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  1. #1

    Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    I have stated here before that my niche is servicing sexually Frustrated married men.. also have explained some of the advantages and disadvantages.. it kinda surprises me that more have not fallowed in my footsteps.. sexually Frustrated married men are great guys.. they are in sexless marriages or their wives do not and will not do the things that they want or need., sure they are married and that presents a bunch of scheduling issues.. but if you happen to have a open schedule and work with them it will usually work out well., they usually don?t have a lot of time so are willing and ready to get down to it pretty quickly.. they pretty much know what they want and how they want it.. they are clean and want the same.. they need to keep it that way.. now as I have stated before I am very sub bottom.. I derive pleasure from giving pleasure.. married men are use to trying to please the wife.. so you will find that they just naturally do the same when with you..
    they will do their best to do you.. most are looking for oral and or anal!! I give them a mix of both.. and they do appreciate a willing partner.. they enjoy someone looking forward to seeing them.. someone that is excited to see and be naked with them.. someone that enjoys sucking thief cock and wants them to fuck them.. they will come to you stressed and frustrated and full of cum., you treat them right they will leave you with a grin on their face a bounce in their step and drained dry of any and all cum they can muster.. and they will already be thinking of you and the next time they cum to you,,
    I relate all this because I wish more would take up the cause and help these guys out.. almost all of them love their wives and don?t want to change that.. they just need someone that enjoys sex and wants to do it with them.. now I am not saying this to brag but I hear all the time on here and other places that people can?t find anyone to play with.. like I said I am not bragging here when I say that I see at least one of my guys almost every day and most days more than one., on average I get used around 9 times a week.. I do very little to no advertising as my guys are all the time recommending me to others that they know and meet..
    now you can look at this the same way I do as being a marriage counseling.. I would say that 95% of all the guys I see will patch things up with their wives after a couple months of seeing me.. they become calmer and less stressful,, happier.. their wives notice the change in them and things just seem to work out for them.. and yes it makes me happy to see them happy..
    so bottom line here is you guys that are bottoms and really enjoy sex getting used.. think about giving the sexually frustrated married guys around you a chance.. they are everywhere.. don?t be surprised if you do this that they come out of the woodwork..you will find or they will find you everywhere.,

    Last edited by Tight1-4u; Jun 24, 2022 at 1:10 PM.

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    I agree with this assessment .. I am one of those married frustrated guys but have very very little man experience but have had girlfriends over the years.. want to switch over to a guy like yourself as it easier with no drama

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Years ago, I used to be part of a circle of married men and we "took care of each other" a lot. Some were made celibate, some just wanted to experience a different way to have sex; some finally decided to end their decades-long curiosity and take the plunge. I would say and think that more sex takes place between and with married men than single guys. No real numbers on this but married men have always been seen as dependable, stable, consistent and, yeah, horny. We'd have some members of the circle join, get a good taste of what it's like to get some dick and... back to their wives to resolve whatever issues brought them to us; sometimes, we'd come into contact with them again, sometimes not.

    There are so many sexually frustrated men out there; maybe they're looking for sex with guys - because no one understands a man's frustrations in this than another man - but if there's a problem, it's them feeling safe and comfortable enough to put themselves out there so that some guy can make them less frustrated. That circle I was in was comprised of the married guys in the neighborhood and while it wasn't planned, one guy took care of another guy, then someone else found out about this and joined, and they told a guy... who told a guy. It took, oh, maybe a year before we realized that not only did we know each other, we'd all had sex with each other and it just worked. Some new guy moves into the neighborhood, proves to be sexually frustrated and, I dunno, hears about these other guys who've been going around sucking and fucking each other and... he wants to know who to talk with to get a piece of this action.

    And, um, sometimes, that guy was me. One married guy referring another married guy to me for advice, sex, or both. Still, if no one knows about this kind of availability, there won't be a rush to jump on a bandwagon that has, over all this time, proven to be very helpful to men who are sexually frustrated and no matter why they are. Now, when I was a teen, I... helped a lot of married men. I would think that they were all long-time bisexuals since they knew exactly what we could do and, yeah, some were very much into the old guy/young guy thing that's been around since forever. It wasn't that they didn't love their wives... but. I never made it a point to seek these men out but they'd manage to find me and usually by pure chance. The usual way, however, was me being out there, cutting grass and doing handyman stuff for a guy and payment wasn't just in money; they'd tell a friend about my... services and, at one point, there were six married men in one neighborhood that I worked for and would have sex with. And that was around 1969, to give you a hint of how no-so-unusual it is to find sexually frustrated married men.
    Last edited by KDaddy23; Jun 24, 2022 at 3:16 PM.

