How Realistic Is This?

[whistle1]

I have been curious for a while, but have never acted on it - for various reasons. One of them is that I find the "first time experience" idea to be frightening. I am a "toe in the water" kind of guy as opposed to a "dive right into the deep end" sort.

Someone suggested that I start out simply by watching another guy jack off. I understand the logic - if I am repulsed by the mere sight of another cock, then all of this curiosity is simply in my head and this sort of thing just isn't for me. If I turn out to be into it, then I can progress from there.

I know I can post an ad online and find any number of guys willing to show me their cocks. What I wonder though, is it realistic to think a guy will be willing to simply let me watch him stroke his cock without expecting any from me - especially if I'm not into it?

[JackTexas94]

You should have no problems. I would do it for you if I could.

[tenni]

Hi
One question that came to my mind was whether you are into watching porn of a guy masturbating and shooting? How do you feel about that?

The in person aspect of watching a guy jack off probably will fall in to line with watching porn unless one of you wants to touch or go further. If you make it clear that you are really looking for a voyeuristic experience I'm sure that there are lots of guys who like to just be watched. Just make it absolutely clear that you will not be touching nor want to be touched.

[Realist]

Tenni's right...if you are specific about your interests, you're more apt to meet someone.

You can find just about anything on the Internet. There are people who love to watch, but may never want to actually do anything. There are a lot of members, here, from New Jersey and one of them might even contact you.

Maybe you can begin a comfortable dialog with someone......then, when you feel comfortable, meet and see if you both are OK to proceed.

Good luck!

[pole_smoker]

Do you mean watching a man masturbate in person? Or just watching a man masturbate like some do on webcam?

Either way it should be very easy to find someone to do this with.

[SilkyHoseLover]

As several others have mentioned, it should be easy to find someone who will jerk-off while you watch. Probably more so on cam than in-person, but we guys are a horny lot and and love to whip up the cream!

I find it very arousing to masturbate while I know I'm being watched.

[Gearbox]

Who here would bother inviting some bloke around to JUST watch you have a wank?

1. "Hello, I'm Steve and I am fkn gagging to suck you to the balls. I'm precumming just thinking about your cock in my hungry spunk-splashed gob!".
2. "Hello, I'm Kevin and I'd like to watch you have a wank coz am not really sure I'm interested in cock. I may just walk out and leave you feeling shitty!"

C'mon! Which one would you go for 100000000 x's out of 1000000000?

[jem_is_bi]

Who here would bother inviting some bloke around to JUST watch you have a wank?

1. "Hello, I'm Steve and I am fkn gagging to suck you to the balls. I'm precumming just thinking about your cock in my hungry spunk-splashed gob!".
2. "Hello, I'm Kevin and I'd like to watch you have a wank coz am not really sure I'm interested in cock. I may just walk out and leave you feeling shitty!"

C'mon! Which one would you go for 100000000 x's out of 1000000000?

Wow!! Tough Choice, but I choose #1. Well, ... , maybe not so difficult to choose. But, I am sure he can find someone anyway. Just need to rework that #2 advertizement to obscure the downside.

[xxxcjs]

I'm in the same situation your in , ihope you have better luck than I'm having with it .

[robert4friends]

With guys (not so true with women) you can get just about anything you want if you are willing to ask for it. I have been with many first time or little experience men in the last 5 years. I let them know up front they need not do anything they don't want to do. One place you might check out is FetLife.com. In my area there is a masturbation club that is just for people wanting to jerk off with others watching. There are even a few women from time to time. What really happens in my experience is that once people get naked they get pretty relaxed about being touched with permission. Odd thing us humans, we just love another human giving us pleasure as long as we are not violated. Consent is the key, ask and it will be given to you.

If you just want to watch a good place is https://chaturbate.com/male-cams/

[cbb83]

Just watch some porn. If the dicks repulse you, you're probably not going to be into it. If they repulse you and you are into it, your issue might not be homo/bisexuality but something psychological.

[Jizzoutlive]

Well they're so many mays to approach the gay scene. Just be sure you want to live this type of life. I started with gay cam guys online, then I moved to a more realistic thing. Here is the place I started online and these guys were pretty cool http://www.jizzoutlive.com/live/guys/

[donttellnehismy]

Yes it's possible just be honest about what you want from the start

[charles-smythe]

I have been curious for a while, but have never acted on it - for various reasons. One of them is that I find the "first time experience" idea to be frightening. I am a "toe in the water" kind of guy as opposed to a "dive right into the deep end" sort.

Someone suggested that I start out simply by watching another guy jack off. I understand the logic - if I am repulsed by the mere sight of another cock, then all of this curiosity is simply in my head and this sort of thing just isn't for me. If I turn out to be into it, then I can progress from there.

I know I can post an ad online and find any number of guys willing to show me their cocks. What I wonder though, is it realistic to think a guy will be willing to simply let me watch him stroke his cock without expecting any from me - especially if I'm not into it?

...yes...

[whistle1]

Thanks to those who have commented.To answer some questions...

I have seen cocks online (solo, straight, bi, trans). I am not repulsed by them, but I'm not turned on either.

I was talking about watching a guy in person. The web cam idea though, may be a good transition.

[sysper]

Thanks to those who have commented.To answer some questions...

I have seen cocks online (solo, straight, bi, trans). I am not repulsed by them, but I'm not turned on either.

I was talking about watching a guy in person. The web cam idea though, may be a good transition.

1 step at a time.........

[Fzmr9t]

Try going to an ABS. I'm sure some one will be able to fill the bill

[trybothnj]

Let me know when you're online,we can chat and maybe try caming if things click.

[whistle1]

Thanks to all those who commented.