Tell Your Personal Early Life Sexual Experiences

[pole_smoker]

... racist bastard. Take it from me, dimwit, the French r no more ne of little lot than ne other nationality, and overwhelmingly, a lot less of it than u..

Being French is not a "race", and I'm not racist.

Have you even ever been to France besides Paris? I have been to France, and to more areas of it than you've had fingers or hands up your ass or cunt.

Of course not all French people are like that; but Pepperjack certainly is those stereotypical French things, as well as being a total coward, phony, and hypocrite who has no actual friends in real life. No wonder why his wife divorced him, and why he's stuck with having to have sex with random bottom feeders like himself who he meets on Craigslist who he can trick or coerce into having quick sex with. Sweet pathetic life.

If you want to see someone that's actually racist read your own posts where you claim that black men have large penises, and Asian men have small ones all because some junk science study you believe claims so.

[pole_smoker]

hey Pole...you should try having sex sometime to see for yourself what it is really like...not just the vicarious thrill you get from reading about others who actually have a life

I have sex multiple times daily with my husband, while you're stuck with your hand and in a sexless marriage with your "wife" who you cheat on.

[darkeyes]

Being French is not a "race", and I'm not racist.

Have you even ever been to France besides Paris? I have been to France, and to more areas of it than you've had fingers or hands up your ass or cunt.

Of course not all French people are like that; but Pepperjack certainly is those stereotypical French things, as well as being a total coward, phony, and hypocrite who has no actual friends in real life. No wonder why his wife divorced him, and why he's stuck with having to have sex with random bottom feeders like himself who he meets on Craigslist who he can trick or coerce into having quick sex with. Sweet pathetic life.

If you want to see someone that's actually racist read your own posts where you claim that black men have large penises, and Asian men have small ones all because some junk science study you believe claims so.

We r all no matter what our colour or ethnic origin of but 1 race.... tho the French like most European people are an amalgam of many different ethnic groups and indeed are becoming more so... technically u may be right about my use of word, and I could replace it with the expression xenophobic bastard, but that too is not a perfect fit tho serpently appropriate, just as in my opinion my use of the word racist is appropriate.... so I retract neither, but add to them the word francophobe since u so obviously loathe the French.

I have been going to France almost every year since I was a child of 4. I know Paris better than any other city because I love it so, my best friend used to live there and since I was 20 have spent time ranging from 3 days to 3 weeks in the city every year... but being a francophile, my visits to France have included visits to Marseilles, Lille, Nice, St Tropez, Lyon, Strasbourg, Rheims, Orleans, Le Havre, Caen, Angers, Calais, Boulouge and others... some only once for afew hours but some far more often and for much longer.. I have also visited much of rural France and am paricularly fond of Brittany and Normandy which is where most years my family and I take our annual holiday....

U made no claim that Pepper is like the sterotypical French person.. the claim was being French, he was such a... that is racist, xenophobic and francophobic... there is no qualification... weasel out of it all u like... it makes no difference. U r wot u r... and having visited France many times, and even had u lived there all if ur life, does not remove from u the stigma a loathing of the French... but then u loathe everyone.. sad bugger...

[pepperjack]

Right on, Dark ! If the loathsome " bugger" had any intelligence to begin with, he would have comprehended that I'm part French through my lineage. I'm also part German through my grandfather & mother and part Cherokee through my American father. Yes, an amalgam as you said. Here we fondly refer to that as being " Heinz 57." As for a stereotypical French person, how about " romantic, passionate, lovers ? " Yeah, I'm like that.

[darkeyes]

C'mon, Dark, why do you insist upon engaging him with a rational point of view? You mentioned yourself on this thread that he's having fun with all of this. He's a complete waste of time & mental & emotional energy. He's a demented " bottom feeder" spouting out of his "arse" right?

For the most part, Pep, I have tried not to engage with it.. but new members innocently and unsuspectingly write posts and dimwit rips into them with hysteria and loathing and things build from there.. longer term members also react to him and so it goes on.

