I have been chatting with a couple for about two months and we have decided to meet for lunch today. It's just a meet and greet for us to get to know each other further and see if there is any physical attraction. We've traded pics and talked on the phone a few times and we all think it's time for a face-to-face. I'm excited.
They are both 5 years older than me and have been married for 30 years. From what I understand, they have grown apart sexually and over the past few years, he has gotten to where he prefers sex with males. They still have sex with each other, but according to her, it's not all that wonderful because she feels like it mostly just going through the motions for him. They love each other and do not want to separate, especially after three decades together.
They had a previous lover that they really enjoyed who, according to them, really met both of their sexual needs. He unfortunately got transferred and had to move away, so they are looking for another.
I like the pace of things and am hopeful it actually works out. If we do decide to take it to a sexual level, we all will be tested and it will be an exclusive thing. Seems like all the right things are happening.
I'll post more about out meeting today, especially if we decide to take it further.
Wish me luck.
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