I'm well aware of that, Elian. All things in life are relative.
Glad to see you back here; feels like old times.
I discovered sex at a VERY YOUNG AGE ! I could tell a story that would probably freak everyone out.
Point is, I survived & it's an early reason I'm such a strong man now, mentally, emotionally, physically.
FIRE IN THE BELLY
Canada's age of sexual consent is presently 16. Unfortunately the Conservative Party has been in government for ten years...Elections are Oct. 16...nice if we kicked them out. The previous age of consent was lower at 14 but it had an interesting aspect that unless you were 18 your partner could be no more than three (or four) years either way. I may have some of the detail wrong but you get the idea that is permitted the age spread to be fairly reasonable excluding adult youth sex as viable.
Yes tenni, a few of the states in the United States have a similar age based sliding scale. I think it makes a lot of sense.
I mean, I know there are a lot of people who didn't have bad experiences, and that's great - I am glad - it's just taking me a while to get over mine..need to replace it with some -good- memories but sex -always- seems forced to me, even when I want it still takes a while to get there - never seems to just come naturally. It's weird.
around the summer i was about 12 or so, my pal and i used to go the our basement in the apt building where we lived, one time we found a nudist magazine, we took it to our secret place and took our cocks out to masturbate. eventually we were naked, rubbing cock to cock, jerking and making believe we were having sex putting our cocks against each others asses. we did this the whole summer, eventually including some light oral play. around the same time my older sister and i were in the back of the building and she asked me if i liked girls, of course, then she asked me if i got red down there when i was around girls, i said i didnt understand, she said, u know, does it get hard and red. i admitted it did., then she blew me away by asking to see it. i guess she was about 13, i said yes if u show me your tits. she agreed, we went into the back hallway, and i went first, taking my pants down, i was hard and she touched it. when she seemed satisfied she opened her top and i saw my first real tits, she allowed mt to touch the nipples, then i said, what about down there? with no hesitation her pants were down and i was staring at my first pussy, i touched the smooth folds and asked what is that? she said thats my twat, a word not used too much today. that summer we exposed ourselves to each other a lot, she would come out of the shower and drop her towel, id leave my door ajar so she could 'catch' me jerking off. one time we built a makshift tent in the rear yard, we we had our pants down and she was squatting, i asked if my friend can see her and maybe fuck her, she said absolutely not. pop whistled for dinner and we went home. eventually my pal and i discovered girls and the cock to cock play ended. years later after she had finished school and moved away, she came home for a weekend visit. parents were out and she was walking around in her panties and bra. i was so horny watching her, i wrapped myself in a towel and went to her room, she was sitting on the bed in undies, i dropped my towel to show off my now bigger hardon and asked point blank, can i feel u up? she looked at my cock and then said, what we did was wrong and brothers and sisters dont do that sort of thing, i was so disappointed, but she continued to walk around in her panties and bra cock teasing me. i still left my door ajar and jerked off hoping she would catch me and come in. probably the hottest summer of my life.
Know you were speaking to Fran. I have a point here though so I'll interject as Fran is nothing to me if not a friend. That noted, I so would bed her, this typical lesbian as you call her. She is that extremely hot, that well thought out of a person, that loving of a person that she at times grinds my gears.Originally Posted by pole_smoker
Now, I know it's unlikely Fran would consent to being bedded by a man, much less me. You know what? That means fuck all to me. Her choice is nothing personal against me or any man, really. It is her choice though. Ladies make choices. It is for the men to honor and respect those choices. You keep abasing her for her being herself and making choices, seems to me you're lacking in something. Not hugged enough as a child? Need a hug, now? * stretches arms wide open to offer hug *
Come sit here in this lap, talk to poppa, he'll solve your problems. You don't need to keep bashing your skull in over those who are untenable. They may not know the real you well enough to see what they miss. On the other hand, I am highly empathetic, nearing actual telepathic at times. Sure, I may not know you specifically but I do know your archetype persona and that for me is enough to learn all regarding you. No, I'm not talking about hacking your computer, your stuff, nothing like that. Poppa won't be mean.
You need to relax because nobody here says anything to hurt you. If they do upset you with what is said, you may not want to read them. Like they're pointing out, they have you ignored. You can ignore them as well. Some of us dislike using that aspect of the site yet often have little choice. And it's alright, really it is. Again, nobody here is intentionally saying anything to hurt or frighten you. Matter of fact I wager that if you were a bit more gentle in manner, people would be more open to you. There was a story once about a bee and spider. The spider marveled over how the bee kept tossing away hordes of flies.