Unless no-one reacts to it at all so the thought goes, he will get bored and eff off.. but people always do and some always will... the only way is for no-one to post even the most innocuous post in forums, but then the site really will be in the shite... no chat no posts.. then what would be the point of .com? Maybe best just to let the site die which I am quite sure is the evil little shit's aim and has been in most of, if not all it's apparitions... without an active site owner to monitor and control it's hatred and loathing then we just have to let things slide or do what we can to keep things going, and shutting up isn't doing the trick...

Spouts through it's arse? Yup...

[darkeyes]

Right on, Dark ! If the loathsome " bugger" had any intelligence to begin with, he would have comprehended that I'm part French through my lineage. I'm also part German through my grandfather & mother and part Cherokee through my American father. Yes, an amalgam as you said. Here we fondly refer to that as being " Heinz 57." As for a stereotypical French person, how about " romantic, passionate, lovers ? " Yeah, I'm like that.

Have met a few of them over the years, Pep... off 2 France in a week so who can tell, hey?

[pepperjack]

I have a lady friend of many years who loves Paris. Has never been there but it's been a lifelong dream for her. Tempted to tell her of your upcoming trip but it might be sweet torture for her. Looking forward to any of your amusing & colorful anecdotes concerning the trip, which I might be able to share with her.

[darkeyes]

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I have a lady friend of many years who loves Paris. Has never been there but it's been a lifelong dream for her. Tempted to tell her of your upcoming trip but it might be sweet torture for her. Looking forward to any of your amusing & colorful anecdotes concerning the trip, which I might be able to share with her.

We wont go to Paris this trip, Pep. Brittany, near the Normandy border to the same place we went last year... I wanted to go to southern France to an old medieval city called Carcassonne down in Languedoc not that far from the Spanish border... I was over-ruled by me m8s and Kate who felt it wuldnt be fair on Kit because of the heat as she wud only b just over 2 months... I'm not really complaining cos I love where we are going and kno it well... overlooking Mont St Michel from our Gite can't b bad and having the beach at the bottom of the garden! Luffly, hey? And who knos... I may renew me aquaintance wiv a ver tall sexy French policewoman who chatted me up last year! We can but hope, hey?

We r however going 2 Paris in mid-September as we usually do for the Edinburgh September holiday.... only 3 nights but mum has sed she will have babba for the weekend wile we sight-see, boogey 'n shop.. 'n stuff.. ask me about Paris then...

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... tall sexy French policewoman ...

* sits pondering this and envisioning a screen mid room, would sit and watch through screen without being aroused, watching as artistry not pornography ... envisions pure beauty in motion ... sighs .. continues pondering this vision as well as one involving gazelles carrying rhino loaded bazookas, another involving some bit of silly putty dominating a planet in a different dimension ... ponders he ought to ponder more upon the dastardly blank pages .. cringes ... toddles along *

[pole_smoker]

Right on, Dark ! If the loathsome " bugger" had any intelligence to begin with, he would have comprehended that I'm part French through my lineage. I'm also part German through my grandfather & mother and part Cherokee through my American father. Yes, an amalgam as you said. Here we fondly refer to that as being " Heinz 57." As for a stereotypical French person, how about " romantic, passionate, lovers ? " Yeah, I'm like that.

So that's why you're a twisted asshole alcoholic.

Everyone knows the French are shitty lovers unless you consider cheating on your wife or husband to be a good thing. But you're not romantic or passionate at all. Just a person that's promiscuous or who tries to be.

Besides everyone knows the best romantic and passionate lovers are Italian, which my husband and I are.

[pole_smoker]

U made no claim that Pepper is like the sterotypical French person.. the claim was being French, he was such a... that is racist, xenophobic and francophobic... there is no qualification... weasel out of it all u like... it makes no difference. U r wot u r... and having visited France many times, and even had u lived there all if ur life, does not remove from u the stigma a loathing of the French... but then u loathe everyone.. sad bugger...

Whatever, now you're just twisting my words around to suit your own agenda when I told you that being French is not a race.

You're a typical lesbian, getting totally worked up over nothing, being a know-it-all who does not actually want to keep an open mind or learn or accept that you're incorrect about things, and being way too politically correct and butthurt over everything and everyone that does not agree with you or who does not conform to your tiny bubble of political correctness.

