I didn't even think about it until just over a year ago, a late starter you could say. Started going to a male chat room and the thoughts started, 'what would it be like'. Then they got stronger until I decided to try it. Got into another online site, started chatting with a guy and it ended at his house with us sucking each other. I have been hungry ever since.
Last edited by firstone; May 16, 2013 at 12:36 PM.
It was pretty simple really...
Firstone I'm kinda similar. I watched gay porn, but stopped when I got married. When separated at age 45, after four years of marital bliss, I got stoned and picked up a guy on-line. I discovered I love sucking cock. Have boyyomed a few times. I like that too.
Last edited by mas8092; May 19, 2013 at 1:39 AM.
Re: How did you discover you were bi?
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All Humans are Bisexual....
Just to different degrees.
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Actually no not everyone that's human is bisexual. Most people are heterosexual and yeah it's quite possible for a person to be gay or lesbian, or homosexual, and people who are hetero/gay are not bisexual. Even Dr. Kinsey with his sex research never claimed that everyone is bisexual with the Kinsey scale, he just showed how there are variations in bisexuality and never claimed that people who are gay or heterosexual are somehow rare.Originally Posted by aLABiM75 & StrF51
If my memory serves me, Kinsey described our sexual orientations as forming a bell curve, with a few at each end (either strictly Homosexual, or strictly Heterosexual) and the vast majority of us somewhere in the middle.
My first experience caught me totally off guard. I had retired from the Navy and went back home to take care of some family business at my home town when it began to snow. Not being prepared for the weather I went to local mall to get some gloves. While walking through an old high school classmate and her husband approached me. They lived several hours out of St Louis and would come to shop every couple of months. It was good to see Diane and I asked them both to dinner at my hotel. During dinner they mention they were swingers and wondering if I would join them. Diane was a plain girl in high school that never dated but hung around my lunch crowd. Well I had a nice hotel suite upstairs and this impressed them. When we got to suite, we put on an adult movie and began to watch it while sitting on the end of the bed. Diane excused herself to the bathroom and emerged wearing only a leather half cup bra and nothing else. She was nicely shaved and sat in between us. Until now I did not know that Diane had such nice large breasts. It did not take long for both of us to dive in on Diane and to get undressed. About fifteen minutes into it I was licking Diane into orgasm when I felt my cock being suck beautifully. I looked down and saw Gary sucking away on my hard cock. I then looked up and saw Diane smiling and gesturing me to continue to lick her into cumming. After about five minutes I was so turned on I changed places with Gary and sucked his cock for a while. That night we tried every possible position and each of us came at least twice including Diane and myself licking Gary into an orgasm. Since then I have had a handful of encounters with other married men or bi couples.
In the high school gym class shower, I couldn't keep my eyes off a couple of the senior wrestlers...
Yes, I have the same lament.....it would have been so easy to enjoy playing so much earlier, and I missed that opportunity! Ah, well, what happens is for the best...
Posted this in another Thread, but it applies here too. "I had the urge and went on the old Excite.com personals in my late 30's. I met a guy online and we met for coffee, and drove to my house. I remember I was so scared. We went right to the bedroom and undressed each other. I fell to my knees and started sucking him. He was hung like a donkey and spoke with an Australian Accent. We climbed into bed and we were sucking each other. He tried to kiss me but I just could not do it. I rolled over and gave him my ass. I wanted him to fuck me but with a condom. He teased me but placing his cock agains my bum hole bareback. I wanted him so bad, but protected. It ended up he spooned me until he came over my bum, but not in it. I drove him home. I always regretted not letting him take me that night, as I never seen him again. Oddly today, I love kissing a man, deeply and romantically. The next time was a few months later with another guy. He shagged me until I cried with pleasure."
my wife and i had a male friend stayin with us, one night we came home from the bar and we were just playing around, next thing we knew we were naked andmy wife said some thing i allways felt,(I always wanted a three way,and to see two guys sucking) i never did find out if he did it before butit felt and tasted good, we never did it agian,but me and her always did new kinky things after that, when she died i found out i like sucking,but never got to get a threesome yet
my wife and i had a male friend stayin with us, one night we came home from the bar and we were just playing around, next thing we knew we were naked andmy wife said some thing i allways felt,(I always wanted a three way,and to see two guys sucking) i never did find out if he did it before butit felt and tasted good, we never did it agian,but me and her always did new kinky things after that, when she died i found out i like sucking,but never got to get a threesome yet
It was a surprise to me when it happened. I was watching my parents home as they were away on vacation at the time. I had just gotten home from work after along hot day since we lived on the hi-desert. I had left the backdoor open to the house while I was taking a quick shower.
