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  1. #61

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by charles-smythe View Post
    …a feeder generally doesn’t want friendly…he just wants his cock sucked…if the guy wants you to be friendly…then there’sv a good chance that you’re both gay…& before you flame me theres nothing wrong with being gay…or a lesbian…or bisexual…one is no better than the other…they’re just different…
    I disagree. Being romantically attracted to both genders is still bisexual. Being friendly doesn't even go that far.

  2. #62

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by silkyhoselover View Post
    Actually, I'm not attracted to men at all. If I'd never found myself in a MFM threesome, I never would tried oral sex on a man. I see guys walking around, and have absolutely no feeling of attraction. Everything changes behind closed doors when a cock comes into view. I love to watch guys playing with themselves, being sucked or sucking. So for me, it's 'the cock'.
    same here

  3. #63

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by Melody Dean View Post
    I disagree. Being romantically attracted to both genders is still bisexual. Being friendly doesn't even go that far.
    Exactly. But then again someone having a fuck buddy and hooking up with people are not romantic attraction either, even if some people here think it is.

  4. #64

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Both - but the dick matters much more to me. I want and also need a guy with at least 9 inches of dick. The cutest hottest sexiest man doesn't do it for me if he's packing anything less. And 10 inches is my personal sweet spot....

  5. #65

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Oh just the cock. I don't ever "see" men as attractive. More often than not the "hot" guys according to females are pretty much not very cool in my opinion. On a man scale, they don't rank very high to me. But I am so drawn by a hard cock. Mmmmm. One belonging to a guy who will not shy from fucking me like the dirty little whore I am. Then lets me suck him off over and over again, filling my belly with his sweet sperm. God I need it now.

  6. #66

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Great thread. I can relate to so many posts here.


    Quote Originally Posted by Realist View Post
    Nope, for me it's the person, compatibility, mutual interests, trust. I have to care about anyone, or preferably love them, before I can feel arousal and the desire to share intimacy with anyone....male, or female. Always been that way, always will.



    Same here, it's the guy. But once we connect and both feel comfortable and gain more experience together then I lust for the cock. It's so much better after we learn each other's likes and dislikes.




    Quote Originally Posted by onesucker4u View Post
    I has always been just the cock, until recently. I had the pleasure of a visit from a 19 yo that was smooth and skinny. He had a pretty face too. So, I went up close to him, and would have kissed his lips but I sensed he had no interest. So, I kissed his neck and worked my way down kissing and likking all over his body. I loved avery inch of his body, exept for legs, cuz of the hair. His beautifull 7" dick was fully erect by the time I got down to it and sucked him to completion. I know now I am very attracted to young , slightly feminine men and would probably go all gay for one that stuck around.



    I can really relate to this feeling (not the experience) because the initial sexual attraction doesn't happen with men as easily as it does with women. I'm really turned on by feminine qualities and emotional connections with women come so much easier. An emotional and sexual relationship with a feminine guy earlier in life would have been very fulfilling. Unfortunately I didn't recognize the my sexual desires until later. And at this age I have difficulty thinking about this with someone much younger.




    Quote Originally Posted by goodsonformom View Post
    ..... I need intimacy. It took a long time for me to recognize, or acknowledge that......And to me intimacy is not simply sexual and maybe not at all really.....maybe it's shared secrets or an amazing connection....but of course in many ways it's still about the cock....the taste and the look....but in the end it's still more about what that cock is connected to....the person.....his heart and mind.....

    Very well said.
    BiBoz49 Live in the moment

  7. #67

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I have been with guys who turned me on because I enjoyed being with them both dressed and naked. Then there have been a few guys who I only wanted to suck their cock and get their load of cum and get out because their cock was the only redeeming feature.

  8. #68

    Re: The man or the cock?

    me too! are you in the Cypress area?

  9. #69

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Cock for sure..But...i did kiss a guy a cpl weeks ago for the first time. As soon as i stuck my toung in his mouth, my old cock got hard as a brick. As it is now thinking about it..he was not good looking at all but when you shut your eyes and feel the passion, it makes absolutely no differance..but cock is the main attraction. I like them clean about 6 or 7 inches with mushroom head..perfect fit in my mouth...