Try following your own advice in your signature for once, instead of being a troll.

No I do not loathe everyone, or everything. But you don't even know me; but you're a troll.

[darkeyes]

Whatever, now you're just twisting my words around to suit your own agenda when I told you that being French is not a race.

You're a typical lesbian, getting totally worked up over nothing, being a know-it-all who does not actually want to keep an open mind or learn or accept that you're incorrect about things, and being way too politically correct and butthurt over everything and everyone that does not agree with you or who does not conform to your tiny bubble of political correctness.

Try following your own advice in your signature for once, instead of being a troll.

No I do not loathe everyone, or everything. But you don't even know me; but you're a troll.

U loathe every1... and everything.. mostly urself I suspect...

...and knowing u isn't top of me xmas list... doubt if it is ne1 elses.

[pepperjack]

Look who's talking about " twisting words ! " Absolutely the most " pot calling the kettle black" degenerate I've ever come across.

[pole_smoker]

U loathe every1... and everything.. mostly urself I suspect...

...and knowing u isn't top of me xmas list... doubt if it is ne1 elses.

LMAO No I do not loathe everyone and everything, or myself. :roleyes: Quit projecting your own issues, low/non-existent self esteem, poor self image, lack of confidence, etc. onto me.

[pole_smoker]

Look who's talking about " twisting words ! " Absolutely the most " pot calling the kettle black" degenerate I've ever come across.

Yes, coming from you one of the biggest trolls on this site that loves to be vindictive, twist people's words, etc. and loves to be a total coward and hypocrite; but everyone here knows you're full of shit, and a total phony.

[darkeyes]

So that's why you're a twisted asshole alcoholic.

Everyone knows the French are shitty lovers unless you consider cheating on your wife or husband to be a good thing. But you're not romantic or passionate at all. Just a person that's promiscuous or who tries to be.

Besides everyone knows the best romantic and passionate lovers are Italian, which my husband and I are.

O well... we will just have 2 disagree. I found French guys far more considerate and proficient in love and sex than Italian... French girls 2 sexier and better as lovers tho it is a much closer run thing...

Italians have allus made triff ice cream tho... Luca's in Musselburgh just about me fave.. and used 2 have a reputation for triff chippies an all.. but not so much nowadays, and I prefer French to Italian food... a matter of taste, but it is my taste after all. Used to fancy the pants off an Italian footie player when I was a young girl called Robert Baggio like no other footie player on earth. Once upon a time 15 years and more ago I would have died for a few hours with that bugger...but have had the odd Italian guy in me time, and a few girls... none as rancid as u, Poley dear. In fact very nice really they wer... u shud try nice sometime. U mite find u like it...

[chtampa]

Wikipedia provides that an alternative definition for "faggot" is "a repellent male". That leaves no doubt that our little New York skid mark is indeed a "faggot".

[darkeyes]

LMAO No I do not loathe everyone and everything, or myself. :roleyes: Quit projecting your own issues, low/non-existent self esteem, poor self image, lack of confidence, etc. onto me.

Not much u don't... it oozes out of every word u post.. any issues projected onto u I am afraid u do for urself.

[pepperjack]

For the most part, Pep, I have tried not to engage with it.. but new members innocently and unsuspectingly write posts and dimwit rips into them with hysteria and loathing and things build from there.. longer term members also react to him and so it goes on.

Unless no-one reacts to it at all so the thought goes, he will get bored and eff off.. but people always do and some always will... the only way is for no-one to post even the most innocuous post in forums, but then the site really will be in the shite... no chat no posts.. then what would be the point of .com? Maybe best just to let the site die which I am quite sure is the evil little shit's aim and has been in most of, if not all it's apparitions... without an active site owner to monitor and control it's hatred and loathing then we just have to let things slide or do what we can to keep things going, and shutting up isn't doing the trick...

Spouts through it's arse? Yup...

