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  1. #61

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    New guy here. Just the D for me please. Like I wrote in my profile--- for me, women are the full meal deal. On the other hand men are just boxes of cereal and I only want the toy at the bottom of the bag.

    As for the kissing thing, it's his masculinity that turns me off from kissing another man. On the other hand, I could totally see myself getting liplocked and tongue tied with a feminine CD or Tgurl. In fact I have my sights set on one pretty thing right now. It's up in the air on whether we'll even connect, if we do hook up I predict it will be amazing.

  2. #62

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I feel the same way. I'll suck his cock and maybe let him use my back door, but looking at a guys body or kissing a guy turns me off. I save the real intimacy for the girls.

  3. #63

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    thats what i say, stick your cock in my mouth, or stick your cock in my ass, and fill my mouth with cum. no touchy feely stuff

  4. #64

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    get a shemale

  5. #65

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I am new here as well. But I have to disagree with the comment that kissing the man is a non-starter. I too am only interested in the cock and not the man. Many of the cocks I have sucked and which have fucked me, have belonged to guys I wouldn't bother with outside of sex. But the cock, just beautiful and the cum absolutely delicious. When my cock has been stroked by a man the lust overcomes everything else and I have had much mind-blowing kissing with tongues exploring each others mouth. In fact I remember times when it made me feel like a woman. In sex I find myself treating all men and all women the same. Give it everything you have and the results are sheer sexual ecstacy.
    But everyone is entitled to their own opinions and experiences. Sex is just wonderful no matter who with.

  6. #66

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I guess for me it would depend. Smooth face, no facial hair, attractive, I could want the face just as much as the cock. The cock is obviously the end-all, be-all of the encounter, but a nice face would ad to it for sure.

  7. #67

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    exactly the way I feel. Want the cock, not the guy. Go figure.

  8. #68

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    It started out with me that way 8 yrs ago, with my present partner.
    JEM

  9. #69

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    OMG I totally had to register this forum to vent on this thread. I am a 30 year old female at my wits end about my sexuality lol
    I have always felt this way. I fall in love with women. Hard. But in bed never had satisfactory experiences with women. Ive been falling for women as long as I can remember. Since I was a child. I never looked twice at a guy until I got off birth control that I was taking for acne when I was 24. It doesnt help that my gf NEVER wanted to have sex, it was a real chore for her to touch me. Then I starting having INTENSE craving for men. I mean, not for men, for their dick. Old and young alike, it didnt matter. I was penis obsessed. More or less depending on the time of my menstrual cycle. I was questioning hardcore. Didnt understand what was happening to me. Id been with my gf for two years and didnt want to turn my life around. I got back on birth control eventually and resumed my life with her until she left me for a friend 5 years later. Then I went on a dick binge. I mean, for 2 years I was unstoppable. I fucked 15 coworkers, 3 girls 12 guys, at work sometimes, I craved being used. I think my hormones are out of whack. I become somewhat emotionally attracted to the guys I had the best sex with, I even thought I fell for one but obviously it was for the sex. He was mean to me, a real asshole. I never connected to guys, I dont get them, their ways dont work for me, the way they think, I dont know, it doesnt appeal to me. Physically I guess I became somewhat attracted to very few. But its the dick. Ive fucked guys I thought were ugly, it didnt matter who they were, I wouldnt kiss them or hold them they were just a dick. Now, since the last douchebags gave me gonhorreah I decided it was time to put a stop to this crazy life... and met a woman, OMG, she is everything I ever wanted and more and we have this mad sexual chemistry. She is SO beautiful Ive never been this attracted to someone. But I still crave dick. And when i crave it it comes with a vengence. And it drives me crazy really, because all I want to want is my darling. this amazing woman that I love with all my heart. What to do? This sucks.

  10. #70

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    ML, it looks like you are in possession of your own set of desires!

    We've often discussed the sexual pendulum, here. It can be unique to just one of us. Men seem to be the ones who are most likely to go for the penis, rather than the personality. But you seem to feel that way, too.

    You know what you like and what you don't and that's probably not going to change. Don't let it bug you; I'd think that you might as well just accept it.

    However, if your lover would not be happy, if she found out, then you're got an issue that should be resolved.

    Considered therapy?