  10. #70

    Re: The man or the cock?

    for me it's Confusing and I've fought with myself for years over it, I actually don't find guys to be very attractive and I can't and I've tried to get emotionally attractive to a guy but my mind won't let me plus I absolutely hate body hair. I find women's body and minds to be so sexy and can easily fall for a woman. But I love to feel, suck, and ride a nice real natural cock so for me it's all about the cock. hell if trees started to grow cocks I'd live in the woods.

  11. #71

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I have been with unattractive men who have had the most delicious cock and I loved every minute of it.

  12. #72

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Most of the time I'm just interested in the cock and don't care what the guy looks like. But if they're ethnic looking and decent looking, I get really turned on by them. Especially black, latino, asian and middle eastern.

  13. #73

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by silkyhoselover View Post
    Actually, I'm not attracted to men at all. I see guys walking around, and have absolutely no feeling of attraction. Everything changes behind closed doors when a cock comes into view. I love to watch guys playing with themselves, being sucked or sucking. So for me, it's 'the cock'.
    This is me exactly. I've tried to find men attractive and it just doesn't work. The wiring isn't there. I can notice a guy is good looking, but I'm not attracted or turned on by it.
    But watching a guy getting sucked off by another guy and all of a sudden I can fantasize myself in either roll. Cant watch buttsecks though, mm or fm, it grosses me out.

  14. #74

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Foe me it is MOSTLY about the cock, but I cannot be with a guy that has poor hygiene, way over weight, or just plain ugly. There has to be some form of attraction.

  15. #75

    Re: The man or the cock?

    For me the cock is the attraction.

  16. #76

    Re: The man or the cock?

    For me, the cock comes first. If anything else develops then that's all to the good.

  17. #77

    Re: The man or the cock?

    It really depends on whom I am with and the mood I am in. There are times when I people watch and fantasize about people I see in public. Other times it is about both the man and his cock. And then there are times when it is just about the cock and getting a mouthful of cum.

  18. #78

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Defiantly the cock, can count on one hand the guys I've actually fancied after all these years and they weren't very desirable to me in any way where as its in the thousands with women, just don't find guys attractive but many-a cock is soooo sexy.
    Think thats why i like shemales so much too, in fact spend to much time looking at shemale porn, perfect combination beautiful curvy feminine girl with a sexy cock..recon i could fall for a shemale quite easily, of course the reality of dating a transexual on hormone therapy is an altogether different thing!

  19. #79

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I need to feel friendship or more with a person, man or woman, before anything else happens. If I'm with someone I hardly know or who doesn't care about anything except sex, then I cannot feel safe enough to get aroused. I need to feel some kind of emotional depth or warmth. I realize that I'm odd in that way, since most men can become aroused just being around an attractive man or woman, without knowing much of anything about them. I guess that I'm wired differently, and this makes it much more difficult to meet people, especially men.

  20. #80

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I never "see" men as attractive. I do with females (almost all) only "turned by a man when we are planning to have sex. I do need to know him and the plan.
    if con is the opposite of pro
    is congress the opposite of progress?

  21. #81

    Re: The man or the cock?

    how cute is the guy, if t how passable, cock 6" or more, and a kisser

  22. #82

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Definitely the cock. No real attraction to men. But I absolutely love sucking a hard cock.

  23. #83

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Like many others on here, for me it's more about the cock than the man. I wonder if that's part of the difference between being bi / bi-curious rather than gay. If so, I'm certainly getting more "gay" as I get older. Last year a gentleman friend introduced me to anal. Since then I've found myself not only thinking of his cock and the experience, but wishing we were free to hang out and get to know each other better than circumstances would allow. I don't think I'll every feel that wave of lust that I feel at just seeing some women, but suddenly the idea of making out with a guy (at least this guy) doesn't seem so bad.

