Re: Gay Men Who Have Sex With Women
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Originally Posted by
GayAZN
LittleRay-
Too often it is a group of 20 fat, ugly, loud, uneducated, trashy skanks that only come to a homo-hang because they want attention from gay boys. They claim that they just don't want to get hit on by straight guys - but come on sisters - look in the mirror. They obviously are not bothering you. You came to a gay bar hoping to become a hag for a night. To have a gay man listen to what you say just like in the movies. Good luck with that.
If I needed or God forbid wanted a fag hag, they would have to at least be attractive and smart. You are neither. So the next time you feel the need to charge into a gay bar and treat queer men like a spectacle and make drunken fools out of yourself please understand that none of us give a crap.
These women don't patronize these bars at any other time except with their twinky queen male friends You just solidified 3 responses with this statement. Don't get mad a the straight girls that go, get mad at the people who take them. Put it where it belongs.
You should celebrate the women who have straight sex, cause without straight sex, there would be no more gay/bisexual men.
I have never been to a gay bar or club. So everything you say referring to me is just a load of crap. To judge me on my looks and put down my intelligence just goes to show how bitter and uncivilized you are. And to your intelligence......Your response has lil to do with what I said. So since you are impossible to have a dialogue with and are just a flamer, I plan on not responding to this thread anymore. You sir, are dismissed :cool:
Re: Gay Men Who Have Sex With Women
GayAZN,
I must take exception to some of your recent comments. They are derogatory and to stereotype those women who have gay friends as fag hags and fruit flies is unrealistic and naive. Speaking for myself, my friends are my friends for the persons they are and not their gender, race, sexual persuasion, education or the color of their pants which we all put on one leg at a time. To assume that women patrons who go to a typically “gay” bar as
“Too often it is a group of 20 fat, ugly, loud, uneducated, trashy skanks that only come to a homo-hang because they want attention from gay boys.”
and
“If I needed or God forbid wanted a fag hag, they would have to at least be attractive and smart. You are neither. So the next time you feel the need to charge into a gay bar and treat queer men like a spectacle and make drunken fools out of yourself please understand that none of us give a crap.”
is blatantly a ridiculous statement. In my many years of patronizing “gay bars” with my friends I have yet to meet someone who meets your description. I am tall, smart, attractive, 48, not loud and obnoxious and certainly not a drunken fool nor have I treated any person as a spectacle.
Perhaps things are different in the area in which you live, but I can say that in Boston and Providence (USA), people, ALL types of people go to a club to dance, sing, mingle, and have a nice enjoyable night out. I am straight yet I go and dance, sing and enjoy the company of those I am there with be they straight, gay, Trans, lesbian or cross dressing when I am invited. I am asked to dance by the other guest no matter their label. The idea of a totally private member’s only club which is specific to the “type” of person may be your best bet for a club of your choice. But from a business perspective I would think that the bottom line on that business would certainly be less profitable.
Belle
Re: Gay Men Who Have Sex With Women
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Originally Posted by
badgrrl448
I hate to prolong what may ultimately be a fruitless discussion in terms of results, but perhaps we need to stop thrusting our own labels onto other people, and accept the labels they adopt for themselves. It's not up to us to tell each other what he/she/they are; we should respect each other's choices in whatever realm they fall, identity included. If you identify as gay, super; how does that work for YOU? If you're bi, fantastic; what does that mean FOR YOU?? Let's not be all self-righteous and wave the labeling wand willy-nilly...
I agree 100% Labels are only for people who feel the need to use them