Anal Preference - Give or Receive Or Both

[OlderBC1]

I expect to get what I give. share it all or don't bother.

[Osloviking]

I like both

[goldenfinger]

I never understood why not both

[gale_mn]

receive love my legs over my head

[itsnormy]

BOTTOM, BOTTOM, BOTTOM....come drive me to heaven....*S*

[loftycraig]

ive never tried, but with the right guy, im flexible

[readyass]

Receive

[pole_smoker]

I only give. Have never received or been fucked, and do not want to ever do that.

But when I give anal sex I only do it to a male partner who I am in a partnership/LTR with. No it's not done every single time we have sex, and it's totally optional.

Yes, condoms are used each and every time.

I have been told by other bi and gay male friends that actual 'tops' like myself are rare. Is this true?

[Svguy2014]

Both, depends on the mood and how sub/bttm I'm feeling

[elmwood7]

I too prefer to receive but I do both as well.

[4ourbitimes]

I like to receive and also like being on top, so both but what really works for me is when I'm in my wife and a guy is in me...talk about a great cum ..wow.. it's also fun when getting head while someone is in me.

[stonebow]

I like to receive and also like being on top, so both but what really works for me is when I'm in my wife and a guy is in me...talk about a great cum ..wow.. it's also fun when getting head while someone is in me.

These scenes sound so AWESOME! Never experienced either getting sucked AND fucked at once or being the center of a fuckwich...lol Consider them on my list. I have topped a few times and enjoyed it but when I'm with a man it's HIS cock that comes first....I'm there to serve so for me it's receive all the way!

[OralGiver]

receive,would like to try giving

[Ziggy74]

I only give. Have never received or been fucked, and do not want to ever do that.

But when I give anal sex I only do it to a male partner who I am in a partnership/LTR with. No it's not done every single time we have sex, and it's totally optional.

Yes, condoms are used each and every time.

I have been told by other bi and gay male friends that actual 'tops' like myself are rare. Is this true?

Certainly less common in certain demographics, but how less common overall is hard to say. I find, for instance, that a lot of guys who are bi-top only are married to women. But among the more self-identified bi population it seems mostly vers, then bottom, then top.

[pole_smoker]

Certainly less common in certain demographics, but how less common overall is hard to say. I find, for instance, that a lot of guys who are bi-top only are married to women. But among the more self-identified bi population it seems mostly vers, then bottom, then top.

I don't think you can really break it down like that.

There are a lot of bi men, and even gay men who are not into anal sex at all. Or some who only do it a few times a year with a man who they are in a partnership with.

While I'm a total top for anal sex I am not married to anyone, and am single.

[AGuyIKnow]

I'm a top and I've been told by several bottoms that there's definitely a shortage of tops to go around. Though I've bottomed a couple of times, when begged, it's not something that I look forward to. Yes I am married but I don't think my decision would be any different if I wasn't.

[1hot4u]

I like receiving .I have huge sex toys.Would like to try horse dildo and annihalator.Have not had one that big yet.

[cbb83]

This thread makes me wonder if more homo/bisexual men tend towards submissive tendencies as well.

[Melody Dean]

This thread makes me wonder if more homo/bisexual men tend towards submissive tendencies as well.

I also wonder how many top-onlys don't consider themselves bi?

[pole_smoker]

I also wonder how many top-onlys don't consider themselves bi?

If they're having sex with men, or want to but are married or involved with a woman (which isn't necessarily true for the whole top/bottom/versatile thing for anal sex), why wouldn't they consider themselves bisexual?

[Sensualhunter]

Another bottom here

I have had many strapons and now have a RealDoe that my wife will use rarely. Love seeing her with a cock!!!
But I have bottomed for two guys. First was another MWM it was a first time for both of us and he had an 8" beautiful cut cock. It felt so good and he went in so slow. Second guy said he was married and that it was his first time, but I think he was gay and it was not his first time lol. He fucked me hard and fast. :/ As my name implies, I like it slow, long and passionate. I would consider topping in the right situation though I think. I do love being inside a warm sweet pussy.

[Bi2boot]

I've only bottomed once and it was a very long time ago. I went home with a guy I met in a porn theater. He had a thick, eight inch cock and it was just too much for my virgin ass. It hurt so much, I was kind of paralyzed and couldn't find my voice to beg him to stop. I just hung on, waiting for him to finish. It was kind of traumatic, really.

Funny thing is, I still fantasize about getting fucked all the time and use dildos on myself occasionally and come really hard with one inside me.

I have never fucked a guy, but I've had anal with a couple of women and prefer vaginal intercourse. Pussy just feels better to me.

So, I guess I'm saying I'd prefer to receive even though my one experience wasn't a good one.

[Hoosier]

Bottom here...I love the feel of cum in my ass.

[gotlek]

I like to receive since i was a teenager.

[kiowatalon]

I enjoy both receiving anal and topping. Love fucking a pretty ass and receiving a good dick.

[Kevinc140]

I am more of giving.... but a nice tongue in my ass is nice...

[Leenaturalist]

I prefer receiving anal now. I used to give as well as receive, but ED after prostate surgery left me only able to receive. I love receiving and giving oral though.

[pole_smoker]

I never understood why not both

I do not bottom, receive, or become passive during anal sex at all because I find a finger up there painful or uncomfortable. A tongue up there was gross and not something I want to experience again.

[SargeRay.USMC]

I have always favored being the giver. I do receive occasionally. I have always played safe and used rubbers.

[Ann29732]

Obviously I can't 'give' but I do enjoy anal on occasion as long as the guy takes his time, uses plenty of lube....and I have two or three glasses of wine