Am I the only guy to lust my buddies?

[outlogged]

So half my friends and neighbors I would suck off. I have this fantasy to suck them off or have oral with them. I have two young kids, married. When we make friends at the kids events, I look for the hot dad's (DILF's) to make friends with. Is it just me? I do this with other friends at work too. I learn towards making friends with the cute guys. Other married guys that are hot turn me on!

Do you guys do this too? Or for you ladies, do you notice this trend with your guy?

[a2smith09]

Well no where near half! lol. But I do admit that there are several hot dads and friends and aquantenances I wouldn't mind having a nice BJ session or two with.

[jem_is_bi]

I have a male sex partner.
Otherwise my friends are heterosexual.
I have absolutely no desire for sex with my heterosexual friends.
When, I go to the Gym, I do not "check the guys out".

Why? Becuase, I have a need for man-to-man friendships and activities that do not have anything to do with man-to-man sex.

However, if I did know someone was bi or gay and interested in me, I would definitely pay attention with a totally different attitude.

[pepperjack]

Had a buddy a few years back I really wanted to go down on; we were neighbors as well as co-workers. We spent many hours together one summer hanging out, winding down after work, sharing a few beers, discussing various topics. On one such occasion, we got on the subject of oral sex with girlfriends. He started saying, "Sometimes, I think I might be b......" when I finished the sentence for him and admitted I was bisexual. He reacted as if he had just stuck his finger in a light socket. He left briefly, returned with several more beers and eventually gestured his head toward my bedroom, suggesting we move in there. I felt conflicted because he had just become engaged to his girlfriend and wanted to discuss it first. He wouldn't listen to reason, so I sent him home,frustrated and angry. As a preemptive move to save face, he started a rumor at work ( his fiancee also worked there) that I was gay and came onto him, a scandal for me which created considerable stress and dissolved the friendship. But to this day, in spite of how he pissed me off, I find myself fantasizing about him and what might have been and I philosophize with the lyrics of one of my favorite blues artists, Robert Cray, ".......there's consequences to what we do."

[mikey3000]

Bit of a DILF fetish here too.

[Gearbox]

It's infested with Dilfs at my local school. I don't befriend other dads that I'd love to shag though. Mainly because I'm crap at 'stealth eyeing up', and I'm more relaxed around the ones I just want to be friends with.

[mnTIMIDguy]

".......there's consequences to what we do.":

Apparently, there's consequences to what we don't do too.

[elian]

Yeah, a lot of guys are used to getting what they want when they want it, some of them don't take rejection very well.

[pepperjack]

Apparently, there's consequences to what we don't do too.

Such as that diet we contemplated and never started.

[pepperjack]

Yeah, a lot of guys are used to getting what they want when they want it, some of them don't take rejection very well.

As it turned out, the marriage was short-lived, his house wound up in foreclosure and he lost his position in the company. All's well that ends well.

[dafydd]

It's infested with Dilfs at my local school. I don't befriend other dads that I'd love to shag though. Mainly because I'm crap at 'stealth eyeing up', and I'm more relaxed around the ones I just want to be friends with.

Are you a dad then Gearbox?!
or do you work at the school?
or do you just hang out at the gates cos the dads are shagable?

Any man that is available to pick up their kid at 3.30pm is sexy in my book.

d

[mnTIMIDguy]

Such as that diet we contemplated and never started.

What the f....

Have you been peeking into my mind ?

[nudistharry]

I've had several friends/neighbors/coworkers that I've fantasized about. If I would have had any inclination that they were bi, I would have came on to them, but since they appeared to be heterosexual, I don't want to take a chance of causing any potential problems.

[mikey3000]

One time while at my daughter's soccer game, this little boy kept high fiving me as he ran by. He was so cute. Then I saw his dad. Holy crap!! And he saw me see him too. I swear he used his kid to flirt with me. Every time I looked at the dad, he was smilin' at me with his son in his arms. I couldn't believe it. No shame at all.

Another time I was going on the annual zombie walk with my older daughter. We were in a public park and this guy came up to me and asked if I had any extra make up. I was polite (as zombies want to be) but then he proceded to gently apply make up to my face. We locked eyes and I knew what he wanted. He was dark and beautiful with a hot spanish accent.

Oh boy! These things always happen to me when my kids are around.

[dafydd]

One time while at my daughter's soccer game, this little boy kept high fiving me as he ran by. He was so cute. Then I saw his dad. Holy crap!! And he saw me see him too. I swear he used his kid to flirt with me. Every time I looked at the dad, he was smilin' at me with his son in his arms. I couldn't believe it. No shame at all.

Another time I was going on the annual zombie walk with my older daughter. We were in a public park and this guy came up to me and asked if I had any extra make up. I was polite (as zombies want to be) but then he proceded to gently apply make up to my face. We locked eyes and I knew what he wanted. He was dark and beautiful with a hot spanish accent.

Oh boy! These things always happen to me when my kids are around.

YOU have kids aswell.......that's...... you're a dad... ....why do I find that sexy?

[Gearbox]

Are you a dad then Gearbox?!
or do you work at the school?
or do you just hang out at the gates cos the dads are shagable?

