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  1. #91

    Re: The man or the cock?

    my sort of person; move to Australia and see how we go.

  2. #92

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bimmga View Post
    I agree to an extent. I'm not the biggest fan of the Kinsey scale, since it is outdated and somewhat limited. Yet I am the equivalent of a Kinsey 2. I've never "fallen in love" with a man, though I have developed a deep and meaningful regard for my male lover. If I don't have this, the sex is empty and really only slightly more satisfying than masturbation. So I need the emotional connection.

    a fetish is, by definition, the objectifying an object or an act to the extent that the object or act is more sexually satisfying than is usual. It is different from an obsession. So if you focus on just the pussy, just the breast, just the cock, or whatever, and don't care about the rest of the person, it's a fetish.
    If you just only have or want a man as a fuck buddy like you do, then these men certainly are not 'lovers' as having a lover means you have an actual partnership or real relationship and having a person as a fuck buddy/FWB is not any sort of actual relationship or partnership.

    You clearly do not know what an actual fetish is.

    Fetishism is characterized as a disorder when there is a pathological assignment of sexual fixation, fantasies or behaviors toward an inanimate object -- frequently an item of clothing -- such as underclothing or a high-heeled shoe -- or to nongenital body parts -- such as the foot. Only through use of this object can the individual obtain sexual gratification. The fetishist usually holds, rubs or smells the fetish object for sexual gratification or asks their partner to wear the object during sexual encounters. Fetishism is a more common occurrence in males, and the causes are not clearly known. Fetishism falls under the general category of paraphilias, abnormal or unnatural sexual attractions.

    Sexual fetishism or erotic fetishism is a sexual focus on a nonliving object or nongenital body part.

  3. #93

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by pole_smoker View Post
    If you just only have or want a man as a fuck buddy like you do, then these men certainly are not 'lovers' as having a lover means you have an actual partnership or real relationship and having a person as a fuck buddy/FWB is not any sort of actual relationship or partnership.

    You clearly do not know what an actual fetish is.

    Fetishism is characterized as a disorder when there is a pathological assignment of sexual fixation, fantasies or behaviors toward an inanimate object -- frequently an item of clothing -- such as underclothing or a high-heeled shoe -- or to nongenital body parts -- such as the foot. Only through use of this object can the individual obtain sexual gratification. The fetishist usually holds, rubs or smells the fetish object for sexual gratification or asks their partner to wear the object during sexual encounters. Fetishism is a more common occurrence in males, and the causes are not clearly known. Fetishism falls under the general category of paraphilias, abnormal or unnatural sexual attractions.

    Sexual fetishism or erotic fetishism is a sexual focus on a nonliving object or nongenital body part.
    Since when did a friendship cease to be a relationship? Not all sexual relationships, heterosexual or homo, are romantic in nature. Some people insist that if they don't have romantic feelongs for a sex partner, they don't have a relationship. others, like some here, are fixated only on the penis and are not actually sexually attracted to men. They have a fetish (and, yes, I know all about them). Your cut-and-pasted definition is antiquated and no longer accepted by the APA. Most fetishes have been removed from DSM-5. Only fetishes that cause psychological distress Or cause harm to oneself or others are considered pathological. Homosexuality was once considered pathological and was classified as a fetish at one point. The fetish DOES NOT have to be an inanimate object. Some people cannot be sexually aroused unless they fantasize about having sex with a specific individual or type of person. People are certainly not inanimate objects.

  4. #94

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bimmga View Post
    Since when did a friendship cease to be a relationship? Not all sexual relationships, heterosexual or homo, are romantic in nature. Some people insist that if they don't have romantic feelongs for a sex partner, they don't have a relationship. others, like some here, are fixated only on the penis and are not actually sexually attracted to men. They have a fetish (and, yes, I know all about them). Your cut-and-pasted definition is antiquated and no longer accepted by the APA. Most fetishes have been removed from DSM-5. Only fetishes that cause psychological distress Or cause harm to oneself or others are considered pathological. Homosexuality was once considered pathological and was classified as a fetish at one point. The fetish DOES NOT have to be an inanimate object. Some people cannot be sexually aroused unless they fantasize about having sex with a specific individual or type of person. People are certainly not inanimate objects.
    A friendship is not an actual partnership, or relationship like how you have a relationship with someone who you love and live with.

    Yes a lot of gay and even some bi men do get into pretend "relationships" where they're really just fuck buddies and do not really love each other. My husband and I are not like this as we love each other, and are married to each other and we know quite a few bisexual men who also have married other men who they love or who are in a live in partnership/relationship with a man and not a woman but they're bisexual.

    I did not even go into the APA or psychological classifications of fetishes or sexual fetishes that can disrupt a person's life; but you did for some strange reason.

    As I posted before a sexual fetish is when something that's completely non-sexual as in something besides someone's genitals turns them on and arouses them.

    No people are not inanimate objects but I have seen people do kink/consensual role play where they become inatimate objects such as decoration, a foot rest, ash-tray, table, or even a urinal.

  5. #95

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Definitely the cocks..love cocks and cum!

  6. #96

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by nomorenomore View Post
    I am with Realist. I have to like the person. Not into one-offs. I do find that when watching porn, I get attracted to the cock, but if I were to "be" with someone, I would have to like them.
    I've found that I can emotionally relate to women more than men. I love women but I like men. I'm turned on by cock and balls. I share that with my wife and we both enjoy it. I have had few encounters that were anonymous and those were all when I was younger and less sure of what makes me happy and felling fulfilled. I have to feel a connection to a man to really be interested. She has to feel that as well. I guess that makes us kind of particular. So three ways are not as frequent as we might like but it's quality over quantity.

