How did you discover you were bi?

[Brokentoe]

I was 20yrs yrs old, decided to take a road trip. Stopped at a rest area in the middle of nowhere at like 2 in the morning. Went into the bathroom and there was a hole in the stall, looked in it and the guy was playing with his cock. Left went back to my car,sat there trying to understand it. He came out and stood by the vending machines. I decided to go talk to him. We were the only two at the rest stop. I went like I was buying a drink said hi and talked, then he randomly ask if I liked what I saw. I stood there for a min and realized my cock was getting hard under my shorts.we talked as we walked, I told him that I wasn't sure if I liked it. We stopped at a picnic table. He asked if I'd like to see it. I said I don't know. We sat down and he had a small bottle of whiskey he gave it to me and I drank half of it, after awhile drinking, smoking cigarettes and talking about random stuff, he stood up and took off his shorts and shirt. Then sat straddling the bench very close to me. I touched and played with cock. He started rubbing mine though my shorts. He very smoothly got my shirt and shorts off and now we were both naked straddling the bench touching each other. He moved my head toward hIs cock and I took it in my mouth and started sucking it. I was feeling good and was enjoying it. He held my head and cummed I tried to pull away but he held my head down. After a few sec I decided to go with it and sucked and swallowed. When he was down he reached down and took some of the cum that was still dripping and put it on his ass as he turned over and laid across the table. My cock was throbbing and I don't think I had ever been that horny and I fucked his hole hard. Cummed a bucket load. It was my first time and the rest of the road trip was and eye opening experience.

[ml830]

I had feelings all my life, I am 66_and a few years back a physical therapist made a pass and I that's all it took. I took several online tests all indicate I am heterosexual with strong homosexual tendencies

[pole_smoker]

I had feelings all my life, I am 66_and a few years back a physical therapist made a pass and I that's all it took. I took several online tests all indicate I am heterosexual with strong homosexual tendencies

WTF what a creepy 'physical therapist'. I would not be surprised if he's a whore or ho' on the side and gives 'massages'.

If you were intelligent you would have not had sex with him, documented this, and sued him and the hospital/PT place and profited.

Does your wife know you cheated on her with an unprofessional creepy physical therapist that's a whore?

[Bibabyblues]

I guess when I was about 12 one night im staying at a friends house he was sleeping, and out of the blue I masturbate and think about him. Of course I denied it for years. Then a couple experiences in my 20s that became the subject of some fantasizing. Oh ya started trying toys pretty young for anal. One I figured out how to do it right and have orgasms its sort of hard to go back to just being straight. Im mostly straight and live that lifestyle. However lately ive had some opportunities to go all out and took full advantage. Im a BTM and love being giving. Love to be told what to do and role playing. Id say porn had a lot to do with it too.

[man4girlgirl4man]

I realized I'm bisexual from a personal experience that happened at the perfect time in my life and with the perfect specific details needed to have the maximum influence on my sexuality for my entire life. It was also traumatic and inappropriate and it happened because of an older relative's indifference to me that was extreme enough to be considered sexual abuse. Sexual abuse without any actual sex or touching or words or seduction... it was sexual abuse by total exposure to porn of every kind for several hours.

That's when I saw those photos of interracial gay porn on the wall of a sleazy Times Square porn shop. An unattractive white dude I totally ignored and a totally cute black dude who had a huge fucking black monster dick. Must have been 11 inches and probably longer than that. And as soon as I saw that huge thing my inner and up until then unknown gay desires came out from within me all at once and with a sexual intensity that was so overwhelming it almost made me pass out. Maybe the most intensely pleasurable sexual feeling I've ever had although I've had others that were comparable and also unforgettable.

