So, we've been talking to this guy for months. We finally get together and everything was going great until, it was his time to bottom. There was no way it was going to happen. Even that he was wanting it. After a couple of hours trying, I gave up. Then he tells us that many years ago he had some guys rape him and he was so badly hurt that he had to have surgery. Since then, he hasn't have anal. Even that he craves it daily. We didn't know what to do or say. We both really like him but don't know how to help him. Any ideas?:confused:

