Originally Posted by
Gypsy_Rose
I found this site googling for this topic. Been married now for 8 years, together for 10. This is my second marriage. First to a man, now to a woman. Got about the same amount of time in, and got to the same place: I miss sex with the other sex, like, A LOT. My wife is strictly monogamous. I knew that going in, but after a failed marriage to a man, I thought, maybe I just was meant to be with a woman and it would all be alright. And now I find myself here once again.
It's tough to talk to her about it because, in my experience, lesbians are touchy about bi-sexual women. They assume all bi women are just curious about being lesbians and will eventually leave them for a man. I don't want to leave my wife. But, there's the whole issue of her not having a penis. And no, strap-ons are just not the same. The sex is just not the same. Men smell different, they taste different, they feel different. And I miss them.
Anyway, I don't suppose I am looking for answers, just a place to talk. As someone said earlier, there are three choices: 1) Accept, 2) Cheat, 3) Leave. For now, I'm going with #1. It's just frustrating some days more than others. Especially as we no longer have sex withIN the marriage. Yeah, lesbian bed death. It's real.
So, anyway, thanks for letting me vent, thanks for being here.
~Rose
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