I was a normal - extremely horny but that's totally normal - kid a month shy of my 12th birthday still obsessed and maybe also a little bit in love with my own big 8 inch dick that appeared only about 3 weeks earlier. An 11 year old with a brand new big cock but still basically clueless about sex. That was me right before this incident happened. And as soon as I saw that cute guy and his huge black cock I turned into a big black cock loving cocksucker wannabee and I knew that right then too. Four hours of hard core porn - you name it I saw it all - boy fucks girl, threesomes and groups of every combination of boy and girl possible, lesbians in pairs and threesomes and groups, and of course that hotter than hot photoset of the first ever gay sex I ever saw and when I saw it I didn't care about all the other stuff I had seen. Not the average or a very sexually healthy way to learn about sex and it confused me and maybe messed me up a bit at first, but the gay attraction that it brought out into the open would have come out eventually in some other and very likely "normal" or at least less bizarre manner. Same with the specific desires for black men with huge cocks and it turns out that I really am custom built for hot gay sex with men such as this. I'm not just able to take an assfucking from a black man with a 10 or even 11 inch dick....I also want and need a cock that's at least 9 inches in order to feel the maximum sexual pleasure I'm physically capable of and I learned this is true in two different ways: The day after this incident I fucked myself with the biggest cucumber in the refrigerator that first one was about the same length as my incher but at least twice as thick. I got it all inside me and it actually disappeared which freaked me out until I was able to pull it back out but that was after I was done jerking off with all of it still in my ass and the orgasm was a million times better than the best one I ever had before and also after it without something big in my ass. The first of many cucumbers in my ass and they got bigger and thicker each time - 12 or 13 inches and as thick as two and three real cocks on real men. I grew up and moved out and those big cucumbers were replaced by even bigger sex toys. Then my much stronger hetero desires took control and I had about 25 years of only fucking girls but my fantasies and desires of cute black men putting their huge cocks in my mouth and fucking my ass never stopped.

I don't cheat when I'm committed to someone and I never did either. But after my divorce I was free to fuck girls and also hook up with the black men and worship their huge cocks for the first time ever. I did a lot of both until I met my current girlfriend and now I'm off the fucking market but this time I'm off the market after I did lots of shopping. I'm glad I did and my personal sexuality gave me enough desire plus the ability to enjoy both women and men sexually which I was built to do and I finally did do in my real world life.

My advice to every boy or girl who desires same sex sex but hasn't done it yet is to go out and do it - and do it soon. It's what you're supposed to do so try it at least once and see what it's all about.

[mtnmen2]

My first sexual experience was with a male when I was 14. We continued to have sex for 2 years till he got a girlfriend and that ended our affair. I didn't have sex with a women till I was 20. I was always attracted to women but enjoyed sex with my friend also. I don't know if that made me bi or gay at that time but after I started dating women for a while my friend and I reconnected while I was in my mid twenties and I was eager to continue with him. It was at this time I realized that I enjoyed both sexes and still have fantasies about both to this day.

[donttellnehismy]

Still looking for others to chat with

[Lances_63]

Like so many others here (apparently) I had some m2m play when I was about 13 with my cousin who was about 17. It started pretty innocent and slowly progressed to just short of oral. Man, thinking back I get so raging hard when I remember how beautiful his cock was. We only played for a little less than a year. For some reason that memory was blocked for a very long time. Fast forward about 20 years and I am married with a baby. I love them, but I am missing something. The internet allowed me to explore and I found bi porn. One week on a business trip across the country I met a gay man and we innocently struck up a conversation. We really hit it off. No plans, no motives just a couple guys hanging out and drinking some beer. I invited him to my hotel room and he accepted. On the way he asked if I realized he was gay and I said of course. We undressed and explored each others body. Neither of us could cum for some reason (nerves?) but we each enjoyed the encounter immensely. I still talk to my cousin who eventually came out as gay. We have talked about our encounters but have never repeated them. Yes, I have told him how much I enjoyed those times and how important he is in my life, but I guess I am just not his type.

I am still married and so deep in the closet I will probably never come out. I may never get the opportunity to explore any more, either, which saddens me. But, I have a great life and a great family. I push these desires aside as selfish and destructive because of how devastated my family and friends would be. I don't think there is a single person I know who would not be shocked if they found out my deep secret.

Lance

[firebird19]

I found out when was messing a round with a guy my age and he popp out his dick and I went down on it and suck it ! We were very young at the time ! But I love pussy a lot too !

[Susurrus1964]

I'm not sure when my curiosity set in. It wasn't a bolt from the blue where suddenly I went, "God, I think I like cock as well as pussy." For quite a while, I never gave any thought to sex with men, then I most definitely had a homophobic streak. Not militantly so, but enough that I felt uneasy when the subject of men fucking men came up.