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    That just about sums it up and I agree with everything you said. Well said Sir.

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    I am married and have a hard time finding the right cocksucker. I really need a reliable cocksucker for the times my FWB is unavailable. Between schedules, proximity, needing them to host, being reliable and not being creepy, it is difficult for to find a man to suck me.
    A man that wants his monogamous wife to fuck others. And to swap cock.

  6. #6

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    Always like to hear kdaddys take I things

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    KDaddy23.. I really like what you wrote and I wish I had the experience of providing pleasures to more than a couple of married men when I was younger, however I didn't really come to terms with my curiosity about pleasuring another man's cock till later in life.
    One thing stood out about what you wrote and it was this.... "I never made it a point to seek these men out but they'd manage to find me and usually by pure chance."
    I had a few opportunities when I was younger that seemed to evolve just like that, 'by pure chance', but I was afraid to involve myself then. Now I want those opportunities to present themselves and the 'pure chance' situations don't seem to present themselves. Maybe I'll get lucky though. I had a guy engage me in conversation in the park today as I was sitting, reading. He didn't give me any overt hint that he was seeking anything sexual, but I just got a vibe. Wish me luck. Maybe my pure chance luck is turning.

    I'm curious if anyone would give me tips on how to let a guy know there might be something more available to him than conversation. This guy who approached me for conversation didn't give me any overt sign that would have made me feel comfortable to ask if he was interested in some fun. I wasn't sure about his actual interests, but I think I wanted him to make the first move. Once a guy makes the first clear move I can relax and will know how to proceed, feeling like I have someone who can be discreet. I guess I'll have to make a stop where he works....he suggested I stop by....and that may be enough of a sign for him to get comfortable enough to make the next move.
    Last edited by Rest85; Jun 25, 2022 at 1:00 AM.

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    My wife 10 years ago committed me to a 10 year sentence of celibacy. Fortunately, I got off after just 3 years of porn and jacking and became a full-fledged bisexual. Now., 7 years later I am fully open bisexual to everyone and love it. Divorce is pending, but still at home.

    Grant

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    In my experience, it has a lot to do with logistics, and having a place to host. There was a time when I was able to host, and I found a lot of men were happy stop by my house and have me relieve them of their built up loads and be on their way. This worked great for me, as I love to suck cock and swallow loads. Now a days, I don’t host anymore and find it much more difficult to find willing dicks to suck. Either they host or on a few occasions I have found a good use for my truck with tinted windows. So if you offer all the accommodations and the hungry mouth, you will surely get a good supply horny dicks to help keep you fed.

  10. #10

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    My wife and I are a bisexual married couple and while we have a decent sex life she's never been able to match my sex drive so I am allowed to enjoy men as well. All of my regular, recurring partners are sexually frustrated married men, the majority of which have wives that have ended their sex lives. Most of them over the years have had some man to man sex experiences and enjoyed them but for many those experiences were many years ago. The fact that I host frequently and have an understanding wife makes meeting easier and I have rarely met anyone that didn't want to come back as often as they can. I'm a top who deeply enjoys pleasuring a partner and knowing how hungry for sex, affection and the release of a good orgasm they are, I'm able to give them that and that makes us both happy. The facts that I am very careful about making sure that I stay disease-free and can provide them with a good experience seems to relax them eventually and allow them to enjoy their time with me and get what many of them have longed for, often for years or decades. It's a mutually beneficial arrangement.

    What I have never been able to get my head around is how many women out there quit on sex, often at surprisingly early ages. What the hell is wrong with these girls? Sex is one of the great joys of life and I have always thought that it's cruel to expect someone to live with you and care for you and yet deny them such a basic need.

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    @Rest85: In my experiences, guys who want to get with you aren't always obvious about it. The thing you never want to do is to guess incorrectly about a guy so the best thing to do is to engage him in some way - usually a conversation - and feel him out. That's a process that takes time; it depends on how you - or the other guy - reacts to a stranger getting in each other's personal space and striking up a conversation; I have had guys just come up to me and tell me that they want to take me to bed... but that's the exception rather than the rule.

    Like, those sexually frustrated men whose lawns I cut? The first guy just... talked to me. Nothing specific other than how he wanted his grass cut. Then asking me about school and hobbies; innocent stuff that's disarming... for most. But I'd had older men hit on me and I recognized that this guy was going somewhere; I was sure about where he was going and, well, what to say if he asks? It took him over an hour of "casual conversation" before he asked me what I thought about gay people and men who have sex with each other. I could have acted like a little bitch and offended but I got the sense I could trust him but listened as he told me about his sex life with his wife - not all that satisfying - but he found pleasure with men. Was that something I might be interested in?

