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If you are looking for a threesome, there are 3 things you need to know: threesome dating; threesome hookups, threesome sex positions.
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3 somes are fun but to do them you must get out and meet the right people
Agreed. Though sometimes you can be fortunate enough to stumble into them when you're not looking. "Surprise! We're a happy threesome." :)Quote:
Originally Posted by cornholejoe
Now, this is a truism... or a 4some and if one is really lucky, a moresome:impleased...Quote:
Originally Posted by void()
Indeed. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by darkeyes
Strange - I have just about done everything on the sexual "to do" list - from vanilla to downright kinky, but I have never participated in any for of group sex.
I prefer to focus my energy and body on one partner.
But to those who do .... "just do it!"
Most threesomes are awesome although some guys get jealous if their partner enjoys the other guy TOO much. I imagne soe on do as well in a FMF threesome.
Damn... My typing sucks... I meant I imagine some women do as well in a FMF threesome.
Best threesome I ever had was with my wife and a transgender lady. I got to eat pussy with cock in it and clean up after.
Eh. I can enjoy either way, or not enjoy either way. Think a lot *ahem* rides on the people involved.Quote:
Originally Posted by innaminka
Im jelly......I want to enjoy a trangender with my boyfriend...that will be awesome...you go boy!!!!
We have enjoyed many threesomes with both sexes. Our number one tip is to have a frank discussion about likes and dislikes before you get naked. Know where the "go" and "no go" zones are for each partner. This makes for a more relaxed and smoother flowing encounter.
That would be so fucking hot!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kev-Bi-Maine
We can't agree moreQuote:
Originally Posted by Neonaught
Totally. Met a wonderful couple here and had fun, but things turned sideways when things happened that one partner wasn't ready for nor expecting....sad really.Quote:
Originally Posted by BobSue
As long as the lines of communication are open and everyone is on the same page, it can be amazing. I have enjoyed mfm and mmm play...one fmf too...very nice :)
Did mff and it was great. Mmm was just 2 guys ramming their cocks in me
Went to the website and all I can say is BULLSHIT! I don't know who wrote this hogwash but they don't know what they're talking about. I've done mfm, fmf, and mmm 3sums with friends and new aquaintences. To predict or manipulate the play to go a certain way usually doesn't happen. The primary motivation for a 3sum is adventure and exploration. One thing is for certain, there has to be some degree of chemistry and a lot of communication if it is going to go well. I've never gone wrong by asking first before doing. That way lines don't get crossed or feelings hurt. One thing is for certain, a 3sum beats a porno hands down.
2 guys JUST ramming there cocks into u is so bad? lolQuote:
Originally Posted by sammyazza
i guess there are alot of things i should know about threesomes since i've never been fortunate enough to be in any. i get it that communication is key. i got some thoughts & fantasies about threesomes. right now they are just thoughts & fantasies which i'm sure will change if i'm ever fortunate enough to be in a threesome even if it's a little. so here are my thoughts i've written about them before here & there but since we're talking about it i'd like to get it all out here. here's what i think about the combinations. like i said my thoughts might change after experiance & alot depends on the actual people too. alot of guys would love mff to have 2 women to take care of him. i gotta admit, it would be nice to have that kinda attention plus, it would be a nice feeling to know i could satisfy not 1 but 2 women at the same time. but the most i would think about doing is just watching. to me there is nothing more sexual, more erotic, more sensual than 2 women togather. nothing beats it! eventually i think i would wanna join in on the fun, but even then i think having me involved would spoil the special thing they got going on. i'm not usually in the mood for both sexes so i don't know how good a mmf would work for me. i use to think this would be a good way to explore sex with guys. since there would be a women involved it wouldn't be as drastic. but as i got older i think i would prefer to have my 1st time with a guy not be with any women. but if i get the opportunity i dont' think i would turn it down. an experiance is an experiance right? something that i have become aware of, it would be real nice to have a women involved so she could encourage & support my exploration with a guy. something about a women saying it's ok would make me feel more comfortable going for it. but a threesome like this would be 1 sided less attention to the women it wouldn't be fair to her. i think what i would want to happen more is for me & the man get into each other & put on a show for the women. u know how much i enjoy the thought of 2 women togather. it gives me alot of pleasure. i would love to give that pleasure to a women too. but then i would like to team up with him & take care of her as best as we can! going back to giving pleasure to the women. it's my duty as a sexual person. it would be hard enough to allow myself to experiance pleasure with another man, allowing myself an experiance with 2 other men would take it to the next level. since there would be no women i think it would be easier for me to be selfish & endulgent. maybe that's the whole point of my curiosity with guys anyways. i think i would wanna be submissive in a mmm. have both of the guys use me 2 cocks inside me at the same time. maybe even the same hole! i could also see myself being dominate with another guy if we had a twink between us for our pleasure. don't know how it would work with me & 2 twinks. maybe if 1 of them was dominate. or we could just let things happen see how it works out. probably a good idea in any threesome, or any sexual situation.