Then, somewhere along the line, I was reading one of my dad's Penthouse magazines, and came across a story where a young guy hooked up with this girl, and found out that she wasn't just looking for a boyfriend, but that she was "recruiting" a lover that would service not only her, but her mom and brother as well. The MF scenes were hot, but I discovered that I wasn't turned off by the description of his encounter with her brother, and found myself stroking to that part of the story as much as I did when he fucked the women. It's the first time I can recall where two men were fucking and I didn't feel weirded out by it.

Then as I got older, I started checking out bi porn (yes, I actually went to a video rental store - some of you might have to ask your grandparents what that was) While they seemed pretty formulaic (one MF scene, one FF, one MMF and often a MM) I was still relatively neutral on the scenes where no pussy was present.

I still am merely curious about cock. My wife doesn't want to share or be shared, and I can respect that, so I don't play (except the occasional chat). Were I to have the real life opportunity to experience a cock, I think I'd like a woman to be present, even if she took no part. Just my own security blanket, I guess. I still have no interest in men as a whole, only what lies behind the zipper of their jeans. I don't see what women see in men, but I find women damn attractive.

[a2smith09]

Well my best friend and I started having sex with each other right after we both hit puberty. I developed a very serious relationship with my first serious girlfriend several years later. It was after I had sex with both of them one day that I realized I loved them both and loved having sex with each one of them and didn't want to give that up.

[FluffyOne]

I started when I was 5 years old, playing "doctor" with the other neighborhood kids. I discovered that I enjoyed sucking a little penis of licking a little vagina about the same, so I kept on doing it as often as I could! When I was 8, my older brother (13) and his friend had saw me 'playing' with another boy my age, and slowly coerced me into 'playing' with them. That brother was the first to pop my boy cherry, and I ended up going down on both of them; first time swallowing, and I loved it. My first time 'in' a vagina was when I was 9. .... Many great stories and memories over the years; I am now a grandfather with eight grand-kids!

[Biappeal]

My journey to accepting being bisexual started when I was 12 and entering puberty on a mission. I quickly discovered the incredible pleasures of masterbation. I was finding all kinds of ways to fantasize about girls.

A new kid in town asked me to stay for a sleepover. We stayed in his rec room on a sleeper sofa. It was not long after the lights were turned off that he pulled out a flashlight and asked if I wanted to see him naked. I was a little surprised but accepted the offer. Off came his close and my cock hardened instantly. I, of course, got naked too. The first night was a lot of touching each other, especially having our cocks rub together.

The sleepovers continued and the body contacted evolved into a sexual relationship that lasted a couple of years. We never talked about it outside of our initimate settings. In fact we both had various girl friends throughout. He ended up moving. I did initiate a few experiences with other male friends in the same way but except for one they did not lead to sex with each other. One of my friends did initiate an afternoon of sex when we were 16. I do think these experinc3s were more about sex in general than a deep desire to be with another male.

Skip ahead 20 years. My wife was really getting into porn and starting to get interested in having sex with another woman. As we explored this further andd further, I started to understand my own sexual desire for men. It took awhile but I slowly let her know that I was bisexual. She has been comfortable with, and turned on by, my increasing desire for men from the start.

I really understood that my homosexuality was real at a conference I attended when I was about 40. I met another married guy on the 1st day. We had dinner together. I was so turned on by him I probably could have done him in the restaurant restroom. We never talked about anything remotely sexual but I flirted with him all evening. Amazingly, we had adjacent rooms in the hotel. That night we went up to our rooms and parted ways. As I went into my own room I had my pants off before the door swung shut. I made sure that he could figure out that I was masturbating and I could hear he was doing the same. This same routine played out for the next three days. I wanted to have sex with him and I am sure he wanted me but we were too afraid to take the first step.

I am still incredibly reserved when it comes to taking action on my desire to be with another man. But I an very open about my bisexuality with my wife and myself!

[sysper]

My journey to accepting being bisexual started when I was 12 and entering puberty on a mission. I quickly discovered the incredible pleasures of masterbation. I was finding all kinds of ways to fantasize about girls.

A new kid in town asked me to stay for a sleepover. We stayed in his rec room on a sleeper sofa. It was not long after the lights were turned off that he pulled out a flashlight and asked if I wanted to see him naked. I was a little surprised but accepted the offer. Off came his close and my cock hardened instantly. I, of course, got naked too. The first night was a lot of touching each other, especially having our cocks rub together.