Speaking of new members, I made an interesting discovery. One such member, young&ready and I connected here recently. As you would expect, pole_shit viciously attacked us both. He has done nothing but constantly berate & condemn me for creating trysts with younger men on CL. So what does he do? He advises young to do just that, get on CL & try to find an older man there! And he wants to call me a " total hypocrite?"

I agree with you. For the most part, I keep him on ignore, which seems pretty effective. Occasionally, I'll stumble onto one of his comments through another's repost & feel compelled to respond. I know he thrives on the feedback. I think many of the members respond with some pretty good comebacks.

You're right. "It's" an "evil little shit."

[pole_smoker]

Speaking of new members, I made an interesting discovery. One such member, young&ready and I connected here recently. As you would expect, pole_shit viciously attacked us both. He has done nothing but constantly berate & condemn me for creating trysts with younger men on CL. So what does he do? He advises young to do just that, get on CL & try to find an older man there! And he wants to call me a " total hypocrite?"

I agree with you. For the most part, I keep him on ignore, which seems pretty effective. Occasionally, I'll stumble onto one of his comments through another's repost & feel compelled to respond. I know he thrives on the feedback. I think many of the members respond with some pretty good comebacks.

You're right. "It's" an "evil little shit."

I did not attack Young and ready. I simply said the truth that it is pathetic that he joined this site just to have random people masturbate over his profile and what he posts when they do not even know what he even looks like. It's also even more pathetic that you obsess and masturbate over him simply because he claims to be 18.

Yeah I said how if that guy was really serious about having sex with people he would go out and do it or find a sex partner, and not post about wanting to do this on the internet.

[pole_smoker]

It's really creepy when someone like pepperjack who is a troll in every definition of the word obsesses over and becomes predatory to a new person on here simply because they claim to be 18, and when a guy that old wants to be with younger men in a certain age range. In reality people who are his own age would laugh him out of bed!

I prefer to be with people who are my own age or around my age give or take a year or two and I did this as a young adult and all through my 20s, 30s, and early 40s when I was single and dating women and men.

[pole_smoker]

Not much u don't... it oozes out of every word u post.. any issues projected onto u I am afraid u do for urself.

Keep telling yourself that. But hey, you don't even know me. You really should get out more instead of spending all your time on this site and claiming to know strangers on the internet when in reality you do not at all.

[pepperjack]

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[T.Edding]

I was 4-5 when my uncle took an interest in me. It started with naked games and led to me on top of him learning to stroke him and suck him while he sucked and fingered me. It grew in complexity until I was 9. By then, there was pretty much nothing I had not tried. My dad found some pictures and almost killed him. He spent some time in the clink. At about six or seven, I found myself befriending several boys who were hyper sexual and I remember getting naked with and sucking off all of them at some point. I seemed to attract older guys. My swim coach and a boy scout leader both had their fun with me, and me with them. I snuck over to my uncles many times after he got out. Each and every time I asked to, and enjoyed sucking his big fat uncut dick. Then in college found girls.....

[pole_smoker]

I was 4-5 when my uncle took an interest in me. It started with naked games and led to me on top of him learning to stroke him and suck him while he sucked and fingered me. It grew in complexity until I was 9. By then, there was pretty much nothing I had not tried. My dad found some pictures and almost killed him. He spent some time in the clink. At about six or seven, I found myself befriending several boys who were hyper sexual and I remember getting naked with and sucking off all of them at some point. I seemed to attract older guys. My swim coach and a boy scout leader both had their fun with me, and me with them. I snuck over to my uncles many times after he got out. Each and every time I asked to, and enjoyed sucking his big fat uncut dick. Then in college found girls.....

That's fucked up, that you were taken advantage of and sexually abused by your sick uncle, and the coach and scout leader all who belongs in prison. It's a pity your dad did not off your uncle since anyone who does that to kids and teenagers is fucked up and sick in the head.

This argument that it's all about "love", "sexual exploring", etc. is just a cover-up of a deeper issue here. Somewhere down the family line no proper boundaries were given, and sexual abuse happened or is happning. I wouldn't be surprised if most of your uncle, coach, and scout leader's family lines all had some severe sexual abuse going on. So, this isn't about love or respect in anyone's family or exploring of sexuality, but disrespect, power, abuse/sex abuse, and control.