  24. #84

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Uh, guys, if you aren't attracted to men, but only to their penises, you are not bisexual. You have what is known as a cock fetish. You abstract the penis from the man it is attached to, but have no other real sexual attraction to the man himself. There is nothing with this, of course, but it isn't a bisexual trait. We have known for a long time that straight men can - and very often do - pleasure one another, but want nothing more than this release. Bisexuals are sexually attracted to men, not just the penis.

  25. #85

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by DMercator View Post
    Like many others on here, for me it's more about the cock than the man. I wonder if that's part of the difference between being bi / bi-curious rather than gay. If so, I'm certainly getting more "gay" as I get older. Last year a gentleman friend introduced me to anal. Since then I've found myself not only thinking of his cock and the experience, but wishing we were free to hang out and get to know each other better than circumstances would allow. I don't think I'll every feel that wave of lust that I feel at just seeing some women, but suddenly the idea of making out with a guy (at least this guy) doesn't seem so bad.
    Do you even know anything about human sexuality? Men who are gay/homosexual are only sexually attracted to the same gender, and yes some gay men are mainly into men only for their cocks, and do not like kissing.

    People who are bisexual are sexually attracted to both genders even if it's just a sexual attraction such as, "being into men only for their cock" or on the flip side "being into women only for their cunt".

    "bi curious" is just another term for being bisexual since if the person was really gay, or if they were heterosexual they would not have sexual attraction/sex fantasies about both genders.

  26. #86

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by altimer23 View Post
    while i don't want to meet shrek, for me its all about the cock. pretty new so its been limited, but so far so good.
    Ditto for me too..

  27. #87

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bimmga View Post
    Uh, guys, if you aren't attracted to men, but only to their penises, you are not bisexual. You have what is known as a cock fetish. You abstract the penis from the man it is attached to, but have no other real sexual attraction to the man himself. There is nothing with this, of course, but it isn't a bisexual trait. We have known for a long time that straight men can - and very often do - pleasure one another, but want nothing more than this release. Bisexuals are sexually attracted to men, not just the penis.
    There is some truth in this in that if you're actually really truely bisexual or a real actual Kinsey 3 you will want a man for more than just his cock, and you can fall in love and have relationships with men as both myself and my husband have done as we're bisexual.

    But being obsessed with dick, ass, or cunt is not a sexual fetish as a sexual fetish is when something that's completely non-sexual turns you on like how some people have a foot fetish, get sexually aroused by seeing people smoke, or get sexually aroused by seeing people wear certain types of shoes or gloves on their hands those are actual fetishes.

    I know of no actual heterosexual man who has ever had sex with a man, except for men in prison but they get raped and forced to have sex with men as a prison bitch.

  28. #88

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by pole_smoker View Post
    There is some truth in this in that if you're actually really truely bisexual or a real actual Kinsey 3 you will want a man for more than just his cock, and you can fall in love and have relationships with men as both myself and my husband have done as we're bisexual.

    But being obsessed with dick, ass, or cunt is not a sexual fetish as a sexual fetish is when something that's completely non-sexual turns you on like how some people have a foot fetish, get sexually aroused by seeing people smoke, or get sexually aroused by seeing people wear certain types of shoes or gloves on their hands those are actual fetishes.

    I know of no actual heterosexual man who has ever had sex with a man, except for men in prison but they get raped and forced to have sex with men as a prison bitch.
    I agree to an extent. I'm not the biggest fan of the Kinsey scale, since it is outdated and somewhat limited. Yet I am the equivalent of a Kinsey 2. I've never "fallen in love" with a man, though I have developed a deep and meaningful regard for my male lover. If I don't have this, the sex is empty and really only slightly more satisfying than masturbation. So I need the emotional connection.

    a fetish is, by definition, the objectifying an object or an act to the extent that the object or act is more sexually satisfying than is usual. It is different from an obsession. So if you focus on just the pussy, just the breast, just the cock, or whatever, and don't care about the rest of the person, it's a fetish.

  29. #89

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I find the dick much more attractive than the man. I will suck a cock regardless of what I may think of the man.

  30. #90

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I have an obsession with the cock; I want the cock more than the man; getting to know the man after using his cock might lead to the reversal.

 

 

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