No, not me!
An old and good friend who I've known since school days, almost forty years now, accidentally outed himself to me last weekend and doesn't even know it. I won't go in to the details of how it happened, but lets just say that clearing your browsing history is a good idea. Firefox, and other browsers suggest websites when you start typing, starting with sites you've recently visited. These suggestions can give very private information away if someone else is using your computer. No, I wasn't deliberately snooping, and I had permission to be using the computer. He wasn't present when this happened, so he doesn't know that I saw that he was browsing gay hookup sites. I'm never going to bring this up to him or anyone else outside of an anonymous setting like here. He would be absolutely mortified if he knew that I know about this. He lives alone, so it wasn't someone else browsing these sites.
I don't care though, his private life is his business and nobody else's. This in no way changes how I feel about my friend. If he ever feels the need to come out, I will be there for him still. He doesn't know that I'm bisexual.
I'm not out as bisexual to anyone outside of my circle of "special" friends myself, so I can appreciate and respect his desire to keep this private. I live in a very conservative small town, and being out can cause problems that I just don't feel the need to deal with. I felt kind of awkward for a while after discovering this, kind of like how one would feel getting caught reading someone's diary. It just goes to show that no matter how well you think you know someone, you can be surprised.
Browse in private mode or clear your history if you don't want to accidentally reveal information that you'd rather keep private!
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