Exactly.Originally Posted by charles-smythe
There are lots of prudes on this site who don't want there to be any sex talk, or nude pics on an adult bisexual sex site.
If these prudes don't like a topic or thread they should just simply not read it or click on it, or reply to it...instead of acting foolish and throwing temper tantrums.
Last edited by pole_smoker; Mar 26, 2015 at 3:58 PM.
To some extent it's a reaction to the fact that I miss my friends, and that idea that I would like new members to have the same opportunity to build community that we had.
Hmmm, I've never heard anyone advocate that there be no sex talk on this site. Ever. I don't believe the prudes you refer to actually exist, let alone exist in large numbers. I believe you're being a bit of a drama queen there. *rolls eyes back at you*Exactly.
There are lots of prudes on this site who don't want there to be any sex talk, or nude pics on an adult bisexual sex site.
If these prudes don't like a topic or thread they should just simply not read it or click on it, or reply to it...instead of acting foolish and throwing temper tantrums.
I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)
Nope, I'm not being a drama queen. Just being honest.
Some of them even posted in this thread saying how they didn't like seeing porn pics, or discussions of sex on a bisexual adult sex/amateur porn, and sex/hook up site like this.
"They" (meaning I) said they didn't want to see porn posted in a thread that wasn't about porn. Shocking!!
But unless you can produce a direct quote from this thread of someone saying they think there should be no sex talk on this site or any porn on this site, then you are either being a drama queen, or simply outright lying. I know where my money is.
I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)
First off, I'm not writing about this thread only. I meant on this site in general you'll have people who do post how despite being on a bisexual porn/sex/amateur hook up site they don't want to see pics of naked people or read discussions about OMG adults having sex with each other.
Dude, when a signature block takes up quarter of a page per post, that's just bad internet etiquette .. I don't care whether it's a porn photo or a picture of cute fuzzy kittens.
Signature block? Nobody has a signature block like this, or a signature like this on their posts.
Try posts # 37, 47 and 59 in this thread. Posting a one line response with a huge ass pornographic picture under it that has no relationship to what the poster is talking about in the one line response - in my opinion - looks similar to what people would do with a sig block.
I could be wrong, and it's not my intention to single out that one member/poster, but it makes what is supposed to be a serious discussion very hard to follow. Why not post the pornographic photo in the pornographic thread instead? Sorry I encouraged this behavior by complimenting andeep. I wouldn't mind seeing just one photo, but three of them closely posted together in the middle of a heated debate frosted my cookies. (/me prefers gingerbread, with sprinkles)
Of course maybe he's right - maybe we should all just have sex with each other until we work out these conflicts..sadly sex isn't everything.
The comment about people posting their genitals instead of their faces was discussed a long time ago. To summarize the thread responses - some folks do it because that is what they are interested in, some folks do it because they fear the public repercussions of showing their face in a bisexual site online.
Last edited by elian; Mar 27, 2015 at 9:41 PM.
OK that's a reply to a post, not a signature/signature block.
If you're annoyed about pr0n pics, and people's genitals that they post why are you on an adult sex, hook up, and bisexual site?
Porn pics, and pics of people's genitals cum with the type of site this is: an adult sex/hook up/amateur porn site.
Last edited by pole_smoker; Mar 28, 2015 at 1:08 AM.
I would argue that it is still a bisexual site. In my mind and with my imagination engaged I can walk among all of you and know how you make me feel and whether or not I would desire an engagement with you of one kind or another. Titillation and heart felt communication each have their time and purpose in the grand scheme of things. I might have a preference but then again, so might you. Separated by time and distance but connected in a way through this awkward splintering of purposes and divergent expectations. Often that is all that's needed to create something special. Well, I'm game, let's give it a try. Knowing me to be bisexual, How would you like to feel about me and how do you want me to feel about you?
Fair enough about not limiting your remark to this thread.First off, I'm not writing about this thread only. I meant on this site in general you'll have people who do post how despite being on a bisexual porn/sex/amateur hook up site they don't want to see pics of naked people or read discussions about OMG adults having sex with each other.
But I maintain I've never seen anyone here generically opposed to porn or erotic pictures on this site. Elian above (I believe) is complaining about them showing up on every post a person makes in a thread that isn't about sharing pictures. This was my same complaint. I don't believe either of us has any beef about threads devoted to that sort of thing.