"How do you manage to catch so many flies," the spider asked the bee one day.
The bee thought about it a minute, "well, I guess flies like honey better than webs."
Your harsh manner is similar to the spider's webs. Now, I'm not saying you need to change or sugar coat things. You might consider a few dabs of honey more than you use though.
Really? If people don't know you, why is it of such importance to defend what they don't know? How could anything they say be germane to injuring you, personally? Further, why is it important to also go out of your way to attack others? You too don't know them. How can anything you say effect them personally? You are in fact fighting and quarreling for nothing, over nothing. I hesitated saying it before but here it is. Actions like yours are stupid. You keep acting stupid, I begin to formulate an opinion you are stupid. And yes, I know my opinion doesn't matter, right?
So please, try acting intelligent, mature. You embarrass me amongst my friends. Poppa may well need to find the old wood shed, you keep on as you are. I really don't desire it coming to that. And no I'm not saying this to frighten you. I'm saying it so you comprehend the implications, consequences of your actions. * holds arms out again for hug * Poppa loves you.
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Well truthfully that was the average age. The infant mortality rate was over 50% so if you survived to adulthood the chances were actually decent you'd live to 60-80
Mine was actually being molested by an adult male and it's something I really enjoyed and started my desires as continuing in my adult life
I was around 12 and had had j/o sessions with a neighbor kid my age . We never touched each other , but looked at porn magazines and laid side by side jacking off .
His mom had set him up in the Big Brother program and we used to stay the night with his "brother" on weekends . One night my friend and I were in the bedroom playing with our cocks and the brother walked in on us and caught us in action . It was a total setup for them to include me in what they had already been engaging in . My buddy said brother was going to tell our parents and we were going to be in big trouble . The next night he tells me that if we go lay in bed with brother and let him j/o with us he would keep our secret . I fell for it hook line and sinker as I was scared to death of my parents finding out .
I was too young to ejaculate at the time but my friend wasn't and it always intrigued me . The next night we are all 3 laying in brothers bed stroking our cocks as brother gives us advice on what feels good . As my friend anounces he is going to cum brother bends over and takes his cock in his mouth and takes the load . It was the first time I had ever been exposed to any kind of oral sex and was very turned on by it . I wanted him to suck on my cock too .
After that night we continued on for a couple years and my friend and I would take turns sucking each other . I never let him cum in my mouth but if brother was with us he would eagerly take the load . We had many many j/o sessions with brother and they all ending with him catching our cum in his mouth . He wasn't interested in sucking our cocks for pleasure . He liked to watch us j/o and loved to swallow our cum
Looking back now it was a pretty fucked up situation but I did enjoy it immensely
That's extremely fucked up, and it's something you should get help for. It's sick and fucked up that this guy and his brother sexually abused you.
I agree , it is totally fucked up . My friends mom did find out about the abuse and turned the guy in to the police and the Big Brother foundation and he was prosecuted a few years after it began . I seen a therapist regularly almost until my 18th bday . My friend was a victim as well . We were both 12 and the "Big Brother" was 28
Karma caught up with him and he passed from a heartattack in the 90s or I would find the guy and whoop his ass
OK that's good you got help for being sexually abused. A lot of people here who were sexually abused have not done this, or some are in denial that it even happened to them but it's clear they were victims of sexual abuse by adults, peers, "friends", or other people.
I lost my virginity to a beautiful girl @ the age of 15, but I remember erections and stroking as early as 9 and could hit the jack pot @ 11
I was sexual almost as far back as I can remember. I got toiled trained around 3 and somewhere around then, I started getting the greatest (for a 3 year old) hardons. I loved playing with my ass too, it just felt good. The problem was when my folks had a party.
I loved being naked around all the people and playing with myself. My folks didn't like it so well though and put a quick stop to it, leaving me frustrated.
That was only the first of many times I tried to enjoy my body growing up. Unlike many of you though, I never got to enjoy anything to completion, nothing with kids my own age, nothing with any of the older kids who used to babysit me and nothing with any of the adults.
I'd have loved to explore my body with another kid or a teenager, it just never happened. Even someone older would have been good a lot of the time. I still remember when I got blocked from having an affair with a 45 yr old gorgeous woman when I was 14. If I had messed around with someone older, it wouldn't have been molestation, I was willing and eager.
I started with a kid who was in high school He talked me into sucking him Then an older man took me the rest of the way . giving me a taste for cum and swallowing.
