A question about "Cumming".......

I can't ask my question without taking a walk down memory lane. Bottomed twice in 7 years. Both times, AA gentlemen - Would love to have folks from all backgrounds, but that hasn't happened.

First time the guy was a 6.5 incher, cut, but very thick. Very respectful, brought out the passion in me as a bottom. He asked me if i wanted a video, but I declined for reasons I don't know (he said I could wear a mask). Anyways - he wanted to have his cock sucked with a condom on - and I had no reason to say no (the first cock I ever sucked).... minutes later I was on his bed and he gently lubed my rosebud and slowly entered me. In the next 20 minutes, I was riding him and he "spooned me" ... and as he did that, he jerked me off, and I came on the bed. The next thing I knew, he had taken the dick out of my ass....but he didn't cum. For me, I "cummed" because he jerked me off and I felt that my orgasm had flattened ( I didn't know of anal orgasms then).

Anyways, he went to the rest room and came out after almost half hour after jerking off - so from the moment he entered me, he took an hour to cum.

Second time, my top was 8.5 and thick, and he was too horny for any foreplay, and before I knew, he was inside me, fucking me doggie style, and from the front. I was having a great time with my anal orgasms, He went on for more than an hour and a half , but didn't cum. He jerked off because I was tired after 90 minutes of fucking. He later told me much later that he was "partying". I felt bad because he told me he wouldn't smoke even pot. Nothing about morals, just felt let down.

Quick questions:

Is it common for men to last that long, or is it just BBC's that do that?
Does "partying" mean going that long (not that I plan ever to do that - besides if it is about being hard and lasting I shouldn't worry because I am a bottom)?

My partner and I play for 1.5 to 2 Hours. Most of that time is me sucking and jacking his wonderful dick. I love doing that so much.
He moans with pleasure almost constantly before I am able to finish him off.
In contrast, when he sucks me, I last 10 to 15 minutes before I orgasm.

He was inside you without cumming for 90 minutes???? Perhaps he was on viagra or something. I feel like a “stud” of the intomacy lasts that long but the act itself of penetration to orgasm lasts 15 mins lol

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Originally Posted by dowmass

I can't ask my question without taking a walk down memory lane. Bottomed twice in 7 years. Both times, AA gentlemen - Would love to have folks from all backgrounds, but that hasn't happened.

First time the guy was a 6.5 incher, cut, but very thick. Very respectful, brought out the passion in me as a bottom. He asked me if i wanted a video, but I declined for reasons I don't know (he said I could wear a mask). Anyways - he wanted to have his cock sucked with a condom on - and I had no reason to say no (the first cock I ever sucked).... minutes later I was on his bed and he gently lubed my rosebud and slowly entered me. In the next 20 minutes, I was riding him and he "spooned me" ... and as he did that, he jerked me off, and I came on the bed. The next thing I knew, he had taken the dick out of my ass....but he didn't cum. For me, I "cummed" because he jerked me off and I felt that my orgasm had flattened ( I didn't know of anal orgasms then).

Anyways, he went to the rest room and came out after almost half hour after jerking off - so from the moment he entered me, he took an hour to cum.

Second time, my top was 8.5 and thick, and he was too horny for any foreplay, and before I knew, he was inside me, fucking me doggie style, and from the front. I was having a great time with my anal orgasms, He went on for more than an hour and a half , but didn't cum. He jerked off because I was tired after 90 minutes of fucking. He later told me much later that he was "partying". I felt bad because he told me he wouldn't smoke even pot. Nothing about morals, just felt let down.

Quick questions:

Is it common for men to last that long, or is it just BBC's that do that?
Does "partying" mean going that long (not that I plan ever to do that - besides if it is about being hard and lasting I shouldn't worry because I am a bottom)?

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I am "older" and as I aged I noticed I could last longer. With my female partner, I can last 2 hours easily. With a male its about 90 minutes. The good news is I enjoy it and so does everyone else. Your encounters must have been exciting. Enjoy the pleasure!

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Originally Posted by dowmass

I can't ask my question without taking a walk down memory lane. Bottomed twice in 7 years. Both times, AA gentlemen - Would love to have folks from all backgrounds, but that hasn't happened.