Nor have I ever heard anyone say terribly otherwise. Ever. People may have lamented times when *every* thread was about porn, pictures, or heavily erotic content...because they also wanted some thoughtful discussion (yes, yes, you can argue that they should post it if so, but that's not the subject of this discussion...we're currently exploring whether anyone has ever said or feels that there should be no erotic content on this site...since you claim that *many* people here feel that way). I think you're making it up. Show me otherwise.
I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)
The other thing I would say is that if someone on the site wants to have multiple personalities, go for it. I remember when I was 10 years old I didn't know who I wanted to be or what I wanted to do so when play time rolled around I would pretend to be about 4 or 5 different people. Most of the other children played along because they were just as a good at using their imaginations too.
Speaking from personal experience there are times when I -still- feel half masculine, half feminine and half child - and at any one given moment in time I never know which one is going to win out.
Eventually I think it would be a relief to integrate all of these different aspects of myself into a holistic identity but that is harder to do that you might think if you have strong feelings regarding relationships with others, gender, sexual acts, etc. The western way of thinking about this stuff, laden with guilt and shame - is not very healthy. I would be a lot more capable of resolving this issue if the word "wrong" wasn't drilled into me since the day I could walk.
Sorry - I know this isn't a therapy session, but we are trying to discuss some of the conflicts going on ..
Last edited by elian; Mar 28, 2015 at 10:47 AM.
Open
When this thread was started the site was full of same sex sexual activity. There was no thread about opposite gender sexual relationships nor men and women have a relationship with more than one gender. It read as a gay sexual titilation site. There were few if any discussing the life style options /choices/ struggles in the threads. There were no noticeable threads asking for advice about bisexuality. Pure sexual male penetrating male, glory holes, and other things about the male body were present.
The trolls reaction was to deny(usual) and post kink images of women same sex or threesomes of mixed gender. There was the occasional simplistic juvenile question asked that threw in women with men. No women responded or few of any women left on this gay male site.
It is not a matter of giving "it" a try. "It" same sex actions have been dominating this site Is this your bisexuality or meet any criteria of bisexuality? Does it not seem gay?
Last edited by tenni; Mar 28, 2015 at 1:29 PM.
No I'm not making anything up. Secondly I don't care if some random woman on the internet believes me or not, or wants to argue semantics, split hairs, nit-pick, over-analyze, and take everything I post way too seriously. You can find old threads on this site where people (despite being on an adult sex, hook-up, amateur porn bisexual site), complain about nude pics and amateur porn pics.
*smile* Oh fear not...I don't take anything you say seriously at all. From what you show here, you have all posture and no substance.
I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)
Whatever.
I think people can be both intelligent and sensual at the same time..
Yes tenni, I did notice a large number of threads about gay male sex acts, I'm not opposed to male/male sex acts since that is a part of being bisexual. I'm just tired. If people want to enjoy themselves getting off reading the threads then fine, but yeah - the site seemingly has always been weak on the female opinion of the issue. I'm not so sure it would be a terrible thing to worship a woman every once in a while...my attention is drawn to "beautiful", compassionate people of both genders. I don't necessarily define "beauty" as "It echoes down cleavage canyon when you say hello."
Threads about sex for pay and some of the threads about childhood sexual experience sort of bothered me. I get that people want to share experiences, and I think it may even be healthy, at least until it becomes obsessive. I can't define what "obsessive" means by myself.
You know what I haven't seen in a while, a good ol' fashioned "tentacle sex" thread (grins, bangs head into desk). Again, I'm not so sure how such a thing would apply specifically to being bisexual - Everyone can enjoy tentacle sex, right? (sighs)
Interesting. If my post reflects on how you're defining prudishness, then it doesn't jive well with the dictionary or common usage. But as you say, whatever.Whatever.
I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)
Elian
Of course, m2m sex is fine as is m2f. The site has frequently had more posts about issues for male bisexuals than women but not the extreme unhealthy focus that each time the troll appears. The objectification of a lover male or female screams through his/her posts with graphic obsessive focus on male anatomy. What is posted generally now is toilet sex and garbage sex. Image after image of genitals is not about bisexuality as much as cheater stolen porn images. It is unhealthy regardless of anyone' s moral perspective. Most threads are now kept active or brought back from the older threads by the trolls. Most that are brought back to the front page come from the purient nature of the disturbed mind of the trolls.
