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  1. #31

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I do enjoy cock. I do enjoy pics of them.Without a lady there I do not enjoy a man, but still like the pics.The first time we are together the cock is all that matters, unless he has a really ugly body. If play comes again I have to like more about him that just his cock. LIke how well he used it in me. If the lady I am with wants him to play with us I will go with it. When I look a pics of guys the cock is my interest. A guy my late wife and I played with for a couple of years was of no attraction to me,But she liked to play with him and liked to watch him fuck me.I always got turned on mainly because of how fired up she got when we played.

  2. #32

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by abstractreality2 View Post
    To MyMyBiguy,
    Wow, you express my thoughts 100% accurately. To me it is ALL about the cock. I love looking at at, holding, stroking, sucking a hard cock. Cuddling/kissing etc. with a guy is of ZERO interest! I guess I'm superficial, but perhaps I do just have a cock fetish. I even see a pic of my own cock and get a boner! So, seeing some other dude's throbbing cock gets me horny as hell. But, I've had very little luck finding guys like me who just want to enjoy sucking each other's cocks.
    I'm with you 100% on that. It's the cock, not the guy thats attached. A nice hard cock in track pants or boxers just sends me into a lust for his cock that I'm sure others here understand.
    I wish you were close by. I bet we could be buddies!

  3. #33

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    pretty much me. My 1st time was with a gay guy when I was 20.(now 66). Had a lot to drink and ended up at his apt. Did all the kissing and nipple sucking, which was pleasant, but it was sucking his cock and swallowing his cum was the real turn-on. That part was AWESOME. i would consider the whole thing with the right guy but, in the end, it's all about his cock.

  4. #34

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I'm the same way....really don't care what the guy looks like. Not turned on by guys, just their cock and balls. I don't care how old they are. I don't want to be kissed, nipples touched or too much hands all over my body (except my cock and balls). Only interested in exploring, licking, kissing cock until they cum. I don't even care if I cum, just love knowing I got another guy so excited he ejaculated.

  5. #35

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Hey I'm not alone! Awesome! I haven't ever sucked a cock yet I'm absolutely mezmorized by the idea of it! Flat out I would not kiss dude nor do I have the desire to be fucked by dude. Though when I see nice cock and balls pictures I definitely get very turned on and start fantasizing about sucking it off! I/we, my wife and I have played with the stuff to have her fuck me... And yes I will let her. Gosh if she only had a cock. We play around with her sucking and playing with my moobs and fantasize about me sucking a nice big cock to completion. One of my favs. Who knows we may get there someday!

  6. #36

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by tenni View Post
    Daf
    Maybe, maybe not. When you refer to social aspect and then go back to a physical aspect is where you start to lose me. If a man finds another man socially attractive what does he base the attraction on? It is not as much his physical appearance but his behaviour imo. Often we call such m/m relationships friendships, do we not? If we have an emotional reaction to our friends they are not our lovers. A guy might even have an emotionally connection with another male friend and not want to suck his cock. Now, that emotional connection is different than an emotional connection with a sexual partner/lover...is it not? If his friend dies, he may cry deeply at that loss but never have wanted to suck his cock even if they are both bisexual or gay.


    Yes true. like a bromance? I think I was trying (badly) to differentiate between lust and love. Wanting to fall in love with a man and not just having sex with one.

    Quote Originally Posted by tenni View Post
    a “homo lifestyle” much more than the physical? It is a social network that may include sexual contact. Is a bisexual lifestyle for a man different than a homo lifestyle? I think so.


    lifestyle was a lazy choice of word at the time.. maybe more like homosexual domesticity?

    Quote Originally Posted by tenni View Post
    Are you stating that homosexuality in its purest sense is all about cock?..lol


    no not necessarily.. good question tenni..maybe i was hinting at that there, but on reflection rereading....there is so much more involved...However id imagine pretty much all guys that suck dick are acting on a homosexual impulse,. Homosexuality is not therefore in its purest sense about sucking cock, but sucking cock is in its purest sense a homosexual act.
    "I like the pole & the hole."

