I discovered I was Bi when I became extremely attracted to a close friend and started thinking about what it would be like to be with her. I actually struggled with the possibility that I may be lesbian so I acted on my feelings with a few women in my early 20's but eventually I actually approached said friend and she too was interested. We carried on a long term lesbian relationship for about a year, right about the time I realized I needed and wanted a man and she realized she was lesbian.
I was playing pool in a friends basement he asked if I was interested in a side bet, curious I said sure, he said if I win the game he would blow my, if he won I had to blow him,always curious I agreed. I won the first game, sat on the table and he proceeded to give me a great bj. We played another game and he won, so I went to work on him. I knew then that I was bi.
To be honest I don't know yet if I am or not. I look at a lot of gay porn, though oddly I don't get a kick out of bisex porn. Somehow they just don't seem to be that into it for some reason. Maybe the guys are "gay for pay"?
Anyway, I've been interested in other males for sometime. I once lived in a gay flatshare in my mid twenties but I never felt drawn to any of my flatmates, I was in my first big love affair at the time, but I did snaffle some of their porn and jacked off to it.
About this time I went on holiday alone to Corsica, sleeping on the beach and lazing in the sun. There was a lot of nudity going on and I sent with the flow. It's very liberating and avoids unpleasant chafing. I was feeling very randy in the hedonistic atmosphere. One day I was walking along the coast away from the beach when I realised I was being followed by a naked man about my age. I was anxious and confused, but I also knew I was fascinated. I carried on slowly, losing my shadow to catch me up. The next time I looked back he was 20-30 yards away walking a very stiff, not huge, cock. What happened next is a bit of a blur but I found my self in the rocks with a cock in my hand. I was below him and he bent down to kiss me. God his breath reeked of garlic! I didn't get an erection, I've always had a "nervous" penis and I was completely stressed out. Besides, the garlic killed any kind of passion. I jerked him off till he came over my hand. He may have fumbled at my limp duck, I don't recall. He asked me if I was staying nearby but I said I was leaving that day and got my arse out of there as fast as I could. I was very confused by it all but I can't pretend I was surprised, if that makes any sense. Sub consciously I was up for it even if I didn't know it my self. To date that has been my only homosexual experience apart from fantasies.
Some time ago a guy came to my door selling some new telephone plan, Virgin or the like. I said something flippant about not having any friends to call at which he offered to be my friend. I will never know if he was just trying to make a sale or if he was flirting with me, but I do know that he was the only male I've felt I really wanted to kiss. I wonder what would have happened if I'd let him in to work his magic.
Now I'm 52 and times running out. I still look at gay porn and fantasize about going to a gay bath house or something but don't think I have the courage to go through with it. I certainly wouldn't want to do the deed with another flabby fifty year old and I can't see the slim gym bunnies getting hot and bothered over my lardy arse.
Still it would be a shame to go to my grave never having sucked a cock or felt my arse getting stretched.
I realized that im bi when i just went to some bisexual dating sites. Feel free to ask anything you want on there. there are always people who like to help u out!
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Re: How did you discover you were bi?
One day, around 12-ish... I realized there was a word for what I was at birth:
Bisexual
Then, more recently, I found a better word that described me:
Pansexual
…I found myself looking at pictures of TVs & got curious…as time went by I more curious & more curious…one day I got the opportunity to act on that curiosity…as soon as I got a dick in my mouth I knew I was born to suck…but I still liked girls…so…I had to be bi…Originally Posted by Zarkoth
I found that about 3 years. I had sex with my gf and another couple and since then i like to repeat the experience ocasionally.
I was always curious as a teenager but just pushed those thoughts out of my head because I thought that it was just some sort of 'phase.' When I got to college and away from friends and family I felt a little more relaxed and open to the idea of exploring my sexuality. Long story short, during my sophomore year my roommate made a move on me one night while we were watching a movie and I just let it happen. I felt guilty and ashamed after we had finished but later recognized that the guilt and shame came from what would have happened if we had gotten caught. It was my first time with another girl and her second and for the next couple of days afterwards we had an open and honest discussion in private about our feelings before, during and after having sex with each other. We both agreed that we wanted to try it again a few nights later and as I woke up with her beside me naked the next morning it was then and there that I knew that I was bisexual.
Last edited by Ann29732; Apr 27, 2015 at 10:52 AM.
it's good u finally got that experiance. college is a good place for this to happen, alot of people around ur age all different. it's such a good occasion to learn new things, including sexually. i so wish i kept my eyes a little more open in college for opportunites, plus i wish i had the curiosity earlier in life maybe my eyes would of allready been a little more open. would of been so much easier but still it's not too late. no matter how old u are there is so much to learn.
In my early teens I found I was interested in women from looking at Dad's Penthouse mag. and that is when I begin jacking off. Later I found another book in Dad's drawer. It was a sex novel and It had a lot of sex acts in it I had never even heard of at that time. I learned about oral sex and got curious and found I could actually suck my own cock! It was my first taste of a man's cum and I really liked it. I was still attracted to womwn and now had a new pasttime. A couple of years later I had my first experience with a female. and we were busy the whole summer doing what comes natural. I later joined the army and headed south and she followed to tell me she was pregnant We did later get married.