First time the guy was a 6.5 incher, cut, but very thick. Very respectful, brought out the passion in me as a bottom. He asked me if i wanted a video, but I declined for reasons I don't know (he said I could wear a mask). Anyways - he wanted to have his cock sucked with a condom on - and I had no reason to say no (the first cock I ever sucked).... minutes later I was on his bed and he gently lubed my rosebud and slowly entered me. In the next 20 minutes, I was riding him and he "spooned me" ... and as he did that, he jerked me off, and I came on the bed. The next thing I knew, he had taken the dick out of my ass....but he didn't cum. For me, I "cummed" because he jerked me off and I felt that my orgasm had flattened ( I didn't know of anal orgasms then).

Anyways, he went to the rest room and came out after almost half hour after jerking off - so from the moment he entered me, he took an hour to cum.

Second time, my top was 8.5 and thick, and he was too horny for any foreplay, and before I knew, he was inside me, fucking me doggie style, and from the front. I was having a great time with my anal orgasms, He went on for more than an hour and a half , but didn't cum. He jerked off because I was tired after 90 minutes of fucking. He later told me much later that he was "partying". I felt bad because he told me he wouldn't smoke even pot. Nothing about morals, just felt let down.

Quick questions:

Is it common for men to last that long, or is it just BBC's that do that?
Does "partying" mean going that long (not that I plan ever to do that - besides if it is about being hard and lasting I shouldn't worry because I am a bottom)?

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In my experience "partying" or "party and play" usually means he was on some drug, most likely methamphtamin. Meth can make you go all night without cumming....if you can get hard. I recommend avoiding methheads.

As far as black men being long lasting that has not been my experience. They tend to last about the same as others/

Thank you so much for the reply. I didn't know the connection between party stuff like meth and not cumming.

This dude has multiple profiles under different user names on sites (which I realized later), and kept calling me repeatedly. Not being prejudiced or judgmental - I was not comfortable around him and have kept him at a distance. For some reason, he was too persistent and that was a put off. He went to say "What I put into my body is my business" - which is OK, not the kind of person I want to be with.

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Originally Posted by Neonaught

In my experience "partying" or "party and play" usually means he was on some drug, most likely methamphtamin. Meth can make you go all night without cumming....if you can get hard. I recommend avoiding methheads.

As far as black men being long lasting that has not been my experience. They tend to last about the same as others/

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Originally Posted by dowmass

Thank you so much for the reply. I didn't know the connection between party stuff like meth and not cumming.

This dude has multiple profiles under different user names on sites (which I realized later), and kept calling me repeatedly. Not being prejudiced or judgmental - I was not comfortable around him and have kept him at a distance. For some reason, he was too persistent and that was a put off. He went to say "What I put into my body is my business" - which is OK, not the kind of person I want to be with.

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I once met a younger guy at a motel in a different city. We spent 3 hours together and, even though I got off 5 times he never came once! He later admitted he had been "partying" for the previous 2 days. That's meth for ya. It does make you horny as hell but you won't reach the end of the road!

I admire the fact that you “got off 5 times”. Were you the top?
Does that mean you ejaculated 5 times?
That is a huge feat!! I would give you the “Best Top” award.



I once met a younger guy at a motel in a different city. We spent 3 hours together and, even though I got off 5 times he never came once! He later admitted he had been "partying" for the previous 2 days. That's meth for ya. It does make you horny as hell but you won't reach the end of the road![/QUOTE]

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Originally Posted by dowmass

I admire the fact that you “got off 5 times”. Were you the top?
Does that mean you ejaculated 5 times?
That is a huge feat!! I would give you the “Best Top” award.



I once met a younger guy at a motel in a different city. We spent 3 hours together and, even though I got off 5 times he never came once! He later admitted he had been "partying" for the previous 2 days. That's meth for ya. It does make you horny as hell but you won't reach the end of the road!

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He wanted to get fuck but he was so speedy he could stand still long enough for me to really get in him. He sucked me a bit and then used my Fleshlight on himself for the next 3 hours. I lubed up and jerked myself to 5 orgasm and he asked for and got them all as facials.

I'm 58 and have no trouble reaching orgasm in five minutes. I don't like it to be that quick, sometimes it just happens. Last guy that sucked me, I was cumming in about 15 minutes. And that was with asking him to stop several times because I wanted to ride the edge for a little bit. Depending on how horny I am, 15 minutes can be a long time. LOL!! An hour, NO WAY! 30 minutes tops, and at that I'm leaking precum all over the place.