How did your first bi experience happen

[BareProf]

I was 11 or 12 and had a number of buddies who would strip with me and we'd show each other our "boners." I proudly had the largest cock. We would stroke each other a bit. One had a great set of balls and would ask me to rub them. By the time I was 13 precum would appear after a bit of stroking. We were so dumb we thought it was "come!" It was at 13 after I stroked enough to indeed come, the playing stopped and I do not remember why. It wasn't until I was 26 that I finally got with a guy and we blew each other, an event I will never forget and have no guilty feelings about.

Now, much older and in my second marriage, my bi desires have grown stronger every passing year.

[Regular guy in Mich]

It was on a night where I was kinda drunk and at a bachelor party. As the night ended...I realized that I was 1 of 2 people in a room watching lesbian porn. The other guy noticed that I was low on beer and offered to get me one. 5 mins. later, he comes back dressed as a VERY passable girl. I didnt even realize he came back until he passed the beer down from behind my seat and started to nibble on my neck and ears. Holy shit! I looked at who it was and it didnt matter. We started kissing, then it got wet. Very wet, as in like spit swapping. We made out for about 40 minutes without touching my manhood. The nipple licking was totally erotic. Then he started on my cock and balls. No woman had ever spent this much time on me...let alone a guy. He didnt want me to do anything more than jerking him...but he was way to drunk to have a hard on for too long. I came as he wanted me to...he got my nipple area extremely wet and rubbed them with both his hands as we continued the wettest kiss of my life, while I jerked off until I came. I cant wait and always think about that one night...I want more!

[patty65]

I had mine 2years ago and loved it and want more I was dressed in lingerie and he fucked me hard and shot his wad in me and it felt so good

[mikeyd270]

After my second divorce I was a little depressed and decided I wanted to suck some cock. Had been curious for a long time and decided to act on it. Went out to a lake that was known as a cruise site back then and sucked my first dick. I have been a cocksucker ever since.

[patty65]

I know what you mean I love being sucked and sucking cock dressed as a woman

[mas8092]

I was separated after a four year marriage. Smoked some weed and picked-up a guy on-line. At age 46 I tasted my first cock. I loved it.

[itsnormy]

While Darkeyes has an opinion of what bisexual is, I disagree and look at it a bit different...Heterosexual is the capability or capacity to enjoy sex with the opposite gender, homosexuality is the capability of capacity to enjoy sex with the same gender, bisexuality is the capability or capacity to enjoy sex with both genders, and my definition doesn't require anyone to quality their experience.

[darkeyes]

Have never said ne thing different really... Dunno where u got the idea I did...

[Gearbox]

I put it to you Miss Fran that you believe that all the men viewing that pic with any amount of sexual interest no matter what their sexuality, is having a homosexual experience hmffff hmmmfff!
And to have a bisexual experience there would need to be a pic of a lady person next to it that's sexually appealing.

This is an amphibian. It can live in water and on land. It's amphibious.....see where I'm going with this?
When it is on dry land, to some it may seem that it has a terrestrial experience. When in water it may seem that it has an aquatic experience. But....in both cases it has an amphibious experience. The existence of the amphibian nullifies the idea that water belongs to the aquatic and land belongs to the terrestrial. In other words - same gender attraction does not belong to homosexuality and opposite gender attraction does not belong to heterosexuality. Bisexuality disproves that very well.

[darkeyes]

Very clever, luffly man... but amphibians r not human and neither r they mammal... they are meant to have both aquatic and terrestrial experiences.. it comes wiv the territory... they are amphibians.. it's the name of the beast(s)... but we talk not of salamanders, newts, frogs and toads but of human beings and of 1 aspect of humanity... the sexuality of human beings and the acts they commit as a consequence of whichever sexuality each happens to be. The same gender attraction of one human for another is a homosexual attraction and opposite gender attraction a heterosexual attraction... it is whether we have one both or the other which determines whether we are gay, bisexual or str8... I am quite content for bisexuals to consider homosexual or heterosexual attractions they have as bisexual ones... that is why they happen for God;s sake. Many, arguably most sexual, acts are homosexual or heterosexual irrespective of our sexuality.. same gender attraction does not belong to homosexuality and neither does heterosexual attraction belong to heterosexuality... and together with bisexuality, they belong to us all.. to all of humanity...and they belong to none of us. I am equally content for bisexual to consider homosexual and heterosexual acts they experience as bisexual. Whichever sexual experience we have may well be heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual, but are first and foremost, very human experiences, just as amphibians on land or in water (or in the air as in the case of some frogs) have very amphibious experiences.. none of this negates anyone's bisexuality and is it intended to demean it.. it is just one girl's view of human sex and sexuality, but there are other views which are just as valid.. My point is and has always been that bisexuals should acknowledge and not be ashamed of their homosexuality and heterosexuality.. the two together makes them what they are...