So I'm in the shower when I hear a voice calling me. Not thinking anything of it I told my neighbor who thought something was wrong I'd be right out. The reply was don't worry about it as the shower curtain pulled back to reveal my neighbor in all his glory. I was startled and confused as things like this didn't normally happen in the early 70's, at least not to me. I word about my neighbor as the age difference was large. He was 60 and I was 18 and legal. I could see he was in good shape since he was naked as he grabbed the soap and started washing my back. I really didn't know what to do so I enjoyed the rub down I was getting. He washed my back, my front playing with my nipples, and that was all. Then he washed his body and got out waiting for me. No touching of the lower body. I was thinking WTF?
As I exited I was wrapped in a towel, dried off and asked "Do you mind if I spend the night. Well, being young, horny, and inexperienced I said sure. We then went to the bedroom where I was unwrapped to climb into bed. I watched my neighbor in the dim moonlight as he climbed into the normal position at the head of the bed (head on pillow). I went to the other side and gently slid into bed with my feet to his head. No coaxing from him. I wanted him. I felt his hand on my cock which was very hard by this time. The movement was soft, slow, and erotic. Wanting to return the favor I did the same. The difference was his was now soft, and limp. As I started playing firmness started to happen. Once I had an up and coming hard-on I naturally placed my mouth over the top and started sucking like was happening to me. Oh my, did that cock taste good. It was sweet, firm, savory and mine! I could not get enough that night. I stayed in that position sleeping and waking. Everytime I woke up I'd suck cock like I could not get enough. I sucked the cum out at least three times before morning. Once morning arrived it was a new day.
I went on to marry and did not have any cock for the next 30 years. I missed a lot as there were times I know I was being hit up only to refuse due to circumstances. No more!! After divorcing in 04 I started exploring M2M sexuality. I relate back to that experience to this day as I get very turned on by sucking a soft cock into hardness and back down again.
Don't worry, be happy!
I have posted this is response to a few threads. I had never thought about sexy with another guy, or looked at them in the locker room. My High school sweet heart and late wife had been married for almost 4 years. She had discovered while giving me head that anal stimulation turned me on. She built a toy. as you could not buy them at that time. On her birthday when asked what she wanted, she replied," for the 4 day weekend I want you to do everything I ask of you." I loved her and trusted her totally so said sure. After getting out of the shower Fri evening after work. She asked me to lay on the bed and allow her to restrain me. Has never happened before. I trust her so said sure. She started giving me head and worked the toy in me. After a bit she asked if she could put a blind fold on me. I trust her I said sure. After a bit she got off of the bed and was gone for a bit. When I felt someone come back into the room I thought it was just her. Until the mouth on my cock was not hers. She then sat on my face, for a bit. She got up and next thing I know is that something strange is touching my face then my lips. I started trying to pull away. She reminded me of my promise, which she had to do 5 or 6 times during the evening, But never afterwards. suffice it to say that that evening and the next 3 days I sucked fucked and was fucked by everyone in the 3 couples that were with us. We played with them all for about 10 years after that weekend, until she passed. If the right lady or couple should come along I would love to go there again. Though all of the ladies that I have had LTR with since have been into it as well. If not the BI part still the pegging part.
I sucked and fucked my wifes best friends husband for an entire weekend while the girls were away on a girls weekend.He gave me anal orgasms that drove me wild.I am hooked.
I had one experience as a teenager but it freaked me out because if my strict religious upbringing. I joined the military at 23 and if course there are communal showers. I saw my first big black cock and I was literally standing with my mouth open, wide eyed. I hadn't been so stricken since I first had sex with a girl I really cared about. I was slack jawed looking at another man as we were both naked and wet and I was hard as a rock. He was like a Greek statue and had a cock that was thick as a beer can and hung to his knees. I'd never had the urge to suck a man's cock before that moment. I was as aghast as I was hard. I fought the urge hard not to fall to my knees in front of him and shove his cock down my throat. I finished my shower and left.