  7. #37

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by BiDaveDtown View Post
    According to Tenni you'd be LOL "Straight" or a SMSM OP. The idea that you can somehow have a fetish for a penis is showing how you don't know what a fetish is since a penis is already sexual and it's not a true or actual fetish like hands, feet, etc. are.
    im genuinely confused on this one. have been looking around the net but its all contradictory. so a fetish is something that takes an ordinarily nonsexual thing and makes it sexual? id go with that, but for some people hands, feet, toes are sexual things, and for lesbians for instance a penis is not sexual.. Who defines what is inherently sexual or not?
    Or do u mean a fetish cannot exist for anything (related to specifically) sexual organs?

    My (narrow?) definition of a fetish was sexualising anything that takes it out of the normal context of its functioning/use/position and imbues obsessionally with a sexual degree far greater than if it were the sum of its parts.
    In this case, sure dicks are great but WITH THE REST...so to only specifically want to look/suck/wank a hard dick (flacid? forget it), excluding the balls, the hair, and any sense that it is actually connected to a man (dicks in floating in space - or glory holes...) that sounds like an obessesion with dick...
    ...the dick could be attached to a bb-gun, or wall mounted, or freshly cut off bobbit-style for all the admirer cares. I mean that's a dick WAY out of context ...but still hyper sexualised....that's why i thought fetish. I dunno. I don't think i really have any fetishes myself...
    Last edited by dafydd; Dec 21, 2012 at 7:59 PM.
    "I like the pole & the hole."

  8. #38

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    exactly the same way

  9. #39

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I thought I was all alone in my thinking. There is hope for me yet! Lol. I haven't acted on my curiosities as of yet. However, if I knew the guy had the same thoughts as me, I'd be much more interested in it

  10. #40

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Kissing a man would make me throw up... sucking his cock turns me on swallowing down his load.
    I never understood why women sucked cock until I sucked one my self. An exploding cock in my
    mouth is the most euphoric experience I've ever had.

  11. #41

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    If I am going to perform fellatio on a man, I do prefer that he be attractive and well-built. I do not enjoy making out but do enjoy pecs and nipple play both on me and on him if possible. Once the cock is exposed, I can get hot even if he is not totally attractive. I also enjoy it when he puts his hand or hands behind my head to guide me as I perform my magic. I wear my hair long, usually tied back in a ponytail and many men enjoy having a "handle" to grab onto, especially when they cum.

  12. #42
    twntexas
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    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by MyMyBiGuy View Post
    I have known I was bisexual and have been acting on it for several years now. I am primarily straight, but I just get the urges to suck a guy off and rarely (if he is cool and has a great cock) get fucked. I have never looked at a guy and gotten turned on. It is all about dicks and sucking them and the cum. When I am looking to hook up, if a guy sends me a face picture, I am actually turned off. I want to see his cock, that is all. I cannot imagine being out or having a relationship with a guy like I do with women.

    Is this common or what? I have never talked about any of this to anyone. I am glad I found this forum!
    I dont know how common it is but its the same with me. I love too suck the cum out of guys, and like getting it in my other end too, but the thought of kissing/cuddling with them is enough to make me want to puke.

  13. #43

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    If all you want me for is my penis that happens to be large and intact with a foreskin. No thanks. I'm not your or anyone else's human dildo and this includes women too.

  14. #44

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I am really into riding a dick. I like it when my girlfriend starts kissing him ,sorta distracting him from me, and I start sucking his dick. She lays him back on the bed and covers his face with her pussy while I lube him up, straddle and ride his dick while he licks her pussy- this is my perfect experience, not even looking at his face.

  15. #45

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by twntexas View Post
    I dont know how common it is but its the same with me. I love too suck the cum out of guys, and like getting it in my other end too, but the thought of kissing/cuddling with them is enough to make me want to puke.
    why does it make you vomit? I mean if it does, it does... but why?
    "I like the pole & the hole."

  16. #46

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Kind of the same for me, I enjoy kissing and living with women, not men for whatever reason. Whats I do enjoy with men is the ease of getting to the action. Lets get naked and enjoy ourselves.

  17. #47

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    If you just want the cock try going to the baths. Not every person wants a relationship there, either. They want satisfaction and understand. I get mine and I help out others as well. We love our cocks and want relief and yet fun with other dicks and balls and nudity, sucking cock is just one thing but I crave cock in my mouth and my dick in a warm mouth as well.~! Slurps~!