..and while we are at it.. I almost passed out at sight of ur knob pic... for god's sakes, luffly man.. am a vewwy, vewwy sensitive soul....

[Gearbox]

That's not me in that pic btw. I have enuf trouble with the winky I got. God knows how much that poor sod spends on lube.

The same gender attraction of one human for another is a homosexual attraction and opposite gender attraction a heterosexual attraction..

This is where you are very oh so terribly wrong.lol You can no more define homo & hetero-sexuality with two of any gender mix, than you can bisexuality. Two homosexuals having sex are not expressing their homosexuality IN FULL. To do that they'd need the opposite gender present to express their lack of attraction to them. Just as you say that bisexuals need BOTH genders to express their attraction to both.
Homosexuality is not just the attraction to same gender, but also the lack of attraction to the opposite. The latter is just as significant in defining the sexuality as the former.
So two men having winky fun does not a homosexual experience make! Not unless they have a woman there to make them a bit uncomfortable.lol

There are arguable no such thing as homosexual and heterosexual attractions either. You can't slice a sexualty in half to just have the attractions.

[darkeyes]

That's not me in that pic btw. I have enuf trouble with the winky I got. God knows how much that poor sod spends on lube.

This is where you are very oh so terribly wrong.lol You can no more define homo & hetero-sexuality with two of any gender mix, than you can bisexuality. Two homosexuals having sex are not expressing their homosexuality IN FULL. To do that they'd need the opposite gender present to express their lack of attraction to them. Just as you say that bisexuals need BOTH genders to express their attraction to both.
Homosexuality is not just the attraction to same gender, but also the lack of attraction to the opposite. The latter is just as significant in defining the sexuality as the former.
So two men having winky fun does not a homosexual experience make! Not unless they have a woman there to make them a bit uncomfortable.lol

There are arguable no such thing as homosexual and heterosexual attractions either. You can't slice a sexualty in half to just have the attractions.

I cud tell isnt u u daft sod!!! I do know he isnt getting near me wiv that thingie... have seen the day, Gear.. but long since passed those days..

I have nev sed u need both genders present to be bisexual.. or even ever have sex with both or either gender... in the end the only person really who can know whether he or she is whatever sexuality is the person themself. I know I am gay, just as u are sure u are bi... and know that my brother knows himself to be str8.. as dus me ex hubbie for that matter.. we know it as best we can know ne thing.. serpently bettern someone not part of our body. It is an arrogance to suggest anything else.

I don't need someone of the opposite gender close to me while I've been having sex with another woman.. Since accepting my lesbianism however, I have never needed that although, sweetheart, but it has happened once or twice.. I accept ur attraction/non attraction statement except I'd add "sexual" in there.. I am attracted to quite a number of men as people but not sexually...but as human beings... and I am not attracted to many women ether sexually or as human beings... now doesn't that give us all food for thought.. no one is attracted to everyone of whatever gender their primary/ exclusive attraction lies.. we all have our own taste in who we fancy sexually and who we fancy simply as people. Sexuality and human relations are far more complex than many ever give them credit.. but the argy bargy is fun Gear.. am off out later.... Bootgirl night out... ther will b some lessieness, some bisexuality and some heterosexuality... just in wot form depends on the peeps involved... and the peeps gotten off wiv.... dusn't matter wot ne of us calls it tho dus it? Wot matters is that we all have fun an' have a ball.. a few of us.. most tho not me...will even have moren 1 to while away the night.. a few of us wont bother...

I also take issue with u about whether there are no homosexual and heterosexual attractions.. both are words we attach to aid us define some people and their sexuality.. clumsy but arguably the best we have for now.. it is not so much slicing a sexuality in half as to splice the sum of the different parts of a person's sexuality to make the whole...

[curious44]

That me luffly, was a homosexual encounter not a bisexual one. It was no more bisexual that had little Jimmy been a girl. A bisexual experience is a quite different thing. It may have opened ur eyes to your true calling, or occurred because of it, but it was not a bisexual experience. Most bisexuals have far fewer bisexual experiences than they realise, for unless there are at least three people involved of two different genders it was not a bisexual experience and even then, for it to be, you have to involve yourself sexually in some way with the bodies of both genders present or they with yours.

