I guess it's my turn to add my view on this subject.
What I look for female-wise? First thing I see is eyes, and go nuts over seeing Taylor Swift's, Anne Hathaway's, or Zooey Deschanel's eyes, or many others that are as dramatic. Next I look at hair, I'm partial to long hair in most cases, shoulder length or more, again like Taylor Swift, but there are spectacular exceptions, like Anne Hathaway's in her latest movie, "Interstellar" I also look for intelligence, sense of humor, and conversant in current affairs. Intelligence by itself means nothing, unless it can be used for something; I had a classmate in school who was so brilliant, that she seemed dumb. Lots of brains, but unable to use them in social interaction. I like someone who can easily carry on a conversation on a variety of subjects, making valid contributions to it. Now, as to the body? I prefer slender, but not skinny. I like small-busted girl-next-door tomboys with red hair and freckles. Shapes like early Deniece Williams, Pam Anderson before her breast surgery, and yes, even Anne Hathaway. Taylor Swift, I find to be devastatingly beautiful, someone whose face I cannot ignore. But from the neck down, nothing there, too skinny, shapeless, and very high-waisted. The ladies will understand "high-waisted", which is one reason why she never bares her belly-button, her hips would make low-riders or hip-huggers look kinda weird. It's a little strange, but my ex-wife fit exactly, but she was a pure bitch, and the marriage lasted less than 3 years. After remaining single for a quarter of a century, I got stupid again, and my second wife had NONE of the physical attributes, but her mind and soul conquered me completely.
I know, I talk too much !
As for guys? I don't know, I've never been with one, so I don't know what I would find attractive, physically. Intellectually I suppose I would look for the same things as my ladies, but physically? I don't really know. I've seen some Charles Atlas types that just looked muscle-bound, I've seen some slender guys remind me of Sheldon Cooper from "Big Bang Theory" on TV, or early Jerry Lewis. I've seen larger guys that remind me of looking in a mirror at myself... Like I said I don't know. About the only specific I might have would be his "equipment" be somewhere between 6 and 8 inches. With my fat butt, less wouldn't be very effective, and more might be too painful. Otherwise, it is pretty much a blank slate waiting to be drawn on.
I guess I am very much like "csreef" just above me, in that I am attracted to intelligence, the rest is secondary.
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Originally Posted by monaohio
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