So here's the short story...
I have considered myself bisexual since I was about 12. I have pretty much always been sexually active with both guys and girls, however all of the guys have had to be in secret (I live in the south haha). For the past 3 years, I have been in a committed relationship with the most amazing woman I've ever met. I love her unconditionally and I want to be with her the rest of my life. I am currently looking at rings.
Sexually, we are rather promisuious compared to most couples. We have had mulitple threesomes with guys and girls and we have never seen any ill-effects from this. She is so ridiculously cool about everything it's...well...ridiculous.
She "un-officially" considers herself bi. As we all know, this is a lot easier for a girl. She even has a really good friend who is bi that she sees about twice a year and I am pretty positive they hook up...which I'm sure she knows I have noticed. I have no problem with this (we both understand the difference btwn love and sex) but we don't talk about it.
Recently, I have become really good friends with this guy that I work with...we both have. The other night we all got really drunk with a bunch of ppl and it came out that he is gay. This issue is that I have had a crush on this guy since I met him so now I see hooking up with him as an actual possibility.
How do I approach this? I am not ready to admit to my girl that I am bi but I know she won't have a problem with it. And if she hooks up with her bi friend and we haven't seen any problems, could I hook up with this guy and everything be okay?
Basically, I don't know how to be bi. Help! Please!
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