  11. #71

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by CO cocksucker View Post
    1. You're probably a guy and not a woman, and making up everything you wrote. 2. Stop being such a whore or slut and sleeping around, and having unprotected sex since that's how you got an STD.
    WOW! Are you for real!
    Amazing!!
    I assume you realize that if your wrong, your just crapped on a person that is trying to do what is right for her and her friend.
    No. That is obviously not where you are at.
    JEM

  12. #72

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by Realist View Post
    ML, it looks like you are in possession of your own set of desires!

    We've often discussed the sexual pendulum, here. It can be unique to just one of us. Men seem to be the ones who are most likely to go for the penis, rather than the personality. But you seem to feel that way, too.

    You know what you like and what you don't and that's probably not going to change. Don't let it bug you; I'd think that you might as well just accept it.

    However, if your lover would not be happy, if she found out, then you're got an issue that should be resolved.

    Considered therapy?
    Well the first time I had sex w my gf we had it non stop for 2 days lol and it was wonderful but I was missing that part. I'm guessing a strap on should be enough? But I don't know. I am totally in love w this girl but on and off during my cycle I get dick obsessed, its not like just desire, it takes over my whole mind. Like wake up at night bothered by those intrusive thoughts like freaking out. I saw a sexologist who recommends the pill.
    So I'm gonna take that very soon... My gf knows and that freaked her out and we are gonna see how to satisfy me

  13. #73

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    A strap on is a pretty good substitute. My wife and I have covered all of mine and her desires and have a great sex life now. But I still would love a cock that cums! That is one of the best things I like about sucking cock. Strangely enough, once I "came out" to my wife, she had been thinking the same things she would like to try. Basically a full gender reversal. It is very fun and she likes me dressed all slutty. LOL It can be worked out, just be honest with your partner!

  14. #74

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Yes you have the right idea I love cock but not the man I truly believe my ole lady wants to fuck me but is scared to say it so I'm going to bring it up
    Well I'll be damed I needed to her that has Bern posted

  15. #75

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    There have been many responses that agree with your idea of wanting the cock only. I mostly agree with you, when I get horny all I want is hard cock to suck and take the cum. I have never looked at man and thought, well he's attractive, I'd like to do him. Having said that,I normally won't suck any ole cock. It helps if the cock is nice and the guy is at least resonable looking and has some amount of personality. I can never imagine "dating" a guy. I am still very turned on by women and want to spend most of the time with women. But when I get those urges, I really just want a hard cock to suck and swallow his cum. I have never done anal, but have been fantasizing about about it a lot lately. I really do want to try it. But again, just for the sex not the guy. I'm happy to find out I'm not alone in this approach. So where are all you cock guys I need it bad!

  16. #76

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I agree I do not like to be with men who want me just for my dick only and who refuse to kiss me or even date. It's a MAJOR turnoff for me and lots of other bisexual men I've met.

  17. #77

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    You are the first person to sum up exactly how I feel. The only difference is I haven't acted on it yet, but I'd really like to.

  18. #78

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I crave, love and dream of sucking cock. I've only sucked a few over my years, thrill watching porn because of the cock involved, always of fine size, shaved and producing a fine load of cum. But I want foreplay too, just as I do with a woman. I want to be nude with the guy, like his personality and want his cock in my hand, mine in his as we sit side by side talking of sex. rubbing the precum over our cock heads or watching porn. Then I want to be on my knees sucking him, making him moan then cum in my mouth, down my throat. It won't matter if he wants to jerk me off or blow me after. I have the taste of his cream down my throat and it tingles. I have the memory and my precum flows over my cock. I've had his cock and just as my desire for pussy, I want another one or his again.

  19. #79

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I know just how you feel, I feel the same way. Thinking about sucking cock gets me hard as hell but the idea of kissing is a turn off. Having a buddy that likes to give and receive head on a regular basis would be great.

  20. #80

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Same here haha..I know some bisexuals have the urge to date other men or even have romantic relationships with them as well. I'm not against that idea but for me the thought of lying close to a man and being in love just doesn't mix together. I have also had people tell me this feeling may change with time, but right now, as it has been for the last 3 or 4 years, it's primarily sexual.

  21. #81

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I definitely want the cock. That being said, I do enjoy romance and intimacy with men...kissing, making out, rubbing, stroking, licking and mutual cock worship. I adore sucking cock with men who know how to suck mine. I can make love to a man as easily as with a woman, but it's just temporary love and the taboo of two men rolling around in bed like 2 lesbians is a huge turn on for me. I can only be emotionally attached to women but I can bond sexually with men too.