When I was 10 a boy in my class invited me to his house one Saturday afternoon. He wanted us to take a walk to the nearby stores. We walked until we reached a hole in the fence in the back of the stores. That's when a group of 5 older boys on bicycles came up to us. They were mean and rough and their leader said they would beat us both up unless we did exactly what they told us to do. That's when I saw my "friend" begin to gyrate and I knew this was all a set up. They pulled down his and my pants and took turns groping our bodies and jerking us off. Then the leader - he was by far the oldest looking - made me get on my knees so he could put his dick in my mouth. His dick seemed huge to me then since it was the first one I ever saw except for my own dick and after a few seconds of sucking his dick I no longer resisted and I began to have lots of fun! Two other boys pulled out their dicks and made me stroke them with my two hands so there I was with a big 7 or 8 inch dick in my mouth and jerking off two other dicks at the same time. Three others were doing the same thing to my friend next to me. The leader soon shot his load in my mouth and then told me to finish off the other two guys which I did. Three blow jobs by force -at first - and then voluntarily. I made myself cum when I was blowing that third guy. They all got off and the leader told us to never tell anyone else about this or he'd kill us both. We both said yes we won't ever tell anyone and then they left us on our knees, both of us with their 6 loads of jizz dripping down our faces. So perverted so nasty and so fucking hot!!! I think about this incident often even now that it's more than 30 years later.
Starting at about 12 I had a close group of male friends and their was alot of jacking off together looking at porn together playing with each other. This continued and by the time we were 14-15 and had girlfriends we still liked to meet up at one of our houses go swimming and watch a porno out of our huge collection. By now we dont care who sees wos cock we would sit around naked jacking off together passing lube around and I used to get cum shot on me from time to time which I did not like. I don't know about the other guys but my little girlfriend knew about our sessions and she did not care as long as she got fucked daily. My step brother and I explored bisexuality together and to this day I still have a "straight" male friend that likes to jerk off with me. I believe that from very young guys are interested in experimenting with other males. You and another guy are on the same page when your trying to get off together. Your not going to permanently hurt my feelings if you just have to cum all over my stomach.
This is an interesting anecdote and just one of many that point out a peculiar aspect of early (pre pubescent) sexual activity. Contrary to what one would expect, sexual acts engaged in early in life whether consensual or not seem to dispose a person toward that type of activity later in life. My own sex-life began with an instance of abuse when I was molested by an older boy at the age of five. Unlike M4GG4M I did not find myself enjoying the incident a few minutes in. To the contrary, I felt ashamed and dirty. As time went on and I discovered masturbation, the attendant fantasies would mostly be about girls but occasionally about boys. One fantasy in particular was very confusing when I tried to analyze it.
In that one I encountered the boy who had molested me so many years before and I seduced him! Luring him into a skating rink washroom, I drop to my knees and rip his fly open to suck his cock. When he's good and hard I drop my pants and order him to take me. "Come on, this is what you want isn't it?....You made me into this so enjoy your handiwork!" and he would..and I got off on it. For years I was puzzled that things that once made me feel so bad now excited me so much.
My theory is that it was a matter of my brain making the abuse seem less terrible by putting myself in the driver's seat. By owning the abuse...making it a thing I initiate and enjoy.... it was no longer the demon that tortured my five year old self. I've found that emotional survival mechanism has evolved of late to include submissive bondage play. I've enjoyed M2M sex and being a sub....and with a plausible theory of why I am as I am....I can continue to enjoy it.
I'm no psychiatrist and I could be all wrong in my hypothesis. Furthermore, it seems unlikely that that kind of mental gymnastics can be at work when someone...male or female, finds themselves actually enjoying being sexually abused as it's happening. I'd like someone with some background in psychology to weigh in on this topic.
Very nice story that must have been a lot of fun. I had some young experiences that determined my later likes too...and they were all very awesome and wonderful!