A small point, trivial, and pedantic maybe, but accurate... but whatever kind of experiences u may have or have had.. the main thing is that u enjoy them..

Interesting & thought provoking. Not that it makes a bit of difference anymore but, like others I had my first "bi" experiences with other adolescents in Jr. High at 12 or 13 and several other times through high school. Didn't have sex with a girl until 18. Married at 21 and still am. Continued having sex with men at every opportunity until STDS became such an issue, then was much more selective. Enjoyed all sex but always found sex with men more exciting and haven't been interested in women for decades so what does that make me? No wonder I'm not big on the label thing.

[Gearbox]

I also take issue with u about whether there are no homosexual and heterosexual attractions.. both are words we attach to aid us define some people and their sexuality.. clumsy but arguably the best we have for now.. it is not so much slicing a sexuality in half as to splice the sum of the different parts of a person's sexuality to make the whole...

Yes that is how we tend to define a persons sexuality. But it's wrong tho isn't it tho?
Same gender sex is no more a homosexual act than eating a salad is a vegetarian act. Nobody assumes that salad eating is strictly a vegetarian act, but for some crazy mixed up reason we have 'vegetarian meals' & 'gay sex'.
It's just food and sex! Nothing to do with vegetarianism and homosexuality. Just coz vegetarians eat salad coz they are against meat, it doesn't mean that they own the copyright on lettuce! Doesn't make tomatoes a vegetarian vegetable/fruit.lol

In a world void of amphibians, we could say that the land is strictly the domain of the terrestrial and the sea strictly for the aquatic. But amphibians fek that up a treat by proving it's not.
And the lovely bisexuals do the same for sex. Due to that, I can eat salad off a blokes cock and neither be having a vegetarian or homosexual experience.lol

When's the last time you heard two homosexuals say "Lets go have gay sex!"?lol

[tenni]

"A bisexual experience is a quite different thing. It may have opened ur eyes to your true calling, or occurred because of it, but it was not a bisexual experience. Most bisexuals have far fewer bisexual experiences than they realise, for unless there are at least three people involved of two different genders it was not a bisexual experience and even then, for it to be, you have to involve yourself sexually in some way with the bodies of both genders present or they with yours."

Fran me luffly.
Why do you argue against bisexuals defining their own language? Homosexuals have homosexual sex. Bisexuals have same sex experiences that might be understood as homosexual experience. Gear is correct with the metaphor about amphibians and fish or land animals. It is a fairly good metaphor to present the difference between bisexuals and monosexuals. You seem to be thinking with a monosexual perception.

As an artist, I have pondered how visually you can show bisexuality without including a threesome. It is difficult and as difficult to show an amphibian as both a land and aquatic animal without showing the creature in different environments of both land and water.

Every human sexual act that a bisexual has is a bisexual experience.

[Fzmr9t]

I'm a married male but a also love male to male contact, so I guess I'm still looking for my 1st "bi" experience

[Realist]

According to MISS THING, the Scottish Teacher Supreme, my first sexual experiences were bisexual.

At about 5, a brother and sister team of the same age, climbed a grapefruit tree, so I could look up their shorts and skirt, to see the differences in their gentiles. I was encouraged to touch and explore, which was a scintillating revelation to me! From that day forth, I've been attracted to both genders.

Then, at about 8 and under the guidance of a very adventurous and outgoing female cousin, I was encouraged to explore her and her neighbor boy; he was also our age. From then, until we were 12, we had an adventure that, oddly enough, never was orgasmic. (for the boys, anyway)

So, yes, by definition, my first experiences were bisexual.

To avoid generating wrath from the PICKY POLICE, I have to admit, my first orgasmic experience, the day after I turned 14, was a gay one!

[darkeyes]

Dont be daft.. am not that old, Realist, babes...

..and don't mind being called picky.. but police??? O babes.. come onnnnn.... 2 much sweetums...

..and 2 answer tenni... why do I call things as I do? Cos they are the reality to me.. and they describe more accurately why bi peeps are as they r.. call 1 on 1 bi-sex if u wish.. call every act bi-sex... no matter the gender of the rumpy partnerm no matter the numbers, gender and what u do...... is no big deal... but don't call it so as a denial of why u r what u r which it seems to me is happening.. it isn't picky 2 me at all but a fundamental part of what bisexual peeps r... part str8, part gay which far too many choke at admitting..... and it isn't monosexual perception... just human perception.. no more.. no less... it is that two parts of your nature which makes u bisexual.. the heterosexual and the homosexual...

