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hey guys, after a lot of thinking and soul searching i've come to terms with the fact im bi. I've only ever messed about with one guy and have nowhere near as much experience with guys as i do girls. Any of you wanna share any good stories or tips with me?? :)
What specifically do you want to do or are you curious about? What made you decide you were bi? What experience did you have with that one guy? Do you want more, to go further?
take it 1 step at a time. be open to new experiances. keep an open mind take a chance, but don't force urself if ur instincts tell u it's totally wrong. don't do a guy just because he's available. hope that helps :)
I guess i wasn't very specific oops, what i meant was stories of how people found out they were bi, and whether they had any tips for me base on that experience. And we just messed around a bit; kissing, feeling each other up that sort of thing. It was nice and all but i never got the same feeling as i did from being with a girl. I always felt aroused watching gay and bisexual porn but it didn't have the same effect in real life. Anyway Years past and i constantly thought about being with a man and everything but wasn't sure. Just recently i ran into him again. We chatted for a few days as mates and that was it sort of thing. One night we decided to meet up and got to a local pub. Didn't get hammered or anything just a casual drink. Afterwards we end up back at his place and we're fooling around. A little more in depth than before but not full on. Although this time the feeling was very different!! That night must have awaken something because i haven't been the same since. For me that night sort of justified all of the feelings i've had for men over the years. And i do want to go further definitely!
i'm still trying to figure things out for myself so i guess i don't really have much to say right now lol. but based on my experiance & exploration this kinda thing can take time especially when we live in a socitey that's not totally supportive of exploring ur own sexuality. but this probably doesn't apply to u cause u know ur bi & u have accepted it. believe it or not cybering & camming have helped me learn a little about myself. but i'm guessing u can have the real thing if u want so if ur still friendly with that friend i would say go for it! he probably knows ur feelings & if he's a good friend he will be considerate of ur feelings & concerns.