Bisexual Free Will

[Grant_Norman]

./just 1Great talk by Neal deGrasse-Tyson ( Startalk) on Freewill. How our neurological condition drives are free will. Hormones blood sugar etc.I believe my bisexuality is driven by such factors. I know and enjoy my bisexuality but am sometimes amazed a't how my urge to hookup and s uck just seem to naturally occur. I feel something outside my rational thoughts is pulling me to suck and swallow. Is this just Freewill? I still absolutely love it and now a that openI don't care showing anyone. I love e the urges and only regret not having them. You feel similar?
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[KDaddy23]

Could be free will, most likely is our unique biology as humans and how our bodies seem to know what we need even when what we need contradicts what our minds know, i.e., boys just do not have sex with boys and all that rot. I don't know about anyone else but the urge - the desire to suck cock - is always present and always has been since it was first instilled in me, and I have no regrets that it was, and I have never felt so alive than I have felt ever since I first tasted cock and cum.

Free will, methinks, gives me the permission to break the rules regarding sex with men; it's a choice that was made and accepted even if, at the time, I didn't understand it. What I knew was that I liked having a dick in my mouth and I couldn't wait to see if I could get more dick and I happened to grow up in the right environment that allowed me to develop as a young male bisexual in the mid-1960s.

[Grant_Norman]

Yes, me too starting at 7. I had no free will to just become hetero only focused. I loved always sucking growing up and only repressed it for years here and there. In 2015 I completely gave in and now seek and enjoy cock. 69 with my are wife who knows how I am. She is always horny and doesn't mind if I suck as long ad They're not Thai. It is a cultural thing. In Thailand now but need to find right farang to suck. But I do want to do it in front of her. A 3 some would be great but she needs to not worry culturally.
Grant

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[Jazminedress]

I think we are all simply just wired different, it has been shown in brain scans how it reacts differently to different stimulus.

Such as me, I am terrified of reptiles, a 2 inch gecko or 19 foot python, doesnt matter , if it is cold blooded, I have a fear

[elian2]

Several different things going on -- I've always known from a young age that I was "different" -- and around age 8 or so I was falling in love with males the same way most boys my age were attracted to females.

Upbringing, experience .. they also play a part. Because of growing up in a dysfunctional family I REALLY wanted to be find one safe, loving man to protect and shelter me growing up -- I actively shy away from females growing up because of the way I saw other men treat them .. I didn't WANT that traditional gender role where I saw so many other guys behaving badly - abusing and taking advantage of women. It definitely had an effect because because honestly, I'm still half nervous to give things a chance.

it is a STRONG desire, even now .. to want to feel loved and protected by another man. Thankfully I seem to have found someone who feels similarly and we are helping each other out.

These desires weren't ALWAYS sexual either -- but of course once the hormones kicked in around my teens, well -- I became a horny little hamster -- at least in my own mind. I'm still quite timid when it comes to an actual partner.

[DD788Snipe]

I think we are all simply just wired different, it has been shown in brain scans how it reacts differently to different stimulus.

Such as me, I am terrified of reptiles, a 2 inch gecko or 19 foot python, doesnt matter , if it is cold blooded, I have a fear

Not crazy about them either, Jaz

[BiVers240]

I just enjoy sex. All sex; with men or with women.

[Flipper60]

There’s sex and sexuality, and then there is compulsion. My compulsive behavior has led me to exhibitionism, infidelity, and uncovering my latent bisexuality. I don’t believe free will comes into play, except that I have been mostly able to control my urges and compulsive behavior, until I can’t.

little Johnny jerking off under the covers and then feeling guilty comes to mind. That feeling of guilt dissipates and soon he’s back pulling at his candy cane because it fills his brain with dopamine.

[Grant_Norman]

There’s sex and sexuality, and then there is compulsion. My compulsive behavior has led me to exhibitionism, infidelity, and uncovering my latent bisexuality. I don’t believe free will comes into play, except that I have been mostly able to control my urges and compulsive behavior, until I cant.

little Johnny jerking off under the covers and then feeling guilty comes to mind. That feeling of guilt dissipates and soon he’s back pulling at his candy cane because it fills his brain with dopamine.

That is lack of free will or you would nit choose. Our deep down motivations drive
Us. I can just instantly feel like going out to suck and must seek ituntil fulfilled

Grant

[bithunder]

I often wonder how much our practice of "sexual variability acceptance" is in our inherited genes. I grew up in a normal family. No issues at all. But I have noticed I have many of homosexual relatives - uncles, aunts, cousins, nephews and many suspected bisexuals. Like many reports here, I was very hetero as a young man. I had no experiences as a child or teen save one brief experience with an older neighbor boy who offered me a pack of cigarettes if he could put his dick in my mouth and I accepted but felt nothing. Later on as a teen, and being influenced by society, I developed a sense that I had to undertake a manly profession - ie. mechanical engineering. Married at 22. At about age 25 an attraction for men stirred in me and I followed slowly to oral only bisexuality which I practiced starting at 40. Now I am a full up bisexual who loves being in bed with and making out with male homosexuals as much as with women.

[iamcontent]

I believe a lot of people don't fully accept who they or who they want to be with or do because of what society tells them or accepts as normal.

[chongster]

I had no idea I was bisexual until I was in my forties. I had one bisexual encounter at about age 9 when the kid down the road wanted to suck my cock and I let him. He wanted me to suck his to but i just couldn't do it, didn't want to do it.
I started watching hetro porn in my twenties and loved it. Got my first PC in the year 2000 and started looking at porn I had never seen before like transgenders, hot women with cocks just really turned me on. Then I realized that nice cocks turned me on and I really thought I wanted to get fucked by a nice cock. It was an amazing feeling the first time I sucked a cock!
As I explored my new found sexuality I found that I was more of a top that liked to fuck another guy with a sexy smooth ass like a girl would have. Sometimes while fucking my girlfriend doggy I would fantasize about a big pair of balls swinging under her as I pounded her from behind.
I have a couple of young bottom friends now that I fuck and suck, it's all good.

[Flipper60]

I’ve come around on this topic. My first encounters with guys, in my early 50s, were intentional on my part and a demonstration of free will. That male masseur who left the cover off as he worked first my back then my front? I could easily have asked him to cover me. That other masseur I met off CL who advertised the sexual nature of his services? I could have cancelled the session.

I think there is a genetic origin to our sexuality, and then some amount of free will or intentionality to how we express and enjoy that sexuality. My two cents.

[Flipper60]

Turns out that Neil Degrasse Tyson argued the very opposite of what you suggested, Grant. Here’s the quote:

“You have the illusion of free will, but, in fact, that illusion comes about because you don’t know the future. Because you are a prisoner of the present, forever locked in transition, between the past and the future.”
— Neil deGrasse Tyson

[Grant_Norman]

I'm talking about that inner drive that I must suck. As I've said many times I constantly crave cock and swallowing. I have no free will to do otherwise. I have no real care for the guy other than maybe friend. But am centered on sucking and swallowing his cock. There is no free will to do otherwise. Even tonight after half hour of eating and tonguiing pussy with my new wife I still want to suck and swallow. No free will to just be satisfied but only rhinkig still and remembering the sucking.

Grant

[Flipper60]

LACK of free will. Right! That’s what I was saying about compulsions. I can’t control them.