moved across the United States, or lived in another country and it still worked since both people took the relationship seriously.

A better question would be: Why were you so desperate that you got into a "relationship" with a severely mentally ill person that's already married, and let yourself get dragged into all of their issues and drama? Local men and women are easy enough to find, they're not going to be as severely mentally ill, and they'll take you and their relationship with you more seriously than void did. But people who are severely mentally ill like void are incapable of having an actual relationship with anyone and are completely one sided and highly toxic people who shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone. I feel bad for void's wife since she's married to him; but hey that's her choice to stay with someone that severely mentally ill and she's gotta have some major mental issues since she does this.

[elian]

If you had one fifth of the love we had for each other then maybe you would know, until then I suppose it will have to remain a mystery.

..and yes tenni, I still believe that it is a bisexual site, that is why the word "bisexual" is in the domain name.

[pole_smoker]

If you had one fifth of the love we had for each other then maybe you would know, until then I suppose it will have to remain a mystery.

..and yes tenni, I still believe that it is a bisexual site, that is why the word "bisexual" is in the domain name.

Why are you assuming I don't have any love? You don't even know me. My partner and I love each other, and I loved a few of my ex girlfriends and boyfriends, and I've had healthy relationships with both genders unlike people who get with a person like void who is severely mentally ill and incapable of loving anyone even his legally married wife.

It's not my fault you can't handle the truth.

"Relationships" with severely mentally ill people like void are one sided since these people are well...a total void, and that self-centered, and delusional/mentally ill. You're lucky that you got out from your "relationship" while you still could. Other people are not so lucky and you read about them all the time in news articles, or hear about them on the news.

It's funny that people are now claiming that this is not a hook up/bisexual sex site or never has been when you frequently have people who post threads like this: http://www.bisexual.com/forum/showth...705-Sex-anyone Or they post threads looking for hook ups/sex. I don't care that they do this but it's just funny that some people want to pretend that this site is above all that when it's not.

[elian]

Thank you for giving me the opportunity to tell my story. What makes you think I don't know the truth? ..and what makes you think that you know it better than any of us? Your experience is yours, my experience is mine, neither one is more "valid" than the other - they both just are.

Dude, I was flawed from the day I entered into this world, and I will be flawed on the day I leave. I am lucky I ever made it here to start with - when I was born my mother literally held me in the palm of her hand. If I had any idea how many people literally poured love into me, just so that I could survive, I would have never doubted my own worth growing up. I have witnessed just about every type of abuse you can think of and seen the toll it has taken on the people I love.

I made peace with the fact that I am not perfect, and I made peace with choosing to show love and compassion to another person who is worthy...something does not have to be perfect in order to be beautiful. We loved each other despite whatever flaws we have..that is being human..and probably the most truly powerful act another human being can perform. It is easy to be angry, to slam the door shut, much harder to forgive..much harder to trust.

I have had people love me just for my dick or what I could give them, I have had people rail against "faggots" and yet still want their dick sucked, and I have witnessed people who just couldn't understand.

You know this, there is more to life than sex - and until the day my access is revoked I will continue to advocate for people to be able to ask for help and receive help. I can do no less, because if I was not loved I wouldn't be here.

Hell yes, sex feels good - but people deserve to be loved for more than what is between their legs.

If you want to be honest and you have a true grievance to tell the world I am willing to listen - everyone else vents on here, why not you? I honestly wish you healing if you need it - suffering sucks.

I am sorry if you think people showing emotion is weakness - you know what - at times everyone is weak - and it's not shameful to ask for help - a little more of that and maybe we wouldn't have people blasting up the place all the time.

For years I lived in anger and spite, some good folks I loved passed away very suddenly and I realized that life is too short to be angry all the time. I will no longer apologize for loving people, life is just too short to worry about that.

[Annika L]

Elian, you have a bright and good soul. Certainly if you want to share your thoughts, do so...but you owe explanations to nobody, least of all poisonous individuals who delight in pressing your buttons. *hugs*

[pole_smoker]

Elian, you have a bright and good soul. Certainly if you want to share your thoughts, do so...but you owe explanations to nobody, least of all poisonous individuals who delight in pressing your buttons. *hugs*

I'm not pressing anyone's buttons, and I'm not poisonous. I'm simply telling Elian some cold hard facts he should already know, or have figured out by now when it comes to love, relationships, and just how it's not good to get with someone that's severely mentally ill and who is a lost soul/void of a person like void is.

[open2joy]

Yes, a hug would be nice. Looks like I missed a few days of intense personal exchanges that don't really address the question at hand. Not in any way to diminish the individual and meaningful quality of their arguments from both sides, I just would want to clear the air a little if I may with these few facts:

I have never hooked up on this site. Not by myself and not with my wife. Over the years we did get a few invites, and probably sent a few but... It is a national venue with a local audience, we never got past the flirtation stage. The best prospects are always hundreds of miles away and that's a long trip for supper and an egg croissant.

However, I am happy for Elian and all other members like him who have beaten the odds and managed to find a connection with our fellows. I think it is a rarity and should be celebrated.

Those of us who do linger here for something we could find much easier in the local adult bookstore, Grindr, Tindr and beyond. Well, we're not too terribly upset. the quiet ebb and flow of a frank and direct discussion about the issues we find challenging is worth the PG-Movie night version.

