Can anything be too big?
Bear with me now, in thought "big" can be AWESOME! Huge cocks, ginormous boobs, thinking or looking can be amazing. Are there boundaries however? I remember browsing furry (anthropomorphic animal) art, some female characters having tits larger than themselves, I thought "no, not sexy just weird." Easy to think "BIGGER is BETTER," but any thoughts on "too big"?
I'll add my 2 cents. I luv big natural tits and big cocks, However, really big fake tits don't do much for me. A really big cock is fun to play with, stroke, and try to deep throat, but the average size cock is much easier to swallow.
Apparently so given how many bottoms I have met that couldn't take me no matter how carefully I tried to dilate them. Recently we chatted a couple from Craigslist looking for other couples. They asked us to phone to verify we were in fact a couple. We called and talked for over an hour with lots of laughter on both sides and all seemed to be hitting it off well. They even suggest a date for us all to get together. At the end of the conversation size came up and it became clear they had not yet seen nude pictures of me. After we hung up I sent some nudes and erect cock shots and got an immediate reply stating I was way too big for her and they didn't want to see us after all. Never met a woman I was too big for before so that was quite surprising!
She must be used to small or micro-penises, you're not "too large" as you're just above average at 6.5" long and thin when hard.Originally Posted by Neonaught
Friends of mine have been with men who have large penises that are 9-12+ inches long, and they said how bigger isn't always better since guys who are that large have difficulty getting and staying fully hard, and when they have sex with men they just become totally passive/bottoms.
My husband is on the considerably larger side, and I wouldn't want anything bigger than him. There's certain positions that are just too painful to do that often, those take a bit more patience.
It's usually girth that makes the "too big" portion of things. The average width (diameter) of a human penis is 1.5 inches, erect. Most of the "porn star" type dildos I have seen usually are listed at 2 to 3 inch diameters (more often 2 than 3). Keep in mind, the diameter of a soda can is 2.75 inches - that's a lot wider than it sounds. I don't feel like doing the conversions to circumference, but a 2 inch diameter is somewhere above 6 inches in circumference; a 1.5 inch diameter is four point something in circumference. Once you're beyond 3 inch diameters, you're into novelty dildos designed to stretch people out.
I've known women who are tight and can get little tears from having sex with men at 2 inch diameters and above. I've never known any to have problems at less than two inches, but I'm sure it could happen. Anally speaking it depends on the individual and for some as little as an inch wide can be difficult. There are of course people who are "stretchier" than normal who can accommodate much more in either location.
Just my two cents.
I like soft, smooth, voluptuous, bodies for both genders...never attracted to skinny people, although I was skinny for most of my life. Large breasts and butts, proportional legs, are my preference....I've never been with a woman who's breasts were too large, but I've seen a couple. Inner beauty is more important than exterior beauty. However, I can't help but be turned off by exaggerated silicone-enhanced breasts...I'd choose smaller, natural ones, if that was my only criteria for choosing a partner.
The difference, between me and most men I've known is, I prefer smaller penises. I've had two male lovers, who had very large penises, but I was with with them because of their character, mutual interests, and intellect, rather than their equipment size. So, yes, in that case smaller is better for me.
What are your husband's stats for his penis? Is he bisexual like you are?
i'll be the judge of how big you are. send me a pic. :-) there is such a thing as too big and taking it up the ass can get painful and not enjoyable. i've had 10.5 before and that was the max that wasn't enjoyable at all. i still prefer and like big though, least 8" for satisfaction. ;-)
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