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    Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Yes, we're out there. We love our men and we deal in various ways with their bisexuality and how it impacts our relationship and our lives.

    We meet our men in various places and not all of them are on "meat market" type forums. We meet in games, we meet in other online forums, we meet in supermarkets and we meet in bookstores. We meet our bisexual men the same way we meet straight men.

    To my mind, bisexual men are more in tune with things and are much more understanding of the feminine mind.

    I know there are other straight women on here involved with bisexual men and vice versa bisexual men involved with straight women. So please post your stories.

    For me, I met LDD on an online game and we were friends for a long time before I made the decision to divorce my husband. Then I found out that he was interested and it progressed quickly into love. We've been together for four years now and despite the distance between us physically are very much in love and comfortable with each other. He's looking forward to getting married for the first time in his life and I'm looking forward to a marriage that will actually be a real working partnership.
    Standing hand in hand with my love

    Cara ch' 'm blaidd



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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    I'm curious how you found out that he was bi, and what your initial reaction was?

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    Bobble, I knew there was something different about him but not that he was bi per se til he sent me here to look at the profile of Long Duck Dong, low and behold there he was. I've always had gay and bi friends and to me they were just friends, being with a bi male was a new experience and I told him he could have a male partner but if he looked at another female I would cut his balls off. Needless to say, that got the expected laughter and the response that he was monogamous natured. So if he was with me, there would be no one else. We deal with his cravings to be taken by using a strapon and really enjoying me "pegging" him. He has also given me a blow job which was an eye opening experience.
    Standing hand in hand with my love

    Cara ch' 'm blaidd



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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Me and wife met in a html based chat room around the middle of January in 1998. We chatted there for about a week, then via email and instant messenger. Our meeting had been a planned 'bumping into' one another by a mutual friend. She had seen we were both loners whom had sort of given up hope on meeting someone.

    Another mutual friend started talking to me via messenger about two weeks later. He was asking me questions that seemed out of character for him. He relented explaining, "being a go between here for somebody. They won't let me tell you who." And so I had the third degree for about a half hour. I wasn't really seeing anyone. there were a few people I was flirting with but none of it was going anywhere. This didn't suit good with her.

    I didn't realize she liked me. We had chatted a bit, got on well enough. There were a few things we clicked on, quite a few we didn't. In all the not clicking was like balm for us, kept us learning one another. We kept chatting in the room and over messenger. February 17th she asked if I thought me and friend could make it to Parkersburg, WV the next week. We had to come into WV that week to get rabbits for him. I told her we could try but I couldn't promise, asked why it was important.

    "A girl might like her boyfriend to come to her college graduation." She said.

    Two days later I asked her to marry me over messenger. I had never seen her, never heard her voice. We didn't think about calling each other. Chatting in text suited us both well enough and talking on a phone never really come up. I couldn't get to her graduation, felt bad about that. After asking her marry, had also told her I'm bi. She was accepting of that and didn't see it as a problem. We were just talking for now. She said she needed to think about getting married.

    Eight days later we were chatting.

    "What would make you happy", she asked.

    "Well, you could marry me", I replied.

    "Okay."

    "I could win the lottery, maybe open a comic book shop. The world could stop having wars. A lot of things could make me happy. Wait ..."

    "What, what's wrong?"

    "Okay you know I want us to get married, or okay you will marry me?"

    "Yeah, okay."

    It took us two years to save enough for ourselves, and for her dad to gather up a little bit of a dowry. I really didn't want or need a dowry but old Southern blue collar traditionalism dictates you don't spit in the face of the proud. So, April 22nd of 2000 we got married via a civil service in a church.

    The judge marrying us made a joke with me. "Look back there in the corner, a door. You can duck out if you think you're making a mistake."

    Music began to play, she started walking down the aisle. "If she's a mistake, she'll be the best one I'll ever make in my life", I said.

    He chuckled, nodded and grinned. "Let's get you married then."