  18. #48

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by dafydd View Post
    im genuinely confused on this one. have been looking around the net but its all contradictory. so a fetish is something that takes an ordinarily nonsexual thing and makes it sexual? id go with that, but for some people hands, feet, toes are sexual things, and for lesbians for instance a penis is not sexual.. Who defines what is inherently sexual or not?
    Or do u mean a fetish cannot exist for anything (related to specifically) sexual organs?

    My (narrow?) definition of a fetish was sexualising anything that takes it out of the normal context of its functioning/use/position and imbues obsessionally with a sexual degree far greater than if it were the sum of its parts.
    In this case, sure dicks are great but WITH THE REST...so to only specifically want to look/suck/wank a hard dick (flacid? forget it), excluding the balls, the hair, and any sense that it is actually connected to a man (dicks in floating in space - or glory holes...) that sounds like an obessesion with dick...
    ...the dick could be attached to a bb-gun, or wall mounted, or freshly cut off bobbit-style for all the admirer cares. I mean that's a dick WAY out of context ...but still hyper sexualised....that's why i thought fetish. I dunno. I don't think i really have any fetishes myself...
    people get confused by the difference between fetish and paraphilia.... cos paraphilia is the one that deals with sexual interest and attraction to non human aspects or aspects of people / situations that are not normally of a sexual interest to the person so a paraphilia is based around sexual arousal that is not part of a normal situation for EACH person seperately and that is why one persons sexual attraction to a gender, can actually be another persons paraphila.....


    here are some examples of paraphila in people, that can also be a normal behievour in other people......

    teleiophilia is the sexual arousal based around adults ( pedophilia refers to children )
    pygophila is the sexual arousal based around buttocks
    heterophilia is the sexual arousal based around the understanding that a person is heterosexual
    scopophilia is the sexual arousal based around watching sexual interaction of others, either dressed or naked

    even homosexuality was once classed as a paraphilia.....

    the issue is that genitalia are viewed as a sexual object and that creates the issue in that it can negate a persons paraphilia, while in fact the person may have a sexual arousal triggered by foreskins, not the penis, just the foreskin and the images they get in their head around the foreskin retracting, etc.......

    now if you excuse me, i will leave you to think about it and come to your own conclusions, and wait to be told that I have no idea what I am talking about, by my resident site stalker
    Last edited by Long Duck Dong; Dec 26, 2012 at 3:00 AM.
    The only thing more painful than a broken heart, is catching yourself in your zip and having very cold hands

  19. #49

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Fetish versus Paraphilia

    "Sometimes people use the word “fetish” to imply any kind of “atypical” sexual interest, or kink. For sex researchers.., “fetish” specifically refers to a strong sexual preoccupation with an object, material or body part....... Usually the focus of a fetish is something not traditionally considered sexual.

    Paraphilia,” according to Robert T. Francouer’s The Complete Dictionary of Sexology,means compulsively responding in a sexual way to an unusual or socially unacceptable stimulus.

    ....The most recent edition, the DSM-IV, only describes paraphilia as a psychiatric disorder if it causes distress to the individual or harm to others.

    Fetishism, as defined above, is a subcategory of paraphilia, but only qualifies as a disorder if it causes distress or harm."

    http://kinseyconfidential.org/sexual-fetish-blog-post/

    .................................................. .................................................. ............

    interesting.

    A craving for cock is still not a fetish nor paraphilia because a cock is traditionally considered sexual.

    Looking at a cock as a stimulus for attraction is socially acceptable in the mainstream hetero society if you are a woman..maybe a man as well in some societies? ..ie accept same sex attraction as "normal".

    Craving cock is not a psychiatric disorder unless it upsets distresses you that you crave cock or harms others. You're ok if you crave cock whether you crave the rest of the man or not. Relax about it. You're not crazy
    Last edited by tenni; Dec 26, 2012 at 9:34 AM.

  20. #50

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    It`s perfectly fine if you just want to suck cock and swallow cum...many many so called str8married/or completely bi,gay men suck dick every day without knowing the man attached ..cocks are everywhere needing a blowjob..at your workplace, the "Y", wherever there are men and their always ready cocks, you can find a penis to suckle...I suck dick everyday from my so called str8/married neighbor and he sucks me with no labels attached....labels are for cans and bottles not for humans...so suck dick and save the world as they say..