Any man that is available to pick up their kid at 3.30pm is sexy in my book.

d

Yes I'm a daddy. I only get to pick up twice a week from school, but lots of other dads get the same days as me.
You should come with me. It's like open auditions for 'hot daddy' porn.

[mikey3000]

YOU have kids aswell.......that's...... you're a dad... ....why do I find that sexy?

Ja! I got two daughters, ages 13 and 9. My babies!!!

[elian]

Does one HAVE to be a father to like other daddies? <pant pant pant>. Up until now I could never figure out what all these guys at work were talking about; I thought MILF was something you drink out of a carton but you guys are making me hot..gotta love hormones. <blushes>

[outlogged]

Talking about neighbors. I just moved into a new house this year and my 45 yr old neighbor (kinda hot) had a surprise bday party for his wife. My wife and I go. We end up sitting at the gay table. With a guy and his boyfriend who I ran into at the gym. We jacked off in the shower and exchanged email. Never saw him again until this party. So, now I have to wonder if the guy told his boyfriend about me, who might have told my neighbors wife (who he was good friends with) and if so, did she tell her husband? Part of me doesn't want them to know, but the other part thinks its hot. I've fantasized about my neighbor a few times. Oh and my other neighbor across the street is my age and HOT! Total DILF!

[FunE1]

Hmmm. Well, I have never regretted not having children out of any of my 3 marriages, but man, if I'd known that there were so many bi-dilfs out there I mighta done things differently.

Seriously, tho, to answer the question... I have some friends who I think are good looking, but I never (okay RARELY) think of them sexually. Not really sure why, other than I don't want to complicate the relationship I have with them. Now, if we met for sex and become friends, then that's entirely different because that "option" is already on the table.

I dunno... even as I write that, it seems an odd distinction, but it is what it is.

[dave98106]

So half my friends and neighbors I would suck off. I have this fantasy to suck them off or have oral with them...Do you guys do this too?

Yes.

I've fantasized about a lot of my friends. Part of that has to do with my friends all being the sort of guy I find most appealing: Masculine guy-next-door types. Just guy guys.

But I haven't fantasized about all my friends and I've often wondered why certain friends don't appeal to me sexually. Two in particular are probably the friends I find most physically appealing as far as looks and body type. Other than wondering what their dicks might be like I've never fantasized about them.

In high school I had sex with several of my good friends. Most of them didn't seem to have an issue with it after high school. One felt our high school fooling around was a huge mistake and had to address it in a letter ten years after the fact. I sort of figured he was the one guy who still had some inclination towards having sex with guys and decided it was all caused by our fooling around a decade earlier.

Because of that experience I figured if I were ever in the situation to fool around with a friend again I wouldn't just roll with it, I'd make sure he was sure he really wanted to do it. I hoped such a discussion would prevent any issues with our friendship.

A few years after I'd devised these ground rules one of my best friends and I were about to get into each other pants one afternoon (completely without the aid of booze or pot) and I paused the action to address the issue of our friendship and how weird sex can sometimes make things. As it turned out my seemingly 100% heterosexual 6'5 masculine stoic friend had fooled around with male friends many times in his past and didn't have any issues with it as long as he was on the bottom. So we fooled around. And we did it many times over the years that he was living in the same city as me.

I most likely wouldn't fool around with a married friend (or neighbor or co-worker) unless he was in an open relationship.

I probably wouldn't just jump into something with a neighbor or co-worker I barely knew because after the act regrets on the part of the other guy could create issues for me.

No matter how hot the other guy is I'd really rather fool around with a guy who knows he likes fooling around with other guys and is happy with that fact.

[pepperjack]

Yes.

I've fantasized about a lot of my friends. Part of that has to do with my friends all being the sort of guy I find most appealing: Masculine guy-next-door types. Just guy guys.

But I haven't fantasized about all my friends and I've often wondered why certain friends don't appeal to me sexually. Two in particular are probably the friends I find most physically appealing as far as looks and body type. Other than wondering what their dicks might be like I've never fantasized about them.

In high school I had sex with several of my good friends. Most of them didn't seem to have an issue with it after high school. One felt our high school fooling around was a huge mistake and had to address it in a letter ten years after the fact. I sort of figured he was the one guy who still had some inclination towards having sex with guys and decided it was all caused by our fooling around a decade earlier.

Because of that experience I figured if I were ever in the situation to fool around with a friend again I wouldn't just roll with it, I'd make sure he was sure he really wanted to do it. I hoped such a discussion would prevent any issues with our friendship.

A few years after I'd devised these ground rules one of my best friends and I were about to get into each other pants one afternoon (completely without the aid of booze or pot) and I paused the action to address the issue of our friendship and how weird sex can sometimes make things. As it turned out my seemingly 100% heterosexual 6'5 masculine stoic friend had fooled around with male friends many times in his past and didn't have any issues with it as long as he was on the bottom. So we fooled around. And we did it many times over the years that he was living in the same city as me.

I most likely wouldn't fool around with a married friend (or neighbor or co-worker) unless he was in an open relationship.

I probably wouldn't just jump into something with a neighbor or co-worker I barely knew because after the act regrets on the part of the other guy could create issues for me.

No matter how hot the other guy is I'd really rather fool around with a guy who knows he likes fooling around with other guys and is happy with that fact.

Enjoyed this post; we seem to be like-minded.