    April 22nd of this year will be twelve years married. Known one another fourteen, neither of us is dead yet. Been a few times trips to distant planets have been discussed with passion. We have bumps and wrong turns like everyone else. But we keep on loving, laughing and living. She's still my best mistake. I'm still her boyfriend, probably always will be.
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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    At this point in life we are both bisexual and very comfortable with it. We grew up during the 60's, free love & flower power. I have always been bi and when I met her she was a sophomore in high school. I was in the army. Back then being gay wasn't accepted but being bi was. I never had reason to hide it from her. She had no problem with it and went as far as expressing mild interest in other girls. It wasn't until she was 27 that she had her first experience and was hooked immediately. She was coaching a girls softball team and ended up pulling a muscle in her back. One of the players (10years her junior) drove her home and decided to give her a back rub. Neither of them had ever tried anything with another woman but the gal seduced her and ended up spending the night. It is a long story but she accepted my being bi and at the time questioning her's. She had one sister and she was also bisexual. In discussing our being bisexual neither of us would ever marry a straight person if circumstances left one of us alone. After living with a bi partner straight would never be the same. We both feel the bond is stronger the way we are now.

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    Cool Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Quote Originally Posted by void_dweller View Post
    Me and wife met in a html based chat room around the middle of January in 1998. We chatted there for about a week, then via email and instant messenger. Our meeting had been a planned 'bumping into' one another by a mutual friend. She had seen we were both loners whom had sort of given up hope on meeting someone.

    Another mutual friend started talking to me via messenger about two weeks later. He was asking me questions that seemed out of character for him. He relented explaining, "being a go between here for somebody. They won't let me tell you who." And so I had the third degree for about a half hour. I wasn't really seeing anyone. there were a few people I was flirting with but none of it was going anywhere. This didn't suit good with her.

    I didn't realize she liked me. We had chatted a bit, got on well enough. There were a few things we clicked on, quite a few we didn't. In all the not clicking was like balm for us, kept us learning one another. We kept chatting in the room and over messenger. February 17th she asked if I thought me and friend could make it to Parkersburg, WV the next week. We had to come into WV that week to get rabbits for him. I told her we could try but I couldn't promise, asked why it was important.

    "A girl might like her boyfriend to come to her college graduation." She said.

    Two days later I asked her to marry me over messenger. I had never seen her, never heard her voice. We didn't think about calling each other. Chatting in text suited us both well enough and talking on a phone never really come up. I couldn't get to her graduation, felt bad about that. After asking her marry, had also told her I'm bi. She was accepting of that and didn't see it as a problem. We were just talking for now. She said she needed to think about getting married.

    Eight days later we were chatting.

    "What would make you happy", she asked.

    "Well, you could marry me", I replied.

    "Okay."

    "I could win the lottery, maybe open a comic book shop. The world could stop having wars. A lot of things could make me happy. Wait ..."

    "What, what's wrong?"

    "Okay you know I want us to get married, or okay you will marry me?"

    "Yeah, okay."

    It took us two years to save enough for ourselves, and for her dad to gather up a little bit of a dowry. I really didn't want or need a dowry but old Southern blue collar traditionalism dictates you don't spit in the face of the proud. So, April 22nd of 2000 we got married via a civil service in a church.

    The judge marrying us made a joke with me. "Look back there in the corner, a door. You can duck out if you think you're making a mistake."

    Music began to play, she started walking down the aisle. "If she's a mistake, she'll be the best one I'll ever make in my life", I said.

    He chuckled, nodded and grinned. "Let's get you married then."

    April 22nd of this year will be twelve years married. Known one another fourteen, neither of us is dead yet. Been a few times trips to distant planets have been discussed with passion. We have bumps and wrong turns like everyone else. But we keep on loving, laughing and living. She's still my best mistake. I'm still her boyfriend, probably always will be.

    What I don't get Void, is, with a relationship like this....why are you living in a void?
    FIRE IN THE BELLY

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Ok, Now I'm really curious! What do you mean he gives you a blow job? Your strap on? How is that pleasurable? I guess I'm not getting how that could be "eye opening," in a physical way?

    I really suspect too, that there are a lot more bi people out there, but they just can't "come out," for all the usual reasons. It'd be interesting to know how many couples are bi, and haven't even discussed it with there spouse/lovers/friends. It was years and years before my wife and I could be honest with each other. Sad really. All that fear, and we were on the same page all along!

    P.S. This was a reply to Duckie Darlin...should have made that clear, not that it is private or anything...just for clarity!

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    If you can't imagine how it would be eyeopening to get a blowjob from the man you love on a strapon while it is attached, then I'm not sure I can adequately explain it to you. But I know other women on here with the same experiences and they have also told me it was amazing.
    Standing hand in hand with my love

    Cara ch' 'm blaidd



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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    A straight woman got me started with bi fun and I've been fortunate enough to meet quite a few more sexy gals with that mindset in the intervening years. AOL used to have this great chatroom called Females for Bi Males and it was a new concept for me so I wandered in one night just to check it out. . . talk about your life-changing experiences . .

