Re: Wife labels me now gay
Does she do it in a deriding way? If so, she's being unfair since she started you on the road toward gay. If she still loves you and respects you, I feel you both are doing what you should be doing. Enjoy. My wife knows I'm pretty much gay but she thinks it's fine. Even gets a kick out of it.
Re: Wife labels me now gay
really dont matter does it or is she jealous you are getting more cock than she is
Re: Wife labels me now gay
Based on what you have posted she is correct, you are gay.
Re: Wife labels me now gay
do u still wanna be with ur wife? do u wanna be a sub/cuck to her? no right/wrong answer but u should be honest with urself.
Re: Wife labels me now gay
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sysper
do u still wanna be with ur wife? do u wanna be a sub/cuck to her? no right/wrong answer but u should be honest with urself.
Agreed: What it comes down to is: Since SHE instigated any bi or "gay" activities, why is she suddenly treating you like this and calling you "gay" ? If you (or both of you) no longer do this, and you don't do it with anyone else since it stopped, you may be (or have been) bi, but it wasn't your own doing ! That's what makes it seem so bizarre.
"She is the one that got this whole thing started and if it weren't for her I would not have ever sucked a cock in my life.Now that the horse is out of the barn she wants to close the barn door. I do not think I am gay"
So, if you no longer do this, and you feel you are not gay, it seems like a no brainer. If she's abusive about it, tell her to take a hike.... and take Pole Smoker with her.
Re: Wife labels me now gay
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Originally Posted by
sysper
do u still wanna be with ur wife? do u wanna be a sub/cuck to her? no right/wrong answer but u should be honest with urself.
sysper hit the nail on the head. Sounds like you are a sub and cuck to your wife and this is "her" game of control with you. If you like it and want to still be with her then enjoy the hell out of it. If you don't like it then it's time to be honest with yourself and "man up." The "gay" label means nothing here. What you do and how you handle it means everything.
Re: Wife labels me now gay
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pole_smoker
Based on what you have posted she is correct, you are gay.
this from a man married to a man you call your husband so what are you
Re: Wife labels me now gay
When you were having this talk and your wife called you "gay", did you remind her that SHE was the one who insisted you engage in these activities? If so, what was her response?
Re: Wife labels me now gay
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cornholejoe
this from a man married to a man you call your husband so what are you
We are bisexual, but that is because we are sexually attracted to both genders. But you clearly have no idea about the variations of bisexuality in men. :rolleyes:
The original poster sisboy has written before about how he is gay but married to a woman in a marriage of convenience for both of them.