I was in a Kmart in Georgia and had to go piss and found my first glory hole and there was a man waiting and stroking his rod. I could not help my curiousoty so I went in and sat down too. It didn't take too long for me to be hard as a rock too. I leanded over to peek and he stood up and offered me his cock and I readily took it into my mouth and sucked my first cock (besides my own). When he cum in my mouth I loved the warmth and taste! Even the texture was pure pleasure! I knew I wanted to suck as many cocks as I could. I continued sucking cock there as often as I could find reason to go there. I never missed a chance and every time I went I always found a couck or two to suck.I sucked cock off and on for about 10 years some with and some without my wife who loved to play. We later got divorced and she turned our kids against me because I loved cock! I still knew I wasn't gay so when my kids ask me I just said I wasn't gay. They were willing to accept that.
I later remarried and she was a very religious woman and I loved her and didn't want to loose her so I just kept my mouth shut. One day M son came to visit and ask me if what his mom said was true or not. I ask him what she said and was told she told them their dad was a fag and I shouldn't go around me. I told him I was not a fag or gay! Later my wife ask me the same question and I said no I loved women! She accepted that and I was fine for several years until the urges came back to haunt me after we turned 50 and she said goodbye to sex and wouldn't even touch me! One night I was reading online and spotted the term bisexual and it hit me that was me for sure.
Our son is now 22 and a computer whiz and he went searching on my computer and found where I had been looking at gay and bi porn and now after 23 years of marriage and faithfulness to her I am out on m y own again. At least I know what I am now and am learning to be ok with it. I have come out to one brother and my sister and a neice. They all agreed the rest of the family would not accept it and my kids would just think like my wife did, that I lied. I guess by some standards I did but I never felt comfortable saying I was gay but I am ok with being bi,
when my first wife came home with a strangers semen in her. i could barely wait to lick the semen from her.
So true. College was a wonderful time to explore because people aren't so quick to judge and for most of the kids, it's their first time being away from home so you can let your guard down a bit. I wouldn't give anything for that experience. My roommate and I had a wonderful and healthy, albeit it discreet, sexual relationship that eventually fizzled out but I learned so much about another woman's body, and my own and you are so right about it not being too late; their is still plenty to learn!!
Great thread
When I was 13 (46 now), I was staying over with a friend of mine and his younger brother, only 1 year younger, and I were staying up later than my friend. Anyway, we got to talking and the next thing you know, we began exploring each other. Nothing really heavy, but touching and then oral. He had not reached puberty yet so he did not have any semen to shoot, but he still climaxed. I then jacked off for him so he could see an ejaculation. He sucked me a little, but i finished off by hand so he wouldn't swallow.
Anyway, never again did I explore this side of me and he and I NEVER spoke of it again. Fast forward until about 2005. My wife and I had been married for 4 years and our sex lives were beginning to fall into a rut. The internet was in full swing so I began really looking at porn more and more. The more I looked the more I realized I was not repulsed by cocks and seeing homosexual acts. This stirred up those feelings from my youth. I realized I really loved TS/TV/CD porn as well as bisexual porn. I knew I still loved pussy so I began to realize that I was bisexual. I did not act on it though until 2010. I joined Adult Friend Finders and had an experience with an older guy. It was NOT a good experience. He could not get hard and only later told me he suffered from ED. At the time though it made me think I was doing something wrong, but like I said, he told me later that it was him.
Last summer I met a guy from there who was working in my area, had an apartment to himself and could host. We met up and had a great afternoon with oral play. He soon had to go back to his home in Texas but that afternoon was a great experience. So.....I have had 2 experiences, 1 great, 1 not-so-great. I know for a fact I want to have more. I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOO Bisexual.
Childhood experimentation when I was around 11 or 12. me my friend and his sister used to look at porn magazines which led to masturbation and then playing with each other. I discovered I liked cock as much as pussy. that was in the 70s and early 80s. I didn't come out as openly bi untill about 8 years ago when I met my current girlfriend
The sexual revolutions hadn't affected me much, being brought up Baptist probably had something to do with that. My first wife had left me and I decided to become more open minded and placed an add in a local rag that had lots of personal ads in it. A meeting with a guy just a little bit younger than I who was also curious was interesting but as much as we got into it neither of us reached orgasm. More than 20 years later my wife decided she didn't need any kind of sex anymore and very little affection. I began looking for men using the internet and that worked out very well. So it's not really that I like men over women but I am still able to enjoy being with a man at times.
While I was sucking a cock and finding I loved that all three of us (him, her, and me) were being turned on by it.
I got aroused and hard for the opposite sex, and the same sex at a young age. This also happened to my partner.
Instead of cheating on your wife who you claim to love and respect, but really do not you should have told her you are bisexual or just gotten a divorce.
Don't want to be judged? Then keep your dick and ass in your pants and actually talk to your wife, tell her how you are bisexual, tell her how you have cheated on her before with men, or just get a divorce and have sex with whoever you want.
