Kissing Men

[tenni]

Kissing Men

When I first started to explore m2m sex, the other guy tried to kiss me and I turned my head away. No fek'n way! Men do not kiss men..I thought. They just don't!

I eventually changed my mind when I became more comfortable and sensual about m2m play. As I have uh.."matured" my lips have become much more of an erotic zone than in my younger days.

As far as I can figure out, I was taught how to kiss by women! I do not recall ever being kissed by a woman who did not know how to kiss sensually. NEVER..that I can remember. I would remember I think?

Now, that I really, really enjoy kissing another man sensually, I have been occasionally surprised if not shocked how crappy some guys kiss. They do not know how to communicate with their lips and tongue. The tongue can be a seductive tool to communicate in sensual ways. Some push their face right into you like it is a wrestling match..lol I am puzzled that a lot of these guys have been married!!! Wtf? Those kiss events with a wife must have been a challenge for her? Why did she not teach him how to kiss sensually? Modelling behaviour usually works ..lol?

Men who know how to communicate with their lips and tongue in a sensual way are super! I've even told guys that I am into sensual kissing. I've been told many many times by guys that I am a very sensual kisser. . (not braggin just the facts mam)

Not being a woman, I don't know but I bet women kissing each other have a higher incidence of being sensual?
I know that it is an individual case by case issue and you don't know until the lips begin to touch.

What do you think about kissing a man compared to kissing a woman? (any difference? any patterns in men who are good kissers? etc.)
ie. men with hairy legs are super kissers? men who wear boxer briefs are more sensual kissers than guys who wear boxers?...all myths I suspect.

[cornholejoe]

oh about the same with men and women some are good kisser and some are not

[Mickie]

So many men cannot kiss. It's pitiful.

[DuckiesDarling]

Very interesting thread, Tenni. But also one that is very subjective as kissing can convey so much. Slow, teasing nibbles that lead to deep passionate kisses or just flat out full on checking for tonsils when the arousal hits hard. A quick morning/evening/hello/goodbye for friends/husband or wife/kids.

Some men are very good kissers, some men are very bad kissers. Some men need to learn to be taught to kiss just like they need to be taught exactly where the G spot is. I do believe that women probably are more sensual when they kiss but that's because women are inherently more sensual. I have watched quite a bit of amature porn as LDD and I were just trying to find something that clicked for both and while some had some really hot sex and wonderful energy there was this one clip... It was pretty much Kissing 101 with a couple females from the first seductive brush to the last thank you for a nice time lingering kiss and now I really wish I could find that clip.....

[Chaos_Couple]

We think it's a matter of men being unaccustomed to the fine points of kissing. Even now, I have difficulty not pressing too urgently too fast, and I am know as someone slow and sensual. I believe that this is the case for men as far as society expects little more than "performance" without frills. I too used to think that kissing was out of the question and unthinkable, but now, it is essential, and wonderful.

[i_shoot_blanks]

I tried MM kissing once, at the insistance of the partner. Although it was not bad, I was still a bit put off.

[jarhead]

Isn't the thread about men kissing men? I thought so and it is a total put off for me.

[jamieknyc]

What impressed me about kissing a man was how natural it felt. Kissing a man and holding his naked body felt like holding and kissing a woman with small breasts.

[Gearbox]

It's a shocking disgrace for a man in his 30's 40' + to be a bad kisser! I've met some and it was like face rape!lol
Well I sure a fek didn't consent to THAT!
Had to grab one bloke by the jaw and show him what to do step by step, or I'd be turned right off him.

I've never met a bad female kisser. I've met a few who complained about MY kissing, and I'm glad they sorted me out.

[nimby]

Most MSM aren't really into kissing so they don't bother trying. But bi guys are better at kissing.

[Realist]

I've had romantic and platonic relationships with both genders. Some men enjoy kissing and some would rather not. I've never had an intimate relationship with a lady, who didn't want to kiss. I'm flexible, I can be in either kind of relationship.

