Finding a a Bi woman who is Ok with me beiing Bi

Just because a woman is bisexual doesn't always mean she's OK with YOU being one too! After two failed marriages and a GF who died, I can tell you that you are making a mistake by second guessing a woman. I am bisexual of a lesser degree of most guys. To me, it's only about the cock. I really don't kiss, although I have tried it and didn't like it. I definitely don't rim! I am disgusted thinking of it. I can't keep a hardon if someone wanted me to fuck their ass, but do enjoy being fucked. I don't look at a guy and get turned on by his looks or his ass. I don't like a hairy chest or ass. I actually prefer sucking a cock that is sticking out of a guy's fly. Balls don't do anything to me either. I will touch them, but licking and sucking, I prefer not to. One of the items still on my bucket list is licking a woman's clit and pussy while a cock is fucking her, and trying a creampie. It's the cock that turns me on. When I want cock sucking videos, I watch women rather than men. Men don't know how to suck. Women provide more than a wet hole with/without teeth. They lick, they swirl and do things men don't when they suck. So when I suck a cock, it is patterned after the woman's school of fellatio...suction, tongue, eyes(I want him to watch me), throat and ask for dirty talk. I think that I eat pussy better than a woman.

That's me, now how do I find a woman who can accept that and lick pussy too. I want a bisexual woman who will join me in play with a similar bisexual couple. Where do I find such a gem? Do I just come out and say what I want? I know they must be out there somewhere. Does anyone share my dilemma?

I share the first half about your sucking a guys cock and only sucking his cock, but I disagree about women being better at sucking cock, I have been sucked by men more than women and I think a guy does a far better job. A woman has never been able to get me to cum and I have had much better outcum with a guy sucking my cock, maybe they were just not the right women but still the guys felt better. Sorry but that's just my opinion.

Men better than women at sucking? I believe it depends on the individual. I?ve been with women who felt they HAD TO do it because it was expected. I?m sure there are some guys who do it so that they will be reciprocated. It might feel nice to have a warm mouth on it, but nothing beats having a person who is totally into it, because they enjoy doing it!

You are spot on. I have sucked guys who came within a minute of my lips surrounding his cock. Maybe I identify with the feminine when I suck. I love to eat pussy too.

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Originally Posted by Bi_Dave

Just because a woman is bisexual doesn't always mean she's OK with YOU being one too! After two failed marriages and a GF who died, I can tell you that you are making a mistake by second guessing a woman. I am bisexual of a lesser degree of most guys. To me, it's only about the cock. I really don't kiss, although I have tried it and didn't like it. I definitely don't rim! I am disgusted thinking of it. I can't keep a hardon if someone wanted me to fuck their ass, but do enjoy being fucked. I don't look at a guy and get turned on by his looks or his ass. I don't like a hairy chest or ass. I actually prefer sucking a cock that is sticking out of a guy's fly. Balls don't do anything to me either. I will touch them, but licking and sucking, I prefer not to. One of the items still on my bucket list is licking a woman's clit and pussy while a cock is fucking her, and trying a creampie. It's the cock that turns me on. When I want cock sucking videos, I watch women rather than men. Men don't know how to suck. Women provide more than a wet hole with/without teeth. They lick, they swirl and do things men don't when they suck. So when I suck a cock, it is patterned after the woman's school of fellatio...suction, tongue, eyes(I want him to watch me), throat and ask for dirty talk. I think that I eat pussy better than a woman.

That's me, now how do I find a woman who can accept that and lick pussy too. I want a bisexual woman who will join me in play with a similar bisexual couple. Where do I find such a gem? Do I just come out and say what I want? I know they must be out there somewhere. Does anyone share my dilemma?

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I have only met one couple in my lifetime who were both truly bi. That said, it was several years ago and it happened at a sex party that my girlfriend (who was not openly bi), but found that she enjoyed another couple's wife eating and fingering her to the point where she came multiple times. It was when we were living together in Orange County and the party was staged in Temecula, CA.

My advice would be careful if looking online. There are tons of scammers and crack heads out there who claim to go both ways, but they will rob you or worse if you fall for one of their scams. A guy who worked for me got taken in by one of those scams and he and his girlfriend ended up getting raped and they robbed them, and their car was stolen after answering an online swingers ad. The same goes if you are only looking for a female bi friend.

I also dated an openly bi woman for a while, but she made it clear that her girlfriend was strictly lesbian and wanted nothing to do with guys, so any hopes of having a three way were definitely out.

Good luck in your search. Bi females who are open to having outside relationships are like unicorns.

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Originally Posted by jjourneyman

Bi females who are open to having outside relationships are like unicorns.

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Fact. my current and 2nd ex wife are bi. Neither one interested in outside relationships. My current is the only person who actually knows im bisexual. Our relationship started off as just fwb since she was moving out of state. We both caught feels and did the long distance relationship thing. I told her that if she ever has the desire to bed a woman, she has my blessings. I know I can never satisfy that desire. In 8 years together, she never has.

My wife knows I'm bisexual and doesn't particularly like it, but doesn’t throw a fit over it. In fact a c couple weeks ago I had a guy come over and sucked him in our condo while she calmly sat outside t he open door of bedroom. She was very calm and pleasant to me before and afterwards.

She sometimes gets a bit upset on my pursuing cock but never tries to shame or even prevent me. She even points out potential guys to me. Of course I 69 with her 2-3 times a day making her cum until exhausted. So she is getting satisfied every day.

Grant

A few years back I had a very sexy bisexual girlfriend, she was a very naughty girl and I was thinking very seriously about telling her I was also bi. Then one day she was telling about some of her sexual fun with an old boyfriend, I was loving her story when she said, "then I found out he was bi" I never touched him again.
Well, glad I kept my mouth shut about that!

In my experiance, a lot of bi/straight women are more "ok" with the guy they're involved with being bi as long as he's a top, if he's a bottom (or even a little versatile) they tend to take a much dimmer view of things.

Personally, with very few exceptions I don't let on to the women I play with that I enjoy taking a good load in my ass or sucking a thick cock. Either they make it weird, or they get weird about it and then rumors start because it doesn't mesh with how they see me otherwise.

I'm toppy with women, I'm bottomy with men. It's different energy, it's a different drive, it's different sex.

I’m one of the lucky ones! While swinging with my wife, she was giving a blowjob and it was so hot watching her and I had already been thinking about trying it but never said anything to her. Well the guy had a really nice cock she pulled it out and asked if I’d like to share it with her! I was hesitant at first, but when she asked me again and said she would love to see it I dove right in! She’s bi as well, so now we usually just look for 3somes with bi guys and women. I will say I am like a few others here, I’m not attracted to men at all, but a nice cock is a hard thing to ignore! So I am orally bi is the way I classify. She’s not a big fan of swallowing cum, but I don’t mind at all so we make a good team.

Good luck ,in my experience what's good for the goose isn't always good for the gander. , the guy being bi doesn't always work out .

Couldn't agree more that guys are better at oral sex, mutual masturbation and other forms of sex play. I mean, it kind of makes sense when you think about it. Who knows better how to pleasure a cock than someone who actually owns one?