[darkeyes]

But hey, you don't even know me. You really should get out more instead of spending all your time on this site and claiming to know strangers on the internet when in reality you do not at all.

Nope I don't know u, luckily....not knowing peeps however dusn't prevent u prattling telling us wot's wot about our lives and wot we' r about... we kno only wot peeps choose 2 tell us and try and gain insight from it and I have never claimed ne more than that.. some, a very few, but 1 in partic, I can b a smidge more definite about..

.. and giving peeps advice about the amount of time they spend on this site is rich coming from u..

[a2smith09]

Darkeyes, I was born and raised in Australia. Here in the USA (where I now live), it is often deemed that America is the moral guidepost and bastion for the entire planet. The fact that Jerry Lee Lewis LEGALLY married his THIRTEEN-YEAR-OLD FIRST COUSIN seems to escape the sensibilities - and general knowledge - of most people. It was not all that long ago that arranged marriages, and marriages to girls under 13 years of age was thought to be perfectly acceptable.

Actually this is very relevant. The infantilization of teens and extension of childhood is a fairly recent phenomena. Its only been the last generation of so that the age of consent has creeped up to the current ages. There is nothing magical about 18. As recent as two generations back the age of consent was usually between 12-14. In most of the rural US, where I'm from, girls were usually married off sometime between 12 to 15 years of age and most of them were pregnant within a year. If you weren't married by the time you were 18 many were considered an unmarriageable old maid. The men they married were usually between 15-to early 30's but many would also marry an older widower with kids as old or older than they were. Life was harsh back then and kids were forced to grow up fast. Of my great-grandmothers, and great-great aunts, my grandmothers and great-aunts all married between the ages of 12 to 16. The men they married ranged from 17 to a 42 year old widower.

Go back a century or two and there wasn't even a legal age of consent, a lot of places understood it to be seven or so and there were numerous marriages at age 7. A good number of them were arranged marriages between children and weren't consummated till the kids got older but not all of them fell into this category. This is also still very common today in other parts of the world.

[silvio]

There is nothing magical about 18. As recent as two generations back the age of consent was usually between 12-14.

Still is, in Europe, countries like Germany or Italy the "age of consent" is 14, Spain just raise it to 16, like the UK, France is 15, by the way, "age of consent" means:

The age of consent is the age at which a person is considered to be legally competent to consent to sexual acts, and is thus the minimum age of a person with whom another person is legally permitted to engage in sexual activity

[pepperjack]

I don't know how accurate this is, but I remember once reading somewhere that Mary, the mother of Jesus, was 16 when she became pregnant.

[elian]

Yeah, but you have to remember, back then if you lived to 35 that was considered a wise old age..

I think, at least for the folks on here - it was very natural to "play doctor" when they were kids..and I suspect -a lot- of people probably have since people are naturally curious. For me I think the line is when a) there is a large difference in age/maturity between the two people involved and/or b) one person is in a position of authority over the other. That type of scenario seems more likely to result in the less mature person feeling abused.

Having said that I still think anyone can be abused and it is something to be taken seriously .. no one deserves to have security/intimacy taken from them without asking..and even if you ask, a young child or teen really doesn't have carnal knowledge so how would they know what they are consenting to?

I might sound like a grumpy old man but the culture where Miley Cyrus comes out on stage in ripped up jeans and prostitute boots sickens me. Let kids be kids..

Growing up I wish that sex was less prominent in my life - I feel as though it has ALWAYS been a part of my life. If people didn't want me for what I could physically do for them back then maybe I would have a much healthier view and enjoyment of sex right now.

As far as infantilization - it makes perfect sense to me - the longer marketers can convince us to act like entitled teenagers, the easier it will be to part with money...go ahead, you "deserve" it.

I guess people are also living longer, feeling less pressure to grow up and get married these days..I mean used to be that you'd have to wait to get married to have sex right? Some of them probably couldn't move out on their own anyway if they wanted to with the way the economy is going right now. All anecdotal for entertainment purposes of course, I have no actual facts to back up anything I am saying.