Threesomes and moresomes are a helluva lot of fun if the aforementioned lines of communication stay open -- I like what one person has said, ask first before acting. "Do you like to be rimmed?" "Do you like your nipples bitten?" Just don't turn it into a damn Q&A session -- it's supposed to be fun and exciting. My group sex has been mostly with guys and I have to say I got to ram as much as I got rammed.
My first wife and I did mfm with a coworker of mine. We all knew each other well. There was a lot of trust and respect. My wife and I, and my coworker and I, would talk a lot about what we wanted to do the next time we got together. But somehow our sessions almost never turned out the way we planned. When the hormones get pumping people can get pretty impulsive. Man those were fun times.
I have "walked in to" several 3sums; mmm, mfm, but unfortunately not an accidental fmf. Just recently I made plans to hook up with someone to give him a blowjob and his girlfriend showed up, eager to watch and then wound up getting involved (Remember what I said about hormones?). Another time I was getting down to giving a blowjob and a passable CD the guy knew showed up. That was a damn good time! I've also been to a couple of parties where you just never knew for sure who was going to be there and what was going to happen. Exciting!!!
I am fortunate to be in an awesome 25 year marriage with a lovey sexy woman. We have been swinging for about 8 years now, so I am fortunate to have been able to experienced MMF, MFM, FMF, FFM etc. and 'moresomes'. I prefer just 3 and 4 people, vs the larger groups. If everyone involved is comfortable (Bi or not) with Bi play, the dynamic can't be beat in my opinion.
To expand on what others have said below, the three keys to a good experience are communication before and during play, respect of boundaries (and that means not pushing them in the moment), and ensuring everyone remains comfortable through out. On this last point, people need to feel comfortable speaking up during play, either to say 'more' or 'less'. Best way to accomplish that is a safe word. And the safe word can be something fun, to help lighten the moment if someone speaks up.
I was most comfortable exploring bi-sexuality with a woman present, one who enjoys the idea of MM play. I spent alot of time with one particular couple at the early stages of exploring my bi-sexuality. He too was new to it and exploring. His wife enjoyed MM play, being a part of it, or sometimes she would simply lay back and enjoy. Many 'firsts' were had with this couple, and it played a large role in my becoming comfortable with my bi-sexuality as a result.
Sadly, after a couple of years, the friendship came to an abrupt end over unfounded accusations.
The main thing that I have (unfortunately) learned, is that three is an unstable number. I met a great couple,(M/F) and when 1 partner gets upset, its all over, no matter how good
the communications are.
Yes, you're right. But without good communication, it's over sooner than later.Quote:
Originally Posted by csreef
what i heard is, it's best when it's just 3 people not a couple with someone else joining the couple. that way it's just fun for everyone.Quote:
Originally Posted by csreef
Our experience has been the opposite. 3 works great for us especially on a first encounter. The only negative experience we have had was when the couple showed up not ready for the experience and the husband gets jealous. other men had samll cocks compared to mine which may have been the problem.
When it comes to threesomes involving a couple, my experience is that you never know what people we feel. Unless it's an experience couple, there's not telling how they'll feel when it's over. Husbands that thought it would be a wonderful idea are suddenly seized with jealousy and insecurity. Wives that enjoy it at the time, have second thoughts and guilt afterward. I've seen more than one willing wife rewrite history and blame the husband for "pushing" them into a threesome. From my experience, compared to emotions sex is simple.