I soon had left the military and was in the process of a divorce when a dear friend took me to a bar one night. It wasn't a gay bar I the traditional sense but the lines were certainly blurry. I noticed a tub girl who was quite beautiful, she was mixed race and had gorgeous caramel skin. I sat at the bar and it wasn't long before the the tub closed for the night and tub girl came to the bar for a shift drink. She sat two stools away and we struck up a conversation. She asked if she could sit next to me, which I gladly obliged. I invited her to breakfast and she accepted. We went and had breakfast at a local diner. We laughed and talked until well through the night, and suddenly she looked up at me and said, "I wasn't born a girl." I was dumbfounded and intrigued. I said, well you look like a pretty one to me." I asked her a few questions, tasteful ones. She asked me if I would like to see her again. I said I would love to. She asked me to take her home when we had finished eating. I was happy to, when we arrived at her house, she invited me in. She changed out of her work clothes and appeared in a short silk kimono and sat across my lap. We began kissing and soon we were naked. She was exquisite, ample enough breasts, beautiful skin, her hips were very feminine and curvy. When she slid her lace panties off her cock bounced up into view. Long and tapered to a small head, it was so big at it's bases she could get her index finger and thumb all the way around it to point it at me.
I was in heaven, we had sex for three straight days. I learned just how bi I was and have never looked back or regretted it a minute since.
This is exactly how I realised!The funny thing was, the more porn I was looking at I would notice that my focus of attention was not just the pretty girl with the cock in her mouth, but the cock itself was looking attractive to me.
Started with a threesome with a g/f and her ex. She convince me to suck him. The threesomes became an every other month thing and she always loved watching me suck him and watching him cum on my face or in my mouth. Sadly she moved away but he called one day and asked if I was still interested in sucking his dick. I thought about it for a bit and said sure. Been sucking his dick once or twice a month ever since.
Well it was just curious why women love to do it? Ask & some might freak out, others would say try it! Well thought a while & thought try it ! DID & FELL IN LOVE !PLEASE INSERT! LOL!
I was 12. I had been doing things with this guy since the 6th grade. Almost every night after school. One night in the summer between the 6th and 7th grade he was sleeping over. I was face down, and he was doing me from behind. It just started feeling really good. He had done me plenty of times before that, but it was really more about making him happy rather than anything I really enjoyed.
I am laying there as he is pumping away into me and I am really enjoying it. It felt amazing. So I whispered to him to cum inside of me. He starts pumping me faster and deeper. It felt like his cock was getting harder and harder and the he just exploded inside me, twitching and moaning. I am nervous my folks will hear him, but i am just in heaven and total ecstasy. It was amazing. He just collapsed on me, totally spent. We laid together motionless as his cock softened and eventually fell out of me.
After that, I felt really guilty about the whole thing. I especially felt guilty about enjoying it so much. But i knew from that point forward, that it was guys and girls for me.
Well, I was very young. Not gonna say how old I was, but I got the spanking of my life when my mom caught me. Man, my mother is not a very angry person but she was angry that day. I knew that I did something bad (well, someone made me do it, I was seduced). But I think I've always known that I was attracted to the same sex, but still attracted to the opposite sex.
Wow @ some of the stories that I read!
Last edited by Ebonybifemme7; Sep 18, 2013 at 2:39 AM.
Wonderful stories! Sitting here nude and semi-erect, let me tell mine.
I'd wanted to be naked with other kids as long as I can remember and before I had any idea what to do :-). I'd guess from 10 till 12 I had maybe four different guys I knew would be comfortable and erect with me when we stripped whether it be in my bedroom, the woods across the way or in the summer in the tent pitched in my back yard. This continued at 13 when I joined Boy Scouts and everyone in my tent would strip at night and show each other our cocks. Mine was the largest. My friends and my fellow scouts would produce precum, love caressing each other's cocks but didn't understand the whole "come" thing until a troop leader, sixteen, proceeded to jack off for us to watch. Wow, the cum he produced. The following Sunday I locked myself in my parents' bathroom and like many young boys jacked to my first orgasm bringing up a couple of year's worth! But I never jacked to an orgasm with a buddy and i don't know why, just continued to get nude for a show and
tell." Oh, in the gym showers I always checked out all the other packages. Years later I bought a German VHS tape with boys in their teens running nude outside, each with a hard-on and blowing each other. Of course I jacked off as I watched.