    I sucked him off - and revealed that I knew more about this than he may have thought - and he sucked me off. The next week, he fucked me and I did him. It was great but I did have sympathy for him because I'd met his wife and she wasn't one of the nicest people I'd ever met. Even when he recommended my... services to his friends, they didn't come right out and ask for sex but pretty much tip-toed around the subject - and I was happy to let them because, for me, it was a win/win: I was getting paid for the work I was doing (and handsomely) and, at the least, giving and getting blowjobs from guys who were just like the original guy: Horny, frustrated, and getting some dick was the answer.

    Approaching a guy who gets your attention is... iffy. So many unknowns and, usually, you might have to have multiple conversations with a guy before you can really start to feel him out and however you decide to do that. I would say that if a guy approaches you and starts talking about anything, be cautious... but give him a listen, you know, if you have the time to. There are a gazillion sexually frustrated married men out there who might be interested in ending that frustration with another man... but the discovery process - and being receptive - has always been iffy.

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    I'm married to a beautiful woman and we have sex 3-5 times a week. I'm frustrated only because I want to enjoy having sex with a guy too. No, my wife will not go for it. I just want to be able to enjoy playing with a guy as much as I love fucking my wife. There are things that I can get from another man that I can't from my wife (receiving a good bj, getting fucked and sucking a dick). Not to mention the rush from sneaking around.

  13. #13

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Quote Originally Posted by Tight1-4u View Post
    I have stated here before that my niche is servicing sexually Frustrated married men..
    Although I won't make a similar claim of intent, that's pretty much the way it works out for me as well. It seems that there's so much of this -- the wife loses interest in sex because of menopause or some other reason, and the husband still wants/needs it. That makes guys like us fairly popular.

    Age is often a significant factor for these men, and for men like me, who enjoy offering a faux feminine component to the mix. As I've gotten older, I'm not as virile as I used to be, and am not capable of successfully topping partners of either sex. So I've arrived at the position of liking to assume the role of a woman during sexual activities and work hard at providing the things that are missing from my partners' lives. Perhaps it was a natural progression for me, because I've always enjoyed wearing lingerie. Now I can take it several steps further, and love doing so!

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Quote Originally Posted by DLazguy View Post
    I'm married to a beautiful woman and we have sex 3-5 times a week. I'm frustrated only because I want to enjoy having sex with a guy too. No, my wife will not go for it. I just want to be able to enjoy playing with a guy as much as I love fucking my wife. There are things that I can get from another man that I can't from my wife (receiving a good bj, getting fucked and sucking a dick). Not to mention the rush from sneaking around.
    My situation is somewhat similar. I love my wife and we have a great relationship but here sex drive is pretty low post-menopause. I have an absolute need to have more sexual release than she provides so I get it by masturbating - almost exclusively to gay porn. And I want to go beyond that and have a FWB but I'm not willing to ruin my marriage to have that. I'm OK with that because REALLY enjoy masturbating - the point of frustration is that my wife expects me not to masturbate at all. I'd love advice on how to have that conversation with her!

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Quote Originally Posted by phalluster View Post
    My situation is somewhat similar. I love my wife and we have a great relationship but here sex drive is pretty low post-menopause. I have an absolute need to have more sexual release than she provides so I get it by masturbating - almost exclusively to gay porn. And I want to go beyond that and have a FWB but I'm not willing to ruin my marriage to have that. I'm OK with that because REALLY enjoy masturbating - the point of frustration is that my wife expects me not to masturbate at all. I'd love advice on how to have that conversation with her!
    straight up honesty.. that is the only way to have any conversation.. you just have to set her down and explain to her that just because she has lost interest dose not mean you have too.. maybe find something that she really likes doing and explain that you don’t care for it so she shouldn’t do it.. you just need to talk with her and help her understand..

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Quote Originally Posted by Tight1-4u View Post
    straight up honesty.. that is the only way to have any conversation..<snip> you just need to talk with her and help her understand..
    I agree with the premise here -- that's the way I conduct my life. I've talked with several, and read of many, men who have been in the position of having great marriages to wonderful women, but are now frustrated by an all-but-frigid wife, often in the wake of menopause. In fact, these pages are filled with such stories! It's kinda like the universal truth for aging men and women: She loses her sex drive and he decides he wants to be with another guy, suck cock, or dress as a woman and enjoy a new sexual direction by having sex with a man.

    Even though I'm fully onboard with the recommendation to level with your partner, I have to make a sexist comment: This is a woman you're dealing with. They're not necessarily logical and are very likely to reject this explanation and fail to 'understand', despite how sensible and fair it seems to most of us males. Chances are pretty strong that this won't go over well with the 'typical' wife.

