Hi
Well, you never had a thought about men until you were in your early 20's? There are guys who reached 40 before a conscious thought about sex with men entered their mind. I suspect that you are still processing your sexuality. Bottom line is that you are sexually attached to both women and men. There is an aspect of fluidity that happens to some people. Sometimes they are more attracted to women and no men at all . Another time (year or ?) they may swing all the other way and only be sexually attracted to men and not women. How often and how far this swing may happen varies. Just to make you more confused. Factor that in if it happens to you. At the present, you only want to be with a man if your g/f is present. That may be for self reassurance. You may feel more comfortable that way. Take it slow and easy. If you really want a label, you are probably bisexual but could call yourself bi curious until your first time with a man sexually.
As I wrote, you are attracted to both men and women. One day you may even find yourself emotionally attracted to a man or you may never feel that way. The point that you are now finding more focusing on men is telling. Don't marry a woman who can not accept this aspect of yourself and is willing to let you try sex with a man one day if you want to. Insist on that option. If she says that she can not accept that, she is not for you. Dump her no matter how much emotion that you feel for her unhappiness probably lies ahead with such women. Look at your dual attraction as a positive. You have doubled your pleasure by including men and women into who you are attracted to!
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