i'd really like to have a man suck my cock. Is it true that a man REALLY knows how to give another man a good sucking?
i'd really like to have a man suck my cock. Is it true that a man REALLY knows how to give another man a good sucking?
hmmm...at first I was going to pass this one by but as all can see, changed my mind...some would pass this by thinking you're not serious and just using this to see what sort of response you'll get...but then on the other hand, your question just might be sincere...
First of all, there's only one way to find out. Trouble is that though the majority of men know what they're doing, there is the ocassional one that just doesn't get it. So, it would be unfortunate if you were to experience receiving from a male that isn't very good at it and thus would disappoint you....however, if you were to connect with a man who knows what he's doing then it could be an amazing experience for you...there's of course only one way to find out once again.
I dont buy into this myth that guys are magically better at giving bjs. But what i will say is that some men are more enthusiastic about it. Although even that is up for debate. Have received great bjs from both men and women.
One of my favorite bjs was from an ex gf who was sucking me and said "i wish i could have you in my mouth and in me at the same time!"
hi jimmy, clearly i'm a chick so dickless, but have asked hubby how can it be different having a man suck him off and he reckons it is different. not in technique or anything like that. it's just having a man's head in your lap pleasuring you, doing something traditionally taboo in society (at the moment) is so raunchy and hot. the mental side of it is so sexy for him. from the physical side, i tend to think that it's like kissing. we all have the same equipment, but either gender can drown you in spit or suck your face off, while some make love to your mouth.
as for how to suck a cock, on youporn.com, go to the educational category that lists videos on how to perform bj's, handjobs, clit jobs, backdoor jobs. and my personal favourite is the aneros anal sex one. even bought one for hubby and he thinks wow.
Jimmy,
I do think that a man knows how to give a BJ better than a woman. But to be honest, you should ask the question from the other perspective. Ask a Bi female if she enjoys oral sex from another woman or man. I personally think she will say the woman knows the right places to touch, taste, tease. The same applies for men, they know the right sensitive places to touch, taste and tease.
DB Forever
I have always felt that who better to know how to give a guy a BJ than another guy..
I also feel who better to give head to a lady is another lady.
But i also know that any gender is fine with me!
Very true and is something I left out from my earlier response. I certainly didn't mean to imply that only men were good or better at giving oral than women. I too have had my share of incredible bj's from women...though I would also have to add that there have been more men who were skilled at it. Yet when a man isn't good at it the only thing I can say to that is, "WTF?"
I don't think you can make a generalized, sweeping generalization that "only men can give a great BJ to another guy or only a woman can really eat pussy the best" because in both cases---it depends on the experience a person of either gender has in giving both forms of oral sex, their desire to do it and all of that----for a fair number of people--especially those of older generations or who came from a micro culture that holds ideas like oral sex is repugnant, evil, disgusting or whatever--so they therefore didn't have much experience doing either form and/or they nearly gag at the idea of doing so and aren't very enthusiastic to do it.
I have had ladies give me great head and I have had guys give me some great head as well--and I have had both who didn't really have much skill or bring much desire to do it--so they didn't perform fellatio all that well.
Like with most things in life--skill at performing oral sex--of either sort--varies with the individual performing said oral sex acts--it is simply not possible to make a sweeping statement about what gender "does it best."
"Injustice anywhere is injustice everywhere..." Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
If you entice me to give you a BJ, I do it really good and I am more than willing to add extra erotic pleasures that customize it to be even more special for you.
JEM
I have had great blow jobs from women and men. Overall I think a guy can be great at sucking cock because a guy who enjoys it will know where to lick, kiss, touch, suck and for how long. But above all else what makes for a great blow job is letting the guy you are sucking off know how much you like with eye contact, making sounds to indicate pleasure, etc.![]()
A quick answer to this is, your more likely to find a guy who gives better head then you would a women.
The reasoning, and this is just my opinion, is that men are far easier to please then women and a man knows how most men in the world get off, stimulation of the head and shaft of the penis. Where as a women is, for the most part, an extremely complex system that takes many try's and lots of exploring to figure out how to bring them to an orgasm and not even a women knows for certain how other women get off, they are all different and only an experienced women really knows what a man likes and how to give them the proper touch when giving head, as guys we practice with ourselves 2-4 times a day from we were 12 years old, we just know what it takes.
If you need a more simple explanation, getting a women off is like breaking into a banks vault with 6 keys, two passwords, and a DNA scanner. Men are like opening a sack tied with yarn, might take you a couple of moments but you learn how to open if faster each time, Men just happen to open the sack better from the start in most cases.
Last edited by Durain; May 4, 2011 at 5:37 AM.
Male or female it does not matter. What matters is the additude of the one giving the BJ. I don't like to think of it as sucking cock, giving head, blowing a guy, what I do is make oral love to a cock. I enjoy making a man happy and pleased through my ministration of his cock, one must truly enjoy what one is doing to make it the best, so it truly doessnt matter whether man or woman, if you love doing it, then you are the better
The guys that I've gotten BJs from were pretty good. But the best BJ I've ever had was from a woman, and the worst was from a woman.
So, IMHO, the gender of the person doesn't matter. It's their enthusiasm and experience that matters.
But the biggest factor on whether or not they are good depends on how well they are in tune with what I enjoy and provide what I enjoy.
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I would never say that a man is better at sucking cock just because he is a man . No one has sucked me off any better than my wife did . But there have been guys that were just as good . I believe that it has alot more to do with experience and the real desire to please your partner and truely enjoying having a cock cum in your mouth than their gender . I have been told I do a pretty good job myself !
This is definitely the attitude one must have to perform oral on any gender...
though women are truly more complex, if one is not tuned into the moment and loving it, then it will be a mediocre experience for the one receiving and the one giving regardless of which sex.
I just love having a cock in my mouth,I wish i could suck 5 or 10 cocks a day,and swallow all that delicious cum![]()
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