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Quote Originally Posted by DuckiesDarling View Post
    If you can't imagine how it would be eyeopening to get a blowjob from the man you love on a strapon while it is attached, then I'm not sure I can adequately explain it to you. But I know other women on here with the same experiences and they have also told me it was amazing.
    I gave a bj to a woman with a strap on and she said it was the most erotic thing she ever experienced ( from a guy at least ;-)) So I can confirm your point.

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Quote Originally Posted by byronvench View Post
    A straight woman got me started with bi fun and I've been fortunate enough to meet quite a few more sexy gals with that mindset in the intervening years. AOL used to have this great chatroom called Females for Bi Males and it was a new concept for me so I wandered in one night just to check it out. . . talk about your life-changing experiences . .
    a chatroom called Females for Bi Males.. hey DREW let's promote that concept here on bisexual.com instead of all the gay stuff... love to see more of those kinds of things like the above.. in a chatroom room.. instead of all this .. all women thing or all men thing.. . what do you think?

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    I remember that chatroom on AOL, I went there all the time. I'm all for the same type of room here

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    Quote Originally Posted by orallybi4cpl View Post
    a chatroom called Females for Bi Males.. hey DREW let's promote that concept here on bisexual.com instead of all the gay stuff... love to see more of those kinds of things like the above.. in a chatroom room.. instead of all this .. all women thing or all men thing.. . what do you think?
    It wouldnt be for me particualarly or at all in fact but I see what ur getting at.. but the concept is a bit sexist isnt it? Dont u mean something more on the lines o Str8 peeps for Bipeeps? Or dont bi girls get a look in with str8 guys? Not that they ever have anything near the problems that bi guys have finding str8 girls.. but that is another matter...
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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Quote Originally Posted by bobble View Post
    Ok, Now I'm really curious! What do you mean he gives you a blow job? Your strap on? How is that pleasurable? I guess I'm not getting how that could be "eye opening," in a physical way?

    I really suspect too, that there are a lot more bi people out there, but they just can't "come out," for all the usual reasons. It'd be interesting to know how many couples are bi, and haven't even discussed it with there spouse/lovers/friends. It was years and years before my wife and I could be honest with each other. Sad really. All that fear, and we were on the same page all along!

    P.S. This was a reply to Duckie Darlin...should have made that clear, not that it is private or anything...just for clarity!
    lol I can help there..... lol I am a person that is constantly thinking about ways to challenge a persons thinking and understanding... and yeah the blowjob was part of them.... putting DD in the role of the male and what it can be like from a male understanding of receiving a blow job......

    due to the fact that i have no real limits, I would happily do something like dress as a female and play the female role for DD so that she gets more of a feeling and understanding of the male role in a sexual aspect, rather than just DD being the female with a strap on, fucking a male...... and the reverse side, is that I can get a better understanding of what being a female being fucked by a male, can be like......

    in simple terms, its non gender specific sexual experimenting lol
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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Originally Posted by bobble
    Ok, Now I'm really curious! What do you mean he gives you a blow job? Your strap on? How is that pleasurable? I guess I'm not getting how that could be "eye opening," in a physical way?

    I really suspect too, that there are a lot more bi people out there, but they just can't "come out," for all the usual reasons. It'd be interesting to know how many couples are bi, and haven't even discussed it with there spouse/lovers/friends. It was years and years before my wife and I could be honest with each other. Sad really. All that fear, and we were on the same page all along!

    P.S. This was a reply to Duckie Darlin...should have made that clear, not that it is private or anything...just for clarity!
    Any time discusion turns to strap-on play i have to plug this product... It's the best toy my wife and I have ever had period. It stimulates her g-spot and clit at the same time and really gets her off like a rocket no matter what we do with it, blow-job hand-job or fucking. It really gives her an impression of what it feels like to have a dick of her very own. And the best part is that there are no straps to deal with or get in the way... That makes for much more skin contact between us and make the whole experience much more intimate. It's the tantus feeldoe and I highly reccomend it...
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    Quote Originally Posted by pepperjack View Post
    What I don't get Void, is, with a relationship like this....why are you living in a void?
    Because there is still a lot of time I feel alone. You can vouch yourself that I do not communicate well enough to be understood at times. And if that is valid, or if someone is being jerk doesn't matter. I give up out out of frustration because I do my best, it fails.