    There are, of course, exceptions. I thank God every day of my life to have married the girl that I did...

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    "I'm OK with that because REALLY enjoy masturbating - the point of frustration is that my wife expects me not to masturbate at all."

    If my wife said that to me, I'd 100% ignore it. When you're dealing with a post-menopausal woman, you get to sometimes see that because she's no longer interested in sex, you shouldn't be either and, well, that doesn't work. If she said that and we would most definitely have one hell of a conversation about it, I would remind her that it's my dick and I can play with it any damned time I want to and how irrational it is for her to declare her pussy permanently off-limits and applying it to my dick as well. Not gonna happen, sweetheart, and if you don't like me jerking off, that's your problem and you can rant and rave all you want to. My jerking off has nothing to do with you but I will also say that if you hadn't cut me off from all sex with you, I probably wouldn't be jerking off so much.

    I know she would then make the conversation all about her and, well, that's about the time I'd stop listening and start thinking about jerking off later...

  18. #18

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    I was faithful to one married guy sucking his cock only. I met him at the local bar awhile back. We were talking about this and that and somehow the subject was woman and sex. He was still very sexual active and hirny and wife didint want sex. She didnt give BJ either. I ended up sucking him out in his SUV. He would lay back and I worshipped his head mostly and swallow all of his 5 inch cock too. He would suddenly cum and done. I would simply do him for months as he emailed me. No strings and I liked dick and sucking and he liked my mouth. I was so turned on when he squirt so much cum all in my mouth. Very simply fun with each other and no one knew

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    I really appreciate the responses and they validate my thinking.
    I should clarify a couple of details that are pertinent given the responses. She has not cut me off completely - we have sex once every week or 2 and when we do we both enjoy it. She has never explicitly told me that she expects me not to masturbate, but anyone who has been married to the same person for more than 30 years has a pretty good idea what their partner is thinking. Of course I could be wrong but I think if I told that I masturbate every day it would not go over well, and especially not if I told her it is almost always to gay porn.

  20. #20

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Quote Originally Posted by phalluster View Post
    I really appreciate the responses and they validate my thinking.
    I should clarify a couple of details that are pertinent given the responses. She has not cut me off completely - we have sex once every week or 2 and when we do we both enjoy it. She has never explicitly told me that she expects me not to masturbate, but anyone who has been married to the same person for more than 30 years has a pretty good idea what their partner is thinking. Of course I could be wrong but I think if I told that I masturbate every day it would not go over well, and especially not if I told her it is almost always to gay porn.
    I know what you mean by having an idea for what your partner is thinking. But perhaps what you observe is not everything your wife is thinking.

    Why don't you try masturbating in front of her during sex. I know nothing of your sex life, but have found that shaking things up is a good way to keep the sex lively,
    A man that wants his monogamous wife to fuck others. And to swap cock.

  21. #21

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Any woman who cuts a man off from sex with her AND expects him not to masturbate is just being dumb and needlessly cruel. We've both been married 36 years and we both still masturbate and have even walked in on each other doing so. Neither of us are the least bit embarassed or put out when that happens.

  22. #22

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Quote Originally Posted by phalluster View Post
    I really appreciate the responses and they validate my thinking.
    I should clarify a couple of details that are pertinent given the responses. She has not cut me off completely - we have sex once every week or 2 and when we do we both enjoy it. She has never explicitly told me that she expects me not to masturbate, but anyone who has been married to the same person for more than 30 years has a pretty good idea what their partner is thinking. Of course I could be wrong but I think if I told that I masturbate every day it would not go over well, and especially not if I told her it is almost always to gay porn.
    I have heard of - and have heard - some women tell their man that because they're having sex, there is no need for him to masturbate. I heard one woman declare that if her man was jerking off, he was being unfaithful to her. I know/knew a lot of people who didn't believe in masturbation and says it's a sin... but it isn't - that's just them misinterpreting a passage in the bible about poor Onan spilling his seed upon the ground and getting killed for it but that's not why he got killed. Now, methinks if you really wanna know why she's against you jerking off, ask her. I would but I wouldn't stop doing it, either. Rock and hard place: You respect your wife's feelings, beliefs, etc., but when they border on the unreasonable, an explanation is in order on her part and, yeah, it might sound crazy but also an explanation on your part as well, even if it's to "remind" her that guys have been jerking off since they first discovered that if they play with their dick, it gets hard and feels really good.

    Methinks it's time to have a long, serious talk with her about this.