The sleepovers continued and the body contacted evolved into a sexual relationship that lasted a couple of years. We never talked about it outside of our initimate settings. In fact we both had various girl friends throughout. He ended up moving. I did initiate a few experiences with other male friends in the same way but except for one they did not lead to sex with each other. One of my friends did initiate an afternoon of sex when we were 16. I do think these experinc3s were more about sex in general than a deep desire to be with another male.

Skip ahead 20 years. My wife was really getting into porn and starting to get interested in having sex with another woman. As we explored this further andd further, I started to understand my own sexual desire for men. It took awhile but I slowly let her know that I was bisexual. She has been comfortable with, and turned on by, my increasing desire for men from the start.

I really understood that my homosexuality was real at a conference I attended when I was about 40. I met another married guy on the 1st day. We had dinner together. I was so turned on by him I probably could have done him in the restaurant restroom. We never talked about anything remotely sexual but I flirted with him all evening. Amazingly, we had adjacent rooms in the hotel. That night we went up to our rooms and parted ways. As I went into my own room I had my pants off before the door swung shut. I made sure that he could figure out that I was masturbating and I could hear he was doing the same. This same routine played out for the next three days. I wanted to have sex with him and I am sure he wanted me but we were too afraid to take the first step.

I am still incredibly reserved when it comes to taking action on my desire to be with another man. But I an very open about my bisexuality with my wife and myself!

ur smart to be reserved about sharing ur bisexuality with guys. some str8 guys even if they turn u down would be flattered, but some guys would make it a point to state there heterosexuality with there fists. some of them are probably bi or totally gay neways & can't even admit it to themselves. but that's there problem. glad to hear when people are able to explore there bisexuality, it makes for a less stressfull life in the end no pun intended lol. also glad u got a supportive wife, that is the best! hope u2 support each other & grow closer togather from that & other things.

[itsnormy]

After 5 years of enjoying the pleasures of hard cocks...I was taken to bed by a lady 30 years older than, and when I woke in the morning, I was bi...I was 15 at the time...

[pole_smoker]

After 5 years of enjoying the pleasures of hard cocks...I was taken to bed by a lady 30 years older than, and when I woke in the morning, I was bi...I was 15 at the time...

That's creepy and disgusting that the woman who you met who was a lot older and who should have known better sexually abused you. But you did post about being sexually abused by male peers and adult men.

[Fzmr9t]

Wow! That was one understanding mom!

[Fzmr9t]

I'm not sure when my curiosity set in. It wasn't a bolt from the blue where suddenly I went, "God, I think I like cock as well as pussy." For quite a while, I never gave any thought to sex with men, then I most definitely had a homophobic streak. Not militantly so, but enough that I felt uneasy when the subject of men fucking men came up.

Then, somewhere along the line, I was reading one of my dad's Penthouse magazines, and came across a story where a young guy hooked up with this girl, and found out that she wasn't just looking for a boyfriend, but that she was "recruiting" a lover that would service not only her, but her mom and brother as well. The MF scenes were hot, but I discovered that I wasn't turned off by the description of his encounter with her brother, and found myself stroking to that part of the story as much as I did when he fucked the women. It's the first time I can recall where two men were fucking and I didn't feel weirded out by it.

Then as I got older, I started checking out bi porn (yes, I actually went to a video rental store - some of you might have to ask your grandparents what that was) While they seemed pretty formulaic (one MF scene, one FF, one MMF and often a MM) I was still relatively neutral on the scenes where no pussy was present.

I still am merely curious about cock. My wife doesn't want to share or be shared, and I can respect that, so I don't play (except the occasional chat). Were I to have the real life opportunity to experience a cock, I think I'd like a woman to be present, even if she took no part. Just my own security blanket, I guess. I still have no interest in men as a whole, only what lies behind the zipper of their jeans. I don't see what women see in men, but I find women damn attractive.

as a "sex object" I def find women more attractive. To be honest, I don't really look at guys and think "I want him" or "I'd do him". It's not until I'm with a guy, for that particular purpose, that my thoughts turn to sex. But women, yeah, I'm like a big majority of us who look at a female and do the "what ifs"...

[void()]

Naturally. *grins*

[TasteTester]

Well, I didn't actually discover I was bi... it discovered me. I've never had a problem with acknowledging the Beaty of a female, but the first taste of one gave me all of the affirmation needed. It was one of the best edibles that ever graced my taste buds.

