Hi,
Well, I need some advice. I've been with my girlfriend for two years, and we have been living together for slightly over a year. We're quite committed to our relationship, and neither of us has ever cheated on anyone (past or present). When I got into this relationship with her, I admitted that I was bisexual and she was very open to the idea of another couple or male coming into our bedroom once in a while. However, as our relationship progressed, she seemed to shift her stance on the subject. Now, she can't picture seeing me with another woman or man because I mean so much to her now, and "things are different" at this stage of our relationship. Of course she means the world to me, but I am also feeling somewhat sexually frustrated and resentful that her open-minded perspective has so drastically changed. I totally understand that she wants to feel secure with me and know that she's mine; that won't change from my point of view. So now we're at a "sexual crossroads."
She suggested that we get some good, high quality porn that we can both get into (m/m, m/f, m/m/f, etc.). However, her idea of high quality porn is very hard to find (people really getting into the mood and not just banging away at holes). I kind of love it all. Regardless, that's only a bandaid. Does anybody have some good ideas or advice? I could use it.
Thank you all.
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