Originally Posted by
cuttin2dachase
I agree with bikurinpa. I have met only 3 or 4 men without talking to them on the phone first. The only 2 no shows I ever had were guys who later emailed me and said they got lost trying to find my place even with GPS directions to it. They were both married guys who didn't want to reveal their mobile phone numbers or call/text me even though I emailed them my mobile #. I told them they could hide their mobile # when they called or texted, but they were just too paranoid about their wives checking on their call/text history or that I might be indiscreet and save their mobile #'s and then call or and text them at home. If either had just trusted me and called or texted, I could have given them more precise directions. Now, unless I have met a guy before or chatted enough with a new guy I'd like to meet via emails, live chats and phone calls/texts, I never give directions to my home. Instead I meet him at a nearby restaurant bar for a beer and have him follow me home if we hit it off. He is usually as excited as I am and can't wait to finish our beers and follow me home ! There have been a couple of guys who got cold feet about following me home, but at least they showed up. 2 of them stayed in touch with me and we met and played a week or two later.
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