  22. #82

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I hope that you tried the strap-on. You might also just consider getting a good collection of very well made dildos and using those when you get the urge. Hope that everything works out for you and your GF.
    Quote Originally Posted by MarysLover View Post
    Well the first time I had sex w my gf we had it non stop for 2 days lol and it was wonderful but I was missing that part. I'm guessing a strap on should be enough? But I don't know. I am totally in love w this girl but on and off during my cycle I get dick obsessed, its not like just desire, it takes over my whole mind. Like wake up at night bothered by those intrusive thoughts like freaking out. I saw a sexologist who recommends the pill.
    So I'm gonna take that very soon... My gf knows and that freaked her out and we are gonna see how to satisfy me

  23. #83

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I propose a new two-bagger concept. You meet the guy with a paper bag over your head (with eyeholes and mouth hole). He also has a bag on his head (eyeholes, mouth hole). Have sex and leave. The Unknown Bisexual.

  24. #84

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    This is exactly how I feel as well. My question is, how do you get past the lack of desire for the actual guy so that you can get as far as the cock? So far any attempt I've made was aborted as soon as I saw a guy standing there.

  25. #85

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by topper99florida View Post
    On reading the majority of posts, I guess I must be the exception. It's not just the cock, it's the whole package. He doesn't have to be Tom Cruise, but it's a real plus if he is.

    ... but I like to have a man suck me at length, and then ride him with both my hands grasping his ass. However, I like all the stuff in between too. Rolling around in the sheets, nipple suckling, ass grabbing, kissing, etc, etc, is an incredible turn-on.

    When things are really clicking, I can even dig the bromance

    I've tried the simple cock thing, from both the sucking and being sucked perspective. And while it's immediate, it's less satisfying. To make matters more complex however, I have found that simply suckling on a woman's breasts is incredibly satisfying, and relaxing all in its own. I could seemingly do this forever without needing to see what woman owned the breasts, or needing to bother with any of her other naughty bits.
    I agree with you, it's about pleasure, my suck buddy and I do this all the time. Having your body pleasured before the main event is akin to foreplay. We usually shower together to start playing together Getting turned on by sucking nipples, kissing, ass play, slipping down sampling the pre-cum and back to a nipple or navel suck with tongue inserted etc. before having my or his cock sucked is all build up to the climax. It takes time, says you appreciate the person, they are important as you are receiving pleasure in return. It's using the brain as an added sexual organ (which it is) to the higher good of connecting. I have to say kissing is really sensual. It let's you know how well your partner can use his/her tongue and is into sex! As to sucking on a man or woman's breast, it's as satisfying as sucking a cock to me. The body is a wonderful playground needing to be explored as everyone is different in it's own way.
    Don't worry, be happy!

  26. #86

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by tenni View Post
    Fetish versus Paraphilia

    "Sometimes people use the word “fetish” to imply any kind of “atypical” sexual interest, or kink. For sex researchers.., “fetish” specifically refers to a strong sexual preoccupation with an object, material or body part....... Usually the focus of a fetish is something not traditionally considered sexual.

    Paraphilia,” according to Robert T. Francouer’s The Complete Dictionary of Sexology,means compulsively responding in a sexual way to an unusual or socially unacceptable stimulus.

    ....The most recent edition, the DSM-IV, only describes paraphilia as a psychiatric disorder if it causes distress to the individual or harm to others.

    Fetishism, as defined above, is a subcategory of paraphilia, but only qualifies as a disorder if it causes distress or harm."

    http://kinseyconfidential.org/sexual-fetish-blog-post/

    .................................................. .................................................. ............

    interesting.

    A craving for cock is still not a fetish nor paraphilia because a cock is traditionally considered sexual.

    Looking at a cock as a stimulus for attraction is socially acceptable in the mainstream hetero society if you are a woman..maybe a man as well in some societies? ..ie accept same sex attraction as "normal".

    Craving cock is not a psychiatric disorder unless it upsets distresses you that you crave cock or harms others. You're ok if you crave cock whether you crave the rest of the man or not. Relax about it. You're not crazy
    I don't think that the medical/psychiatric profession has done a very good job of defining sexuality. In one way, they are saying that something that causes harm is a disorder, otherwise it's just sexy. Well, duh?? The medical/legal profession is concerned with controlling behavior that is harmful, not what's "normal", but they get crazy and biased when they start trying to impose their ideas of what's OK on others.