I was slow to have sex, a trip to a whore at 17, finally a girl who would fuck at 22 (fucked her all of three times) then at 25 my first blow job with a guy I met through a swinger news letter. Somehow I knew how to do it. Do all men and women born knowing how to suck cock? There's a research project.
Gay lit, porn and bi porn aroused me and continue this day but I've only sucked four different guys. My second wife easily accepted my bi interest and when she agreed to fuck another guy my only request was that I got to eat her after he finished. Swinging had some bi contact but none to orgasm. She no longer swings but explored her bi desires when we did.
I know my bi desires are real, have dreams of sucking cock even of sucking my own, something I tried in my 20's but was short an inch from sucking myself.
I love this site and often masturbate as I read of the episodes, both girl and boy. I thought what the hell and posted full nude shots of myself hoping to hook up with another bi married guy in the Tampa/Clearwater area. My primary desire and past thrills are mutual stroking and sucking. Yes, I knew I was bi before I heard the term. Not gay, but bisexual.
Davie
I am an older guy and the term bisexual was not around when I was younger.I sucked my first cock at 15yo old and had sex with a girl when I was 17yo,her name was Barb and she was great,I just I enjoyed been with both guys and girls.It seems like over the years I like being with a guy more so than with a lady.
I had been curious about oral sex with a guy for a long time, just never had a chance until in the early 1980's (pre internet) I noticed an add in the personals in the local paper. I called the guy and after a few conversations got together. We both stripped and got into a hot tub. I was a little shocked at how close he sat to me, but forgot about when he started feeling my cock. I returned the favor and soon he stood up, and I was confronted with the first hard cock, other than mine, that I had ever seen. I was surprised at how easilly and eagerly I slipped that hard cock into my mouth. I recall the taste, then the precum and then after a few minutes he came in my mouth. I swallowed every bit of what he had to give me, and had no problem doing it (I don't swallow anymore). He then returned the favor. I found that I was excited and enjoyed the entire episode, and still enjoy sucking another man's cock.
Did not find out until later in life. Would not accept it early on. After a divorce I started going to some cruise sites just being curious. On occasion I would get the opportunity to watch a guy jack off and really enjoyed looking at his hard cock. I started visiting these places more often as I started fantasizing about sucking one. I finally got my opportunity to go down on a man. I took his hard cock in my mouth and sucked him off. I love cock and have been sucking ever since. I enjoy sex with men. Had my little ass fucked once and hoping for some more of that.
I was in my first year of college and was offered a ride home ,while I was walking home.I knew the guy was trying to pick me up.I declined,but as the car was at a red light,I got in.I wondered what it would be like to be with a guy.I also wanted to suck on a guys cock.Well we parked and I went straight for that cock,and sucked on it like a true champ.I was hooked after that,and love giving blowjobs most of all.
So in my early teens I played with my ass a little, and even stole some underwire from a sister a couple of times. Well I kind of stopped all that around 15 or 16. Well then when I was 17 there was an old guy that, ling story short was helping me with my race car. I spent a lot of time at his house. After some time he sucked me off, and ended up fucking me too. As it turns out he was a pedofile and was put back in jail for violating his parole, unrelated to me. Well it took me about six years after that to actually figure it out.
Im still ill not sure if I was molested or not. I was willing, but he spent a lot of time messing with my head very subtlety. But I was also 17. I don't think it affects me today though.
I read it in a fortune cookie at the Golden Chan (after General Tsao's Chicken and Pork Lo Mein...altogether an edifying evening!).
I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)
My best buddy I had been like brothers since we were 4. We did everything together- 50 yrs ago- both 12- we masterbated together before we had orgasms. We knew the cock was to fuck pussy. he had an oder sister & we had spied on her & her boyfriend fuckin. We saw his sister suckin her boyfriend. he screamed when he came. We immediately ran back to our barn & crawled up in the hayloft & sucked. That became our daily play after school. We always knew we wud find pussy but we had fun until......
We are still best friends. very good friends......
had a guy talk me into playin around with him. it really opened up a new world for me. guess i found out when i agreed to touching his cock. never turned back
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