I agree that a person may show their intelligence and sensuality regardless of gender. Some see intelligence as sensually much more of a turn on than toilet sex images.
lol ...Tentacle sex?
Last edited by tenni; Mar 28, 2015 at 5:08 PM.
I suppose it's best not to ask, but I do remember a discussion one time.
Now this is a good thread! Regarding this site was/ is/ will be ________, I still find it appealing as I explore what it means to me to be BI. I found an interesting story site- http://lushstories that has some really good writing. i did a story on there - a threeway my ex i had with another guy. As long as there are well-thought out, active threads like this- I'll keep coming back!
How it all started... "You want to see me do what? You first!"
You're right darkeyes. It is not the same. too bad. I want to come back to talk to all the fantastic people I met here, but I don't know what to think anymore. So... If I never see you again.. Cheers! to my Favorite Highlander!!!!!
Without life there is no laughter... Without laughter there is no life
Hello Tenni,
With your forgiveness I would remind you that the site started as a foil for Drew's more potentially profitable Three Pillows enterprise. Even so, as we all may be rats scurrying though a normal life' experimental habit trail, I am having a hard time understanding how that message actually translates into a coherent argument for all of us. Three pillows by definition are really two partners inviting a third for play. It's Play_Sexual. If its late enough, if you've had enough, Game is on.
I'm not that tangled up but I don't have a real problem with the three dogs on a bun argument.
Even better, I am still thinking about it.
Just ignore Tenni he's a troll and loves to attack anyone who he doesn't personally like or agree with.
Yes you are correct about this site being linked to the porn site. Was the porn site profitable? Probably not in today's world of free amateur porn where you can find lots of adults who make and put their own amateur porn online many of whom do all sort of fetish based or non-vanilla based sex that make vanilla sex like bisexual 3 ways very tame. Plus, despite the myth of what people in the porn biz claim at all levels you don't make a lot of money doing porn.
Tentacle sex is wot wudda happened had fran not managed 2 disentangle an' squirm out of the slimy clutches of numerous octopi...Elian
Of course, m2m sex is fine as is m2f. The site has frequently had more posts about issues for male bisexuals than women but not the extreme unhealthy focus that each time the troll appears. The objectification of a lover male or female screams through his/her posts with graphic obsessive focus on male anatomy. What is posted generally now is toilet sex and garbage sex. Image after image of genitals is not about bisexuality as much as cheater stolen porn images. It is unhealthy regardless of anyone' s moral perspective. Most threads are now kept active or brought back from the older threads by the trolls. Most that are brought back to the front page come from the purient nature of the disturbed mind of the trolls.
I agree that a person may show their intelligence and sensuality regardless of gender. Some see intelligence as sensually much more of a turn on than toilet sex images.
lol ...Tentacle sex?Sometimes the octopus managed 2 win wot wos an unequal struggle.. well, I wos only lickle an' octopi tend 2 b big powerful lummoxes wiv (wot seemed like) 8 arms..
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Do not think so little of me as to grant me your tolerance. Allow me your acceptance and understanding of who and what I am with the love, respect and dignity with which I do you.
Hehehehe - I needed that Fran. Have a goood day (smiles)
Wow pole, are you having a bad day or what? If this site is so unprofitable why is it worth your time to post here? Seems pretty rotten to insult the person who is enabling your participation on all of these threads.
Highlander
Nope, am a lowland city girl from the capital, a place I love, with a surname of border reivers from the debatable land many of whom were hung for being naughty boys (treachery, rustling, murder, rape, general thievery) or were raped by naughty boys with other surnames and like most borderers of the 15th and 16th centuries were a mighty untrustworthy lot famed for inventing the term "blackmail" as much as owt else (the rustling of the black cattle of the area and holding them for ransom).... and am haff English for me pains... mum coming from Salford next to Manchester and haff me relations talk like summat out of Corrie (Coronation Street... rather dreadful British Soap)and even have an gr8 uncle who really says "ee bah goom (gum), lass" an' "by 'eck".. daft ole coot, but I do adore him... 97 and laffs more in a day than me Gran, his l8 sister, did in her entire life... Triff part of the world, gr8 fun, lots 2 do... just not, well.. beautiful.....worth a visit tho.. brill gay village...gr8 for pubbing n clubbing n shopping...
Tc of urself if u do disappear.. pity bout .com, but things change and sadly not allus for the better...
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