[T.Edding]

I found out during a threesome with my college roommate and his girlfriend. He was working her from behind, I was working her clit. The first slip of his cock I figured was an accident. The second and third had me wondering, number four was directed by his hand right into my open mouth. I spent four years sucking him off and eating his cum out of her pussy. I was hooked!

[Masterslave]

When I discovered I liked sex with women too. I had sucked 8 cocks and had one regular for several years before I saw my first cunt. I liked that too, but I seem to prefer fucking ass and mouth, no matter what gender and sucking cock over cunt fucking...strange eh?! Lol

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[biguy1940]

WTF what a creepy 'physical therapist'. I would not be surprised if he's a whore or ho' on the side and gives 'massages'.

If you were intelligent you would have not had sex with him, documented this, and sued him and the hospital/PT place and profited.

Does your wife know you cheated on her with an unprofessional creepy physical therapist that's a whore?

aaahh! theres the judgementalism that we all love so much and look forward to seeing...from the one person on here that has the perfect relationship and is better than the rest of us in all ways...he's probably a right wing Koch sucker trying to get out all of his frustrations with his "polls"

[The Galion]

I waited for 50 god damned years to be able to suck a cock. Why on Earth did I wait so long?
I knew all along that I was different.

[pole_smoker]

aaahh! theres the judgementalism that we all love so much and look forward to seeing...from the one person on here that has the perfect relationship and is better than the rest of us in all ways...he's probably a right wing Koch sucker trying to get out all of his frustrations with his "polls"

LMAO no I'm not a Republican; but I'm sure you did completely support Ed Koch in the 80s...since you're that old of a total closet queen.

[Bipisces]

Hi everyone, I have just recently accepted that I am bisexual. I've always been attracted to girls. Even at a early age I was trying to kiss girls. I found my Dad's playboys when I was 5. I started sneaking them out to show my friends. The word got out and more and more boys started to show up at our hiding place around the apartment complex. The older boys (8-12 year olds) started to pull out their cocks and started stroking themselves and encouraged us to do the same. Saying it feels really good. So at the age of five I had my 1st orgasm (the best way i described it back then was it feels like a really good tickle). The older boys told us to keep doing that at home in our rooms because it would helps when we started dating girls. Then they asked us to kiss their dicks and showed us how to do it. I started sucking dick that night and I sucked on every boy there. Then my Mom called me for dinner and when I went to bed, jacked off again fantasizing about sucking their cocks and loving it. Everyday from then on we would all meet up and fool around with each other (sucking, jacking off and put our dicks in each other butts). I loved every minute off it.
When my family moved out to Las Vegas, I turned my interest towards girls only. i was 14 by then and still to this day have never touched a guy, but have always masturbated to fantasies of both guys and girls.
I grew up in the Mormon church, so through my teens and until now I had a lot of guilt, shame and self hatred for my feelings towards men. Yes I was only dating girls and at 23 I married a very awesome Mormon woman. She is the only person I have been with sexually since I was 14. Through high school i believed that i was secretly gay even though I am not really attracted to men. I've alway deep down inside though, wanted to suck and be fucked by men. I am attracted to women and am emotionally connected to women. I couldn't be in a long term relationship with a man, but I want hot sex with men. I love pussy and cock!!!
Now last weekend my wife had to work all weekend. so I was by my self. I couldn't stop craving to be taken by a man. All my guy fantasies hit all at once. No matter what I did all I could think about was sucking cock and having my ass fucked. Yes I am mostly a bottom. So on Monday I did some soul searching and found this site. After reading a lot of posts I was finally able to come to grips and accept that I AM A BISEXUAL!!! Yeah who
I came out to my wife on Tuesday and all she said to me was that it was about time you finally accept who you really are. She has known for years and understands me.

[chongster]

I had never had any interest in men at all until I was in my forties. I was looking at on line porn and found Shemales! I thought they were very exciting but you don't find any in my area. I started looking at bi and gay sites and a guy messaged me and wanted to hook up. It was his first time as well. The very first time I sucked a cock and put my cock in a guys ass. Still never been with a shemale but have been with a few other guys and love to suck cock and fuck ass

[mikeyd270]

I discovered I was bi when I was sucking a cock in the park over twenty years ago and liking it.