I had just turned 12 and during the summer, I was visiting my Aunt and her 16 year old son in a nearby town. On Monday morning, my Aunt went to work and left my and my cousin sleeping in bed together.
when we awoke, my cousin asked me if I wanted to look at some porn? I did and he got out a box of magazines and we started looking at them. It didn't take long before we were both hard and my cousin pulled his briefs down to his knees and began to stroke his big cock. I noticed an soon did as he had done and lowered my briefs down and started to stroke my much smaller cock. As we were playing with our cock, he looked at my cock and asked if he could touch me? I told his it was ok and so he reached over and started to stroke my boy cock! I could not believe how good it felt as this was the first time anyone had ever touched me. As he continued to stroke me he asked if I wanted to touch him, so I did and started to stroke his much larger and thicker cock, I started to move my hand up and down his cock as he was doing to me. I was really enjoying what we were doing and suddenly, he leaned over and takes my cock into his mouth and starts to suck me. OMG, did it feel so good, his warm and wet mouth sucking me, the best feeling I had ever felt. I was really enjoying his sucking me and his stroking my boycock when he stops and ask me if I wanted to suck him too? I really didn't but I really didn't want him to stop sucking me, so I leaned over and tasted the precum that now covered his large mushroom head. I gingely tasted if with my tongue and it was sweet so as he continued to suck me, I wrapped my lips over his much larger cockhead and started to suck him. I was enjoying him sucking me and I suddenly realizized that I was about to cum in his mouth. I leaned up and started to cum in his mouth but noticed he had his eyes closed and was enjoying sucking my cum. At this point, I was really enjoying cuming in his mouth but suddenly my cock became very sensitive to his mouth and his sucking action and started to push his lips off of my cock. HE asked me if I liked it and I told him I was afraid he would be be mad at me for cumin in his mouth, but he told me he loved the taste of cum. He told me that he was seduced by his 40 year old boss. He had gone with his boss to a job site and his boss told him to stay in the truck and that he would be back in twenty mins. My cousin noticed 3 or 4 porn magazines in the truck so he started to look at them. Soon, he was hard and since his boss wouldn't be back for another 15 minutes, he pulls out his cock and started to stroke when his boss suddenly appears and was watchin him jacking off. He tells my cousin not to worry, that he does that too. He gets into the truck and asked my cousin if he likes the porn, he can have them if he would allow him to touch his cock. Well the next thing, he has my cousins cock in his mouth and sucks his off. my cousin tell me that if becomes a weekly sex meeting every Friday afternoon and his boss introduced his to not only suck each others cock but also into anal sex.
As I listen to my cousin tell me his story, he has continued to stroke my cock and I am enjoying his story, I have recovered and am hard again. My cousin noticed and starts to suck me again. This time I don't need any encouragemen so I lean over and take his cock into my mouth and start to suck him off.
As I am sucking him, I notice his cock enlarging and I suspect that he is about to cum in my mouth. I try to think what I am going to do, spit if out or swallow? Before I know it, his cock is spurting a large load of cum into my mouth! It is so much that I just swallow it and then he spurts another large load, I swallow it again at it is turnin me on again and I begin to cum again in his mouth. we continue to suck out that last drops from each others cocks and I am hooked of sucking cock and cum.
I was 9 or 10 and my older sister had a friend over to swim in our pool. I vividly remember my sister calling me into the basement with her friend. She had me drop my pants so they could fondle my cock and balls all the time asking questions about how it felt. Did it hurt if they squeezed my balls or pinched my cock. Looking back on it now I think it really fucked me up sexually. I didn't have another sexual encounter until I was 17 when I was living with my other sister. She had a friend over and they had been drinking. I came across her friend passed out on her bed wearing nothing but a bra and panties, that got me hard. I wasn't sure what I was doing but ended up jerking off for the first time. It was like someone turned on the light and all I could do was jerk off after that...two or three times a day. I didn't actually have sex until I was 19 in the service.
I always knew I was Bi and was hoping to meet another Bi Guy. There was no internet back then so it was difficult to do. An older guy invited me up to his place. I had a feeling he wanted to get together with me. We had a few drinks and then he showed me some porn picks. Then he started to rub my penis. He seemed surprised when I suggested we get naked. This was my first time so I just followed his lead. He had me lay on my back. He gave me some oral and then masturbated me until I came on myself. Then he straddled me and I masturbated him until he came on me. I guess he liked cumming on guys and I liked being cummed on.
Mine was early....my dad's girlfriends son and I would play with each other's cocks....resting them between each other's but cheeks and pump back and forth. My sister was sleeping once and we rubbed our cocks on her pussy.
My older step sister would have me pretend to fuck her with our clothes on....we tried it once naked but our parents came home before we figured it all out. A few years later my sister sat on my feet...I wiggled my toes and slipped into her a bit. She kinda ground herself onto my toes and had a small orgasm. That happened one more time when she came home drunk in high school. Nothing else happened but she came and sat on my feet and ground on my toes...
In college my friend and I used to watch porn and then go in separate rooms and jack off.
My girlfriend in college would whisper in my ear that she want to see me suck a cock whenever she wanted me to cum....
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