    And no, I'm not saying you were or are a jerk. I'm saying there are those who are. Sometimes they pretend to not understand me. They call it lolz, I call it trolling. And sometimes people genuinely don't understand. Either way I feel damned and just give up. No point trying to talk with others if it's a hassle.

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Thanks for the POSITIVE message about women who like -- excuse me, love -- bi men. Often times, reading many of the boards, filled with stories of wives (and husbands) unaccepting of their bi partners' inclinations, I find it depressing, especially as one who only recently started re-exploring my bi interest and come to the conclusion that my next LTR partner will have to be bi-friendly. While I am prepared for remaining single, if that's what it takes, but I'd prefer to find a partner who can accept my bisexuality and participate in it... if not as an active partner with a third party, at the very least as an active partner with me, e.g., topping me from time to time and accepting of gay-themed pornography and the necessary toys, etc.

    --Now, I have actually been chatting/talking with a woman who is very interested in bi-men and really wants to have a MMF 3-wI'ay and is interested in pegging, etc. So, who knows?

    But that, coupled with the stories here, give me hope.

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Quote Originally Posted by void_dweller View Post
    Because there is still a lot of time I feel alone. You can vouch yourself that I do not communicate well enough to be understood at times. And if that is valid, or if someone is being jerk doesn't matter. I give up out out of frustration because I do my best, it fails.

    And no, I'm not saying you were or are a jerk. I'm saying there are those who are. Sometimes they pretend to not understand me. They call it lolz, I call it trolling. And sometimes people genuinely don't understand. Either way I feel damned and just give up. No point trying to talk with others if it's a hassle.
    Sometimes you are difficult to understand but I have revealed to you that I also relate to you occasionally; I feel a common ground (ie:abuse in childhood, writing, depression, psychic phenomena, Latter Day Saints). As far as being alone, I can definitely relate. Been living alone for over 30 years; that's why I get into characters like Jeremiah Johnson. "Still waters run deep," brother.
    FIRE IN THE BELLY

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Thanks for the explanation! I can understand the role reversal, psychological aspect, it was the physical part I guess I wasn't understanding. Please know I wasn't being judgmental or critical, was just trying to get a handle on the sensations involved for the parties. don't think for a minute I won't find out, first hand

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Lots of great stories here, I wish I was so fortunate to find someone who could love me the way I am...

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    Yeah, Later Day Saints are what I would consider the types of Christians whom are okay. Also enjoy Unitarians too. I'm still adamant on not buying into some invisible entity in charge. That's okay too. I can agree to disagree. Good people are good people. The world needs more good people.

    And yes, you have related sometimes. Other times I am left to wonder and wander. Communication is a dastardly tricky beast. Even the best can stumble. I am just tired of picking back up. So, been limiting a bit more. Yes, tea sounds good.

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    I have a little bit different slant than most others vis-a-vis bisexuality and relationships. My 1st wife and I were quite adventurous, trying many mutually interesting sexual variations together. We both loved oral sex and intercourse, trying many different different positions. We had sex in places where we might be caught, we bought sex toys and porn, we dabbled in B&D and did many other things to heighten eroticism and sensuality and to experiment experiment to expand our sexual spectrum. It was through reading erotica aloud to each other and watching porn that we got most of our naughtier ideas. Swinging was one of the ideas that intrigued us both. It was the one major deviation we had not tried, something we frequently discussed and fantasized about. The more we made each other hot discussing it and fantasizing, the more we knew we had to try it together! It was through swinging with couples that we both became comfortable with casual same-sex contact. She admitted to me that women did not turn her on, but that being naughty with other men and me in bed super- excited her. I admitted to her that seeing her with other men super-excited me! She was honest in also telling me that that she was insecure sharing me with other women and suggested that we shift our interests to 3somes (or moresomes) with men only. I readily agreed. It was then that she began divulging naughty, kinky fantasies she had never mentioned before. One of them was a desire to watch me having oral sex with other men as part of our group play. I was half-shocked and half-intrigued, but would do anything to please her, so I agreed to try bi things with men if the opportunity presented itself, which it soon did LOL Although I never became interested in anal sex with men except using toys, it was quite liberating to become sexually comfortable otherwise with men. Of all the variations we tried over the years we were together, mfm 3somes were our ultimate naughty thrill !

