First and best encounters

[theyoungandcurious]

Hey guys, i'm gonna meet up with a guy i've been chatting with online and I have so much going through my mind, what were you first and best encounters?

Any tips to make this meet even better?

[sysper]

no tips from me really, i have yet to try myself. be sure to communicate clearly. trust ur instincts & don't feel u have gotta do nething u don't feel comfortable with, but don't be afraid to take the plunge.......just wanna say congratulations & goodluck........be safe & have fun!

[sweecocksucker69]

My first encounter was that we would meet in a restaurant/ cocktail lounge and decided on what we would like to do. In this case we decided on mutual blow jobs.

[whitewolf(ette)55]

My first encounter was with a friend of mine. We were about 17-18. We were sitting in his basement. We were horsing around a bit and one thing lead to another and he asked me if I ever had sex with anyone, I told him , No, I haven't. He asked me if I would let him fuck me. I was always wondering when he would ask( I wasn't sure about my sexuality back then) ,but did like him enough to say Yes. We got undressed and he put on a condom. I got on all fours and he started to do me slowly, after he put it in, I was in heaven. I didn't want him to ever pull out,but he was telling me the condom broke , said I didn't care and about that time his mom yelled down supper was ready and we had to stop, but every chance we were alone , he would either fuck or suck me and I would suck him. Tried to fuck him once ,but couldn't get it up to do him, so he would always do me, and I didn't care !!!!!

[Realist]

Young and curious, I think you started right by communicating and getting to know the guy before meeting. I'd suggest to meet in a public place, next. Get some eyeball contact...........You can tell more about a person, when you're looking them in the eye, too. If you're comfortable, then decide what you want to do next.

I'd suggest making a list of things you'd like to try, then ask him if he agrees? Be sure to get his promise to stop, if you're uncomfortable, or feeling pain. Don't settle for anything less than you want, or you'll probably never be satisfied.

If this is your first time, I hope he is as considerate and knowledgeable as my first mm experience was. Good luck!

[Fzmr9t]

My first encounter was with another married man. It was his first also. We met in a parking lot at the local Wendy's and chatted for a bit in his car, then he followed me home. Once there we slowly got to know each other, kissed and removed our clothes and just kinda fumbled thru a 69 session. It was one of my best times ever! Such a new experience, and there was no pressure from either of us to do anything we didn't want to do.

[johnnyeasy]

A warning, a suggestion....and a congratulation.
The First time I tried to meet somebody from online (THIS site actually!) we had been chatting for over a month. We decided to meet at hotel halfway between, and since I was single and he was not, we would use my credit card. I am sure you can see what is coming, right? He is a no-show....I got stuck with the cost of the room...and I didn't see him in the chat room again for a long time....lesson leaned
Second attempt to meet somebody from this site.....we agreed to meet at a shopping mall to see if we clicked......no sex anticipated. We met, we walked around the mall getting to
know each other. We both go back to our respective homes, and he soon invites me over. The SECOND meeting was a lot EASIER.......I knew him, I trusted him, he turned me on.....things went as planned....wink wink nudge nudge saynomore.
I do not know how far apart you two live from each other......but the good news is you found somebody INTERESTED in meeting. The rest is just logistics! Be safe and have fun!

[gale_mn]

meet at Public place get to know each

[itsnormy]

I posted my BEST time on here in a short story form...*S*

[goodsonformom]

Young and curious, I think you started right by communicating and getting to know the guy before meeting. I'd suggest to meet in a public place, next. Get some eyeball contact...........You can tell more about a person, when you're looking them in the eye, too. If you're comfortable, then decide what you want to do next.

I'd suggest making a list of things you'd like to try, then ask him if he agrees? Be sure to get his promise to stop, if you're uncomfortable, or feeling pain. Don't settle for anything less than you want, or you'll probably never be satisfied.

If this is your first time, I hope he is as considerate and knowledgeable as my first mm experience was. Good luck!

Realist has some wonderful advise. I would say to follow his lead as it is spot on....as usual......*smiles*

As to my own first meet from the internet.....we met in a park and sat and talked. When he put his hand on my thigh and asked if I wanted to go somewhere quiet.....his had moving to rest on my my cock....I nodded I did......I was very happy being naked in his bed.....

[jackofbothtrades]

What happened? You've got me curious

[pole_smoker]

I enjoyed it a lot when I first had sex with a woman as an adult, since I'd already had sex with the same gender.

[Oralboy69]

My first homosexual encounter was with someone I barely knew. I asked him if he wanted a blow job and he agreed. We went to a secluded spot and I gave him head, he masturbated me and I came before him. It was disappointing and I would not recommend doing what I did. My first time swallowing cum was a guy I met at a gay bar. It was a lot better. My best experience was with a friend and his girlfriend, I sucked him off and he sucked me off twice while his girlfriend watched.

[centillini]

met a guy for coffee, we talked, joked about sex. he invited me back to his/wife place. we watched porn, and ended with him cumming as i shot all over his face. was awesome, led to his wife watching