Do not think so little of me as to grant me your tolerance. Allow me your acceptance and understanding of who and what I am with the love, respect and dignity with which I do you.
1) why does every post turn into a fk'n thread fight?
2) why do people post in threads saying shit like "I dont know. good luck" ? Do you get rewarded for the amount of posts you have?
to answer the original post: $29.99 is basically a body rub BUT what it sounds like to me is the ole bait & switch. They advertise a very inexpensive price to get you in the door only to sell you something more money. If you are only interested in the $29.99 massage, make sure thats all you get / pay for. Do not let them throw in some hidden fees.
as far as the tip, tip just like you would with a waitress. They make most of their income on the tips so give according to how you like their service was and what you can afford. Normally a $10-$20 tip is satisfactory.
All strippers are prostitutes - thats such bullshit. There are some that do make a few extra $$$ on the side but not all of them. Most strippers see stripping as a job & nothing more. The only difference between their job and yours is they take off their clothes for a living.
To categorize all strippers based on a few is ridiculous. People still stereotype others on their looks, religion, jobs, etc...
well bemyonly1..... have you thought about the fact that any female in a relationship or marriage that sleeps with their partner with the intention of getting the money to buy the weeks food or pays the bills, is by the definitions you use....a prostitute......
now you can argue that point, but not all relationships or marriages are love filled ..... many relationships and marriages are abusive, and the females do what ever they can to make ends meet
anyways, many prostitutes and escorts can make more in one night, than I can make in a week.... and I know that as I have friends that are prostitutes and escorts....and regardless of the label, they are still people, living, breathing, feeling people.... some do the work by choice, some have no choice.....
but I am not help but notice the change in you, from the person that was a infatuated 25 year old virgin, that was seeking help to gain another females attention, while giving relationship advice and sex advice to people...... and now, you are back, playing the role of the moral crusader, spouting more dribble........ and telling people with experience in a set field, that you happen to know more than them and that you are right ..........
so I am curious.... what will be your next * personality *
Tolerance is the virtue of the man without convictions.
Gilbert K. Chesterton .
It isn't that they can't see the solution. It is that they can't see the problem.
Gilbert K. Chesterton
Innocence is a form of insanity and self delusion
I have been to massage places where the women and men working there were prostitutes.
They made it clear you would only get more than a massage if you paid for it. I just wanted a massage and that was it.
The entire history of massage parlors is one of prostitution. Go there and expect to be offered a sex act of some kind. I used to be a big fan of Massage parlors when I was young I was offered sex many times and it was all kinds of different sex acts they would range in price from 15 to 50 dollars depending and I just never went for it. I was just there for a good massage. Kept going to a different one hopping to get a good massage and not be offered sex so I finally just gave up on doing that.
Only a very sheltered and naive woman would assume that working in a massage parlor means that you only give massages and do not do anything else at all and that includes sex for pay.
In some strip clubs most or all of the women are prostitutes. Yeah it's illegal.
It does not mean that it does not go on, or that strippers are never prostitutes.
It's frowned upon by some managers and not tolerated at all in some clubs.
In other clubs it openly goes on. Nobody cares at all. The management allows it and encourages it.
It doesn't matter if the club tries to be high class Gentlemen's club. Or if it's
just a juice bar or a BYOB type strip club. You can find strippers who do sex for pay at all sorts of clubs.
I have been in both types of clubs the sleazy ones and the strip clubs that try to be high class.
In both types of strip clubs I would have women coming up to me and my buddies all through the night telling us how if we paid them more we could easily have sex with them later that night.
I have never paid for sex but it is easy to find at strip clubs if you want it.
In some countries all of the women that you see in strip clubs and working in massage parlors are prostitutes.
I have been to all male strip clubs. If the guys stripping are gay or bisexual some of them will be male prostitutes on the side. Some clubs use straight guys so this doesn't happen. I've been propositioned by male prostitutes who worked as dancers in all male strip clubs. I told them no thanks.
