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    how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Ive always had this fantasy to see my boyfriend fuck another man and watch another man give him head.I love the thought and picturing him bending another man over..he said he wld do it but he didnt want the other guy to touch me so how do I get him to actually do it and how can I go about finding another man?

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Call us

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    lol for a start, you talk with your b/f seriously.... most fantasies sound good on the surface, but there is a lot more to hooking up with people than just screwing some random person... for a start, your relationship needs to be stable and balanced, before you open it up, cos issues can arise that you have never thought about

    your fantasy is nice, but you need to sort out WHY your bf doesn't want another man touching you... cos if its a jealousy / possessiveness issue, then you both need to talk over the situation a lot more.... one of the biggest issues that can cause issues, is a jealousy aspect in a relationship......and it can make it harder to find another male that may be interested.

    if you are ok with being a observer / voyeur, then it will not be as much of a issue, as you will not be participating actively.. but you both need to be clear on the rules and what is wanted.... and when you find a guy that is interested, you both need to be clear with him about your rules, and open minded to the idea that the guy may not be interested in what you want.....

    how do you go about finding a guy.... well, you talk to people, and yes you can advertise in this site using your profile, just don't advertise in the forums, its against the rules..... using the chat and forums as a way of meeting people and making friends, is a good site.... tho you both have to decide if its a casual thing or semi regular / friends with benefits / no strings attached sex......

    1) set ground rules for what happens, with who and when etc....
    2) think about what you want in the way of hook ups... not the sexual aspect but what you want out of it IE sexual fantasy becoming reality or something else.....
    3) be open minded about what the other person wants when you find suitable people.....
    4) both you and your partner need to be ok with the person and the person needs to be ok with both of you and what is wanted
    5) safe sex...... safe sex.......and safe sex....

    good luck, hope it all goes good.....
    The only thing more painful than a broken heart, is catching yourself in your zip and having very cold hands

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Yes he does have some jealousy when it comes to another man touching me but seems open when it comes to him being with another man in front of me.i doNT mind watching that is my fantasy but I wld like to play some type of part in it by touching my bf..we r very open minded and very sexual.before himi was into three sums and experimenting with my ex he just never played out my fantasy about being with another man..

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Well that is whats gonna happen with my first time being with a guy. My gf will b there to watch n she says she doesn't want to do anything with the guy. U can find someone who will respect that wish. May take u awhile but will happen. Matter of fact I have found someone who has the same idea n will have his girl there watching as well n has no interest n being with me. So it can happen. I know people on here don't like the standards or limitations but it will work out u just have to b patience. Good luck on ur search n don't settle for less.

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Well Im not looking into doing it all the time just something that tjrna me on and want to .do u think if he ends up liking it he will want to keep doing it?

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Quote Originally Posted by nic213 View Post
    Well Im not looking into doing it all the time just something that tjrna me on and want to .do u think if he ends up liking it he will want to keep doing it?
    He might
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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Bring him to metro Detroit, Michigan. I will suck him and let him bend me over.

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Sounds fun, love to suck him and let him slide it in my ass with lube.Would be interesting being watched!!!!

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    If he continues to say no, then leave the subject alone. Don't force him to do anything he does not want to do.

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    You might be better off with a gay 3rd. That way your jealous hubby wouldn't feel so threatened. (Not criticising him!)
    But with a bi 3rd, it sounds pretty awkward and unrealistic to expect him to NOT be distracted by you there, especially if your going to be 'serving yourself' during.lol
    I know of a few gays that have done just as you ask, and were not putt off by the female. And who knows? He might drop the jealousy when he gets used to having a male 3rd around.

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    I agree with the last comment. Get a gay guy. Your boyfriend won't feel threatened and everyone will get what they are looking for out of the experience. Man, I wish my girlfriend would want the same thing that you do. It would make my life a hell of a lot easier.

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Talk about it with him, watch biporn with him and when he see's how hot you get, and express how much it would turn you on, he would do it.

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Quote Originally Posted by nic213 View Post
    Ive always had this fantasy to see my boyfriend fuck another man and watch another man give him head.I love the thought and picturing him bending another man over..he said he wld do it but he didnt want the other guy to touch me so how do I get him to actually do it and how can I go about finding another man?
    im here i can bend for your bf is your bf goodlooking and sexy?

