Originally Posted by
byronvench
Here's the thing . . you girls always seem to presume that just because men are emotionally involved with YOU, that we're also the same way with other men. This isn't necessarily the case. A lot of bi men (myself included) are not attracted to men beyond a friendship level, emotionally speaking. What many of us like is the variety in the sex in the physical sense, and that can't even remotely be defined as a "relationship" in the emotional sense of the word.
I obviously have no idea where your boyfriend's interests lie, but I think you might be applying too much of your feminine perspective to his involvement with other men if you're of the opinion that emotional involvement MUST be present for any two people to have sex, regardless of gender. . . it doesn't really work that way with guys, for the most part. We tend to be emotionally attached to only a fraction of the people we actually have sex with. . .whereas the vast majority of women doesn't get sexually involved if the emotions aren't there first.
Pretend he's just playing sports with a male friend instead . . he'll still get sweaty, play with balls and hit a home run . . it's just a slightly different environment. But for many guys the emotional interest is exactly the same.