Are your sexual fantasies usually straight or bisexual?

[Drunk Uncle]

Both my fantasies and my porn tend to be all over the map, esp. in the past couple of years, while I've been settling into a very happy relationship where none of my desires need to kept secret.

I think it's been that huge relief to be able to say, feel, think and act in a way that I'm not worried about that has made my fantasies and my taste in porn go everywhere.

We were walking out of one of the Super Stores the other day when this tall, dark sweaty muscular man walked by us (he looked as though he'd just gotten off of work) and both me and the wife looked at each other, mouthed "yes" while nodding our heads and then laughed.

Ahhh, the joys of settling into that middle-aged type of lust...

@Annika - I agree with the others and was impressed with your response as well. Great points made and one of the aspects of this board that I really love.

Drunk Uncle

[zigzig]

I'm 50/50. I like to involve romantic foreplay in my fantasies. I fantasies about different people-male, female, different arc, eve alien lookalikes. I love watching different porn. Also love to watch male/ male action even though my straight husband likes only straight & lesbian porn.

[Cum1st]

My most vividly remembered dream was way back when I was an inexperienced teen. I was on my back both in the bed and in the dream. A woman was slowly lowering herself on my cock. Before she she made contact I woke up and grabbed my hardon which was cumming uncontrolably in my jockies. Probably all the better, as I had no idea what it would have been like. I hadn't even figured out how to jerk off yet. Girlie mags never showed even as much a pubic hair at the time.

I’d rather watch my cock slip into a woman’s mouth than a man’s. Every square inch of a woman turns me on. With a man it’s what’s in the shorts. On the other hand, having a cock, balls, or asshole to mouth or just burying my face between his balls and thigh will get me to cum in his mouth before his jaw gets tired. Afterward I’ll still want to play with him, get him off and have his cum inside me at either end.

69Ã*ng with a woman or man is about even. The tastes, scents, and ‘equipment’ of either are both a turnon. Tits do add to the excitement, but a man wanting to suck me off will work pretty hard at it and know what I’m feeling.

Fucking a man is great, but fucking a woman has its plusses.

My favorite porn by a head is lesbian seduction.

Cream pies, drinking piss from the source M or F, groups, etc. will do.

Taking the place of a woman that gets many men off and then gets pissed on is good. The other changes I’d like to make are to get to keep the cum, and drink as much of the piss as I can. Facials are such a waste of precious jism, even though it looks great on a woman.

Too much detail?

[voltaire]

Hmmm...must say I've never been asked this before! I'm afraid I'm not sure I get what you're referring to Voltaire...are Jesuits known for getting on soapboxes and splitting hairs over language? Certainly not over heteronormative language?? I did work with some Jesuits for a couple years a while back, and I learned something about their style and philosophies...but I still don't get the reference.

Can you please unravel that one for me? Just a *wee* bit? Pretty please?

"...and splitting hairs over language?" The Jesuits are infamous for their love of pretzel logic and quibbling over minor points. I don't think you are doing that as such but part of what you wrote was runaway philosophical..I was just teasing you.

[voltaire]

Annika
To be compared to a jesuit is a high compliment imo. Great analytical thinkers who are not restricted by conservative simplistic approaches to life's questions. The Jesuits live outside the box of mainstream Catholicism.

That's not the style of Jesuitry I know but Annika is a keen analytical thinker and has a wonderful sense of humor.

[monaohio]

mine is having two cocks in my ass and suck the third and they all cum at same time

[gbahrain2014]

Porn; 95% gay, 5% transgender, m/f anal, lesbian, and female ejaculation

Fantasy; 99% gay, 1% other

[Fzmr9t]

My fantasies are primarily 50/50, while my dreams are more like 99% straight. That's because I usually dream about people I know, and the guys I know tend to be on par with your 'average joe' not exactly what dreams are made of. LOL

[TML1991]

50/50. Sometimes fantasies involving just women, and sometimes both sexes.

[BIGUY123456]

I fantisized about men or mmf

[Bi2boot]

I fantasize about men more than I do women, but I think thats at least partly because of how long I've gone (decades) without any sexual contact with men.

[stonebow]

Upon further reflection I realized my fantasies aren't simply gay in nature, they're kinky! I never had much experience with BDSM but then as a bi man who came to acceptance of his orientation late in life perhaps it's not surprising that my interest in kink is also a recent development. Guess I'm just a late bloomer...lol.

[TerrorTwilight]

When I watch porn it's 95% straight porn, mostly lesbian porn. But when I masturbate without porn, I usually fantasize about being used orally by a bunch of old, uncut guys. But that's just one of many fantasies. About 1/2 are about women, the other half about men.

[LennyC]

They are equal parts gay, straight and transsexual.

[Annika L]

That's not the style of Jesuitry I know but Annika is a keen analytical thinker and has a wonderful sense of humor.

Actually, it is the style of Jesuitry I was exposed to (ooh, now that sounds dirty, doesn't it?)...and ty *blush* on the rest.

[DoneGone275]

I have always fantasized about having oral sex with either a man, a woman, or both at the same time. So I guess my fantasies are bisexual in nature.

[boricuacockmagic]

i'm a man. i'd say about 75% of my sexual fantasies are about me. i like pussy, but lately its been all about the cocks

[ohbimale]

I identify as a bisexual man. I enjoy sex with both genders. However for close to the last 10 years my fantasies and dreams have been with the same sex. Plus my sex partners for the last ten years have been men.

[like2bepegged]

My fantasies have been bisexual and also with my wife watching.Next month maybe somthing else.

[elian]

"Are your sexual fantasies usually straight or bisexual?"

..Yes..

[voltaire]

Actually, it is the style of Jesuitry I was exposed to (ooh, now that sounds dirty, doesn't it?)...and ty *blush* on the rest.

Glad to make you blush. I think it is all true

[BisexualAsian23]

This mostly depends on my mood but it tends to swing towards my bisexual side most of the time.

[foreverbi]

I am most definitely a bi-sexual male. After reading some of these posts I am leaking like the Titanic. I just wish my wife felt the same. ( maybe she does) as she is aware that I would drop to my knees in a New York minute. Just not in her presents.

[dmw897]

Both!...sorta. My fantasy is to watch several hung guys fuck my wife while I watch and jackoff. I wouldn't have a problem if one or two of them came over to me and let me suck her juices off their big cocks

[jjklemenz]

My fantasies have been bisexual and also with my wife watching.Next month maybe somthing else.

My biggest fantasy is sharing a cock with my wife just both eager to please him and share his cum

[bj4ubi]

Both I really want to eat creampie lick pussy and cock while another guy fucks my wife

[Annika L]

Since this thread has resurfaced, I figured I would say again that it is unclear what is meant by a "bisexual fantasy". Perhaps one involving sex with both men and women.

It feels like it is meant to indicate "involves sex with the same sex as the fantasizer", and my only point there is that that is a *homosexual* fantasy; not a bisexual fantasy.

A person may be bisexual by virtue of having, desiring to act out, and/or acting out *both* straight and homosexual fantasies (along with perhaps the occasional bisexual fantasy as described above, lol).

[whispering]

I would say pretty close to 50/50 for me...but with either increasingly more, or increasingly intense fantasies about men (I'm in a long term relationship with a female partner).

But I must say to the OP that "bisexual" is not the opposite of "straight". Having sex with the same sex isn't bisexual, it's homosexual. *Desiring* both kinds of sex is bisexual. I don't know if a fantasy can be "bisexual", unless it's of a 3+some with at least yourself plus another man and woman (and you participate eagerly with both)...but I somehow don't think you meant anything that specific.

You might ask why I'm splitting hairs like this. I gotta say it's because I feel like my kind of relationship gets somewhat slighted by these kinds of discussions...basically, your language is heteronormative, and I feel a need to point it out. From my perspective, the analog of your question would be "Are your sexual fantasies usually homosexual or bisexual?"...by your (apparent) meaning of bisexual, this should mean the exact same thing as your original question. But I think we'd all agree that it doesn't *sound* the same at all...but this is only due to heteronormative assumptions that fantasies about the opposite sex can't possibly be bisexual...but they can, if you allow that perfectly normal (bisexual) people can be in homosexual relationships, just like perfectly normal (bisexual) people can be in heterosexual relationships. The best solution is to not use "bisexual" to mean "with the sex opposite that of your partner", and use it to mean what it really means...and to be ok with using "homosexual" and "heterosexual" to mean what they really mean.

Meh...*steps off the soapbox*

Interesting, and somewhat arousing. I could fantasize licking your pussy while you stand on the soapbox and, er, split your hairs

Seriously, though, I had an interesting thought while reading this, which is that my fantasies of men are almost always of married men, and I'm most aroused by men who are sexually active with women. Rarely is the woman present, but the fact that the cock that I fantasize exploding in my mouth is regularly lubricated by his partner's vagina is definitely part of my arousal, and often an image that puts me over the edge. So I would call that a bisexual fantasy, because although the fantasy (and reality) is a homosexual act, the heterosexual component of the object of my attraction is decisive.

Can we have a scholarly opinion on this? Perhaps from a Jesuit who likes married men?

[sysper]

Interesting, and somewhat arousing. I could fantasize licking your pussy while you stand on the soapbox and, er, split your hairs

Seriously, though, I had an interesting thought while reading this, which is that my fantasies of men are almost always of married men, and I'm most aroused by men who are sexually active with women. Rarely is the woman present, but the fact that the cock that I fantasize exploding in my mouth is regularly lubricated by his partner's vagina is definitely part of my arousal, and often an image that puts me over the edge. So I would call that a bisexual fantasy, because although the fantasy (and reality) is a homosexual act, the heterosexual component of the object of my attraction is decisive.

Can we have a scholarly opinion on this? Perhaps from a Jesuit who likes married men?

i understand how this can be a bisexual fantasy even if it's not directly bisexual...........my "bisexual" fantasy is being with a man while a women watches especially if it's my wife/gf if i had 1, or his wife/gf. or if such a women encourages me to be with a man even if she has no intention of watching or any direct participation.

[Masterslave]

Hmmm when I think about giving, I think about sucking cock and being ass fucked. When I think about fucking, I think about mouths and ass, no matter what gender. I'm a sadist too so I'm an equal opportunity abuser if it's consensual. I must say tho, today, I really consider cunt only good for abuse. I'm glad my wife/slave agrees...