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Additionally, if some women are baffled at why we'd go have sex with another guy, this is just one of many examples and reasons. You can explain to a woman how we're hard-wired to have sex and they'll acknowledge that... and tell you that we shouldn't be. A lot of men are sexually frustrated because a lot of women don't want to understand that we, again, are hard-wired to empty our balls and it doesn't do us any favors when they feel they have reason to control and even suppress our natural tendencies in this and even more so when, in a relationship setting, we have no recourse; there is no argument that will change her mind about it and, as I've witnessed and have experienced, something that's about being a guy now becomes something that's all about her and what she thinks and feels about it but, again, despite the fact that our need to have sex isn't all that hard to understand.

    And not having sex of any kind - including jerking off - is not an option. It's both mentally and physically unhealthy for us and, as I've seen time and time again, when you leave a guy to his own devices, there's no telling what he's going to do in order to resolve this issue, from "sneaking" to jerk off... to having sex with a guy who will do that for him and many other things a lot of women won't do and some they can't do since they don't have a cock. I wouldn't tell her that I jerk off to gay porn; that would just make shit worse for you. However - and I'd feel like an "idiot" doing it - I would tell her that this is what I do because it's something I can do for myself and without having to bug her for sex outside of whatever sex we're already having. it's... normal. We do it just because we can and that we do it doesn't reflect badly on women - it's a guy thing and always has been. The "problem" is that you can hit her with this truth and logical discourse... and it'll go in one ear and out the other. She can tell you that she does understand and still forbid you to do it and, once more, you need to know why she's against you jerking off.

    Women...

  24. #24

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    I love to take care of a married or partnered man who is not getting what he needs from his woman. They are appreciative and thankful for what we can do for them. No drama. No shame.

  25. #25

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Count me in as one of the guys whom the pussy is drying up post menopause. Awhile back my wife found my vibrator and KY and wanted to know what was going on. I told her I had my own toy and used it on myself from way back, she thought I was lying to her and was messing around on her, I wasn't. Once she figured out I wasn't fucking around on her I decided to introduce my vibrator to her letting her use it on me. I'm not sure she likes it, I'm not sure what to think but we are in the process of her figuring out how I like it. This was a BIG plus for me but their is no way, at this point, I'll tell her about me wanting to try this with a guy.

    It has not been easy finding a guy, I've started a conversation with a guy on here so I'll see where it goes but I'm being very particular how I'm going to go about this. I'm not looking for a guy who is bed hopping, I figure finding a married FWB guy works best for my situation as we are in the same boat. I'm not going to meet NOW...TODAY as some guys want. I'm going to be careful and sorry to say not going to mess around with a single or gay guy. Sorry if your feelings are hurt or you are offended but for me it's all about being careful and a married guy will have the same or similar issues as me. Will this work out for me, time will tell but I'm not getting any younger and I'd really like to scratch this itch, so to speak so I'll see where this goes.

  26. #26

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Yeah there are sexually frustrated married men everywhere and somehow we've got to get the word out to them that we're here for them. Leaving with a smile on his face and his cum inside me, in an easy in and out manner so his wife doesn't get upset with him for being off schedule, is exactly what I want.

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    Quote Originally Posted by Willlburrr View Post
    CoI figure finding a married FWB guy works best for my situation as we are in the same boat.
    I got lucky and found a divorced guy with his own apartment. Although he is less reliable than I would prefer for reasons that probably contributed to two divorces. So now I am still a sexually frustrated married guy in a sexulay frustrated bi relationship.

    I am still looking for that unicorn.
    A man that wants his monogamous wife to fuck others. And to swap cock.

  28. #28

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    I consider myself a dedicated cocksucker and always have. I have never needed or desired reciprocation. As a result of this I am always up-front with guys and tell them that I really just want to be a "service provider" for them. Over the years I have found that married men are by far the ones who most want to take advantage of what I offer and frustrated married men are always my most regular feeders.

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    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    I am a lover of cock. I am a cocksucker and they don’t have touch me they don’t want to. I try to suck just married men. Married here in a sexless marriage. She has no clue she’s married to a cock sucker. Have not had sex with her for close to 15 years and could care less. My mouth is always open for married cock.

  30. #30

    Re: Sexually Frustrated Married Men

    married guys needing service are the BEST, back in the days of CL they were easier to find. Guys in town on biz, or local who just needed head. Sadly DL is a bust in my area, and most str8 guys won't risk Grindr, A4A or the like. Damn shame, there are so many of us cock hungry bottoms willing to just service a guy. Use my mouth or ass then be gone. My perfect kind of hook up. SO keep looking men, hopefully some one finds a CL like solution that works. Till then I'll keep perving grindr and A4A

 

 

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