I have no sympathy or patience for someone who goes that route of cheating. If you're that unhappy then communicate it and try to resolve things. Failing that just leave, and get a divorce.
If you cheat I relegate you to the level of barnyard animal that has no morals, values, and does not love the person who they married at all and who nobody should be in a relationship with let alone marry.
You want to treat sex as an animal game and just follow every impulse of your genitals, then you're an animal or sub-human. A fully matured adult can communicate and rectify a situation. If that means enduring some hardship from divorce or whatever.. well you made the commitment and so did she, or he, don't blame anyone else but yourself. Cheating is excusing responsibility and you can't justify it.
Last edited by pole_smoker; Jun 24, 2015 at 11:02 PM.
'gay for pay' is a myth as it's just marketing based on homophobia/biphobia, the guys are really just bi or gay and marketed by sleazy porn companies as being LOL "Straight" and this taps into the internalized biphobia and homophobia a lot of bi and gay men have about the fantasy of having sex with a real "straight"/hetero guy, when in reality no hetero guy has sex with other men, and they certainly don't do porn with other men for everyone else to see.
But this sort of marketing by porn companies has been going on for decades.
I was 69ing with a girl friend, she had me feeling soooooo good. I knew I wanted to pleasure men like she was pleasuring me.
Innatley I always knew, I was at least bi. When I was 19 I had many questions about my sexuality, and a friend of mine had been making minor passes at me, told me about the type of guys that aroused him. The type he liked was the type I fantasized about. We agreed to suck each others cock, I was confident I would hate it. His cock was about 7 inches, nice thickness. The moment my mouth went over the head of his cock I was in heaven, I loved how it was hard and soft at the same time. I was shocked that sucking a cock could be so sensual and warm. As I said on a gut level I knew I liked cock, after I sucked his cock my denial was broken.
Wife caught on that I may like sucking cock and in a swinger party she stuck one in my mouth and I did like it.Actually love it and sorry I did not know sooner.Everything I do I do because of her and her ideas.
When I found myself on my knees, two guys holding me and my "arch enemy" throat fucking me. After a little bit my cock became rock hard. By the time the third guy took his turn they no longer had to hold me. I just knelt there, arms at my side as he kept stuffing his cock down my gagging throat.
That's fucked up, and disgusting. People who do that to other people, or do what happened to you and the other guy are sick and disgusting, and belong in prison or in a treatment facility for sex offenders/ped0s.
Once I had some pussy, after 11 guys. I found out I liked it also. But the dick was easier to find for me. But I did have a pussy to play with when I wanted it.
I cannot pinpoint an exact date and time. I know when I was in high school, I could not look at other boys' penises because I felt guilty. When I was a little older, I was hitchhiking and a man picked me up and asked if I wanted a blowjob, I turned it down wishing I hadn't. A few years later I got married and the thoughts of being with a man went deep into my subconscience. Then about ten years ago a physical therapist was giving me a message when he asked if I would like my stomach massaged. He kept getting closer to my genitals and I became aroused. The next session was after business hours and he wasted no time, he masterbated me, I felt guilty, but the pleasure was undeniable. Later I gave him a blowjob. I know I am bi. I know I am bi, but I can't say when I knew, or how I knew.
I was about 16 my girlfriends brother and I some how ended up in his room and we sat together jacking off and taking turns sucking eachothers cock, all though I don't do it often I love oral and most anything, although no one in my life knows about this family friends ect. so I guess im a closet bi. im 56 now.
I thought the m/m sex thing was just because I had trouble getting girlfriends and was a horny guy. I had to admit to myself that I was bisexual when a guy I had occasional sex with started becoming less available. I would get very down, and be very unhappy not to be able to see him. With that I had no choice but to admit I was totally bi.
My first wife was basically dead from the waist down. I spent a lot of time masturbating. More often than not, the masturbating involved looking at porn online. I was about 38 at the time. At some point, I realized that when I was looking at a picture of a woman with a big cock in her fist and a load of cum on her face, that I wasn't sure if I wanted to be him or her. Since then (I'm mid-fifties now), the desire to have sex with a man has only increased with intensity. I am very turned on by the idea of giving head and making a guy cum. Problem is, my wife is totally cool with me fantasizing about it but not acting on it. So, in order to satisfy my curiosity I would need to cheat on her. That's what has held me back so far. On the other hand, in the right circumstances, I may not be able to resist almost 20 years of desire. We'll see .....
I was in the 10th grade. I was raised in the south in a very racially divided city. I was in gym class dressing out and saw a skinny wimpy white kid being harrassed by 3 black guys. He was sitting on a bench and they were standing around him. One of them said suck this big cock boy, I peeked his way to see that kid with a huge cock pushed toward his face. He tried to get up but another guy pushed him back down on the bench. Soon all 3 of them had cocks out and they were being waved in his face. They never actually made contact with him just gave him a hard time. I remember sneaking away pretending not to notice and thinking if one of them tried to put it in my mouth I would have let him and sucked it a minute and then bit as hard as i could. I realized I had just agreed to my self that I would suck a cock. Although I dont bite them I do suck cocks whenever possible
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