Well yet again I've had a perfectly good m-m hookup turn into a political/psychological rally.
Midway through a lovely frott&snog session the VERY important question came up, "So how long have you known you are gay?". I ignored the hook and gave a made up answer (He obviously read that I'm bi on the site).
"When did you start being actively gay?",....so like a proper dick I corrected that I've always been bi. "Bi's just tell themselves that because they are scared to be gay!". This from a bloke I was frotting and snogging?
I KNOW he meant well, he's a lovely bloke!. But it bothered me. It put me off. I didn't fuck him because I lost my erection thinking how needlessly insulting he was. I wasn't angry, nor did I dislike him (he was HOT), but I accepted him and it wasn't mutual. We both cum in the end when forced the issue out of my mind, which took some doing!
I know a few bi's who dodge that by stating they are gay on hookup sites. They confide in me that it's just easier that way.
So do you do that? Why do you? Why don't you? And would a sudden surge of bi-erasure bother you? Am I just being silly and need a spank over your knee?