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  1. #1

    anal- so common in porn today

    i have been downloading some straight porn lately and i am really a little bit surprised that every movie involves anal scenes.
    not knowing why i googled the same question.
    the best answer i got was that anal is a good move for female pornstars to earn more.
    this puts up a question in my mind are people enjoying the anal part a hell lot more ..?? and people are gradually accepting rather gleefully this act of sex earlier considered a taboo....

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    I can watch it in porn and like what I see, but I won't do it with anyone. Tried it (giving), but it was a huge turn off, so I won't even do it with anyone.

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    Years ago it was a cultural thing . For instance , I am told that in the middle east , anal sex was an acceptable premarital act thus preserving virginity . In other cultures and times , it was anything from birth control to a form of humiliation . It can be very enjoyable to both if done with permission , patience , care and plenty of lube . I enjoy it a lot and have since I was 12 or so . Margarine was our first lube . He was my cousin of about the same age .

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    I tolerate it in porn as I love looking at a pussy. During anal, it's all open and visible. I assume most porn girls are expected to do it. Maybe for more money but more likely so they can work. If I was auditioning girls for porn, any issues like not wanting anal or cum in their mouth would keep them from being hired. Plenty of willing girls out there these days.
    Personally I love receiving anal if I know I'm clean. As for giving, I have had enough experience with people not caring or thinking about what might happen during anal sex that I avoid topping anyone, man or woman.

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    I watch a lot of porn, and I do like seeing a woman getting in the back side. In my opinion though, I like to focus on enjoying the taste of a pussy, I don't get the chance to being with a woman very often. When I am with a guy, I'm more a bottom, but I do enjoy topping as well. I find no difference in the feeling of a woman's ass, to a man's ass. However, when I am with a woman, she is in charge, and I will give her what ever she wants. If in a three way, Two men and a woman, I love it when the woman gets into DP. If I am having anal sex with a woman, and switch to vaginal, I insist that I change condoms. To much risk of giving her a Bacterial Infection, and that would not be good.

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    He never said it was a turn off....he said its more prevalent in porn than what it use to be, and is it because more people are into it and is it cause its not so taboo, HOW HARD IS THAT TO FOLLOW!

    To the O.P. I think its becoming more mainstream cause its becoming less taboo...when I was in my early 20s less than half the women I knew did anal or admitted doing anal, but now well over half admit doing it, as time goes by people are feeling more sexually liberated soo...sex isn't a bad thing you see more people talking about sex than you would 10 or 20 years ago.

    And women DO get paid more for anal in porno cause it can be very painful and cause that's where a lot but not most interest is, charting new territory, as it were.

    A lot of men including myself like to get all of a woman if you know what I mean

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    i read an article where a certain present pornstar TORI BLACK rose to quick success when she started scenes involving anal and deep throating.

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    Ohh drugstore...you never let me down...

    no one is saying anal is new! And no one is saying its painfulll for everyone!

    Your right I wasn't around for the 60s and 70s but watch any documentary about sexual evolution and everytime they will say how sex in all its glory is being talked about more and more as time goes by.

    In ancient Rome sex was very open but since it had to make a come back...well at least for the masses to enjoy it talk about and what have you.

    I love reading how you try to make your opinion fact and how you boldly criticize people who don't think like you.

    Shaking my head with a smile...you never let me down

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    Re: anal- so common in porn today

    Quote Originally Posted by drugstore cowboy View Post
    Why was giving anal sex a turn off to you?
    It wasn't clean, made me go limp instantly. I've tried a few other times since then, but must have been traumatized because I went limp at the idea of trying anal again. I can fuck a mouth or pussy all day, but can't do anal. People should clean themselves out if they expect to be fucked down there lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by orallibido View Post
    It wasn't clean, made me go limp instantly. I've tried a few other times since then, but must have been traumatized because I went limp at the idea of trying anal again. I can fuck a mouth or pussy all day, but can't do anal. People should clean themselves out if they expect to be fucked down there lol.
    probably it was your hard luck.. personally I eat foods high in fiber which aids in keeping the anal passage clean and just one dose of enema with hot water is enough for me to be super clean and I am very happy that non of my partners have experienced that little yellow stuff from my ass onto their dicks.

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    Just mouths and pussies for me now, no more stinky on my winky. I think it was the smell more than anything that made me decide never to do anal again.

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    As a mother of a 23 year old, reasonably educated, well-connected, marginally afluent inner-city living "clubber" daughter ....... we've had the odd "chat."

    All i can contribute is that what my generation considered the ultimate, daredevil, kinky taboo-breaking act, amongst the generation and "city" culture she inhabits - from reading between the lines of our conversations - it (anal) is almost de riguer. Just another aspect of sex. Expected.

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    Quote Originally Posted by innaminka View Post
    As a mother of a 23 year old, reasonably educated, well-connected, marginally afluent inner-city living "clubber" daughter ....... we've had the odd "chat."

    All i can contribute is that what my generation considered the ultimate, daredevil, kinky taboo-breaking act, amongst the generation and "city" culture she inhabits - from reading between the lines of our conversations - it (anal) is almost de riguer. Just another aspect of sex. Expected.
    Exactly and so well said...