    Homosexuality was recently considered an extremely harmful activity, and those who did it were put in prison. It was also considered a "choice", which puts it into the realm of good and evil. So doctors classed it as a disorder. However, we've learned two things: (1) there is some hard-wiring of gay sexuality, that takes it out of the realm of choice and (2) it's perfectly possible to be homosexual and create lots of good, rather than harm. So that takes homosexuality out of the realm of morality, of good and evil, and we've discovered that the more acceptance gays experience in their social lives, the happier they are and those around them, too.

    Currently, pedophilia is viewed the same way as homosexuality, and recently there is very clear evidence that pedophiles are not wired the way others are. Most humans are not sexually attracted, to any large extent, to children; pedophiles are, and there's not much they can do about it. However, because admitting to pedophilia is a guaranteed prison sentence (and a guaranteed short life once they enter prison), men with sexual attraction, most of whom have no desire to harm children because of their desire, are unable to seek any kind of help, professional or not, to modify their behavior. Pedophiles are different from child molesters, who are basically screwed up and operating from damaged psyches, rather than attraction. Pedophiles usually recognize their urges as harmful, or at least unacceptable, and would want to modify their behavior, and because of extreme stigmatization, are virtually excluded from obtaining help. If somebody has a DUI, we'll try to send them to AA to change their behavior before they kill someone, and in many cases that will work, and lives are saved. If they could not find help, they would drink and eventually are likely to kill themselves and/or others.

    How did I get onto that??? Oh, yeah...it's behavior, not normalcy, that defines a disorder. Among the bisexuals on this forum we're seeing two pretty distinct attractions--some are attracted to men and fall in love with them. They want relationships that are emotional, caring and deep. They could, and do, fall in love with a guy. Others like cock, are turned on by cock, and aren't interested in relationships. There is probably a middle group of us who have so long covered up a broader attraction to men, and are slowly discovering that it might be fun to share a shower with a guy, too. This middle group may or may not "fall for" a guy (or girl if you're a girl). Nevertheless, there is a large group of men who are turned on by cocks and are not otherwise attracted to men. What's that about?

    Well, as it happens, the largest and most popular genre of pornography is transsexual porn. Heterosexual men LOVE trannys!!! Why, because men are wired to be turned on by other cocks, as well as by tits and ass. Trannys have it all in one, irresistible package. (Not only that, it's ok to look if she also has tits). Some of us are simply acting on that normal attraction for cock, as well as what I would call simple sympathetic response. We know how good it must feel for the guy whose cock we're sucking! It's about the cock, and that's "normal", though our behavior sucking cock falls outside of most social norms. As we become more comfortable with our behavior, that naturally extends to other kinds of friendly activity, like showers. I would call that "friendly behavior"--similar to pouring your buddy a beer after a long day's work, and not the same as same-sex attraction. It's an expression of an open heart.

    Well, that's my take on it. As for me, I love to suck cock, have always been attracted to cocks since before puberty, and have never "fallen for" a guy. But I do recognize that the more I am "intimate" with other men, the broader is my attraction and my behavior is changing.

    The idea that hetero men are turned on by cock might be a bit controversial, and so I offer this academic and really interesting lecture on the neuroscience of porn. One of the other interesting things, which I've observed in many older bisexuals, is that bisexual men who have a serious relationship with another man do not often go back to another relationship with women. The same is not true for women, for whom attraction is much more contextual--emotional, related to security, and according to their situation in life, which naturally changes.


  27. #87

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Totally agree with you. I love women but don't find men at all attractive, but I need cock in my mouth and ass. All I can say is try Transgender! It's the most amazing thing ever!

  28. #88

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Yes full package for me too, from glance and kiss to suck and fuck. Not into love with a guy, just enjoying each other as completely as possible.

  29. #89

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I'm with you. It's the cock and the cum. I couldn't tell you the color of his eyes. Lately, I've been thinking about getting a haircut and having the barber rub his hard cock against me looking for a reaction.

  30. #90

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Hello, I think I know how you feel. I love the sight, and feel of another man's cock as well, but have no interest in hugging, caressing, kissing, etc - all the other things that we associate with a "normal" relationship. I do find, however, that a partner's personality matters quite a bit. If he plays into my turn-ons and I play into his, it makes for a much more satisfying encounter. I enjoy for example, for my partner to be a dominant top, directing me to service his cock,while urging me on verbally -it really adds to my enjoyment a his sub.

 

 

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