  7. #97

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by nomorenomore View Post
    I am with Realist. I have to like the person. Not into one-offs. I do find that when watching porn, I get attracted to the cock, but if I were to "be" with someone, I would have to like them.
    I agree. I definitely have to like him to be with him.

  8. #98

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Im more into the cock more so than the man. I love to be fucked either by strap on or a cock so who's behind it isnt totally irrelevant id say some level of attraction is required.

  9. #99

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I am very much attracted to the whole man physically more so the females but it is the reverse for emotional attraction.

  10. #100

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I feel a primal instict for me to compete with other guys (sports and women are examples).

    I don't ever recall these feelings for girls.

  11. #101

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Women tell me they give blowjobs to a guy they have feelings for and they care for the guy.
    The guy only wants my dick plus I don't have to spend any money dating them.

    I prefer to give my dick to the guy. I don't feel like dating and spending time and money and effort wooing women to get a blowjob and even then it's not 100% certain


    If any girl shows interest to go on a date with me, I auto-reject them. I hate dating and specially kissing and cuddling and that intimacy stuff girls want from a guy.
    Specially spending $400 a month going out together. I'd rather do that with my friends anyways...
    I'd rather spend on things like $5000 a guitar rather than on a girl for just a blowjob.

    Thank society these days women are needed less and less.

  12. #102

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by silkyhoselover View Post
    Actually, I'm not attracted to men at all. If I'd never found myself in a MFM threesome, I never would tried oral sex on a man. I see guys walking around, and have absolutely no feeling of attraction. Everything changes behind closed doors when a cock comes into view. I love to watch guys playing with themselves, being sucked or sucking. So for me, it's 'the cock'.
    I agree, I am not attracted to men in public at all. However, in private I would pick cock over pussy any day. Well, almost any day... depends on the person. Lol. So, for me too, its the cock.

  13. #103

    Re: The man or the cock?

    The person, not the physical appendage. That's secondary.
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  14. #104

    Re: The man or the cock?

    The cock and it has to be thick. I am very attracted to a man's body but biggest cock always gets my mouth and attention, regardless of how attractive. I sucked a 50 year old's cock when I was 9. He was overweight, unattractive but with the fattest most beautiful cock. It has always been my trigger since. Old men with hung thick cocks.

  15. #105

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tonguelicious View Post
    I sucked a 50 year old's cock when I was 9.
    Pole_smoker to the white criticism phone, please...

  16. #106

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I can't resist a 50-plus man whose girth and length are like a forearm. I find myself very attracted to kinky old men who have no inhibition. My particular favourites are German men. I have had the pleasure of sucking the thickest most beautiful hung old German men and those who I have enjoyed (and there have been many) are also the most amazing kissers. Long studded tongues!

  17. #107

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I have no romantic feelings to men. My attraction to men is solely sexual.

  18. #108
    Godownonit
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    Re: The man or the cock?

    His DICK, no doubt. Truthfully, I am not really into guys.....but their dicks (and the yummy cum they produce).....YUM !

    Strange, but thinking about loving a guy in the sense of a gay man actually turns me off a bit. But, the dick always brings me back. Obviously, you can't separate the two - so I deal with it.

  19. #109

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I'm all about the cock

  20. #110

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Although a nice ass and hot chest will also get my interested....

  21. #111

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Actually, for me, it's the cock I'm attracted to. I love a cut nicely shaped head. I want it medium to small so it will fit in my mouth. I love to feel a nice cock swell in my mouth as I lick and suck it. Nothing like it for me; but I'm particular on shape/size so it's definitely the Cock for me. Lets face it, most of us just want to cum and go. It would be great to find a local 'regular' guy but mostly for short regular hookups to enjoy each other!

  22. #112

    Re: The man or the cock?

    I will agree.. I am interested in just the cock. But only certain types of cocks. I'm not into hairy ones or ones that are really veiny or curve one way or the other. I also like to watch them cum. Besides I don't get off on watching two guys kissing it don't turn me on at all...

  23. #113

    Re: The man or the cock?

    For me I am attracted to the Energy of that person, either if they are male or female...

    As for penis size, sorry I'm a Top , so you can take that out of the equation for me...

  24. #114

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Even if I like the guy ultimately it comes down to his cock if its nice great if its small and just a little cum doubt if I'd do him again

  25. #115

    Re: The man or the cock?

    First the man, then the cock.

  26. #116

    Re: The man or the cock?

    it the dick and I aam a cd

  27. #117

    Re: The man or the cock?

    It is all about that rock hard and throbbing cock. I become mesmerized and transfixed on the hard cock demanding attention.

  28. #118

    Re: The man or the cock?

    It has been a combination of both factors for me. I like sucking and perhaps anal.
    Sucking has always been the most fun, but I have to ensure the guy is safe and some what like me.
    I had a FWB which was best of all options, both married and we both enjoyed sex, we did a lot of experiences when we met for afternoon suck sessions.
    Once we got comfortable we tried anal, both were new to adult male sex and learned alot during the 2 years together.
    One guy I met after my friend moved loved anal and I was not sure, but after a few times be fucked me and it was like nothing before, felt great.
    So in short I have to like the guy to like the penis.

  29. #119

    Re: The man or the cock?

    Sub,

    It is some the man but 90% the hard precum leaking cock of a man. That sweet taste, the jerking pump of cuming, the seed I will take down.

  30. #120

    Re: The man or the cock?

    for me its a man's cock I love big thick ones doing me cause I love how he feels going in me and pumping me with his cum

 

 

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