Lots of female stripper are willing to cross the line for the right price, its kinda why they have back rooms and VIP sections, and closing times, the club closes, but the party continues....if ya catch my drift. Yeah you are not supposed to touch the strippers in the VIP room or champagne room. But sex still goes on back there. I have friends that have had strippers jack them off. Suck them off or who have fingered strippers and it all happened in the VIP room or champagne room and they paid for it.
You're not even supposed to touch strippers in the VIP room or champagne room but sex still goes on in strip clubs. Sex is not supposed to go on in VIP rooms and champagne rooms like I described but it does and can for the right price. I have never done this but friends of mine have and they said how with female strippers it is very easy to get them to put out for cash.
85%-90% of strippers will sleep with their male clients for cash-for the right price. Most strippers don't start out that way. But sooner or later they will have sex with a customer for money. Strip clubs are conductive to prostitution. I've seen it time and time again. Women start out lap dancing for 20 dollars a dance and 1 dollar tips on stage and they see other girls pulling 100-200 for handjobs and blowjobs etc....and it has its effect.
I don't care what your stripper girlfriend told you. If she has been in "the game" for more than a month, she has blown some nasty greasy dirty t-shirt wearing sleazeball for 50-100 bucks...give her a big kiss for me
Last edited by bisexual Bill; Sep 6, 2010 at 9:29 PM.
...now as to the topic, that was again??? oh, yeah, massage parlor!
accorrding to the merriam-webster online;
Massage parlor: noun
Definition of MASSAGE PARLOR:
an establishment that provides massage treatments; also : one offering sexual services in addition to or in lieu of massage
i'm going to take a wild stab at this, and go for the first option; as a frequent client of a local masseuse/masseur, there is a fee charged, and then a tip, here in l.a. 18%/20%, dependent on the quality. not any different than your hair stylist, barber, etc. ...and as to preparation, go there clean and neat, with a change of clothes, i.e. sandals for the feet, tho' that can sometimes be offered, shorts (gym type) and loose t-shirt. they will insrtuct you to remove whatever garments that is needed, and more often than not, the establishment will offer a robe, but you usually keep the shorts on. mine is part of a city spa, so it has its own ambience. also, you are asked if you have a preference of male or female. hope that this has helped!
now, as to the second option, you're on your own!
Last edited by citystyleguy; Sep 6, 2010 at 11:32 PM. Reason: why do you ask!
get in! sit down! hold on! and shut up!
There are a lot of reasons one might choose to work in the sex trades. I can think of one just off the top of my head: It pays very, very well.
I have a stripper friend here in Houston. She wanted to get out of stripping, but couldn't find a job that she only worked 4 nights a week and brought in a thousand a week (as a steady thing...holiday weeks brought in 1500) tax free.
She still strips, and is paying to go to Rice on her own, and won't owe a thing when she's done. I asked her if she was going to get a job with her degree. She said that she would as long as she could make the kind of cash she does now, or have a night or two free to make cash with stripping as a second job.
Oh..and STDs, for the most part, are what you get when you're stupid. Strippers who are stupid don't last long. It's a rough business.
Last edited by Young pussy and dope; May 12, 2013 at 12:56 PM.
You have to be smart enough to figure out by the advertising what is being offered. I've frequented several, always got a massage followed by a wonderful hand job. Right before my second marriage I frequented one in a medium sized town, always asked for the same girl, Nancy. I was 58, she was 20, a college girl and beautiful. I paid at the desk then went with Nancy to the massage room where both of us stripped than went to the shower table across the hall where I would lie down and she would spray soapy water all over me and run her hands over my cock, balls and ass hole. Then to the massage table where she started on my back. Eventually I'd turn over, hard on proud and place her hand on my cock. I rubbed her pussy and felt her up. I would ask her to delay my cumin as long as possible. She was the first woman to feed me my cum when I shot in her hand. Once I showed up with thigh highs and lingerie under my street clothes asking to skip the shower and get on with the hand job. My only regret after many times with her was that I was paying for sex instead of having a loving girl friend that I could get hand jobs and fuck. I'm now married to one such girl. And yes, she will feed me my cum from her hand or mouth, knows I love cum and cock just as much as she. ;-)~