[Gearbox]

part str8, part gay

Heterosexuals are not attracted to same gender, and homosexuals are not attracted to the opposite gender. Wouldn't being part straight & gay make you asexual?
Depends on how you splice a sexuality, which you can't. Your lack of sexual attraction to men PLUS your sexual attraction to women makes you gay. Not just the latter. So really, homo & hetero are contrasting parts of bi, not the other way around.lol

Here's a chart to explain in binary-

F:M:
BI :1:1:
GAY F :1:0:
GAY M :0:1:
HET F :0:1:
HET M :1:0:
ASEX :0:0:

The 0's are as significant as the 1's, yet that gets completely ignored very often. That's why a man sucking cock is thought of as homosexual, and why it's viewed as a homosexual act by some.
There is no such thing as a homosexual or heterosexual sexual act. 400 homosexuals having an orgy doesn't involve a 'homosexual act'. It's a sexual act. 400 heterosexuals not responding sexually to the same gender, isn't a 'heterosexual act'. It's a non-sexual act.

Bisexuals do think in terms of hetero & homo to judge our leanings to one gender or the other at any particular time. But that is just for convenience's sake. We don't have a proper language.You can't really be 50% heterosexual etc, coz it just doesn't make sense.
We use a mono system to define sexuality, yet ALL sexualities stem from a binary system due to there being 2 basic genders. I think this is why some hetero & homosexuals have trouble with bisexuality coz they only focus on the attraction part of sexuality and think that's what defines them. Bi's having dual attractions prompts a re-evaluation on what defines their own sexuality - bumped out of mono-vision and into bi-vision. OR - bump bisexuals into their mono-vision.

Ask a frog, they know what I'm talking about.

[gotlek]

I was 13, me and my bf, he wanted to play doctor and nurse, he was doctor i was nurse. I decided to wear my mom's undies and dress. My fem body was enough to get him hard instantly, i lost my virginity when he fucked me and every day after school he use to come over to fuck me again and again, was really fun to see him horny with a very hard dick....

[Realist]

OK, DARKEYES, I was just checking to see if you were awake!

Gotlek, I love first-time stories...... as long as they don't involve abuse, or cruelty! Sadly, not all first time stories are as happy as yours was.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I had a reallly cute and clever comeback until I saw the pic that Gearbox posted...lol.

MY first Bi experience was fun. I had already had a brief love affair with a beautiful little Hir girl in Jr High school. In high school I decided to spend a lovely afternoon with a guy I had met. He was 22 I was 16. I met him at his house after school and we were in the beginning stages of a Very nice round of Hiyo Silver (Me on top) when I heard a door closing and heard "Honey? I'm back" All I cdould think of was "Oh Fuck! I'm bout to get my ass beat..Caught by the wife/Girlfriend, ect."

I was about to dismount, but he held me tight and called out "We're back here, love!"

I was confused, and a Little bit scared. In comes this very Cute little thing who grinned and said, "Well hello there! Dont stop on my account. I wanna see!"
She quickly took her clothes off, hopped into the shower, then came back to hop in bed with Us. She told me 'He has the most wonderful cock, doesnt he? Keep riding Sweetie." she then began kissing me, caressing me and urging me to fuck her husband that much harder. I had no prob. That big cock was too delightful to let go of! lol We spent the rest of the afternoon together, and I learned how to orally pleasure a lady that day. I had orally pleasured my Hir lover, but that day I learned even more because I had a great teacher. Had already had cock, so that I was good at, (And still am) but learning how to pleasure a lady was a fantastic life lesson for me..
Squirming now, Cat

[oldercal]

My first experience was when at 27 years old I took a room in a YMCA while looking for an apartment, out in CA. It was terribly hot and I saw guys propping their rooms open with a shoe, which I did and discovered a guy caressing me that very night, scaring me much. So the next night I walked down a corridor in my bathrobe, naked underneath, and found a room so open, went in, and got sucked--not a very satisfying experience but it got me interested. Then I went to a meeting in Toledo and explored, and a guy took me to his room and boy did that feel good..

[NjbiGuy01]

my first was with a married couple in a threesome while i was fucking her she was sucking him and then he moved his dick to my mouth and she said lets see you suck him and i did and later on i gave him a buttfucking while she did me with a strapon and from then on i have enjoyed both men and women

Pretty much same here......a little male/male experimentation with some guy friends, then a girlfriend wanted two men, and it ended up with the guys playing with one another and with her too !