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    oh yes he is very good looking!not just saying that just to say it but he's fit and good lookin and really good in bed.not to mention he has a open mind which I love

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Communication, communication, and More Communication. Talk to him. Share your views and interests and see if he is into playing with another man, or curious about a three way situation in which you get to watch.
    Keep the lines of communication flowing, and see what His thoughts and feelings are on the subject.
    Just my humble 2 cents, but sex and pleasure runs both ways in a relationship...Just Sayin'
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    I'm tryin' my best to leave a loving foot print on the hearts of the folks who's lives I touch..longly, or briefly..:}
    Minx

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    Robert A. Heinlein

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    If you can set rules that you are both Ok with it can be very rewarding for you both.Just make sure just make sure that you will not come away with the feeling that you get to wht cann't I? I have been in this situation with a couple and it was hard for me not to reach out and touch her or lick her while he was in me. She did get that feeling. At a later date they came back to play again and for a copuple of years we played often and everybody played with everybody.It was so much better and more fun for us all.

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Let ME become your b/f....
    Seriously, you have to make him and let him feel that the same sex thing is very okay for anyone to partake in. that way, you can have his compliance. Ands if he flat out refuses to do a dude, get soemone who will do this fantasy for you, unless this isnt a fantasy, but you life choice.

    Quote Originally Posted by Long Duck Dong View Post
    lol for a start, you talk with your b/f seriously.... most fantasies sound good on the surface, but there is a lot more to hooking up with people than just screwing some random person... for a start, your relationship needs to be stable and balanced, before you open it up, cos issues can arise that you have never thought about

    your fantasy is nice, but you need to sort out WHY your bf doesn't want another man touching you... cos if its a jealousy / possessiveness issue, then you both need to talk over the situation a lot more.... one of the biggest issues that can cause issues, is a jealousy aspect in a relationship......and it can make it harder to find another male that may be interested.

    if you are ok with being a observer / voyeur, then it will not be as much of a issue, as you will not be participating actively.. but you both need to be clear on the rules and what is wanted.... and when you find a guy that is interested, you both need to be clear with him about your rules, and open minded to the idea that the guy may not be interested in what you want.....

    how do you go about finding a guy.... well, you talk to people, and yes you can advertise in this site using your profile, just don't advertise in the forums, its against the rules..... using the chat and forums as a way of meeting people and making friends, is a good site.... tho you both have to decide if its a casual thing or semi regular / friends with benefits / no strings attached sex......

    1) set ground rules for what happens, with who and when etc....
    2) think about what you want in the way of hook ups... not the sexual aspect but what you want out of it IE sexual fantasy becoming reality or something else.....
    3) be open minded about what the other person wants when you find suitable people.....
    4) both you and your partner need to be ok with the person and the person needs to be ok with both of you and what is wanted
    5) safe sex...... safe sex.......and safe sex....

    good luck, hope it all goes good.....

    It only hurts going in...the first time.

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    I don't like it when men or women do that...the old I can get my freak on but you can only watch. Seems very selfish to me.

    Simply tell him no. Explain how unfair it is for him to be gratified but you have to sit on the sidelines, but since your the one who brought it up to him and if you realy want to see him with another man than you might have to do it on his terms, or you can negotiateif he wants to be with a man as much as you want to see him be with a man I'm sure a compromise cam be made, but hold out till he wants it real bad and I'm sure he will let you join

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    live closer to me, lol

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    Post Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    How do i let my gf know its ok for her to fuck other men and it dont upset me but it does make me just wish she would know id love for her to share with me. Dont know how to tell her i like cock as much as she does and would love to suck and fuck men togeather with her theres reason to cheat. Her friend gave me 6 names she has fucked. Just want to enjoy cock togeather but know she wouldent a bf like that

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    How to find someone ,Come to the Emerald Coast of Florida. If he likes it he very well may want to keep doing it. My late wife got me started in Bi play. I have been doing it ever since. It is so hot being with a guy with a lady also involved even if just to watch.

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Come visit the Emerald Coast. I would love to help the two of you with that fantasy.

  24. #24

    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Me on my back you sitting on my face while holding my legs u have a birds eye view of ur bf hammering my. Sounds great. Atlanta

  25. #25

    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Me on my back you sitting on my face while holding my legs u have a birds eye view of ur bf hammering my. Sounds great. Atlanta

  26. #26

    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    Quote Originally Posted by nic213 View Post
    Ive always had this fantasy to see my boyfriend fuck another man and watch another man give him head.I love the thought and picturing him bending another man over..he said he wld do it but he didnt want the other guy to touch me so how do I get him to actually do it and how can I go about finding another man?
    Would he be willing to allow you to be in a very revealing outfit, partially or completely naked, or do a strip tease? If so maybe in the heat of the moment he would feel different about sharing you. He might even want you to join in, to an extent, while he is turned on even if you're not contributing to the scene.

    In any event, it may open the door to a later three way. Things may develop if it goes well during the event and afterward. A woman with your sexual desires is hard to find.

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    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    call me,i,ll give him a good blowjob to get him nice and hard then bend over and beg for his cock

  28. #28

    Re: how to get my boyfriend to fulfill my fantasy by fucking another man?

    The last time the original poster posted here was 3 years ago.

 

 

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