  14. #14

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    Every thing is more open now. Look how many stars came out gay in hollywood. It's all up to what you enjoy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by drugstore cowboy View Post
    So she's not an anal virgin anymore? Have you and your female partner ever done anal sex with each other or other female partners you had before your relationship with each other?
    1) I have no idea at all about my daughter's actual sexual activities. They are none of my business and i don't want to know - and the same applies to her. Our "chats" are more about generalisations.

    2) Of course my partner and I include anal activity in our sexual compendium. To what extent is our business.

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    Re: anal- so common in porn today

    Quote Originally Posted by innaminka View Post
    As a mother of a 23 year old, reasonably educated, well-connected, marginally afluent inner-city living "clubber" daughter ....... we've had the odd "chat."

    All i can contribute is that what my generation considered the ultimate, daredevil, kinky taboo-breaking act, amongst the generation and "city" culture she inhabits - from reading between the lines of our conversations - it (anal) is almost de riguer. Just another aspect of sex. Expected.
    As part of our duty of care to properly educate our elder daughter into sex and relationships she has had anal sex and its ramifications explained to her long ago... every time it is mentioned she pales in horror... and personally.. I don't blame her... but ur rite.. it does seem to b on the rise and is more acceptable... I woudn't say it is quite expected as u say, but girls do seem much more willing by all accounts to experiment with it... much more than my generation and serpently more readily than I ever have or shall...
    Do not think so little of me as to grant me your tolerance. Allow me your acceptance and understanding of who and what I am with the love, respect and dignity with which I do you.

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    just so good to see parents themselves educating their children on a important matter like sex.. kuddos...

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    Some people believe that anal sex has become more popular from people imitating what they see in pornography.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jamieknyc View Post
    Some people believe that anal sex has become more popular from people imitating what they see in pornography.
    I prefer to use the word acceptable Jamie, but there may well be truth in it and can live with the word popular.. just as pornography may have aided greater acceptance of the triad of homosexuality, bisexuality and transgenderism..
    Do not think so little of me as to grant me your tolerance. Allow me your acceptance and understanding of who and what I am with the love, respect and dignity with which I do you.

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    Re: anal- so common in porn today

    Quote Originally Posted by jamieknyc View Post
    Some people believe that anal sex has become more popular from people imitating what they see in pornography.

    I think that porn has definitely contributed to the popularity of anal sex. But then again, the real test is when people experiment and do these things themselves that determines whether it continues to gain popluarity or not. In my opinion, there has to be a pleasurable element to it for it to gain popularity. And some people who have NEVER experienced pleasure from anal sex of course are left to think why would anyone want to indulge or experiment. What I'm trying to say is that it has to have more appeal to people than just being popular or trendy; those two things can only carry something so far and usually fizzle out.

    What I believe has really made anal sex go from being mostly taboo to pretty much mainstream practice is that people decided to fully discover for themselves if there was a true way to experience pleasure from it. Once old myths are shattered and discovered to not be true, then people spread the news to one another either in conversation or through experimentation. It is well understood that anal sex can't be rushed into but then again, a great majority of sexual play is so much better when it isn't rushed...

    For all kinds of reasons and as most know, people must pay close to attention to get the full benefit from anal if they choose to play that way...

    Those who are not convinced or have had only negative experiences for whatever reason, chances are will continue to not want anything to do with it and I understand that. I myself was exactly that way for many years. No doubt seeing it more often in porn got me curious. The real reason I decided to give it another go was because of the fact that so many people I knew or talked to were doing it and I figured there had to be a reason other than masochistic. And I learned from several conversations and reading what made it the pleasure possible...

    This was a complete reversal from how I'd felt for so many years because of my own negative experiences that were all painful except for one. I never said no to receiving it when I was 18 and 19 because I wanted to be accepted, but those doing the probing then were not interested in my pleasure; only their own. Sure there are people who love to explore with pain, but most people don't. So for me to even want to look into it again, the clues that there was pleasure was the fact that anal sex was/is a regular part of the sexual experience between people whether the play is between a man and a woman, two men, or two women...

    I was quite pleased when after making the decision to experiment again and to discover that there was incredible pleasure with anal sex...so for me, it was a good choice.

    I am glad anal sex has reached a more common status in sexual play now. I remember too well how oral sex was taboo at one time too; now no one gives it a second thought. Surely anal is different but at the same time, it is all part of the tapestry of human sexual experience and adds another dimension for no longer just a few, but a multitude.
    Last edited by ErosUrge; Jun 11, 2013 at 1:38 PM.

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    Re: anal- so common in porn today

    Well, obviously anal sex is more popular with the guys than it is with women. But there are women who enjoy it, too.

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    Re: anal- so common in porn today

    Quote Originally Posted by darkeyes View Post
    I prefer to use the word acceptable Jamie, but there may well be truth in it and can live with the word popular.. just as pornography may have aided greater acceptance of the triad of homosexuality, bisexuality and transgenderism..
    No, when I said popular I meant what I said. The number of people who do it has gone up considerably since it became a standard in porn.

 

 

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