    Being swingers (and my becoming bi) never became an obsession or lifestyle to either of us, just a very exciting hobby we shared. We split up over financial matters and her increasing dependence on drugs and alcohol which led her to cheat (and rather unsafely) with men who could supply her with drugs. I was then free to further explore my sexual desires solo with men and women and various combinations thereof, which I did until I met my ultra str8 2nd wife. I willingly gave up active pursuit of my secret desires for 12 years for her because I loved her and knew she could never share them and I knew I could never cheat on her. I secretly fantasized about wild swinging bi sex LOL. While I did keep those secrets from her, I have no regrets or guilty feelings for never revealing them to her. Ironically it was her deep, dark long-time infidelity and eventual emotional attachment with a married man that ended our relationship. Although I very much enjoy sex with other bi men I can never become emotionally attracted or attached to a man as I can with a woman. Perhaps I am not truly bi. If not I will accept being called bi-friendly or heteroflexible or any other designation LOL

    I suppose the whole point of commenting on this thread is that I had one str8 wife who was excited, eager and willing to do wild naughty, exciting sexual things together from the night we met and throughout our marriage and whom was accepting and supportive of my sexual desires as I was of hers. I also had a 2nd str8 but quite traditional wife who was 180 degrees opposite, sexually and emotionally from my 1st wife. She would never have discussed, much less accepted, my bi swinging side. Both of them, in their own way, satisfied me emotionally and sexually, and I never physically strayed beyond either of their emotional or sexual boundaries. If there's ever a 3rd significant female in my life, I would prefer her to be as openminded as my 1st wife sexually and as stable and responsible emotionally and financially as my 2nd wife, but completely loving, caring and fatihful within whatever boundaries we set together. Does that make sense?

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Bobble my late wife and the three ladies I have played with since have all gotten off having me suck the strapon. They are all worse that some guys about wanting to fuck me after I suck her toy

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Hi, newbie here. I just wanted to second how amazing the feeldoe is for the woman. We have one and I've had blow-jobs from my partner. The sensations it gives are incredible, and I can feel exactly what he's doing, don't ask me how, but there's feedback that feels different whether he's licking the end, deep throating or anything else. It was such a bizarre feeling the first time I closed my eyes and described what it felt like he was doing, and I was right! The feeldoe website even claims that in the opinion of a transgendered woman, who used to be a guy, it feels like having her cock back. Ours doesn't come out often enough for me as it's not his favourite for penetration, but it's another level all by itself.

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    I was approached via this site by a straight woman who was interested in Bi men. She said that she didn't want to have a relationship, but she wanted to watch me have sex with another man, and then us, have sex on her.

    She said that she was attracted to Bisexual men because are more "intouch" with our female side.

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    Would love to meet bisexual male between the ages of 24-35 only..if the attraction is mutual and you are as string minded when it comes to being STD/HIV/AIDS FREE...it's true is turns me on to watch two men together.. I love to have a group session with some.. But it seem hard to find attractive ppl my age range.. Seem like they wanna be downlowe or two shy and don't get kinky til they are middle age.. If there was more women like us there would be less downlowe guys out there

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    my dream is to find a woman who would be understanding of my bi side. My current wife, whom I've been separated with for a month now, made enough comments about how against it she is, that I never bothered to tell her how much I want to try that. Yet it was ok for her to have sex with a woman. I doubt that I will reconcile with her. Sharing everything sexually with a partner is important to me and it will be something that I will try to find in the next woman once I am ready to move on. I watch the MMF videos online dreaming I could share a man with my woman. Some day...thank you for giving me hope ladies

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    Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    Quote Originally Posted by Openebony View Post
    Would love to meet bisexual male between the ages of 24-35 only..if the attraction is mutual and you are as string minded when it comes to being STD/HIV/AIDS FREE...it's true is turns me on to watch two men together.. I love to have a group session with some.. But it seem hard to find attractive ppl my age range.. Seem like they wanna be downlowe or two shy and don't get kinky til they are middle age.. If there was more women like us there would be less downlowe guys out there
    You're right, if more women wanted guys hooking together, more guys would be accepting of it! I always had this side of me, but right away when I met my wife she made comments about how she disapproved of guy/guy. I loved her so much I thought I could forget about that part of me.

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    Cool Re: Straight Women who love Bisexual Men.

    My gf is totally supportive of my BiC status, and wants to be helpful in my becoming Bi. I couldn't ask for a better woman!

 

 

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