There are different variations in kissing techniques, some are nice, some rather odd, and a few I didn't care for at all.

If I had my "druthers" I'd choose a romantic relationship, but my longest relationship with a male was platonic. (lasted 10 years)
We were, however, very close and exceptionally compatible.

If we hadn't been, we certainly would have not lasted that long!

[jem_is_bi]

Kissing mouth-to-mouth is not the only way to enjoy kissing.
I especially love kissing another on their neck. Especially when your sitting next to each other on the bed and you lean over and hug them from behind, then, the kiss as you lay your head on their shoulder!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol I've had very few men that were great kissers...Only two have been able to almost make me cum Just from kissing me. (Or biting, but that's another thread entirely) ;} And unfortunately, I've had some kiss worse than a Labradore..all tongue that seeks to cut off your breathing process...Ick.

I adore a good kisser, tho. And some have talent at it. Its great to find one that suits each person...:}
Theyre out there, just keep lookin' :}
Cat

[Alan654321]

I love kissing while we play, nothing like it

[TonyBi4older]

I love to kiss and be kissed, but I have found that many men are very tentative. Here I am expecting a deep, long tongue lock, and I get a peck and a touch, My oh my, do I live to inhale my partner and lick and get into each other. So intimate.
If they don't kiss well it's like a poor advertisement, and typically accurate.
If you are going to do anything, do it well and get truly into it. Don't do anything half way.

[jimdude67]

As a closet bi male I don't care for kissing other guys either. I have no desire to kiss any face with facial hair. Same goes for a woman with facial hair or mustache hair. And the corseness of a guys stubble makes me just as soon want to lick a sheet of 80 grit sand paper. And with any type of bi or gay porno a big turn off is when the guys start kissing. And yes I don't understand the whole rimming thing either. And if you wanna catch a cold or flu from someone on a casual hookup just give them a nice deep smootch.

[Satyr352]

I like a good, long soft kiss with a man. Gradually it evolves into deeper kissing, and of course, a licking, sucking. Really nice. If you are at all nervous, the first kiss puts that away fast!!

[FunE1]

I've noticed no difference between men and women. Some are just better than others, male and female. No one sex seems better overall and no particular aspect of a person's background really indicates whether or not they're going to be a good kisser... except for, perhaps, general sexual experience.... I find those with more sexual experience seem to be better than those with less experience.

[willscox]

I had always resisted kissing men because, for some reason, it just didn't seem right to me. I met a guy for sex occasionally, usually mutual sucking, but no kissing. I started thinking about trying kissing because it didn't seem right to enjoy sucking his cock but resisting kissing. I casually asked in an email if he had ever kissed a man and if he wold like to try it. He hadn't but was not turned off by the thought. We gave it a try the next time we got together and now it is something we do when we first meet and usually when he leaves and sometimes in between. I have found that it arouses me very quickly. I am glad we gave it a try because now I enjoy it.

[Swuch]

I very much enjoy kissing my male partner. It takes the encounter to another level. Feeling hid tongue in my mouth as he slowly fucks me makes the experience more pleasurable.

[Pendulum]

I enjoy kissing a guy..I find it intimate and sensual and definitely sexual

REAL bi men kiss

[Pendulum]

I enjoy kissing a guy..I find it intimate, sensual and definitely sexual

REAL bi men kiss

[bluesky55]