  21. #51

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Ok so I am new to the site and glad to know that I am not the only one who just wants the dick. I spend a great deal of time thinking of having my dick sucked and doing the same just have not figured out how to find that first one, and how in the hell do you start that conversation!?

  22. #52

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by 4me4once View Post
    Ok so I am new to the site and glad to know that I am not the only one who just wants the dick. I spend a great deal of time thinking of having my dick sucked and doing the same just have not figured out how to find that first one, and how in the hell do you start that conversation!?
    Somewhat similar for me. I have been actively seeking a guy to blow but it's hard (hehe). Primarily I'm afraid of STD's and then a close second is discretion / comfortability with said guy. I have zero interest in holding hands with a man, kissing their lips, cuddling, or anything remotely close to that. The gloryhole would be my haven if I wasn't so terrified of disease. My haven.

    In fact, I'm not even interested in having my cock sucked. I just want to suck dick. I think all the porn I've watched and being on the receiving end of blowjobs all my life has evoked my curiosity in being the sucker, not the suckee.

    How does one find a clean cock to suck with NSA? AND have the certainty that there are no underlying disease risks...

  23. #53

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Thats exactly how I feel. No bromance, no face pics, just give me that cock. I love to give head, which is why I am so good at it. There is nothing better than to suck and stroke a clean, hard, cut, cock and hear the guy moan when he shoots!

  24. #54

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I am with you. All my interest is in his COCK too. He could be ugly which means nothing. 1Paulette

  25. #55

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    On reading the majority of posts, I guess I must be the exception. It's not just the cock, it's the whole package. He doesn't have to be Tom Cruise, but it's a real plus if he is.

    After some experience, I imagine I could be labeled a top. It's greedy of me, I know, but I like to have a man suck me at length, and then ride him with both my hands grasping his ass. However, I like all the stuff in between too. Rolling around in the sheets, nipple suckling, ass grabbing, kissing, etc, etc, is an incredible turn-on.

    When things are really clicking, I can even dig the bromance

    I've tried the simple cock thing, from both the sucking and being sucked perspective. And while it's immediate, it's less satisfying. To make matters more complex however, I have found that simply suckling on a woman's breasts is incredibly satisfying, and relaxing all in its own. I could seemingly do this forever without needing to see what woman owned the breasts, or needing to bother with any of her other naughty bits.

  26. #56

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by Jlep12
    How does one find a clean cock to suck with NSA? AND have the certainty that there are no underlying disease risks...
    You don't! Not with a stranger anyway. Not unless you stick a rubber on it first.
    The chances of getting STI's from sucking cock are comparitively low, but are never impossible. I've never sucked a rubbered cock, and never got an STD/STI. But you might get something from your very first blowjob.
    Not trying to put you off btw, but it's best you know the risks and get yourself checked up regulary if you do play.

  27. #57

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    I'm the same way, drawn to a guys cock and balls like a moth to a flame...but quickly get trurned off by love making with him. I do enjoy getting fucked occasionaly but its always by being so truned on by the guys cock.

  28. #58
    ferreror
    Guest

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    That is the way I am too. My fantasies are about a cock and what it can do to me and what I can do to it. I am not sexually attracted to the rest of the guy. I have never acted on my fantasies and I hope I never will as I am comitted to my wife.

    The only fantasy in this area I would like to come true would be for my wife to get a feeldoe or a realdoe and use it on me

  29. #59

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    i am only interested in nice clean cocks to play with. nothing about a guy turns me on except the sight of a nice cock

  30. #60

    Re: I just want the cock... not the guy

    Quote Originally Posted by twntexas View Post
    I dont know how common it is but its the same with me. I love too suck the cum out of guys, and like getting it in my other end too, but the thought of kissing/cuddling with them is enough to make me want to puke.
    That's very odd. I can understand if you do not like kissing anyone at all as there are people like this but why does the thought of kissing or cuddling a man want to make you vomit? I can understand if you're completely icked out by rimming, fisting, urethral sounds or other sex acts since those are things that myself and many other people do not want to do but why get grossed out by kissing a man or cuddling with him? If all someone wants me for is my penis that happens to be large and intact with a foreskin. No thanks. I'm not anyone else's human dildo and this includes women too.

 

 

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