I also think that I am not the only one who has never hooked up on this alleged hook up site. Maybe the people who are wishing for a hook up the hardest, but can't follow through for their own reasons when the hook up possibility presents itself ... they take refuge in the real or imagined chains that bind them, casting ridicule on those few who suffer no such bondage or duty other than to themselves and their immediate offline commitments.

Look. A billion things can happen between all of us at any time. Hook ups can capture a small portion of that. Is that small portion really the reason any of us are here?

I am here because this is a bisexual site. I'm bi-sexual.

I'm not really sure I need any coaching in that department.

[elmwood7]

I don't think Pole should be calling anyone mentally ill. I doubt that your medically qualified to make that statement. Especially if you've never personally met them. In fact if we were to make assumptions based solely on post's and comments on this site we could even question your mental health. You claim to be on here to discuss issues of bisexuality yet mostly you just post polls about gloryholes, gangbangs, swallowing cum and such. Almost like your trying to live out your fantasies through other people. You also seem obsessed with bad mouthing people on here. Not sure why. Maybe it's about getting attention. Some people need that.

[tenni]

I don't think Pole should be calling anyone mentally ill. I doubt that your medically qualified to make that statement. Especially if you've never personally met them. In fact if we were to make assumptions based solely on post's and comments on this site we could even question your mental health. You claim to be on here to discuss issues of bisexuality yet mostly you just post polls about gloryholes, gangbangs, swallowing cum and such. Almost like your trying to live out your fantasies through other people. You also seem obsessed with bad mouthing people on here. Not sure why. Maybe it's about getting attention. Some people need that.

You are correct elmwood. Pole has violated rule 2 " Be polite. Flame the idea not the person." I believe that there is a huge difference between a porn site and a bisexual site. One is salacious merely for the purpose of titillation. One discusses and uses this forum to communicate aspects about bisexuality.

The heart and soul of this site has faded to a very dim wit light. In reality, two posters are keeping the posts flowing. Very old threads are revived by the same identical posters and the old threads frequently deal with surface veneer of sexual plumbing. When I read the thread or even glance at them that it is easy to tell that this is primarily a gay porn site, existing due to mainly two posters. A porn site is not what the purpose of this site has been. It doesn't even have the depth of such sites as Squirt. It is vulgar and crass. It does appear to be coming from an intended attempt to control. Such an obsession may be seen as a reflection of an unhealthy mind. As you point out elmwood, we are not medical people. Some of us do have some training in behavioural sciences. Some of the wiser minds have gone silent or left.

Anyone, want to begin a pool when this site will shut down? It is dead as a bisexual site or in a most positive way...the site has become disfunctional on life support and comatose in cum shots from mainly two posters.

[Rose2Me]

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Anyone, want to begin a pool when this site will shut down? It is dead as a bisexual site or in a most positive way...the site has become disfunctional on life support and comatose in cum shots from mainly two posters.

I agree, this site is ready to have the plug pulled. Such a shame. And I haven't found another that has what this site used to have- honest, casual, FRIENDLY, open dialogue about the issues that confront us on a daily basis. I miss the chat and my friends. And if I were to want a porn site, this would definitely be the last site I would go. It doesn't even do that well.

[pole_smoker]

I don't think Pole should be calling anyone mentally ill. I doubt that your medically qualified to make that statement. Especially if you've never personally met them. In fact if we were to make assumptions based solely on post's and comments on this site we could even question your mental health. You claim to be on here to discuss issues of bisexuality yet mostly you just post polls about gloryholes, gangbangs, swallowing cum and such. Almost like your trying to live out your fantasies through other people. You also seem obsessed with bad mouthing people on here. Not sure why. Maybe it's about getting attention. Some people need that.

You have no idea what I do as a career, my qualifications, or my credentials.

What I post about are staples of bisexual sex even if some people want to deny it. I don't live out my fantasies through others since I already have fulfilled all of my fantasies before I met my partner/husband with women and men when I was single and dating people.

Void himself has frequently posted about how he is severely mentally ill.

[pole_smoker]

You are correct elmwood. Pole has violated rule 2 " Be polite. Flame the idea not the person." I believe that there is a huge difference between a porn site and a bisexual site. One is salacious merely for the purpose of titillation. One discusses and uses this forum to communicate aspects about bisexuality.

The heart and soul of this site has faded to a very dim wit light. In reality, two posters are keeping the posts flowing. Very old threads are revived by the same identical posters and the old threads frequently deal with surface veneer of sexual plumbing. When I read the thread or even glance at them that it is easy to tell that this is primarily a gay porn site, existing due to mainly two posters. A porn site is not what the purpose of this site has been. It doesn't even have the depth of such sites as Squirt. It is vulgar and crass. It does appear to be coming from an intended attempt to control. Such an obsession may be seen as a reflection of an unhealthy mind. As you point out elmwood, we are not medical people. Some of us do have some training in behavioural sciences. Some of the wiser minds have gone silent or left.

Anyone, want to begin a pool when this site will shut down? It is dead as a bisexual site or in a most positive way...the site has become disfunctional on life support and comatose in cum shots from mainly two posters.

Nobody here is obsessed except for control freaks like yourself who think they can become the morality/prude police of this site, and who find certain threads or topics distasteful to them yet click on the thread to open it and reply to it.

I am not violating rule #2 as void himself and Elian have both posted how they are mentally ill before.

This is a hook up, amateur porn site, and sex site for bisexual people. People are going to post pics of, write about, and look for...OMG sex.