The first few times I ever got with men I was not the least bit interested in kissing. I was a newby with one thing in mind,taste the sausage! I continued with that attitude as I approached m2m more and more. I wrote fantasy stories and shared them with some potential hookups. I asked one gay couple that I was interested in what they thought about the one particular fantasy story and they said "There's no kissing in it." I moved on as my interest in men at the time was purely about me sucking cock. For a while it seemed that was what the other guys I was with were into as well. Once I had my 1st cock as an adult it was everything I imagined it would be and it was what I wanted. I couldn't wait for it to come out to play. A while later I spent a weekend at a condo with a guy. We started out with a drink in a hot tub. When we came inside to mix more drinks, he planted one on me and it was the first time I had kissed a guy in any situation. After that hot weekend and many other firsts, I took an attitude that it was OK, I'd accept an advance from some one that wanted to kiss, but still wasn't into it & wouldn't initiate it. One guy I met in Seattle was so forceful about kissing (and was quite lousy at it on top of everything) that I became somewhat turned off for a while. I eventually got over that but still seldom initiate the first kiss except with a friend that I enjoy being with a lot. When he comes in the door a passionate kiss gets us started and reoccurs often while playing. It wasn't that way at first but has been for months. I will say that in over 40 years of dating I've only met one woman that I would say was a bad kisser and most had actually complimented me saying that I was a good kisser. In less than 10 years of dating both men and women I would say there were only 2 that I thought were good kissers. My personal opinion is that women grow up with a tenderness and vulnerability that comes through in a kiss in the form of more passion. I believe that they bring out a better kiss from a man than another man does. Thanks ladies. I still remember my own reluctance to kiss early on and as a result probably am still less inclined to initiate a kiss with another guy out of concern that he may not be into it. as I wasn't I willingly reciprocate and if a kiss come from him on a first date I'll be more inclined to initiate on subsequent meetings.

[markus2008]

my first _kiss with a man was by myself beign so turne don with the guy sucking my cock (first time August 2011) after he cmae off my cock the second time (for ir i guess) I grabbed him andkissed his passionately lips and tongue it was amazingly sexy I NEVER thought Id kiss a man but nor didi think Id let a man suck my cock which by the way is so hot somuch more passionate than a female, they jsut suck to please but a man does it cause he WANTS it and there is a big differance

[IndyBiFun]

Oh yeah! Kissing is almost an absolute must.

I love kissing whether it's a girl or a guy. Experiencing a great toe curling kiss with someone you care for is an awesome feeling.

[darkeyes]

Me mum has a few tshirts she wears for barbies... "Be smooth or be removed.." No stubbly faces near my lips or else" "Shave or get a slap" "Hairy faces are like smelly faeces" Her dislike of men with jaggie chops was passed on 2 me.. tried it.. h8ed it.. like snoggin' a roll of barbed wire!!! She used to sing an adaptation of an old Ken Dodd song to me dad when he came hone from work with a 5 o clock shadow.. b4 he could kiss her iit was off 2 bathroom for shave or else...muchly tho I luffed me dad I curled into a ball wen he tried 2 huggle me an gimme a kissie with stubble jutting from 'is face... wos 1 of 'is fave annoyances popping up behind me and kissin' me on back of neck.... gross!!

Jaggyness, Jaggyness
5 o clock shadow and no caress
I thank the Lord for happiness
When my daft old bugger shaves off jagginess"

There is more.. but mostly that is bout wot she wud do if he didn't shave off that ugh from 'is face...

Will not say 'bout her reaction to beards and moustaches.. needless to say guys paid dearly for pushing it on that score.. and needless 2 say.. that 2 is anotha 1a me pet h8s... *shivers*

[Realist]

I've had a short, trimmed beard for many years, off and on. If I'm with a lover who likes a smooth face, I will shave smooth. I prefer a smooth face, myself. Most of my lovers, both male and female, have been OK with a beard.

Everyone is different.

[AdamKadmon43]

I never kiss anyone.... Who knows where their mouth has been.

[AdamKadmon43]

Swapping spit is probably not a real good idea anyhow..... I stopped doing it after I found out that the human mouth contains more harmful microbes than any other part of their anatomy.

[open2both]

Kissing is sooooooooo the BEST!
UNLESS...
You're lip-locking a LOUSY kisser, then...IT'S SOOOOOO THE WORST!