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Re: Bi-Sexual men's club.
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slipnslide
.... I stand by my original opinion. This is not healthy behaviour. In fact, it has shades of
compulsive sexual behavior
as it involves "activities outside the bounds of culturally...accepted sexual behavior."
As I read the FULL DEFINITION, compulsive sexual behavior has to do with behaviors/feelings/etc. that are "OBSESSIVE" and which "MAY INVOLVE" culturally questionable sexual behavior. Nothing in the OPs post suggested anything about compulsive behavior.
By ignoring the first (and most important) part of the definition, you improperly apply term and its intended meaning.
Just because sexual behavior is outside cultural norms does not mean it is automatically "unhealthy" in a medical and/or psychological sense. (Indeed, I think it would be safe to say that MOST culturally normative people would find another person's regular participation on a bisexual website forum as potentially compulsive and/or unhealthy.)
And later you ask:
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Do well-balanced mature individuals actually partake in events like this?"
I would suggest that plenty of well-adjusted (and I'm sure many not-so-well-adjusted) individuals DO participate in groups similar to the one proposed, if the messages on this site (and in my case, my own personal experience), as well as those on Adult Friend Finder, FetLife, Adam4Adam, AshleyMadison, etc. are to be taken at face value.
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So when I first read the title, I thought a real physicle club environment. ... Bar, pool table, darts, ... somewhere men and women could go and meet others of the same mindset. Not so sure about the idea of meeting to wear panties and shave each other... that starts to sound like a very focused gathering, and likely tough to get together more than just having a house party.
Love to know if you ever get this together in a club format, once a week, to bring in more customers on a slow night... although that means dealing with the other locals that might be objectionable to our interests.
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Re: Bi-Sexual men's club.
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TandA91
So when I first read the title, I thought a real physicle club environment. ... Bar, pool table, darts, ... somewhere men and women could go and meet others of the same mindset. Not so sure about the idea of meeting to wear panties and shave each other... that starts to sound like a very focused gathering, and likely tough to get together more than just having a house party.
Love to know if you ever get this together in a club format, once a week, to bring in more customers on a slow night... although that means dealing with the other locals that might be objectionable to our interests.
haha! I love it. It went from you thinking it would be a group of like-minded individuals maybe discussing current affairs, to wearing panties and shaving each other!
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slipnslide
haha! I love it. It went from you thinking it would be a group of like-minded individuals maybe discussing current affairs, to wearing panties and shaving each other!
Are you in any way related to Keefer...just asking? :D
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I see things are starting to look up in Balto.County.I'm starting to regret moving to N.C. Guess I need to cum up for a visit !
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Maybe my original idea was not quite right? What I'd really like now is a casual bisexual hang outbin a private place where males and females both could just have a good time. Any thoughts, ideas, or offers to host?
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i wish i were closer, i'd be in!
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pantytimbmd
Maybe my original idea was not quite right? What I'd really like now is a casual bisexual hang outbin a private place where males and females both could just have a good time. Any thoughts, ideas, or offers to host?
Your idea was fine, if some don't like it they don't have to participate!
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Sign me up! we need a club like this
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Well, I meet regularly with a group of guys just south of Baltimore. A local gentleman hosts a weekly party at his apartment and people are welcome to play. It is strictly MM, no women (I don't know if there's a specific ban on TS/CD, but I've never seen anybody play that way there). Of course, no cameras/photos/recordings are allowed and most of the guys only know each other by first name, although many will meet up 1 on 1 outside the group to explore other interests.
I also just saw an ad from a group in Baltimore that shared the rental of an apartment in Baltimore and the group members could "reserve" time in one of the rooms for a couple of hours at a time. Didn't follow up on this, but it seemed like an interesting idea.
If you get something going, I'd be interested, too!
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swmnkdinthervr
Sounds great...unfortunately I'm about an hour and a half away from Baltimore (near ski liberty) and I really hate going to the city! If you put something together maybe we can "host" in several locations?
Me 2...................
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/sigh
Must everything (d)evolve into an orgy? One of the things I YEARN for is face to face discussion/interaction with other bisexuals (man or woman) without the inevitability of sex. I can't be the only bisexual (man) who doesn't fuck at the slightest suggestion, in spite of societal pressure to do so. It's hard to defend bisexuality before the people I meet when overly licentious and occasionally deviant behaviour is (seemingly) rampant and colours the image of us all. Male bisexuality in particular enjoys a foul reputation for reasons throughout this site.
It's not what many of you want to read, but so bloody be it.
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I hear you pretender. I read this and though a group of guys to meet and exchange views, stories, just enjoy the company in a general string, not a nameless hook up opportunity.
I'd like a monthly (bi-monthly) meet up to just talk and do other things, and introduce ourselves to others of a like mind, male/female/-anything in between.... Other 'alternative' groups do it. We should too.
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Hey bud, no problem, but since you've gotten the vibe of this site: SEX, YES! Which is something you're not into, why not seek out a more suitable site for yourself?
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Ugh, just because I think the bi community can do better than a panty party for closeted middle aged husbands doesn't mean that I am "anti-sex" or "Sex? NO!" If I want a bang, there are other and better places that bisexual.com for that, so don't shoo those away who come to this site for general discussion.
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The Young Pretender
/sigh Must everything (d)evolve into an orgy? One of the things I YEARN for is face to face discussion/interaction with other bisexuals (man or woman) without the inevitability of sex. I can't be the only bisexual (man) who doesn't fuck at the slightest suggestion, in spite of societal pressure to do so. It's hard to defend bisexuality before the people I meet when overly licentious and occasionally deviant behaviour is (seemingly) rampant and colours the image of us all. Male bisexuality in particular enjoys a foul reputation for reasons throughout this site. It's not what many of you want to read, but so bloody be it. Ugh, just because I think the bi community can do better than a panty party for closeted middle aged husbands doesn't mean that I am "anti-sex" or "Sex? NO!" If I want a bang, there are other and better places that bisexual.com for that, so don't shoo those away who come to this site for general discussion.
Well said! I have noticed that if you do not agree with the deeply closeted closet queen majority on here they do not like it. Tough shit. Fortunately the larger bisexual community is not like them, not closeted, the men do not cross dress or put on women's clothing or imitate women, and actually sees the point of coming out as bisexual and not living life in the closet. I am not sure where you are in Australia but you should be able to find a bisexuality social/discussion group in your city/town or you could start one yourself.
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I'd love to come and cum. Sounds great!
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Sounds like a great idea. Definitely interested!
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Bi men's club in Florida's North West Gulf Coast would be very nice. Lets get one going.
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I agree with this gentleman to include all varieties of sexual orientation, the pussy and cock are the center of the discussion and the more lascivious the better. Sign me up would enjoy meeting others of the same ilk. My wife has been hospitalized since 18 June 15 so I need my libido tweeked a bit. geo
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pantytimbmd
Girls are very much welcome to join as long as they don't mind getting naked and joining in. I am bisexual after all and I enjoy a nice pussy just as much as a hard cock anytime!
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Maybe we could do a satellite club in Delaware
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Sounds like fun. I'd be interested.
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I would be really interested in joining such a club
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